The ones I had (I assume they all are) were machine or hand-washable.
They went into a soaking bucket with detergent then got washed in the sink (obviously with the poop dropped into the toilet beforehand! There was a little scooper-thing in the box with them for that purpose and they can be used with disposable liners)
It's not ideal but it was totally possible and meant being able to wash as much as I had time for whenever I needed it instead of having to wait for a full load of laundry every time
I know it wouldn't work for everyone but its something
Just to add to the cloth diapering talk. You can buy flour sack towels at Walmart or places for super freaking cheap to use as cloth diapers and a few covers. Saw it on my Cloth Diaper group.
Disposable diapering problem solved, if it's too expensive.
Just to add to the cloth diapering talk. You can buy flour sack towels at Walmart or places for super freaking cheap to use as cloth diapers and a few covers. Saw it on my Cloth Diaper group.
Disposable diapering problem solved, if it's too expensive.
Not sure what this catfish thing is...I am familiar with the actual fish...but that is it. Not sure on the food pantry, I will look into it when I get up tomorrow morning, provided I sleep...if not, I will do it sometime in the wee hours of the morning. I don't really have anyone to talk to, I have been a rather solitary person my entire life, if you choose not to believe me, that is your prerogative. If you believe that this is MUD, that is your prerogative...I hope you never have to go through stuff like this. However, I am looking into a few avenues to cut expenses, like going to the library and job searching there, working on getting food stamps, so on and so forth...I am not asking any of you for help. Just let me write out what I need to to get things off my chest as I really don't have anyone to talk to. It helps just to write it out so I don't bottle it up. Feel free to ignore the thread or a post or whatever...it just helps to write things out. If that is a crime on this board, please point it out in the TOS and I will find another avenue to write things out.
What about asking your parents for assistance? You mentioned that you stayed with them for a while after your first divorce. Is it possible for you and DH to move in with them to save money on rent? Or at the very least stay at their house during the day instead of the public library if you turn off your electric during the day? Are they unwilling to help you about a bit with food so you are not living exclusively on ramen? It just seems to me that your circumstances at this point are very dire and I know that if I was in those same sorts of circumstances, my mother would insist on helping me, whether I asked her or not.
Goodness. I was buying diapers, not booze and drugs. You do what you have to.
Honestly, this just makes me sad. I've read stories where people will scrape off poop and re-use diapers just because they can't afford them - or forgo food so they can buy them. Whenever there's good deals going on at Target or wherever I try to pick up an extra pack to donate to social services because I know it's usually harder to get assistance for diapers than food.
Yes, I agree that is sad. I am in no way putting down someone who legitimately needs help with diapers; but there is one thing I would like to point out about this particular situation. I said it before and I will say it again: WIC is a supplemental program. It is not meant to be fully supportive. In other words, you don't get enough formula to fully feed your baby each month. If she were truly in as bad of a situation as she says she was, then she would have needed that formula just as bad as she needed the diapers. So why commit WIC fraud when you can get diapers elsewhere and you need the liquid/powder gold just as much? I know it's not as easy to get diaper assistance, but why return the formula if you truly need it? I can find much better deals on diapers (via sales and coupons) than I can on formula. You don't get extra to have enough to return!
Not to mention, every can of formula returned is wasted because it can't be resold. There are much better ways that this could have been handled had the story been 100% legitimate. I think she was so caught up in trying to make Hoshi look bad that she exaggerated her own circumstances in attempt to make Hoshi look worse. That's why I don't believe it and I am calling her out on committing WIC fraud. WIC regulations are the same for every state. The amounts are all the same, but the brands, etc may vary from state to state. So I know that what I got for my formula-fed son is the same amount that she got.
While in theory her "trading formula for diapers" doesn't sound all that bad, her story has holes in it. From the outside looking in, I honestly wouldn't think it was that big of a deal either to trade formula for diapers. I would probably feel bad for her, just like you stated. Like she said, she was doing what was necessary to provide for her baby. But if you truly understand how WIC works, you know that something's not adding up with her story.
I just saw this now. I was breastfeeding, but signed up for the formula plan because I didn't know how long I'd be able to do it. I started having supply issues at 2 weeks pp, but was able to increase it over time and breastfed until 6 months. At that time, I moved back with my mom and got a job, and was able to leave government assistance completely.
Just to add to the cloth diapering talk. You can buy flour sack towels at Walmart or places for super freaking cheap to use as cloth diapers and a few covers. Saw it on my Cloth Diaper group.
Disposable diapering problem solved, if it's too expensive.
This is genius
I started my job in November of 2011, and bought cloth diapers (WITH FLOUR SACK TOWEL INSERTS!!!!) the following month. I totally got the idea from a cloth diapering forum as well. I sold all my cloth stuff when DD turned 2, but we're cloth diapering with this baby too.
Just to add to the cloth diapering talk. You can buy flour sack towels at Walmart or places for super freaking cheap to use as cloth diapers and a few covers. Saw it on my Cloth Diaper group.
Disposable diapering problem solved, if it's too expensive.
This is genius
I started my job in November of 2011, and bought cloth diapers (WITH FLOUR SACK TOWEL INSERTS!!!!) the following month. I totally got the idea from a cloth diapering forum as well. I sold all my cloth stuff when DD turned 2, but we're cloth diapering with this baby too.
I am shockingly on baby #5 <---- crazy right... and I never know when I'm in labor (besides my water breaking, losing my plug, or bleeding heavily)... Whew.. I feel better now
I am shockingly on baby #5 <---- crazy right... and I never know when I'm in labor (besides my water breaking, losing my plug, or bleeding heavily)... Whew.. I feel better now
Thank you! I am feeling crazy. Cramps, BH, etc. but totally unsure about whether anything is really happening, and feeling like I should know because I've done this before.
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I loooooove my flour sack towels!
So relieved that I am not in this ALONE!!
With my first the only thing that would come to me was the Oscar Meyer Weiner song:) You do what you can:)