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  • @perfectlove09

    What as your comment. Ill gladly answer it for you. 


    I do have another question. If you hate us all so much why are you here? Don't you have more important things to do? You took plenty of time in the other post to tell us how you feel. How
    Much longer are you going to rag on it?

    I'm here because my stupid app seems to think just because I'm due in december I should be grouped in with this stupid group. I've done everything I needed to get done today. Thanks for the concern though. I think ill rag on about it for another week or so just to make sure you get the full effect. 


    as for 

    Seriously though OP, would you care to explain the logic that you want to teach D14 how to be nicer, because it is full of mean bitches, but simultaneously, that we aren't entitled to have ppl (like you or apparently our spouses) be nice to us? Because seriously, I'm getting lost somewhere.... 

    let me simplify this. 

    Being pregnant does not entitle you to other people being nice. 
    This means that other people shouldn't have to bow down to you and make sure they don't hurt your feelings simply because you are pregnant. People should be nice to you just because you are human but we all know how that works. Just because someone says a comment thats offends you doesn't mean you get to blame your hormones when you act like a bitch after that. You are clearly a bitch because your feelings where hurt and nothing more. 

    Just because you are pregnant does not entitle you to stop being a human. Its common sense that if you disagree with someones opinion to just ignore them and let it go. Just because someone seeks out advice on this page about something you dislike doesn't mean you get to bash them because it isn't how you would do things or how you would raise your kids. Yes you can tell them you don't like their opinion but it shouldn't go past that. 


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  • bmneth said:

    @perfectlove09


    What as your comment. Ill gladly answer it for you. 


    I do have another question. If you hate us all so much why are you here? Don't you have more important things to do? You took plenty of time in the other post to tell us how you feel. How
    Much longer are you going to rag on it?

    I'm here because my stupid app seems to think just because I'm due in december I should be grouped in with this stupid group. I've done everything I needed to get done today. Thanks for the concern though. I think ill rag on about it for another week or so just to make sure you get the full effect. 


    as for 

    Seriously though OP, would you care to explain the logic that you want to teach D14 how to be nicer, because it is full of mean bitches, but simultaneously, that we aren't entitled to have ppl (like you or apparently our spouses) be nice to us? Because seriously, I'm getting lost somewhere.... 

    let me simplify this. 

    Being pregnant does not entitle you to other people being nice. 
    This means that other people shouldn't have to bow down to you and make sure they don't hurt your feelings simply because you are pregnant. People should be nice to you just because you are human but we all know how that works. Just because someone says a comment thats offends you doesn't mean you get to blame your hormones when you act like a bitch after that. You are clearly a bitch because your feelings where hurt and nothing more. 

    Just because you are pregnant does not entitle you to stop being a human. Its common sense that if you disagree with someones opinion to just ignore them and let it go. Just because someone seeks out advice on this page about something you dislike doesn't mean you get to bash them because it isn't how you would do things or how you would raise your kids. Yes you can tell them you don't like their opinion but it shouldn't go past that. 


    You do know that even though you're due in December, you have the freedom and ability to read and post on other boards, right?

    Not that anyone else would receive this fuckery any more gracefully than these ladies have...

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  • JaymeeLH said:
    I seriously made popcorn, came back to 2 pages of comments to catch up on and probably another 2 by time I get caught up. Side note: what is your favorite popcorn toppings?
    straight up liquified movie theatre butter. I always have to get my own bucket because I drench it! who cares if my arteries harden with every bite, its delicious! 

    eta now I really REALLY want popcorn and can't go get any 
    :((

    Movie theater popcorn salt on top of that, mmmm. I usually go up half way through the movie to get the second half covered!
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  • And the GIF's now? Your thought process is so out of whack you can't logically make sense defending yourself, so you result to GIF's?

    It's official.

    People have way too much time on their hands over the weekend. Or get too bored, one of the two. I'm thinking it was the later option for OP.

    Again, I'm really not a snarky person, I just don't like being generalized as a bitch when I'm far from one. So, I will defend myself. If I said something horrible, I will own up to it as I've learned that lesson the hard way. But seriously, this thread is pointless and screaming for drama, OP. And you know it!

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  • JaymeeLH said:



    I seriously made popcorn, came back to 2 pages of comments to catch up on and probably another 2 by time I get caught up.

    Side note: what is your favorite popcorn toppings?

    straight up liquified movie theatre butter. I always have to get my own bucket because I drench it! who cares if my arteries harden with every bite, its delicious! 

    eta now I really REALLY want popcorn and can't go get any 
    :((




    Movie theater popcorn salt on top of that, mmmm. I usually go up half way through the movie to get the second half covered!

    Ladies, you are killing me!! I want ALL the popcorn but my tummy just can't take it! The salt and butter is calling meeeee!!!

    (Yes OP, I just blamed pregnancy for my digestive issues. I think I will go yell at my DH now too.)
  • And the GIF's now? Your thought process is so out of whack you can't logically make sense defending yourself, so you result to GIF's?

    It's official.

    People have way too much time on their hands over the weekend. Or get too bored, one of the two. I'm thinking it was the later option for OP.

    Again, I'm really not a snarky person, I just don't like being generalized as a bitch when I'm far from one. So, I will defend myself. If I said something horrible, I will own up to it as I've learned that lesson the hard way. But seriously, this thread is pointless and screaming for drama, OP. And you know it!

    I just posted the gifs since everyone was all about posting them. Figured I would join in with the party. 
  • ebilbao said:
    I really like mixing my movie popcorn with something sweet, like M&Ms.
    I can't get on board with the sweet/salty combo, it makes me nauseated

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  • leosmom25 said:

    @conradraging I have a mean girls crush on you

    <3 if I wasn't mobile atm I'd gif you.

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  • JaymeeLH said:
    bmneth said:
    @perfectlove09

    What as your comment. Ill gladly answer it for you. 


    I do have another question. If you hate us all so much why are you here? Don't you have more important things to do? You took plenty of time in the other post to tell us how you feel. How
    Much longer are you going to rag on it?

    I'm here because my stupid app seems to think just because I'm due in december I should be grouped in with this stupid group. I've done everything I needed to get done today. Thanks for the concern though. I think ill rag on about it for another week or so just to make sure you get the full effect. 


    as for 

    Seriously though OP, would you care to explain the logic that you want to teach D14 how to be nicer, because it is full of mean bitches, but simultaneously, that we aren't entitled to have ppl (like you or apparently our spouses) be nice to us? Because seriously, I'm getting lost somewhere.... 

    let me simplify this. 

    Being pregnant does not entitle you to other people being nice. 
    This means that other people shouldn't have to bow down to you and make sure they don't hurt your feelings simply because you are pregnant. People should be nice to you just because you are human but we all know how that works. Just because someone says a comment thats offends you doesn't mean you get to blame your hormones when you act like a bitch after that. You are clearly a bitch because your feelings where hurt and nothing more. 

    Just because you are pregnant does not entitle you to stop being a human. Its common sense that if you disagree with someones opinion to just ignore them and let it go. Just because someone seeks out advice on this page about something you dislike doesn't mean you get to bash them because it isn't how you would do things or how you would raise your kids. Yes you can tell them you don't like their opinion but it shouldn't go past that. 


    you just contradicted yourself. all of you complaining about how mean we are ARE NOT ENTITLED to us being nice to you! I don't expect people to be nice to me every time I post, although I do take care to keep my stupid/asinine questions to myself, so there's that. 
    Second, the majority of the time it doesn't go past us saying "hey that's kinda stupid/irresponsible/tacky" and then the OP flips out, calls us names, threatens us etc. Their reaction is not our fault or our problem
    me posting several times that i think its pathetic, and stupid isn't really going past the point that i had stated. yes i said that most of you seem like entitled bitches because you seem to think that other people can't have bad days is stupid. that is my opinion. 
  • LinziLoo09LinziLoo09 member
    edited August 2014
    bmneth said:
    let me simplify this. 
    Being pregnant does not entitle you to other people being nice. 
    This means that other people shouldn't have to bow down to you and make sure they don't hurt your feelings simply because you are pregnant. People should be nice to you just because you are human but we all know how that works. Just because someone says a comment thats offends you doesn't mean you get to blame your hormones when you act like a bitch after that. You are clearly a bitch because your feelings where hurt and nothing more. 

    Just because you are pregnant does not entitle you to stop being a human. Its common sense that if you disagree with someones opinion to just ignore them and let it go. Just because someone seeks out advice on this page about something you dislike doesn't mean you get to bash them because it isn't how you would do things or how you would raise your kids. Yes you can tell them you don't like their opinion but it shouldn't go past that. 
    1st Bolded: WTF?! You're a bitch if your feelings get hurt at a rude comment?! Most of the TP comments were actually weight related. And it's unequivocally rude to make these sorts of statements whether or not a person is pregnant. However, we're all discovering that these comments seem to flow much more freely when you're pregnant. People seem to think it's open season to make rude weight comments now. But goodness, saying now that we're bitches because rude and insensitive comments hurt our feeliings?! Nonsensical. 

    2nd Bolded: If you disagree with our opinions, why haven't you "ignored us and let it go" yet? Give it a shot, OP! I fully support you in taking your own advice.

    Btw, the bashing came from your end first --- only reason, snark, and comedy from our sides. You quickly called the group out for being "bitches" for our feelings. Seems like based on your own reasoning that you should have said you disagreed with our opinions and "not gone past that."
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  • And the GIF's now? Your thought process is so out of whack you can't logically make sense defending yourself, so you result to GIF's?

    It's official.

    People have way too much time on their hands over the weekend. Or get too bored, one of the two. I'm thinking it was the later option for OP.

    Again, I'm really not a snarky person, I just don't like being generalized as a bitch when I'm far from one. So, I will defend myself. If I said something horrible, I will own up to it as I've learned that lesson the hard way. But seriously, this thread is pointless and screaming for drama, OP. And you know it!

    I just posted the gifs since everyone was all about posting them. Figured I would join in with the party. 
    But they already said you can't sit with them...
    well shucks. guess ill just sit by myself and post more gifs then. 
  • This is way out if control but I just can't help myself
  • @bmneth you are complaining about how mean we all are, but then you're saying that because someone is pregnant, they are not entitled to everyone being nice to them. and now you're complaining because you think that we're entitled...because we collectively as pregnant women complain to each other (note just each other, not to anyone else) about people who make ignorant and unnecessary comments about our bodies/how we have no right to be as tired as they are among other mind blowingly stupid things. Not one person ever said that no one else can have bad days, just that we don't sympathize because growing another person is fucking hard and makes day to day life sometimes that much more difficult. 

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  • nopegoatnopegoat member
    edited August 2014
    I don't think anyone here is asking for a parade and a holiday named for them. But I don't think a little consideration is too much to ask for.

    No one said that others couldn't have a bad day, but saying we are not entitled to vent about a bad day or its using pregnancy as an excuse is idiotic.

    If in the examples you are using, the ladies posted about sitting on the couch all day doing nothing other than creating a human I think your opinion would be valid.
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  • This is way out if control but I just can't help myself

    Ditto! I have to go make banana bread for a neighbor whose mom died (because I'm a selfish hormonal meanie), but I keep getting distracted by this thread! 

    After six pages of comments telling her she is just wrong and illogical, she still keeps spewing nonsense. I just can't look away either.
  • bmneth said:
    JaymeeLH said:
    bmneth said:
    @perfectlove09

    What as your comment. Ill gladly answer it for you. 


    I do have another question. If you hate us all so much why are you here? Don't you have more important things to do? You took plenty of time in the other post to tell us how you feel. How
    Much longer are you going to rag on it?

    I'm here because my stupid app seems to think just because I'm due in december I should be grouped in with this stupid group. I've done everything I needed to get done today. Thanks for the concern though. I think ill rag on about it for another week or so just to make sure you get the full effect. 


    as for 

    Seriously though OP, would you care to explain the logic that you want to teach D14 how to be nicer, because it is full of mean bitches, but simultaneously, that we aren't entitled to have ppl (like you or apparently our spouses) be nice to us? Because seriously, I'm getting lost somewhere.... 

    let me simplify this. 

    Being pregnant does not entitle you to other people being nice. 
    This means that other people shouldn't have to bow down to you and make sure they don't hurt your feelings simply because you are pregnant. People should be nice to you just because you are human but we all know how that works. Just because someone says a comment thats offends you doesn't mean you get to blame your hormones when you act like a bitch after that. You are clearly a bitch because your feelings where hurt and nothing more. 

    Just because you are pregnant does not entitle you to stop being a human. Its common sense that if you disagree with someones opinion to just ignore them and let it go. Just because someone seeks out advice on this page about something you dislike doesn't mean you get to bash them because it isn't how you would do things or how you would raise your kids. Yes you can tell them you don't like their opinion but it shouldn't go past that. 


    you just contradicted yourself. all of you complaining about how mean we are ARE NOT ENTITLED to us being nice to you! I don't expect people to be nice to me every time I post, although I do take care to keep my stupid/asinine questions to myself, so there's that. 
    Second, the majority of the time it doesn't go past us saying "hey that's kinda stupid/irresponsible/tacky" and then the OP flips out, calls us names, threatens us etc. Their reaction is not our fault or our problem
    me posting several times that i think its pathetic, and stupid isn't really going past the point that i had stated. yes i said that most of you seem like entitled bitches because you seem to think that other people can't have bad days is stupid. that is my opinion. 
    But you used the fact that someone had a bad day and got mad at their husband as an example of how horrible we are.... 

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    this made no sense. 



    I used that example because your husband was tired after work, but thinking that its not possible and being pissed at him because his day was nothing compared to yours is stupid. Just because you're pregnant doesn't mean his life has gotten any better. Im sure he still has shitty days at work and can be tired. 
  • MrsG1019 said:

    bmneth said:

    @perfectlove09


    What as your comment. Ill gladly answer it for you. 


    I do have another question. If you hate us all so much why are you here? Don't you have more important things to do? You took plenty of time in the other post to tell us how you feel. How
    Much longer are you going to rag on it?

    I'm here because my stupid app seems to think just because I'm due in december I should be grouped in with this stupid group. I've done everything I needed to get done today. Thanks for the concern though. I think ill rag on about it for another week or so just to make sure you get the full effect. 


    as for 

    Seriously though OP, would you care to explain the logic that you want to teach D14 how to be nicer, because it is full of mean bitches, but simultaneously, that we aren't entitled to have ppl (like you or apparently our spouses) be nice to us? Because seriously, I'm getting lost somewhere.... 

    let me simplify this. 

    Being pregnant does not entitle you to other people being nice. 
    This means that other people shouldn't have to bow down to you and make sure they don't hurt your feelings simply because you are pregnant. People should be nice to you just because you are human but we all know how that works. Just because someone says a comment thats offends you doesn't mean you get to blame your hormones when you act like a bitch after that. You are clearly a bitch because your feelings where hurt and nothing more. 

    Just because you are pregnant does not entitle you to stop being a human. Its common sense that if you disagree with someones opinion to just ignore them and let it go. Just because someone seeks out advice on this page about something you dislike doesn't mean you get to bash them because it isn't how you would do things or how you would raise your kids. Yes you can tell them you don't like their opinion but it shouldn't go past that. 


    You do know that even though you're due in December, you have the freedom and ability to read and post on other boards, right?

    Not that anyone else would receive this fuckery any more gracefully than these ladies have...
    Rumor got out that D14 has yet another BSC chick (you guys are on a roll this week but it's making for fun Sunday reading for the other BMB)... Hence the views on this thread.. Don't pawn her off on other boards.. That's just cruel... What did we ever do to ya'll ;) N14 would tear people like her up in a heartbeat. eventually she'll get tired of listening to herself yap her mouth and just skip on over to find another group of hormonal bitches. Smh.. Some people! Happy Sunday D14... Minus the one that blames the AP for forcing her to interact with you meanies.
    Oh girl. I'm from S14 and if she pulled this shit over there it wouldn't be this nice. I pray she doesn't pay you a visit.

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  • BankerBSN said:

    @NikkiMN143‌ !!! You changed your profile pic!! Lol!

    Praise! I confused her with the cray cray.

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  • Hahahaaa I can't!! You would think after 7 pages of this she would give up at some point and either admit she's wrong or leave. I mean who is she trying to convince us or herself?
  • Hahahaaa I can't!! You would think after 7 pages of this she would give up at some point and either admit she's wrong or leave. I mean who is she trying to convince us or herself?
    She's operating under the delusion that she's going to turn D14 into sunshine and rainbows. She can keep trying, it's just going to make her look worse

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  • JaymeeLH said:
    Hahahaaa I can't!! You would think after 7 pages of this she would give up at some point and either admit she's wrong or leave. I mean who is she trying to convince us or herself?
    She's operating under the delusion that she's going to turn D14 into sunshine and rainbows. She can keep trying, it's just going to make her look worse
    sunshine and rainbows are no fun.. however support and not being dicks when someone actually post for advice or help is great. You know only if they have the same ideas as the group. because if not then well fuck them right. 
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