MotherOfPearl85 said:
I wonder if @BumpJackie has children?
No. She does not. But again, there is an editorial board that should make the decisions on what to put on the website and blog. Jackie is basically a hall monitor.
The address and phone numbers for the PR department XO Group Inc. 195 Broadway, Floor 25 New York, New York 10007 phone: (212) 219-8555 fax: (212) 219-1929 Email: PRDept@xogrp.com
Last week it was being extremely insensitive to the IF community. This week it's formula shaming. TB makes me want to day drink.
I missed this but I'm not surprised. What did they say?
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Hugs to all. The insensitivity abounds in that list and I'll just add as a footnote that they don't even seem to consider EP moms in the same class here. Braces from bottles right? So we had latch issues. I warred with myself on making it work, also to the point of dreading feedings. I fretted over the implications on attachment and bonding while I pumped. So I am empathetic with the cause to burn this list and the so called boob-olution to the ground.
Some of these are clearly being sarcastic, right ? (Aside from the offensive title )
Some of those are trying to be funny like the coconut water thing most of them are serious. Even if it was just a bunch of women being sarcastic why the hell would someone post those things under a heading like that? It's fucked up.
I don't want to post here anymore. Can we go somewhere else? I want to delete my TB app and block their site. This is a new fucking low. Congratulations.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
please do not make this an exodus to proboards....... I hate the format over there.
Is there anywhere besides proboards?
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Oh, I'm not going anywhere. I plan to stay and be as much of a PITA as I possibly can because fuck them.
I highly doubt anything is going to change. Hilarity is the biggest pain in BJs ass and they haven't even banned her yet.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Oh, I'm not going anywhere. I plan to stay and be as much of a PITA as I possibly can because fuck them.
I highly doubt anything is going to change. Hilarity is the biggest pain in BJs ass and they haven't even banned her yet.
:::chest boner swells with pride::::
I didn't even put a disclaimer that it wasn't snarky because I knew you'd take it as a compliment. Which it is. You're doing the Lords work.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Hi We support ALL parents, regardless of how they choose to feed their babies. Boob-olution and Breastfeeding Awareness Month is about informing moms of all the benefits of breastfeeding and providing help and support. We totally understand that there are some moms who can't breastfeed or choose not to for very good reasons, but we aim to encourage and empower women to consider it only if they can!
That's it?
Yeah, referring to PPA as "crazy" is supportive.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Geesh! What a bogus list, and whoever coined the term boobalution should never be allowed to work on a marketing campaign again.
I remember trying endlessly in the hospital with the lactation specialist to get my babe to latch but she never would. She just screamed at my boob like it was a terrifying beast. Continued trying when I got home, same result. Turned to pumping but wouldn't get more than an ounce in 30 minutes and that shit hurts! I tries for a few weeks and gave up. I was suffering from severe ppa, when we did formula feed with bottles Amelia (that's my babes name) would end up throwing up almost every time and she'd have a hard time doing so, I can still remember how terrified she looked when she was basically choking on her own vomit. I started panicking when I'd feed her, it got to the point that I couldn't feed her without having a panic attack. My poor SO too, flipped my shit on him so many times. Eventually I got a prescription for Zoloft and have been on it ever since. No need to term that crazy, it's a serious issue that should not be taken lightly and for everyone that has suffered or has dealt with issues after birth and throughout motherhood, hugs to you. We're all doing the best we can.
Point to my story is that this shit is hard and people who trivialize it with dumb articles like this have absolutely no clue, so much so that they shouldn't be writing on the topic.
Okay, so that IF list? I don't know where these magical users contributed these great tidbits, but none of them are user names on the boards... So either they have never posted on the boards and just emailed the bump on their own? Or the bump made it all up? Probably that one. I mean, where would they get this stuff if it isn't from TB community?
Ohhhhh shiiiiiit. Great investigative work. I assumed they were tri boards posters.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Can someone give me some input before I send this e-mail please.
"The article "Top Ten Reasons to Breastfeed" is horribly offensive and borderline shaming those than cannot or choose not to breastfeed. The use of the word "crazy" to describe PPD/PPA is asinine. Ignoring the fact that most reasons listed are not indeed fact, the choice of wording alone is outrageous. Try reading it through the eyes of a mother instead of a corporation looking for views and monetary gain."
I'm bad with twitter things and I think it's probably too long, but can you tweet this and tag the CEO, and The Bump, and whoever else you can think of. If you do, we can all retweet it and MAYBE someone will actually listen.
I called and it was a recording that said thanks for calling the knot, reach your party's extension blah blah blah
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Wow, add me to the list of those who had more anxiety and depression while trying to breastfeed. My little guy was only a couple of percentiles away from failure to thrive because I couldn't make enough milk for him. It is very clear from his monthly photos exactly when I decided to stop torturing both of us with failed attempts at breastfeeding and went to formula. He looked so much better after even a couple of weeks of getting as much as he needed.
I'm all for empowerment and encouragement. But that is not what this is.
Shame on The Bump for making FF moms feel so terrible.
PS. My kid is almost 2 now. He has never been sick, is super healthy, and is using three word sentences. So much for sickly and lower IQ.
Re: TheBump shits the bed again (edited for title change)
XO Group Inc.
195 Broadway, Floor 25
New York, New York 10007
phone: (212) 219-8555
fax: (212) 219-1929
Email: PRDept@xogrp.com
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Some of those are trying to be funny like the coconut water thing most of them are serious. Even if it was just a bunch of women being sarcastic why the hell would someone post those things under a heading like that? It's fucked up.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
I didn't even put a disclaimer that it wasn't snarky because I knew you'd take it as a compliment. Which it is. You're doing the Lords work.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Yeah, referring to PPA as "crazy" is supportive.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
-----------------------------------------------------------------------
J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
2 Beautiful Boys 11.7.03 & 4.23.13
I called and all I got was a bunch of static and a recording on the other end. I couldn't even make out what she was saying.
XO has absolutely -zero- incentive to consider our feelings or change anything if we keep coming here. Zero.
Just 90% guys. We can do this!
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
-----------------------------------------------------------------------
J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
I'm all for empowerment and encouragement. But that is not what this is.
Shame on The Bump for making FF moms feel so terrible.
PS. My kid is almost 2 now. He has never been sick, is super healthy, and is using three word sentences. So much for sickly and lower IQ.