I think it's rude and fuckin tacky to love tit everyone else's post in the comfy couch after I asked for an update, and specifically make a post and tag the ones who updated except for one person, who also updated (this would be me)
You don't like a person cool. But there, in that thread to pull the bitch card, not cool.
Whateva.
Agree. Really tack.
My FFFC :
It drives me crazy when someone gives lovetits to every single HDBD and doesn't do it to 1 or 2. Ouch. I also don't like when someone post a HDBD and doesn't love tit any of tgem. Show support for your fellow growing mamas. I get it's annoying when people only show up to aw in that thread.. and in that case I wouldn't blame you.
These posts stress me out because I always try to love posts and am so worried I am going to miss one and offend someone. My love-itting is never malicious!
Also, I never notice that people don't love my posts...how do people track this? Seems like a lot of work...
Thank you. It hurt my sensitive soul.
And this is why I hate love tits.
But really, yeah I was feeling all kinds of feels about it. Maybe I'm hormonally imbalanced right now with my period starting. And a fuckery of decisions to make. Gah!
I'm glad it was not intentional. That would have been major butthurt and I'm just now getting over real butthurtness. Not a word, I know. Just go with it
I am so sorry! I feel terrible. I never even thought of it coming off that way. Like I said, fortunately we get to see updates from you and know how you're doing so that's why I didn't tag you. Nothing personal at all!
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Me:35 DH:35 Dx: PCOS DS1 born 11/2014 DS2 born 11/2018 3 previous losses Rainbow babydue 12/2021 - Team Green
I guess another part of this confession is that my heart goes out to these parents (only when it's done on accident of course). They need to live with their mistake. I make mistakes as a mother most, if not every day and so far I've been lucky that my mistakes haven't been life changing.
Since we're talking about books, my confession is that I'm sucker for a good cheesy, totally cliche and predictable romance novel. The clean ones, I like smut occasionally, but I'm just a rainbow and flowers and happy ending kind of gal.
I do read other genres: political, historical, etc; but I LOVE a good romance.
I also read romance, largely because I am a sucker for a happy ending; I like both the clean(ish) and the erotica versions. I've also been really into thrillers lately.
I am sloppy with my love titting.....for one, my PC at work doesn't always work when I click it, another is I am spontaneous with them.....I don't put much thought into them at all. Some really good posts, I want to love tit it like 5 times.....others I just love tit out of habit.
I never keep track of what or whose posts I love tit, I don't pay any attention to who love tits my posts either.
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Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013 BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
I think it's rude and fuckin tacky to love tit everyone else's post in the comfy couch after I asked for an update, and specifically make a post and tag the ones who updated except for one person, who also updated (this would be me) You don't like a person cool. But there, in that thread to pull the bitch card, not cool. Whateva.
Agree. Really tack. My FFFC : It drives me crazy when someone gives lovetits to every single HDBD and doesn't do it to 1 or 2. Ouch. I also don't like when someone post a HDBD and doesn't love tit any of tgem. Show support for your fellow growing mamas. I get it's annoying when people only show up to aw in that thread.. and in that case I wouldn't blame you.
yikes i dont think i love titted hdbd this week. i didn't have time to go through the whole thread and didn't want to love tit only half. sorry ladies you know i you and your bumps!
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I think it's rude and fuckin tacky to love tit everyone else's post in the comfy couch after I asked for an update, and specifically make a post and tag the ones who updated except for one person, who also updated (this would be me) You don't like a person cool. But there, in that thread to pull the bitch card, not cool.
Whateva.
Agree. Really tack.
My FFFC : It drives me crazy when someone gives lovetits to every single HDBD and doesn't do it to 1 or 2. Ouch. I also don't like when someone post a HDBD and doesn't love tit any of tgem. Show support for your fellow growing mamas. I get it's annoying when people only show up to aw in that thread.. and in that case I wouldn't blame you.
I definitely don't love tit all the HDBD posts. I try to love tit as many as I can, but when I see randoms in there that only post to AW I don't feel the need.
I think it's rude and fuckin tacky to love tit everyone else's post in the comfy couch after I asked for an update, and specifically make a post and tag the ones who updated except for one person, who also updated (this would be me)
You don't like a person cool. But there, in that thread to pull the bitch card, not cool.
Whateva.
Agree. Really tack.
My FFFC :
It drives me crazy when someone gives lovetits to every single HDBD and doesn't do it to 1 or 2. Ouch. I also don't like when someone post a HDBD and doesn't love tit any of tgem. Show support for your fellow growing mamas. I get it's annoying when people only show up to aw in that thread.. and in that case I wouldn't blame you.
I am totally guilty of posting a pic but not "loving" everyone else's. To be honest, it's a pain in the ass on my phone! There is a huge delay and then I hit it 87 times and it goes back and forth so half the time it would look like I'm only loving half of the pics when, in fact, I love them all. Maybe I'll just look without posting from now on.
I know it's silly, but it just tweaks my nerves sometimes. I don't look for specific posters. I just noticed when I was scrolling back through and I noticed "what the hell? That's kind of messed up." I get sporadic loving, because sometimes ...
I used to be able to go braless.....for the first time ever in my life, the bottom of my boobs touch my abdomen, and my bra straps are leaving dents in my shoulders.
I want my itty bitty titties back!!!!
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Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013 BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
@maebee87 Right there w/ you Listening to the IHeartRadio 'Embarrassing Favorites' channel now. MmmBop, I'm Too Sexy, Summer Girls by LFO... it's pretty bad.
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
This big boobed lady has no idea what properties a maxi dress might possess that would allow one to go braless. It's a whole nother world out there...
oh how i'd love to go outside braless, hell i'd love to hang out in my house braless. i used to before bfp but now they are just frightening. and when im not wearing a bra they rest on my big belly and its gross and sweaty. i really gross myself out sometimes.
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@maebee87 Right there w/ you Listening to the IHeartRadio 'Embarrassing Favorites' channel now. MmmBop, I'm Too Sexy, Summer Girls by LFO... It's pretty bad.
Hey now! Summer Girls is an amazingly happy song. We use a quick mix station on Pandora at work and the 90's is on it. When that song comes on, or Steal My Sunshine by Len, I get really giddy and sing along.
@maebee87 Right there w/ you Listening to the IHeartRadio 'Embarrassing Favorites' channel now. MmmBop, I'm Too Sexy, Summer Girls by LFO... It's pretty bad.
Hey now! Summer Girls is an amazingly happy song. We use a quick mix station on Pandora at work and the 90's is on it. When that song comes on, or Steal My Sunshine by Len, I get really giddy and sing along.
DH and I fight over the 90's station, we have 90's on 9 on SiriusXM. I love it, but he's 9 years older than I am and was an 80's hair metal rock dude. He always shuts it off on me
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
This big boobed lady has no idea what properties a maxi dress might possess that would allow one to go braless. It's a whole nother world out there...
oh how i'd love to go outside braless, hell i'd love to hang out in my house braless. i used to before bfp but now they are just frightening. and when im not wearing a bra they rest on my big belly and its gross and sweaty. i really gross myself out sometimes.
Before BFP I was finally down to being about to workout in just a sports bra without a regular bra underneath (all of this under a shirt, obviously). Now being pregnant, I tried one time to wear just a sports bra without the extra bra and I was all over the place and felt like my nipples were going to fall off from chaffing. (
I would give anything for itty bitty boobs. I think my chest makes my entire self look bigger than I am.
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
This big boobed lady has no idea what properties a maxi dress might possess that would allow one to go braless. It's a whole nother world out there...
oh how i'd love to go outside braless, hell i'd love to hang out in my house braless. i used to before bfp but now they are just frightening. and when im not wearing a bra they rest on my big belly and its gross and sweaty. i really gross myself out sometimes.
Before BFP I was finally down to being about to workout in just a sports bra without a regular bra underneath (all of this under a shirt, obviously). Now being pregnant, I tried one time to wear just a sports bra without the extra bra and I was all over the place and felt like my nipples were going to fall off from chaffing. (
I would give anything for itty bitty boobs. I think my chest makes my entire self look bigger than I am.
No idea what your bra size is, but sounds like you may just need to invest in better sports bra. I used to triple up on sports bras, but discovered Moving Comfort bras when I started running. I love them! I still have to use body glide under the band to prevent chaffing, but that's pretty typical for runners.
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me
I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
I'm also jealous of your itty bitties my boobs are getting so big that the skin between them is itchy from being stretched.
I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to shave my legs.
**my phone just auto-corrected "maxi" to "nazi". I don't even know why I changed it back.
I wear maxi dresses because they are comfortable, but not going to lie, the above statement is reason # 2.
Also, I wish I didn't have to wear a bra. I couldn't even get away with one pre-pregnancy. Not that my boobs were huge (C), but I've gone through fluctuations due to weight loss (from a D in high school to a full A in college) and they're not the perkiest things on the planet.
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Aug. - Sept. 2013 - dIUIs = BFNs
January 2014 - IVF = 3 freezer babies
March 2014 - FET of AA and AB blast = BFP! Twins!
Nov. 7, 2014 - Wilhelmina "Willa" Suzanne (4lb 14oz) and Ari Jose (6lb 4oz) were born via CS
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
This big boobed lady has no idea what properties a maxi dress might possess that would allow one to go braless. It's a whole nother world out there...
oh how i'd love to go outside braless, hell i'd love to hang out in my house braless. i used to before bfp but now they are just frightening. and when im not wearing a bra they rest on my big belly and its gross and sweaty. i really gross myself out sometimes.
Before BFP I was finally down to being about to workout in just a sports bra without a regular bra underneath (all of this under a shirt, obviously). Now being pregnant, I tried one time to wear just a sports bra without the extra bra and I was all over the place and felt like my nipples were going to fall off from chaffing. (
I would give anything for itty bitty boobs. I think my chest makes my entire self look bigger than I am.
No idea what your bra size is, but sounds like you may just need to invest in better sports bra. I used to triple up on sports bras, but discovered Moving Comfort bras when I started running. I love them! I still have to use body glide under the band to prevent chaffing, but that's pretty typical for runners.
+1 to moving comfort bras--changed my big busted exercise world!
I love a good romance novel. Ok, to be honest, I even love the slutty paranormal ones. Sometimes I will go on a romance spree and read two or three over the weekend. That's my FFFC for the week.
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me
I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
This big boobed lady has no idea what properties a maxi dress might possess that would allow one to go braless. It's a whole nother world out there...
I'm with you. I can't go braless in anything. Well, I technically can, but it would not be pretty.
I wait until the very last second at night to take my bra off because these babies are ridiculous! They need all the support they can right now.
When my friends see me the first thing they all say is "I can hardly tell you are pregnant, but your boobs are huge". I was already a D cup to begin with and now they are out of control.
I never paid attention to love tits until it was pointed out to me
I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
This big boobed lady has no idea what properties a maxi dress might possess that would allow one to go braless. It's a whole nother world out there...
I'm with you. I can't go braless in anything. Well, I technically can, but it would not be pretty.
I wait until the very last second at night to take my bra off because these babies are ridiculous! They need all the support they can right now.
When my friends see me the first thing they all say is "I can hardly tell you are pregnant, but your boobs are huge". I was already a D cup to begin with and now they are out of control.
I would LOVE to not have to wear a bra!
I'm with ya. My friends I hadn't seen in a few months exclaimed, "Your boobs are huge!" when I saw them last month. Why thank you... /blush
FFFC, For my job I have to tell my clients "got it" on a lot of emails. If I type too fast I will sometimes end up with "go tit" in error...and I leave it...beacuse it's funny.
When I cut into my apple at lunch, it was all brown inside. So I'm just eating the caramel dipping sauce I brought to go with it. Straight up out of the container with a spoon.
When H and I moved in together, he had a sizable porn magazine collection (leftover from his old roommate--uh huh:) ). Over the last few years I've been throwing them out.....and using that drawer space to store the romance novels I'm too embarrassed to keep on the bookshelves in the living room.
Lastly, its been so hot and my sex drive hasn't really been all that high, so we haven't been having much fun in the bedroom lately (plus I feel like a whale right now, not very sexy). But when I feel like getting it on, I wait for H to go to sleep or til he's out of the house and take care of business myself. I feel really really bad about this, because he's been so understanding, but the last thing I want right now is to be getting all hot(ter) and sweaty(ier). Bad wife
I think I have a flammable one, sort of stemming from the judgement thread.
Whenever I read about a parent forgetting their kid in their car, I feel so sick to my stomach. First, of course, because of the death of the child. But, second because I always think "That could have been me." Like most mothers, I have a million thoughts going through my head at any given moment. I am always at least a little bit tired and I feel like I just try to stay afloat half the time. DH and I each do drop off depending on the day and I just find it could be so easy for DD to be quiet in the backseat and for me to forget it's my day and drive straight to work. I always try to replay the morning in my head and remember, was it my day? Did I remember to bring her? If it's DH's day, we check in on "how drop off went". I'm not obsessive, but I feel relief each night that DD is in her crib and I've managed to keep her alive and well another day.
I guess another part of this confession is that my heart goes out to these parents (only when it's done on accident of course). They need to live with their mistake. I make mistakes as a mother most, if not every day and so far I've been lucky that my mistakes haven't been life changing.
I don't think this is flammable. I think it's what everyone thinks, but can't admit outloud.
It devastates me to read about these things, and then I judge because I'm like "HOW could a PARENT forget their CHILD in a burning hot car?!" ... and then I think ... what if it were me on a flat-out exhausted, mindless day?
I understand where you are coming from, but it's definitely not my thought process. I am the complete opposite. On the rare occasions I get to go somewhere alone I have caught myself about to get DD2 out of the carseat and then remembering that she isn't with me. And that's when I'm dead tired after they go to bed. Of course, I also stop at green lights when I'm really exhausted.
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So do I, but I have weird nipples. I not only have to wear a bra, but it has to be a padded bra so you can't see the outline of my areolas through the thin material of a regular bra and the shirt. Breast feeding has meant lots of layers.
So much this! My nipples get so pointy, even when it's not at all cold, that it's really embarrassing to go bra-less, even with my itty bitties. I ended up buying padded nursing bras (even though they didn't fold down enough) so that you couldn't see my high beams!
My FFFC--I hate when people want to post something not board related and use the abbreviation NPR. NPR stands for National Public Radio; NBR stands for "not board related". Unless this is some inside joke that I missed.
dr_pr said:
ClrkKntismyAE said:
lisaren said:
I have iddy biddy boobs.
So do I, but I have weird nipples. I not only have to wear a bra, but it has to be a padded bra so you can't see the outline of my areolas through the thin material of a regular bra and the shirt. Breast feeding has meant lots of layers.
So much this! My nipples get so pointy, even when it's not at all cold, that it's really embarrassing to go bra-less, even with my itty bitties. I ended up buying padded nursing bras (even though they didn't fold down enough) so that you couldn't see my high beams! My FFFC--I hate when people want to post something not board related and use the abbreviation NPR. NPR stands for National Public Radio; NBR stands for "not board related". Unless this is some inside joke that I missed. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Nope. I think that's the first time I posted something "NBR" and I thought it was an abbreviation for Not Pregnancy Related. I even just checked the abbreviations and now I feel like a dork. Woops!
Wow, late to the party today because I actually had to work at work instead of bump (although I found time to have lunch with my hot co-worker-can't say no to that).
My fffc after the judgment thread: DS is drinking Hawaiian punch as we speak out of a sippy cup!
Re: FFFC
Also, I never notice that people don't love my posts...how do people track this? Seems like a lot of work...
Dx: PCOS
DS1 born 11/2014
DS2 born 11/2018
3 previous losses
Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green
I also read romance, largely because I am a sucker for a happy ending; I like both the clean(ish) and the erotica versions. I've also been really into thrillers lately.
I am sloppy with my love titting.....for one, my PC at work doesn't always work when I click it, another is I am spontaneous with them.....I don't put much thought into them at all. Some really good posts, I want to love tit it like 5 times.....others I just love tit out of habit.
I never keep track of what or whose posts I love tit, I don't pay any attention to who love tits my posts either.
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013
BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
yikes i dont think i love titted hdbd this week. i didn't have time to go through the whole thread and didn't want to love tit only half. sorry ladies you know i
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to wear bras.
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IUI #1&2 = BFN; IUI #3 = BFP, m/c @ 6 weeks
November '11 ~ IVF#1 ~ ER 11/18 (29R, 17F) ~ 5dt of one beautiful blast on 11/23 = BFP!!
Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26
1st u/s 12/27 - hb of 156!! EDD 8.10.12
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Sweet baby boy born 8.18.12
Trying for #2
FET #1 - October '13 - c/p l FET #2 - December '13 - cancelled
l FET #2.2 - 1.30.14 - BFN
~ More testing - hysteroscopy, endometrial biopsy & more b/w - all normal / negative~
Surprise BFP while waiting on FET #3 ~ beta #1 500; beta #2 1600; first u/s 4/3 - measuring 5w5d, no hb yet!; 2nd u/s 4/10 - hb 132, measuring 6w6d - EDD 11.29.14
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Beautiful baby girl born 11.24.14
I used to be able to go braless.....for the first time ever in my life, the bottom of my boobs touch my abdomen, and my bra straps are leaving dents in my shoulders.
I want my itty bitty titties back!!!!
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013
BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
It's twin girls!! Born on 11-2-14!
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
I wear maxi dresses so I don't have to shave my legs.
**my phone just auto-corrected "maxi" to "nazi". I don't even know why I changed it back.
Ohhhh noooooo they would be pointy!!!
Here is what I'm wearing today. My daughter took pic but you get the point.
I also hate underwear.
Want a pic for example like the above?? Hahahaha
Jk!
I would give anything for itty bitty boobs. I think my chest makes my entire self look bigger than I am.
I wear maxi dresses because they are comfortable, but not going to lie, the above statement is reason # 2.
Also, I wish I didn't have to wear a bra. I couldn't even get away with one pre-pregnancy. Not that my boobs were huge (C), but I've gone through fluctuations due to weight loss (from a D in high school to a full A in college) and they're not the perkiest things on the planet.
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When H and I moved in together, he had a sizable porn magazine collection (leftover from his old roommate--uh huh:) ). Over the last few years I've been throwing them out.....and using that drawer space to store the romance novels I'm too embarrassed to keep on the bookshelves in the living room.
Lastly, its been so hot and my sex drive hasn't really been all that high, so we haven't been having much fun in the bedroom lately (plus I feel like a whale right now, not very sexy). But when I feel like getting it on, I wait for H to go to sleep or til he's out of the house and take care of business myself. I feel really really bad about this, because he's been so understanding, but the last thing I want right now is to be getting all hot(ter) and sweaty(ier). Bad wife
I understand where you are coming from, but it's definitely not my thought process. I am the complete opposite. On the rare occasions I get to go somewhere alone I have caught myself about to get DD2 out of the carseat and then remembering that she isn't with me. And that's when I'm dead tired after they go to bed. Of course, I also stop at green lights when I'm really exhausted.
Mo 11/4/14
Wait, What?!? - EDD 11/1/19
My FFFC--I hate when people want to post something not board related and use the abbreviation NPR. NPR stands for National Public Radio; NBR stands for "not board related". Unless this is some inside joke that I missed.
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Nope. I think that's the first time I posted something "NBR" and I thought it was an abbreviation for Not Pregnancy Related. I even just checked the abbreviations and now I feel like a dork. Woops!
My fffc after the judgment thread: DS is drinking Hawaiian punch as we speak out of a sippy cup!