July 2013 Moms

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  • ^nothing against the people who do put up with it... I just can't fathom it. I'd be so pissed it would be grounds for a breakup.
  • DH has been gone since tues and will be home Sunday...it's be wonderful. Aside from things already mentioned it's more from he works from home and I SAH....A break was needed :)

    FFFC - I found springer on tv....and I am still watching it.
  • Altima80Altima80 member
    edited July 2014
    haddocky said:
    My life is easier when my SO isn't around. I don't have to cook or clean up after anyone else but myself and Haddy. I swear my SO comes home and it's like a tornado touched down wherever he walks. Last night he dropped a plate of spaghetti on the WHITE living room rug. Then, he asked why I wasn't cleaning it up a certain way and I saw RED (literally and figuratively).




    Worst color to see, right? ;-)
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  • livvyx said:

    My husband stays out all hours often and doesn't call and I really don't care. He's just drinking at a bar to blow off steam after his really stressful job. I stay home and play peekaboo with a tiny little sweetheart, clean a small apartment, and cook unambitious meals. Seems fair to me. 

    Fair enough :)
  • livvyx said:
    My husband stays out all hours often and doesn't call and I really don't care. He's just drinking at a bar to blow off steam after his really stressful job. I stay home and play peekaboo with a tiny little sweetheart, clean a small apartment, and cook unambitious meals. Seems fair to me. 
    Didn't he do this while you were pregnant too? I remember being really stabby for you during all that...
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  • haddocky said:
    S/O of the poll. 

    I think spanking should be against the rules. If you spanked the cashier at Target for doing something wrong you'd get in trouble so what's the difference of spanking a child for doing something wrong? NO SPANKING :D

     ETA: This is brought to you by the girl who is now leaving to go to the gym, I'll take my lashings when I get back :)

    You wouldn't send the cashier at Target for a time out, either.  Not a good comparison.

    IMO, you shouldn't compare how you treat an adult with how you treat a kid.  An adult won't lie on the ground and scream if they don't get what they want.  Two different things.

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  • @{{hugs}} I do remember that, @livvyx
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  • @thegoodpotato‌ I don't care what you compare it to, I still don't agree with it. I agree with spanking about as much as I agree with sleep training... which is not.at.all.
  • haddocky said:
    @thegoodpotato‌ I don't care what you compare it to, I still don't agree with it. I agree with spanking about as much as I agree with sleep training... which is not.at.all.
    It's your choice to do or not do whatever you want.  But it's inappropriate to compare how you would treat an adult who is a complete stranger to how you would treat your own child.

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  • I could have listed the spanker faction and non-spanker faction from our board months ago. Not surprised at all.

    I'm not anti-spanking, and I don't care how people choose to discipline their child so long as they're not abusing them.  (Appropriate discipline =/= abuse to me)

    However, I am doing my best to not spank.

    Like I've said previously, I'm really trying to be a conscious parent - to try to teach lessons and the reasoning behind right and wrong.  I make very good use of time outs.

    Have I spanked?  Yes.  Once (I think it was somewhere in November maybe?).  It was also a parenting moment I wasn't proud of - It was a perfect storm of terrible two/tiny baby/exhaustion/being overwhelmed, and I lost control of my temper.  Not trying to excuse myself.  It was a bad moment for me, and, like I said, I'm not proud of it.

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  • @lizabethann06 I'm curious about which faction you think I'm in with spanking... I don't even know if I've participated in any previous discussions.


    Can I play? My guess is no spanking, right... wrong?
  • Also?  Confession?

    I think Amanda is pro-spanking.  She hits Marnie all the time.

    How the heck do you deal with a slap-happy baby?  I'm trying to tell her no and gentle hands.... Poor Marnie.  When they're playing together, all I can hear is Marnie going, "No! Manda!  No hitting!  Manda!  No hitting!  NO!  Manda!"

    Marnie never hit, so we've never had to deal with this before.  I'm trying to discourage it, but it seems to be a result of both frustration and excitement.  She slaps if she's mad, and slaps if she's happy.  Sigh.

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  • summerandmattsummerandmatt member
    edited July 2014
    @lizabethann06‌ I'm not usually confrontational on here, so maybe it's my hormones or something, but I feel like you need to get off of your high horse. You are berating moms for doing the best they can with their children. I am positive that there are things you will do or have done that I would believe are a disservice to your child(ren), but it is not my place to judge you for it (unless you are asking for a debate like @MrsGiantPenis‌ in the other thread ;) ).
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  • haddocky said:
    @thegoodpotato‌ I don't care what you compare it to, I still don't agree with it. I agree with spanking about as much as I agree with sleep training... which is not.at.all.
    It's your choice to do or not do whatever you want.  But it's inappropriate to compare how you would treat an adult who is a complete stranger to how you would treat your own child.
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  • I could have listed the spanker faction and non-spanker faction from our board months ago. Not surprised at all.
    So...where do you think I fall?   :D
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  • @lizabethann06‌ spanked me once and I liked it.

    She appeared!

    <:-P

    @lizabethann06‌ - your post made me think, in my best game show hostess voice, name the spankers. I would love to see your guesses on both sides, missy ;)

    I have too terrible a memory for such a game with any success. I remember screen names (well, before the great switch) and I remember stories/posts. Which go together...not so much!

     

     

     

     

     

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  • casey78 said:
    zoom05 said:
    Wow..all this discussion (from both sides) makes me feel like a complete failure as a mom. Fuck. :((
    @zoom05 what's going on, mama?

    @zoom05 I am 100% sure you're not a complete failure.  We are all doing as well as we can.  Like I said, it's nice to hear that other moms have their low points, too.  I've definitely had my fair share of parenting moments I'm not proud of.

    Are you ok?   >:D<

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  • I told DH last night that we should have sex each night and morning. He asked if I was trying to get pregnant. I told him if he were on board yes but it's mainly just because I just always want it. He said he wants another kid too but not right away. No vasectomy for him. :)
    DHs mom said she won't be attending LOs birthday party. She then reached into her pocket and pulled out pocket change and said "here, my contribution to his party..". I felt like telling her to shove it.
    I have always wanted to be a model or actress ever since I was a small child. I keep telling DH about it because north Idaho college has classes for it and acting agencies. Since having kids, though, I keep trying to tell myself I should focus on more realistic goals. I just really want my name left in history somehow. I have this fear of dying and being forgotten.
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