WTF mom? I made an appt for a 3D ultrasound. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea...I get that. But it's MINE. I tell her of said appt because I figured since she wants to be at every dr appt, she'd wanna be there and get a glimpse of her grandson. All she had was negative comments..."we" can't afford it, the pictures come out ugly, blah blah blah. So I reminded her that I'M paying for it and that she doesn't have to be there to which I got "you are SUCH a bitch". Every time I get excited about something, she shoots me down.
Also WTF mom...why must you have my shower at the same place you had my engagement party which was to a man I am now divorced from? UGH.
Am I being a snob? I mean, I appreciate all she's doing for me and will continue to do for me once baby arrives being that baby daddy is a piece of garbage but am I allowed to be upset?
WTF H? I've been sick for the past 2 days (cold and no voice), but instead of taking care of DD when she wakes up repeatedly during the night you still make me do it? I realize I go to work later than you do and can nap in the morning after she goes to daycare, but frankly having uninterrupted night sleep is way more beneficial to the healing process. And we're supposed to go camping this weekend--if you want that to happen, you have to let me sleep and get better, ass.
WTF mom? I made an appt for a 3D ultrasound. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea...I get that. But it's MINE. I tell her of said appt because I figured since she wants to be at every dr appt, she'd wanna be there and get a glimpse of her grandson. All she had was negative comments..."we" can't afford it, the pictures come out ugly, blah blah blah. So I reminded her that I'M paying for it and that she doesn't have to be there to which I got "you are SUCH a bitch". Every time I get excited about something, she shoots me down.
Also WTF mom...why must you have my shower at the same place you had my engagement party which was to a man I am now divorced from? UGH.
Am I being a snob? I mean, I appreciate all she's doing for me and will continue to do for me once baby arrives being that baby daddy is a piece of garbage but am I allowed to be upset?
WTF person that stole my yogurt out of the fridge at work. WTF?!?! Who does that?!?! I and my unborn child thank you, that was supposed to be breakfast. Jerk.
I mentioned to her that DH and I are still throwing around the idea of me becoming a SAHM. Rather than the normal reaction of "that's great that it's even a possibility and I am sure you and DH will do what is best for your little family..." she immediately goes to the negative. Tells me that her opinion (which I did not ask for) was that I should continue working. Someone she works with decided to become a SAHM and is miserable and it has turned her husband into a "Housework is the woman's job" spewing pig. And that said person doesn't know if her marriage will last and if DH and I ever get divorced, don't I want some protection knowing I have my own 401k and career to fall back on.
I mean, WTAF? I know she and DH have their differences but, COME ON. Personally I think because she couldn't stay at home she is jealous that I may be able to.
WTF mom? I made an appt for a 3D ultrasound. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea...I get that. But it's MINE. I tell her of said appt because I figured since she wants to be at every dr appt, she'd wanna be there and get a glimpse of her grandson. All she had was negative comments..."we" can't afford it, the pictures come out ugly, blah blah blah. So I reminded her that I'M paying for it and that she doesn't have to be there to which I got "you are SUCH a bitch". Every time I get excited about something, she shoots me down.
Also WTF mom...why must you have my shower at the same place you had my engagement party which was to a man I am now divorced from? UGH.
Am I being a snob? I mean, I appreciate all she's doing for me and will continue to do for me once baby arrives being that baby daddy is a piece of garbage but am I allowed to be upset?
UGH. I'd be frustrated too!
I'm not sure that frustrated is the word
I'm sorry you're dealing with that! I cannot imagine my mother even saying anything out of the way like that...ever. She's excited about everything I'm excited about haha...God love em.
Wtf ds puking all night was not part of the plan. You better be better by Friday morning because mom and dad NEED this weekend away from you (for the first time ever). Wtf what ever ds has. Making a 1 year old puke out his nose for hours is fucking awful. You suck!
WTF self, you are falling apart, you forget everything, you are absolutely exhausted by 4pm and all you want is cake. Get it together, we have 4 more months to go and we aren't even big compared to whats to come!
WTF Gap. Why so many large tags on the shirts I just received? There are 4 tags that measure 1.5" x 3" and have the washing instructions in 22 different languages. Big tags are so obnoxious!
@missnacholover That sounds EXACTLY like something my mom would say!! So sorry you're dealing with that. I can admit that I'm jealous that you have that as an option. Waking up and coming to work is becoming more and more difficult as it is. I can't imagine having to do it while leaving my little man with someone else :-S
@NLJ82 She's so excited about so many things. But the second I get excited about something, she shoots me down. Mind you, I'm no longer with the baby's father which obviously isn't an ideal situation which I think I'm handling pretty well. If something excites me, she should let it! LOL Be thankful for your mom
I mentioned to her that DH and I are still throwing around the idea of me becoming a SAHM. Rather than the normal reaction of "that's great that it's even a possibility and I am sure you and DH will do what is best for your little family..." she immediately goes to the negative. Tells me that her opinion (which I did not ask for) was that I should continue working. Someone she works with decided to become a SAHM and is miserable and it has turned her husband into a "Housework is the woman's job" spewing pig. And that said person doesn't know if her marriage will last and if DH and I ever get divorced, don't I want some protection knowing I have my own 401k and career to fall back on.
I mean, WTAF? I know she and DH have their differences but, COME ON. Personally I think because she couldn't stay at home she is jealous that I may be able to.
I SO know how you feel. I get the same thing from my mom. It's so frustrating!!
@missnacholoverThat sounds EXACTLY like something my mom would say!! So sorry you're dealing with that. I can admit that I'm jealous that you have that as an option. Waking up and coming to work is becoming more and more difficult as it is. I can't imagine having to do it while leaving my little man with someone else :-S
@NLJ82 She's so excited about so many things. But the second I get excited about something, she shoots me down. Mind you, I'm no longer with the baby's father which obviously isn't an ideal situation which I think I'm handling pretty well. If something excites me, she should let it! LOL Be thankful for your mom
@missnacholoverThat sounds EXACTLY like something my mom would say!! So sorry you're dealing with that. I can admit that I'm jealous that you have that as an option. Waking up and coming to work is becoming more and more difficult as it is. I can't imagine having to do it while leaving my little man with someone else :-S
@NLJ82 She's so excited about so many things. But the second I get excited about something, she shoots me down. Mind you, I'm no longer with the baby's father which obviously isn't an ideal situation which I think I'm handling pretty well. If something excites me, she should let it! LOL Be thankful for your mom
WTF mom? I made an appt for a 3D ultrasound. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea...I get that. But it's MINE. I tell her of said appt because I figured since she wants to be at every dr appt, she'd wanna be there and get a glimpse of her grandson. All she had was negative comments..."we" can't afford it, the pictures come out ugly, blah blah blah. So I reminded her that I'M paying for it and that she doesn't have to be there to which I got "you are SUCH a bitch". Every time I get excited about something, she shoots me down.
Also WTF mom...why must you have my shower at the same place you had my engagement party which was to a man I am now divorced from? UGH.
Am I being a snob? I mean, I appreciate all she's doing for me and will continue to do for me once baby arrives being that baby daddy is a piece of garbage but am I allowed to be upset?
@AmandaRae529 - Um, YES. I'd be pissed. Sorry she's raining on your parade about the 3D u/s. I would put my foot down for sure about the shower. Who wants to be reminded of an old relationship when trying to celebrate a new baby? Can you bring up the tackiness of this or will she just not get it?
WTF DS. We're transitioning to a toddler bed and we got maybe 3 hours of sleep last night. On top of that I work 3rd shift tonight. I hope nap time goes better.
WTF mom? I made an appt for a 3D ultrasound. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea...I get that. But it's MINE. I tell her of said appt because I figured since she wants to be at every dr appt, she'd wanna be there and get a glimpse of her grandson. All she had was negative comments..."we" can't afford it, the pictures come out ugly, blah blah blah. So I reminded her that I'M paying for it and that she doesn't have to be there to which I got "you are SUCH a bitch". Every time I get excited about something, she shoots me down.
Also WTF mom...why must you have my shower at the same place you had my engagement party which was to a man I am now divorced from? UGH.
Am I being a snob? I mean, I appreciate all she's doing for me and will continue to do for me once baby arrives being that baby daddy is a piece of garbage but am I allowed to be upset?
@AmandaRae529 - Um, YES. I'd be pissed. Sorry she's raining on your parade about the 3D u/s. I would put my foot down for sure about the shower. Who wants to be reminded of an old relationship when trying to celebrate a new baby? Can you bring up the tackiness of this or will she just not get it?
Thing is, I'm not supposed to know about the shower. She asks me to log into her Facebook and play Candy Crush for her all the time and I purposely snooped to read messages between her and my friend that's helping plan the shower. I feel like confronting her will start all sorts of other BS drama that I don't want OR need. Plus she's paying for it. From reading the messages, it was the cheapest place she could find and I know she's doing it cheap there so she can spend more on baby. I know her heart is in the right place. She might not even realize it was the same place. But I DO. I told said friend that I know everything and that I'm upset about it. I explained why. She didn't know (her and I became friends a couple years after said engagement party) but now feels weird trying to bring it up in conversation with my mom because the place was decided weeks ago.
WTF house agent??????? Screwing up our bond application at the bank so we lost the new house! Also there are already other buyers inline so now we have to start house hunting all over again!
WTF house agent??????? Screwing up our bond application at the bank so we lost the new house! Also there are already other buyers inline so now we have to start house hunting all over again!
DH and I were apparently too slow at selecting a daycare. We have placed a deposit on the one place that had availability while we are on the wait list for the one that we love. Well the daycare that we enrolled at (money and paperwork hand delivered to them nearly a month ago) just called requesting basic information we already gave them: name and age of child, start date, number of children we are enrolling. We are supposed to entrust you with our baby and you can't even keep this basic information in order?!?
Two night ago I dreamt that I was riding my bike through a dark street where the zombie apocalypse was occurring and then a giant man with the deepest voice I've ever heard chased me down the road singing about the boogie man!
Last night I dreamt that we had the baby. We're having a little boy but in my dream was too wrapped up in everything that was happening and it took us a weekto realize that LO was actually a girl but by that time it was too late....we had already named her Herbert
WTF roofers? I know you have a job to do, but seriously could you have picked any other day this week? I work 6 out of 8 12 hour days and you have to do this on one of my two days off. It is so freaking loud! I hate hail, and right now I hate renting. Boo!
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Me:35 DH:35 Dx: PCOS DS1 born 11/2014 DS2 born 11/2018 3 previous losses Rainbow babydue 12/2021 - Team Green
Two night ago I dreamt that I was riding my bike through a dark street where the zombie apocalypse was occurring and then a giant man with the deepest voice I've ever heard chased me down the road singing about the boogie man!
Last night I dreamt that we had the baby. We're having a little boy but in my dream was too wrapped up in everything that was happening and it took us a weekto realize that LO was actually a girl but by that time it was too late....we had already named her Herbert
Two night ago I dreamt that I was riding my bike through a dark street where the zombie apocalypse was occurring and then a giant man with the deepest voice I've ever heard chased me down the road singing about the boogie man!
Last night I dreamt that we had the baby. We're having a little boy but in my dream was too wrapped up in everything that was happening and it took us a weekto realize that LO was actually a girl but by that time it was too late....we had already named her Herbert
WTF OB office receptionist for misplacing my chart and checking me out of the system so I didn't get called back until 50 minutes after my appt when I finally asked. Not like I have anything better to do.
WTF DS. We're transitioning to a toddler bed and we got maybe 3 hours of sleep last night. On top of that I work 3rd shift tonight. I hope nap time goes better.
We are about to do this with DD (August 3rd is the big day) and I'm dreading it.
Two night ago I dreamt that I was riding my bike through a dark street where the zombie apocalypse was occurring and then a giant man with the deepest voice I've ever heard chased me down the road singing about the boogie man!
Last night I dreamt that we had the baby. We're having a little boy but in my dream was too wrapped up in everything that was happening and it took us a weekto realize that LO was actually a girl but by that time it was too late....we had already named her Herbert
hahaha! That was exactly what I needed today. Thank you for sharing
My WTF: woman who is making false claims about DH to L&I because you are mad that he's actually exposed how horribly organized your organization is... I just don't even have words. We were hoping you were venting when you said you were going to make a complaint... I guess we know you weren't now. I am confident DH will be cleared, but I don't understand how anyone could intentionally try to ruin someone's life who hasn't done anything wrong.
@dannielle87 and @jlove253 We are in the same boat. We transitioned DS to toddler bed two nights ago. DH has been putting him to bed, but it has been a regression because he wants someone to stay in his room until he falls asleep. He also wakes up at least twice and hollers out for me. Hopefully it will get better soon for us all and good luck on starting jlove 8/3!
WTF OB office receptionist for misplacing my chart and checking me out of the system so I didn't get called back until 50 minutes after my appt when I finally asked. Not like I have anything better to do.
I think we go to the same place lol.. I was sitting in the office monday for 40 mins watching people who came in after me called in. When I went to get my phone around 940 to tell my office that I'll be later than I thought I saw that they actually called me at 930 which was already 15 mins after my appt. I went up to the desk and said I just saw that you called me. The receptionist was like yes that was me. I told her that I had been there since 9 and was wondering why everyone else was going in. She said she was sorry and that I hadn't signed in. I then point to my name crossed out on the second line of the page. She then went to get my folder and realized she already had taken it out...well like DUH,,, cuz I signed in 40 mins ago...SMH
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And my other wtf. Wtf to everything related to educational expenses. For me, my children just the while damn thing. Shit is expensive! Maybe I should throw a back to school shower???
WTF self...why oh why did you say the things you did to the LEAST trust worthy coworker? Just because person was being nice today, doesn't mean you need to be an open book. Ugh I could kick myself
@dannielle87 and @jlove253 We are in the same boat. We transitioned DS to toddler bed two nights ago. DH has been putting him to bed, but it has been a regression because he wants someone to stay in his room until he falls asleep. He also wakes up at least twice and hollers out for me. Hopefully it will get better soon for us all and good luck on starting jlove 8/3!
We transitioned on Saturday, which is why she's taking forever to get to sleep and waking up multiple times. She needs someone in the room to fall sleep too, and it really sucks!
And my other wtf. Wtf to everything related to educational expenses. For me, my children just the while damn thing. Shit is expensive!
Maybe I should throw a back to school shower???
Only if you register for a Trapper Keeper and those scented markers!
And my other wtf. Wtf to everything related to educational expenses. For me, my children just the while damn thing. Shit is expensive!
Maybe I should throw a back to school shower???
Only if you register for a Trapper Keeper and those scented markers!
OMG...these were my favorite part of school shopping! lol
WTF I'm taking my 2 year old to the dr in an hour because her wrist is bothering her.
I'm 80% sure I'm overreacting but she can't really tell me what's wrong and she's clearly in pain. If I am overreacting then it's my first one in her (almost) 2 years of life so I guess I'm overdue. And if something's wrong then I'll feel like a jerk for waiting 24 hours before doing anything. This sucks.
Re: WTF Wednesday...
Also, WTF to this baby? It appears spaghetti is not a favorite. Every time I eat it I feel icky. Not cool, kid, not cool.
My baby has decided to hate Chinese food
Also WTF mom...why must you have my shower at the same place you had my engagement party which was to a man I am now divorced from? UGH.
Am I being a snob? I mean, I appreciate all she's doing for me and will continue to do for me once baby arrives being that baby daddy is a piece of garbage but am I allowed to be upset?
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I mentioned to her that DH and I are still throwing around the idea of me becoming a SAHM. Rather than the normal reaction of "that's great that it's even a possibility and I am sure you and DH will do what is best for your little family..." she immediately goes to the negative. Tells me that her opinion (which I did not ask for) was that I should continue working. Someone she works with decided to become a SAHM and is miserable and it has turned her husband into a "Housework is the woman's job" spewing pig. And that said person doesn't know if her marriage will last and if DH and I ever get divorced, don't I want some protection knowing I have my own 401k and career to fall back on.
I mean, WTAF? I know she and DH have their differences but, COME ON. Personally I think because she couldn't stay at home she is jealous that I may be able to.
I'm not sure that frustrated is the word
I'm sorry you're dealing with that! I cannot imagine my mother even saying anything out of the way like that...ever. She's excited about everything I'm excited about haha...God love em.
Wtf what ever ds has. Making a 1 year old puke out his nose for hours is fucking awful. You suck!
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Yes I measured and counted.
@NLJ82 She's so excited about so many things. But the second I get excited about something, she shoots me down. Mind you, I'm no longer with the baby's father which obviously isn't an ideal situation which I think I'm handling pretty well. If something excites me, she should let it! LOL Be thankful for your mom
WTF daycare....
DH and I were apparently too slow at selecting a daycare. We have placed a deposit on the one place that had availability while we are on the wait list for the one that we love. Well the daycare that we enrolled at (money and paperwork hand delivered to them nearly a month ago) just called requesting basic information we already gave them: name and age of child, start date, number of children we are enrolling. We are supposed to entrust you with our baby and you can't even keep this basic information in order?!?
WTF DREAMS!
Two night ago I dreamt that I was riding my bike through a dark street where the zombie apocalypse was occurring and then a giant man with the deepest voice I've ever heard chased me down the road singing about the boogie man!
Last night I dreamt that we had the baby. We're having a little boy but in my dream was too wrapped up in everything that was happening and it took us a weekto realize that LO was actually a girl but by that time it was too late....we had already named her Herbert
Dx: PCOS
DS1 born 11/2014
DS2 born 11/2018
3 previous losses
Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green
Maybe I should throw a back to school shower???
Edited to fix typo.
I'm 80% sure I'm overreacting but she can't really tell me what's wrong and she's clearly in pain. If I am overreacting then it's my first one in her (almost) 2 years of life so I guess I'm overdue. And if something's wrong then I'll feel like a jerk for waiting 24 hours before doing anything. This sucks.