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Did your partner have or is he planning to have a dadchelor party or man shower?

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Re: Did your partner have or is he planning to have a dadchelor party or man shower?

  • mybambino1mybambino1 member
    @aditigirl‌ & @Meery82‌-

    hormonal much??? A tad bit on the bitchy and darkside lol. u may need to address that before ur children arrive...that's if u guys are even expecting
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  • allrightmeowallrightmeow member
    mybambino1 said:
    @aditigirl‌ & @Meery82‌- hormonal much??? A tad bit on the bitchy and darkside lol. u may need to address that before ur children arrive...that's if u guys are even expecting
     You should pump your brakes.  There are women on this site that are TTC.  Word of advice, the whole "hormonal" thing, does not go over well here.  
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    also it can be simply stated that it's "disgusting" that someone wouldn't bring a gift to such an event, whether it be diapers or whatever. disgusting in the fact of being cheap. (which honestly, wouldnt be a thought in my brain if it happened) but I can see how others would think that. @Meery82‌ - lol obviously I am and do but my own stuff. there is more needed that diapers. As for the venue being held at our place, we have a house with a backyard, it's our friends and our baby so they would be more inclined to come to our place. And to take care of the whole event, instead of a friend stressing about it. Shows gratitude and appreciation as well. and when our friends or family have such celebrations, we give back and yes @allrightmeow‌ ( you get, you give) and vise versa. lol. I love that I have such awesome family and friends. I'm there for them, and they're there for me! That's the best ppl to celebrate life with. lol
    Guess my family and friends are even more awesome than yours. I didn't have to throw myself a baby themed gift getting event in order to get gifts.  They were excited about the baby and all on their own, sent gifts anyways.  They aren't looking to get anything from me and I didn't have to hold a meal over their heads in order for them to give me anything.  We do it because we love each other.  My DH works almost entirely with men.  They all pooled together and got us a really nice gift, no "diaper party" required. 
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  • TapsalteerieTapsalteerie member
    mybambino1 said:
    @aditigirl‌ & @Meery82‌- hormonal much??? A tad bit on the bitchy and darkside lol. u may need to address that before ur children arrive...that's if u guys are even expecting
    Slow your roll.
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  • mybambino1mybambino1 member
    yet all of your negative bitchy comments about something such as a diaper party is ok?

    FYI that hormonal comment is aimed towards the two that were commenting.

    not meant for others.

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  • mybambino1mybambino1 member
    Tacky is stating your opinions in the manner ( childish) way that you choose to. you might want to re-read your comments. And there is no name calling, Bitching is not a name.
    Seriously, get over yourselves. it's a Diaper Party! lol
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  • allrightmeowallrightmeow member
    mybambino1 said:
    Tacky is stating your opinions in the manner ( childish) way that you choose to. you might want to re-read your comments. And there is no name calling, Bitching is not a name. Seriously, get over yourselves. it's a Diaper Party! lol
    @mybambino1 You might want to re-read your comments.

    "hormonal much??? A tad bit on the bitchy and darkside lol. u may need to address that before ur children arrive...that's if u guys are even expecting"    

    And because you're classy you brought our children into it. 

    Childish is trying to imply that you are so much more loved than we are because you got people to buy you diapers.  lol indeed.  

    "it's a scheduled celebration between family and friends for a baby"  No it's a diaper party, that you threw for yourself, to get diapers.  LMAO...  
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  • Meery82Meery82 member
    edited July 2014
    mybambino1 said:
    @aditigirl‌ & @Meery82‌- hormonal much??? A tad bit on the bitchy and darkside lol. u may need to address that before ur children arrive...that's if u guys are even expecting
    Nope. Not hormonal. Not pregnant. Not trying. I'm not surprised to see your tacky ass say something so gross. And while I don't take your cuntcake comment personally, I'm sure there are women reading this who do. So, on their behalf, please go fuck yourself.
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  • mybambino1mybambino1 member
    lol get over it. And grow the fuck up.
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  • Meery82Meery82 member
    mybambino1 said:

    lol get over it. And grow the fuck up.

    Sorry you're butthurt because you keep making yourself look stupid.
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  • TapsalteerieTapsalteerie member
    @mybambino1 - Here's a suggestion.  Stop typing.

    Your intense desire to defend a diaper party is mind boggling.
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  • flclflcl member
    mybambino1 said:
    @aditigirl‌ & @Meery82‌- hormonal much??? A tad bit on the bitchy and darkside lol. u may need to address that before ur children arrive...that's if u guys are even expecting

    So not ok @mybambino1 ...  and all over a stupid party with a stupid name.
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  • meme0001meme0001 member
    WHAT me and my partner did was a coed baby shower.
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  • mybambino1mybambino1 member
    Nice! @meme0001‌, I hope you enjoyed! we prob would've done the same, only I don't feel up to having a personal baby-shower for myself, don't like to be the centre of attention. It was my SO group of friends. I don't have family here so they are just sending me whatever they want and my close chicky friends here are doing the same. Regardless, my family and close friends will eventually meet my baby and be apart of that, so I don't mind not having a babyshower. Although the girls did offer!
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  • Jax2013Jax2013 member
    Shhh! Don't give DH any ideas. Lol. But seriously. My family is throwing me a shower. I asked him if he wanted it to be co-ed. I swear, if looks could kill, I'd be dead. But now all of a sudden, he wants to throw a big Labor Day BBQ. My c-section is scheduled the next day. He's calling it a pre-labor Labor Day party. I wanna shoot him in the face. Lol
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  • rlyttlerlyttle member
    My DH would be pissed if he had to spend his free time attending anything that resembled a shower. He's a man...
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  • meme0001meme0001 member
    what me and my boyfriend did was a coed baby shower and it was a blast :)
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  • meme0001meme0001 member

    ok... im not I just couldn't remember that I said that sorry and im on a computer and don't really care bout my grammar to be honest and no my mom threw it for me my boyfriend said he wanted to be there so we just did the coed  and another honest note there is no need to be a bitch.

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  • meme0001meme0001 member
    its the internet nobody cares ok and it looks like everyone read it fine and it looks like your the moron who couldn't figure it so sorry you couldn't figure no need to be rude and chill out you seem a bit up tight and btw (by the way) i got an A in English so if you don't know someone you shouldn't judge.
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  • meme0001meme0001 member

    sorry but im done fighting with someone who has nothing to do than call people morons for no reason at all especially when they don't know that person and don't need the stress as well

    sorry for calling you names but it was uncalled for you calling me names. 

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  • meme0001meme0001 member
    nothing I just forget some times when im a computer bc (because) im use to texting and its not a big deal
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  • meme0001meme0001 member

    but I did its different posting something than writing an essay.

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  • meme0001meme0001 member
    why is everyone so quick to attack someone on here im only curious
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  • meme0001meme0001 member
    ok that's prob bc im a 21 year old woman who graduated high school in 2012 and no need to be rude or mean ok
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    meme0001 said:
    ok that's prob bc im a 21 year old woman who graduated high school in 2012 and no need to be rude or mean ok
    Wait, are you blaming your age?
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  • CariLS8CariLS8 member
    WashingtonQueen said:


    meme0001 said:

    ok that's prob bc im a 21 year old woman who graduated high school in 2012 and no need to be rude or mean ok

    Wait, are you blaming your age?

    The way I took it was she's saying she is younger. I mean if you think about it, these days younger adults tend to abbreviate to make things faster for them and others around their age. Drives me nuts, but that's just how a lot of people type now. Usually speaking and typing a proper letter is totally different. To me its just like saying lol, idk, DH, DD, etc. But I could be wrong :P
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  • CariLS8CariLS8 member
    Again, I never said it was an excuse or that it was proper sentance structuring or any of that lol. I mean it's clearly not. Like I said in my PP, it is a common thing these days to find that sort of slang. Obviously it would be more common is some younger people, not all younger people, than the older generations. Is it an excuse? No. Is it annoying to some? Of course. Can someone please everyone? Obviously not. I mean I've seen people complain about saying to much so either way it's a lose-lose situation sometimes. I just skip over posts if they are confusing or if they're to long :P You still get the point of a post by skipping some nonsense.
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  • trebekastantrebekastan member
    CariLS8 said:
    Again, I never said it was an excuse or that it was proper sentance structuring or any of that lol. I mean it's clearly not. Like I said in my PP, it is a common thing these days to find that sort of slang. Obviously it would be more common is some younger people, not all younger people, than the older generations. Is it an excuse? No. Is it annoying to some? Of course. Can someone please everyone? Obviously not. I mean I've seen people complain about saying to much so either way it's a lose-lose situation sometimes. I just skip over posts if they are confusing or if they're to long :P You still get the point of a post by skipping some nonsense.
    We are all of the same generation on here, except perhaps those that are in their later 30s. We all grew up with cell phones or have had them for about 10 years. It has nothing to do with generation and more to do with the fact that you don't know when to use "me and him" vs "he and I" (not something that you can blame on a cell phone). Also, it has even more to do with the fact that people don't like you. They don't do well when they have spent their whole pregnancies here and on the BMB fostering relationships with women and you come on and call them all bitches because someone didn't give the unicorn fart answer you wanted to hear.

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  • basketballbellybasketballbelly member
    Woah I came to read the topic but it looks like it's gone quite a bit off track!

    Everyone here is doing the best they can. We are all going through an amazing time - growing humans inside of us! Perhaps sometimes it's worth focusing on that rather than berating someone for their typing/spelling ability or ganging up. We all came here for support didn't we? Pregnancy is hard enough at times, let's give each other a break.

    Be kind, everyone is fighting their own battles. We are all human, we all love, laugh, cry and feel pain.
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