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Ducktale · August 2014

@ahylton08‌ let me try to explain this to you. This is a COMMUNITY. We post to have fun, get feedback, support each other when needed, etc. We get to know each other.

When you come here and insult us and say offensive things, you are not welcome, especially since you clearly don't have the sensitivity to own up to what you said was wrong and apologize. This is the same thing if you were to go up to a group of people, insult them, and then get surprised when they don't want to talk to you later.

I think finding a different forum is probably the best choice for you at this point.

chickyclg · August 2014

ahylton08 said:
Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@

You may not be how it is offensive, which I don't understand given your family history, but some of us have dedicated our lives and careers to end the abuse on the "R" word, and to advocate for the individuals that can't do so for themselves.

ahylton08 · August 2014

chickyclg said:

ahylton08 said:
Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@
You may not be how it is offensive, which I don't understand given your family history, but some of us have dedicated our lives and careers to end the abuse on the "R" word, and to advocate for the individuals that can't do so for themselves.

Retardation became offensive a couple years ago. I don't run around and call people retards. Like I said your only offended cuz hormonal. Bye!

chickyclg · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@
You may not be how it is offensive, which I don't understand given your family history, but some of us have dedicated our lives and careers to end the abuse on the "R" word, and to advocate for the individuals that can't do so for themselves.
Retardation became offensive a couple years ago. I don't run around and call people retards. Like I said your only offended cuz hormonal. Bye!

Yet its what you choose to use to refer to children as. What a winner you are.

ETA: Believe me sweetie I am not hormonal, as I said earlier I am defending the ones who can't. If you choose to say I am, oh well I just might have to cry in my pillow tonight.

Go home, smoke your pot, get you AND YOUR BABY HIGH, because in all honesty you are a lost cause.

Ducktale · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@
You may not be how it is offensive, which I don't understand given your family history, but some of us have dedicated our lives and careers to end the abuse on the "R" word, and to advocate for the individuals that can't do so for themselves.
Retardation became offensive a couple years ago. I don't run around and call people retards. Like I said your only offended cuz hormonal. Bye!

So ignoring the fact that you sound like you really don't have a clue...you acknowledge that the phrase you used (which included the word retarded) is offensive?

ahylton08 · August 2014

Ducktale said:
@ahylton08‌ let me try to explain this to you. This is a COMMUNITY. We post to have fun, get feedback, support each other when needed, etc. We get to know each other.

When you come here and insult us and say offensive things, you are not welcome, especially since you clearly don't have the sensitivity to own up to what you said was wrong and apologize. This is the same thing if you were to go up to a group of people, insult them, and then get surprised when they don't want to talk to you later.

I think finding a different forum is probably the best choice for you at this point.

I didn't insult anybody... At all so that's a no to an apology, so find another post to comment on. Cuz clearly your opinion isn't wanted on mine... It's offensive!

mandamoochie · August 2014

Wow. I feel good in the knowledge that @ahylton08 gets to decide who is and is not offended in this world.

Life. Is. Good.

Ducktale · August 2014

YOU OFFENDED EVERYONE AND YOU'RE "ACTING" LIKE AN ASS

I think you need an internet break.

mandamoochie · August 2014

@hikerlady‌ I was just thinking that. Its like what the hell type of sheltered life does this person live in? And they are going to teach values to a child. Pfft. That's just sad.

ahylton08 · August 2014

Ducktale said:

ahylton08 said:

chickyclg said:

ahylton08 said:
Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@
You may not be how it is offensive, which I don't understand given your family history, but some of us have dedicated our lives and careers to end the abuse on the "R" word, and to advocate for the individuals that can't do so for themselves.
Retardation became offensive a couple years ago. I don't run around and call people retards. Like I said your only offended cuz hormonal. Bye!

So ignoring the fact that you sound like you really don't have a clue...you acknowledge that the phrase you used (which included the word retarded) is offensive? I've seen many professionals use the word retard and retardation..... Many times... Get over it.... Your argument is stupid

chickyclg · August 2014

@ahylton08 I'm surprised you don't correct the people that use the "R" word, thats what I do, but instead you encourage the use of it, how big of you.

Ducktale · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

ahylton08 said:

Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@
You may not be how it is offensive, which I don't understand given your family history, but some of us have dedicated our lives and careers to end the abuse on the "R" word, and to advocate for the individuals that can't do so for themselves.
Retardation became offensive a couple years ago. I don't run around and call people retards. Like I said your only offended cuz hormonal. Bye!

So ignoring the fact that you sound like you really don't have a clue...you acknowledge that the phrase you used (which included the word retarded) is offensive?
I've seen many professionals use the word retard and retardation..... Many times... Get over it.... Your argument is stupid

Do you see the phrase you're quoting that you said yourself "retardation became offensive a few years ago"...put two and two together...you can do it....I can't bring myself to believe I live in a world with someone being as dense as you. Let's try using a little logic, okay? Just for a sec, let's see if you can muster some common sense.

mandamoochie · August 2014

@ahylton08 yeah a decade ago maybe. I AM a professional who possesses DEGREES in the field of psychology. Please.. tell me.. where did you get your PhD in psychology from doctor?

ahylton08 · August 2014

And I feel like I'm talking to a bunch of ignorant hillbillies... No one has even explained how they're offended... Everybody is acting like they've never used the word "retard" "retardation" a day in your life

Ducktale · August 2014

@ahylton08‌ https://www.r-word.org

Start there.

ahylton08 · August 2014

mandamoochie said:
@ahylton08 yeah a decade ago maybe. I AM a professional who possesses DEGREES in the field of psychology. Please.. tell me.. where did you get your PhD in psychology from doctor?

Well then u sound stupid arguing with someone without a phd about a word that changed it's meaning a few years ago.... As a matter of fact shouldn't u be working or doing something pertaining to your career?

chickyclg · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

And I feel like I'm talking to a bunch of ignorant hillbillies... No one has even explained how they're offended... Everybody is acting like they've never used the word "retard" "retardation" a day in your life

I was brought up to learn that saying it was profane, it was treated as any other profane word. My children will be brought up the same way, the way to stop ignorance is to stop spreading it.

My heart breaks for your sister who has had to deal with your intolerance and ignorance every day of her life.

mandamoochie · August 2014

No, I was actually trying educating you in a not offensive way (trying to not insult you.. its tough) WHY that word is offensive. Yet you still dont get it. So yeah, your acting like a troll starting trouble in a community that doesnt particularly cherish your input so im done feeding your crazy form of entertainment.

mmariel · August 2014

ahylton08 said:
Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@

are you kidding me??????????? Ummmm im pretty sure im offended because any normal person would be. It has NOTHING to do with hormones. I work with people and care about people with disabilities-developmentally and physically. I can not stand that word.

ahylton08 · August 2014

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

ahylton08 · August 2014

I pray for your easily offended minds

psychobutthead · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

Sorry no forgive and forget from me after the "retarted children" comment. Why do you want opinions from such negative people that you clearly don't like anyway?
I never said anything bad about children that have mental retardation... I made a comparison. I think that if u have a problem with a post... Then u just shouldn't respond to them.

This is cute. Why don't you try taking some of your own advice?

Ducktale · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

It was a medical term. Then people started using is as an offense term synonymous with stupid. People with disabilities often get called retarded as a negative horrible term. So now it is not a medical term, nor an appropriate term to use at all. I can't believe in 2014 this still needs to be explained. Please visit the website I referenced above: https://www.r-word.org

chickyclg · August 2014

@ahylton08‌ There are a lot of words that are no longer used because they became derogatory the "R" word is just the newest. Stop spreading ignorance.

Izzy0927 · August 2014

@sugahcookie01‌ If I say this girl is trash, that's against the TOU, right? Okay, then I'll say she's acting like trash, and it seems to be coming naturally to her.

ahylton08 · August 2014

mmariel said:

ahylton08 said:
Oh shut up I didn't offend anybody.... Your just hormonal :-@
are you kidding me??????????? Ummmm im pretty sure im offended because any normal person would be. It has NOTHING to do with hormones. I work with people and care about people with disabilities-developmentally and physically. I can not stand that word.

Just cuz u don't like it Still doesn't mean it was never a medical term...

ahylton08 · August 2014

You guys are going off feeling not facts

psychobutthead · August 2014

ahylton08 said: It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

You know I will give you that it was a medical term. What makes it ugly is when a person like YOU uses it in a derogatory way. Obviously the reason YOU are the one being told you're offensive is because YOU are the only person here to have used it in that manner.

Get a fucking clue.

ahylton08 · August 2014

mandamoochie said:
No, I was actually trying educating you in a not offensive way (trying to not insult you.. its tough) WHY that word is offensive. Yet you still dont get it. So yeah, your acting like a troll starting trouble in a community that doesnt particularly cherish your input so im done feeding your crazy form of entertainment.

Educate me by sending me facts or a link. Not by asking what degrees I have.

Ducktale · August 2014

There really is no arguing with stupid people.

chickyclg · August 2014

@ahylton08‌ the "N" word used to be a very popular term, it is no longer used because it is derogatory, I don't think you would condone the use of that word now would you. So likewise the "R" word should be looked at as the same, a offensive term that should no longer be used.

Ducktale · August 2014

I think it's time to stop feeding this troll.

Izzy0927 · August 2014

I mean, I'm not going to say/write any of them, but I think we can ALL think of a few words that were used popularly/ in professional settings in the past that are like, REALLY offensive now. Are you actually trying to act like you can't understand that concept?

ahylton08 · August 2014

psychobutthead said:

ahylton08 said:

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

You know I will give you that it was a medical term. What makes it ugly is when a person like YOU uses it in a derogatory way. Obviously the reason YOU are the one being told you're offensive is because YOU are the only person here to have used it in that manner.

Get a fucking clue.

No... I used it the correct way, so if u didn't read the comment then maybe u shouldn't start with me.

chickyclg · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

psychobutthead said:

ahylton08 said:

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

You know I will give you that it was a medical term. What makes it ugly is when a person like YOU uses it in a derogatory way. Obviously the reason YOU are the one being told you're offensive is because YOU are the only person here to have used it in that manner.

Get a fucking clue.

No... I used it the correct way, so if u didn't read the comment then maybe u shouldn't start with me.

There is NO correct way to use it!!!!!

psychobutthead · August 2014

Izzy0927 said:

I mean, I'm not going to say/write any of them, but I think we can ALL think of a few words that were used popularly/ in professional settings in the past that are like, REALLY offensive now. Are you actually trying to act like you can't understand that concept?

Its not that she can't understand it shes choose not to. The reason being she fucked up and has herself backed up into a corner now. People like this is why ignorance is still out there in the world.

ahylton08 · August 2014

chickyclg said:

ahylton08 said:

psychobutthead said:

ahylton08 said:

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

You know I will give you that it was a medical term. What makes it ugly is when a person like YOU uses it in a derogatory way. Obviously the reason YOU are the one being told you're offensive is because YOU are the only person here to have used it in that manner.
Get a fucking clue.

No... I used it the correct way, so if u didn't read the comment then maybe u shouldn't start with me.

There is NO correct way to use it!!!!!

Yes there is... Mental disability is one of them.... Ur stupid

ahylton08 · August 2014

hikerlady said:

ChickenOnSunday said:

hikerlady said:

I feel like I'm listening to a bunch of adults explain life to a spoiled 12 year old.

I think you need to go for a lower age. You are expecting too much when comparing her to a 12 year old.

So true. Maybe 4? My niece is 5 and she seems to comprehend things a little better.

I comprehend but I don't agree that if I'm using a medical term that anyone should feel offended.

psychobutthead · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

ahylton08 said:

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

You know I will give you that it was a medical term. What makes it ugly is when a person like YOU uses it in a derogatory way. Obviously the reason YOU are the one being told you're offensive is because YOU are the only person here to have used it in that manner.

Get a fucking clue.

No... I used it the correct way, so if u didn't read the comment then maybe u shouldn't start with me.

You didn't even spell it right so please enlighten me on how the hell you used it correctly? Oh and if your intention was to use it in a medical sense of the term then the old fashioned and outdated term would me Mentally Retarded. Not retarted.

As for I shouldn't start with you does it seem like I give a damn? Maybe you should buy a dictionary before you open anymore cans of worms.

chickyclg · August 2014

ahylton08 said:

ahylton08 said:

It was a medical term. Ugly People like u made it offensive. My sister is 16 with autism and mental retardation was the term used by her doctors. I would never purposely offend anyone with a disability, in fact I'm licensed to work with anyone with a disability! U ladies just need to grow up and not pass your negativity on to your own kids

You know I will give you that it was a medical term. What makes it ugly is when a person like YOU uses it in a derogatory way. Obviously the reason YOU are the one being told you're offensive is because YOU are the only person here to have used it in that manner.

Get a fucking clue.

No... I used it the correct way, so if u didn't read the comment then maybe u shouldn't start with me. There is NO correct way to use it!!!!! Yes there is... Mental disability is one of them.... Ur stupid

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Wrong!!!! It is called an Intellectual Disability ... Who feels stupid now?

Also it makes me laugh that YOU insult my intelligence yet YOU don't know you to spell YOU or YOUR

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