July 2014 Moms

Vent, what should I do?

So my Aunt, who I absolutely despise believes she's going to get to be at the hospital when I go into labor... Um, I do NOT want her there. I honestly don't even want her to hold my daughter... That's how much I despise this woman. Well, she bought the crib for us. Yay. Thanks. But... She practically OWED my fiancé this crib after she seriously screwed him over about a year ago when he painted her entire house for practically NOTHING... If I can remember she paid him like what, 400 $? Painting is not cheap y'all... That is nothing. He had asked in the beginning for a lot more than that and once he was done she screwed him over. Anyways she's done a lot of messed up things in my life for me to despise her the way I do.. So I don't want her in our life. I deff don't want her to hold my baby. What do I do!? I don't want to straight up tell her to screw off... I couldn't live with myself. I'm not a mean person. But deep down, Id love to.. Should I just make sure she doesn't know I'm in labor the day I go I to labor? Ahhhh, help :(
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Re: Vent, what should I do?

  • Um, just don't tell her when you go into labor? It's not hard. Unless you're one who posts EVERYTHING on FB and that's how she would know? Or do you have family that would tell her? I'm not understanding how she would even know to show up.
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  • @AMcLaws‌ well see that's the thing, I was planning on posting on Facebook. That way I don't have to take the time to separately text everyone I'm in labor. She doesn't have a Facebook, but she somehow finds out EVERYTHING I post on there... It's very annoying. :/
  • What the hell is going on?!

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    I have NO freaking clue. *shakes head*
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  • @AMcLaws‌ It's not necessarily a private situation, the fact I'm in labor. Just want it private to her ears lol
  • Did your painter SO make an agreement with her in writing PRIOR to painting her entire house?


        




     

  • Need to channel your inner April Ludgate...

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  • SkeemerSkeemer member
    edited July 2014
    Csltdk said:

    Thank you!! Finally a thread that makes no sense and you sound bsc! It has been awhile.

    My advice: tell us more about why you hate your aunt so much. Sounds like it could be good.

    Yes...we need to know WAY more details on every level so we can help you make the best choices possible. So tell us OP...what are your hopes & dreams?

    Eta: obviously OP doesn't know about "Nice Nasty" & my kick butt L & D nurse!


        




     

  • Skeemer said:

    @AMcLaws‌ It's not necessarily a private situation, the fact I'm in labor. Just want it private to her ears lol

    Yes silly @AMcLaws‌ ! Pushing a human football out of your body isn't necessarily FACEBOOK private...just sorta private. Dur.

    Oh right...DUH!!! Silly me. I'm glad I have you @Skeemer‌ to set me straight ;)
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  • Nichole8787Nichole8787 member
    edited July 2014
    @jojobean86 she is most likely a troll. She turned up recently in another post and started drama claiming to be new

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  • It sounds like you created your own drama of a situation. You do know that you can tell people to not be at the hospital or in l&d. There is such a thing as hippa... just saying.
  • @litera‌ OMG fried cheese sounds sooo good. If things weren't so quite around here, I'd hope this thread just dies but since Trollin Tuesday has been as good as it gets... OP- where did you run off to? Come back! We need more info!!
  • Woah. Im speechless with y'all's drama. Totally wasn't expecting this when I joined...
  • @litera‌ bless your little heart.
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  • @litera‌ bless your little heart.
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  • jensaviccijensavicci member
    edited July 2014

    @jensavicci Glee, a sloth, Doctor Who, and Morgan Freeman all in one gif post. Way to go! This is why we are labor buddies!

    LOL :\"> >:D<
  • @jensavicci Glee, a sloth, Doctor Who, and Morgan Freeman all in one gif post. Way to go! This is why we are labor buddies!

    LOL :\"> >:D<
    Def made my morning. Best gif string in a while :-)
  • This is so sad. I thought there would be better bingo. I'm disappointed OP!
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