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Re: let's talk about sex, baby...

  • Carriebear22Carriebear22 member
    I was able to hold out until 4w PP, but We've been dying to DTD since 1wPP. The dryness is the only part that is annoying, sometimes it feels like his you know what is made of sandpaper. We haven't been going all out, but the job is definitely getting done. :)
    Married my Sweetie 8/21/04
    BFP 10/8/2013
    Miss Camryn Marie arrived 6/20/2014

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  • catsinawindowcatsinawindow member
    I'm 6 weeks PP on Friday and am pretty sure I'll get the go-ahead at my appt. unfortunately, I'm nowhere near in the mood. Plus, I remember how much it hurt with DS (well after 6weeks PP) so I'm dreading that. We had to try around 3 times weeks apart before we could finish. My tearing was MUCH less severe this time, but I'm still apprehensive. Poor DH is looking so forward to it though. Sigh... :-S


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    BFP#2:  EDD 2/11/14, MMC confirmed 7/15/13 (growth stopped at 6 weeks), D&C @ 12 weeks 7/25/13

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  • CharD3CharD3 member
    Thanks for the tips! I'm gonna suck my insecurities and try tonight! Hopefully she will take a good nap tonight. I know both of us will feel better after!
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  • ElTrain5ElTrain5 member
    Anyone get the ok from their dr even though they're still having clear/yellow discharge? I'm 5 weeks pp and I feel like it's never going to stop (c section here)

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  • tbmadeamistaketbmadeamistake member
    ElTrain5 said:

    Anyone get the ok from their dr even though they're still having clear/yellow discharge? I'm 5 weeks pp and I feel like it's never going to stop (c section here)

    Yes. Wasn't an issue over here when we DTD.

    Married DH 7/30/11

    CSC arrived 5/7/12 

    CHC arrived 6/2/14

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  • irenewsleeirenewslee member
    tclayton53 said:

    I was cleared on Friday and we tried to DTD. I tore some during labor and had stiches and now I'm wondering if I was stitched up too tight. It was so painful that I thought for sure it would tear again - we had to stop. :( hoping it will get better - anyone else having this problem?

    I felt the same way. We tried it last night and we had to stop because i felt like it was gonna tear again. I am 7 weeks pp tomorrow but my appt isnt til next week. I guess we will try again and see how it goes.
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  • MrsCase1MrsCase1 member
    I am 6 weeks this Thursday but still bleeding. I am beginning to wonder if there is something wrong. I won't be trying till it stops. :(
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  • shellbell813shellbell813 member
    Planning on trying for the first time tonight. Bought a bottle of wine and lubricated condoms. Hopefully I can get in the mood and enjoy it!
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  • ChristineBaker23ChristineBaker23 member
    @mtgrizgirl‌ just showed the Hubs your fantastic giffery and he, sounding slightly peeved because he is reading The Fault In Our Stars, was all "Are you trying to have sex with me?"

    Oh lord a'mighty. If that would count as coming on to him I have seriously been slacking lol.
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  • shellbell813shellbell813 member
    ElTrain5 said:

    Just jumped back in the sexy pool. It was oddly similar to losing my virginity. Painful at first, but we took it slow and eventually it started to feel good. Ironically he had trouble due to the condom ----

    This.

    It was kinda uncomfortably tight at first but loosened up and felt good. Didn't hurt my csection at all so that was good. After it was over I started crying like an idiot. He thought he'd hurt me. I think it must've been a release of tension and hormones. Overall it was all good!
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  • cspencer85cspencer85 member
    I was cleared yesterday (6 weeks pp) and we tried last night but I just couldn't do it. I had a second degree tear and stitches. My ob said everything is healed but omfg we couldn't even get it in. Does anyone have any tips?
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  • DharmatronDharmatron member
    cspencer85 said:
    I was cleared yesterday (6 weeks pp) and we tried last night but I just couldn't do it. I had a second degree tear and stitches. My ob said everything is healed but omfg we couldn't even get it in. Does anyone have any tips?
    Use more lube then you think you need, then add a bit more.
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  • cspencer85cspencer85 member
    I thought we used a ton lol. Maybe not. I told him we can try again next week.
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  • ElTrain5ElTrain5 member
    cspencer85 said:

    I thought we used a ton lol. Maybe not. I told him we can try again next week.

    For me it was about going super slow. We used lube too. At first I thought it wouldn't work, but the "bit by bit" method worked, along with having him stop along the way and focusing on relaxing around him. After awhile of doing that I felt ok letting him move freely.

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  • tbmadeamistaketbmadeamistake member
    edited July 2014
    Maybe a warm bath first so all the muscles are relaxed?

    Married DH 7/30/11

    CSC arrived 5/7/12 

    CHC arrived 6/2/14

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  • babygabe614babygabe614 member
    @Rachel5130‌ I was wondering the same thing!

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  • chloephoebecalichloephoebecali member
    Bleh. You ladies are impressive. Maybe because I'm running around like a nut with all three most days, but I have absolutely no interest. In fact, I made my appointment for 6.5 weeks so that I wouldn't have the go ahead any sooner. The idea just revolts me right now for some reason.
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  • RedMarRedMar member
    Lube suggestions? Not familiar with this department so any suggestions are welcome!
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  • irenewsleeirenewslee member
    We did it last night! I am 7 weeks pp and it still hurt! I had to tell him to go REAL slow and i was really nervous. We used a condom and got done in a few mins (probably because how long he hadnt had it :p) It was definitely not an enjoyable experience for me since it did hurt a little. I just knew i had to do it and DH had been waiting for so long.

    I saw a tiny bit of blood afterward... Like fresh blood and it burned a little when i peed afterward but not anymore. Should i be concerned?
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  • Mom&nurseMom&nurse member
    We are sending kids to my mom's for the whole night. I'm thinking it's time. 9 weeks pp. 1 month in hospital before and pelvic rest for 1/2 pregnancy. I'm not gonna know what to do. Hope he remembers. However we are closer now then ever before. Not being able to have sex took the stress away from both of us. Now we can enjoy it. I hope! !!

    But my baby is gonna be without me. She has never been without me that long. Now I'm regretting it.
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