@ashie0610 first off lurker? You might want to rephrase that because I don't know you and you don't know me and I only have 2 post because I just set my account up 2days ago I'm just getting the feel of this site and yesss please pair this ass hole with someone else because I already don't like her! #HaveANiceDay
@ashie0610 first off lurker? You might want to rephrase that because I don't know you and you don't know me and I only have 2 post because I just set my account up 2days ago I'm just getting the feel of this site and yesss please pair this ass hole with someone else because I already don't like her! #HaveANiceDay
Whoa!! That was a bit harsh, don't you think!?! Please understand that a lot of these ladies have been here for a very long time, establishing a bond! Ashie0610 even stated in her post "no offensive, I've been there too"! Just sayin!!
ETA: a comment like this is not going to get you very many "friends" here!
Me: 37, DH: 42 Married March 22, 2003 TTC since early 2006, Fertility treatments since 02/2013 First Pregnancy with Twins EDD 10.24.2014
@MrMrsandBaby Thanks for adding me to the list but you can remove me and put someone else in my spot I don't want to join anymore sorry for the inconvenience #ThanksAnyways
@alaxisG01 - Not a great first impression there - maybe contribute a little and see that nothing she said was wrong, bad or rude. Get over it and realize that she was perfectly polite and even asked you to participate more. JFC.
@MrMrsandBaby I guess I forgot to update the spread sheet. I'm actually due Sept 29th now. Not a problem though, my awesome labor buddy still works for me!
@ashie0610 first off lurker? You might want to rephrase that because I don't know you and you don't know me and I only have 2 post because I just set my account up 2days ago I'm just getting the feel of this site and yesss please pair this ass hole with someone else because I already don't like her! #HaveANiceDay
OMG. First off, name calling is against TOU, right @jalara48 ? Also, please FFS stop with your idiotic hashtags. They don't belong here. If you only joined 2 days ago I'd suggest you turn right around and go elsewhere. #kthxbai
I volunteer and would like to be paired (if possible) with a non-lurker, or a lurker who intends to begin posting. I'm more than happy to be @ashie0610 's partner if she is currently unpaired.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
@ashie0610 first off lurker? You might want to rephrase that because I don't know you and you don't know me and I only have 2 post because I just set my account up 2days ago I'm just getting the feel of this site and yesss please pair this ass hole with someone else because I already don't like her!
#HaveANiceDay
Dude, many of use have been here since the beginning of the year and have shared a lot with one another. The internet is a creepy place and she just was stating that she was not comfortable being paired with someone she "knows" zero about. It is called stranger danger and it is real.
No need to get all huffy...you have 2 replies. Be more active (we were all "new" once) and maybe you will have better luck next time.
Aw, thanks @golfingdarwinfish! Works for me and our due dates seem like a good match too.
@alaxisG01 - No need for name calling. I felt really bad even bringing it up, but I know literally nothing about you except for the fact that you created an account on Friday. Being a "lurker" isn't necessarily a bad thing, by the way. I lurk on other boards sometimes too, many of us do. It just seems weird to pair up with a total stranger for something like this.
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here #HaveANiceDay
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here
#HaveANiceDay
Lurker is a generally accepted term for someone who hasn't posted much. It isn't a bad thing, it is even encouraged to LURK a little before you start posting. Try it.
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here
#HaveANiceDay
Geez. Calm down. It's really not that big of a deal and especially not enough of a deal to be calling someone names. Pretty sure calling someone "ass hole" is MUCH worse than being called a "lurker". Just saying ...
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here
#HaveANiceDay
Wow, she was really nice to you and you were nothing but completely awful back. Honestly, I would have done the same thing if I were her, I almost didn't sign up for Labor buddies anyway because I was on the fence about possibly exchanging phone numbers, etc. Yes, the idea of the site is to make new friends, but you don't go around saying "hi! we're both pregnant, let's exchange info and let each other know when we go into labor!" You interact with people first and get to know them a bit.
Thank you MrMrsandBaby - Appreciating you adding me into the mix. I will read back on the posts to make sure I understand what being a labor buddy entails.
@monstomommy - don't think we've chatted much - excited to be your labor buddy!
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here #HaveANiceDay
Bahaha. Ok, please don't "waist" any more time here.
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here
#HaveANiceDay
If being called a lurker gets you this worked up, I'm worried how you handle everyday life shit.
I understand that you guys all know each other so you're going to stick up for one another so I'm not even going to waist my time arguing with any of you and YES she was being rude for even using the Word LURKER all she had to say was she didn't want to be my partner and I find it very offensive to be called a lurker and I thought the whole reason for sites like this was to get to know new moms to be and make new friends not judge people and call them lurkers and if that's how this group works then I'm not interested in being friends with anyone here
#HaveANiceDay
My god you would think she was called an asshole or something.
Oh.... wait... She called someone an asshole. Right.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Re: Labor Buddies?
P.s.. Thanks for putting this together! You rock!
I agree with theresat858. This seemed to work well with S12 when we did it.
Also, count me in, I'd like to play.
[MC 11.20.11] [DS born 9.24.12] [DD born 10.15.14]
#HaveANiceDay
ETA: a comment like this is not going to get you very many "friends" here!
#ThanksAnyways
ETA: No problem, you are gone. Nice knowing ya'
@FamouEa Hey buddy!
@MrMrsandBaby I guess I forgot to update the spread sheet. I'm actually due Sept 29th now. Not a problem though, my awesome labor buddy still works for me!
#kthxbai
JFC.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Piper Jo: October 14'
Dude, many of use have been here since the beginning of the year and have shared a lot with one another. The internet is a creepy place and she just was stating that she was not comfortable being paired with someone she "knows" zero about. It is called stranger danger and it is real.
No need to get all huffy...you have 2 replies. Be more active (we were all "new" once) and maybe you will have better luck next time.
Thanks @MrMrsandBaby for putting this together!
Hi @LaDyBostonRN!! I look forward to getting to know you better!
If you are a new addition check out the list!
#HaveANiceDay
Lurker is a generally accepted term for someone who hasn't posted much. It isn't a bad thing, it is even encouraged to LURK a little before you start posting. Try it.
And get over yourself.
Piper Jo: October 14'
Also, hi to my labor buddy @pinkshades05!
@monstomommy - don't think we've chatted much - excited to be your labor buddy!
#yourgrammarsucks #pleasejustleavealready
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
@mel689 Hi Labor Buddy!! I can't wait to get to know more about you!!
@MrMrsandBaby Thank you for taking your time and doing this for all of us!! I greatly appreciate it!
@MrMrsandBaby, I missed this original post, but have since replied.. Have I been added or is it too late?
[MC 11.20.11] [DS born 9.24.12] [DD born 10.15.14]
You are in! Your buddy is @griffers Got you updated this morning
[MC 11.20.11] [DS born 9.24.12] [DD born 10.15.14]
I am due October 17th! I would love to be on the list!!!!!!!
I do believe that the only other person on the list with the same date is Emerald27
It's a BOY! Est. Due Date - October 17th
@archi35, @ashie0610 and @golfingdarwinfish - you have been shuffled a little...sorry!
ashie and golfingdarwinfish are buddies
archi and themiss are buddies