@vrj0522 - we would pair up and you would notify your labor buddy of when you go into labor and they keep us updated...saves you from posting and getting a lot of tags and is also a way to bond with another bumpie (at least it was with my DD). It is easier to update one person than keeping up on the board since mobile is such a PITA for most of us.
I also love how some of the other BMBs have a pinned post for birth announcements. I love lurking the July 14 board (which I was a member of for a few short weeks) to see all the announcements in one place, and most of them then link to their own posts with the full details too.
I have been thinking of this on an off for a while, but I was never sure if it was too early to bring it up. I didn't participate in Mar12's labor buddies because I was late to the group and didn't really know anyone, but I would totally be down to join in this time!
@Emerald27 - I was thinking random but making sure due dates weren't the same. The only thing I'm thinking through (and would take insight on) is if an early/late date partner up, will the first one have time to update us on the second while adjusting to new baby? But it is something for the participant to consider I guess right!
I am in! Due October 1st but may go early due to GD. Will know more later down the road and after I have some growth scans to see how big this guy is. Today he feels huge and has been kicking just about all day!
I would love to. But with my EDD 11/11, I am not sure if this would wotk. I do also have GD so that may change the EDD also. Let me know if it would work.
I would love to. But with my EDD 11/11, I am not sure if this would wotk. I do also have GD so that may change the EDD also. Let me know if it would work.
I say join us! You never know what's going to happen
Oooh, I like this idea. Let's do it. But, like yeah. I'd almost say make it random, but make first-of-the-monthers pair up with end-of-the-monthers, but that screws up us middle-of-the-monthers. Although I'm certain I'll have this baby in September, so there's that.
I want to say count me in, but I worry that since my due date is so early compared to everyone else's, I'll be too tired/busy with baby to be a good buddy. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.
I'm down! But how do you notify your buddy and keep them posted? PMs or something?
From my (limited) experience, LB can send PMs to each other and decide what they want to do. I had a friend on my Jan13 board that ended up exchanging email/FB info (still FB friends apparently), and eventually phone #'s so that they could text. Not saying that everyone has to do that (Stranger Danger!), but that's what they chose to do.
I'm down! But how do you notify your buddy and keep them posted? PMs or something?
Totally depends on your comfort level, but I think at least at first, you and LB communicate via PMs. When you go into labor, you can tell your LB and send her updates as you can, and she'll post about it on the BMB.
I think id be interested but I'd be afraid no one would pick me. Lol
I don't think it'll work that way. Everyone who is interested will go on a spreadsheet and the pairs will be made randomly (except that OP will probably try to pair up people who aren't due the same week).
Yuo...what Emerald said. I will do the pairings so no one is the last one chose. I will bump this post for about a week then do the spreadsheet. As new people want in I will pair them up.
Re: Labor Buddies?
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
Is it random or do you pair moms with early due dates with ones later in the month?
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
Me: 34 DH: 34
TTC since Jan '13
BFP#1 - EDD 3/24/14 - d&c 7w5d
BFP#2 - EDD 6/14/14 - cp 4w2d
BFP#3 - EDD 10/28/14 - It's a BOY!!! - Born 10/26/14
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Married 10/06
Baby Girl "C" arrived on 10/07/14 (39 weeks, 6 days)