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Katieryan13 · June 2014

Is your husband not worried about money? I know that you mentioned that he had been hurt by past relationships but your money problems are affecting his wife and soon to be child. Will he let you look at his bank statements?

Mamanorris81 · June 2014

I totally missed what's going on?! Can someone link me? My bump app is being weird today.

cuntasaurusrex · June 2014

Oh wow. I just have so much appreciation for the turn this has taken. Even DH is enthralled.

baxterdreamer · June 2014

aliletz said:
Oh wow. I just have so much appreciation for the turn this has taken. Even DH is enthralled.

I second this!

AMcLaws · June 2014

I can give her a whole box of ramen. I hate the stuff. Don't know why it's in my pantry.

chevronseven · June 2014

cookieinva said:
Hmmmm...you haven't come up with a contingency plan for your own pregnancy in the past ~8 months, yet your creditors should have one?

Yeah...hate to tell you this but it's really not their problem nor their responsibility to accommodate personal circumstances of any kind. Bills will still come. They don't care or even need to know that you're pregnant and going on maternity leave. They are a business, not a charity. Their purpose is to make money. They lent you money that you promised to pay back with interest, and if something happens that prevents you from doing so then they will do what they have to do to get their money back. I imagine you know all of this, and I actually can understand the sentiment of "call as many times as you want, if I don't have the money I don't have the money," but that particular comment about contingency plans just doesn't sit well with me.

BoraBoraBaby · June 2014

Twat the hell. Exactly what does a creditor say when they contact you on an account that is current? "You are -15 days late and you need to do nothing! Expect 10 calls a day until you pay next month's minimum payment!!" Seriously!?!!

Hoshikitsune · June 2014

Just hitting the board for a few minutes before bed:

@shanicenicolle Still not sure on sriracha, but now that you have spelled out Percocet…I have heard of that. That’s where they said they were sending me…and I spoke to a rather persistent customer service agent.

@Csltdk: Doing nothing..hardly. I will be job hunting…pretty sure they have computers.

@cookieinva: I don’t really think you can plan on being terminated for one visit to the ER, then not have a job for 3.5 months, then have one for 3 months, then not get paid come June and expect to have money. My plan was to work until the day I went into labor from the get go, if I had not been terminated for the ER visit I would have qualified for FMLA with the first position and 3 weeks paid maternity leave, and I would have been able to fend for 3 weeks given that the next job that I took in March paid a good 3-4 dollars less and I took it because I knew I needed income and they were the only ones offering a position when I was 5 months pregnant.

@Katieryan13: I don’t know…some days he seems to and other days he seems to not. I have never asked about his bank statements since our finances are separate.

@livelaughtlove88: It isn’t that I don’t want to pay…I do because I borrowed the money. But I am asking for them to work with me so they do get paid and they don’t want to.

@boraborababy: I am not current for June and I called them to see what I could do so that they will get paid eventually in a couple of months.

Jbosarge85 · June 2014

I've worked collections for two credit card companies and I'm calling B.S. A delinquent account isn't sent to collections till it is 30 days late no matter if you call. Collection calls canbe put on hold if you are able to give a date you can pay but you wouldn't get calls till it shows up at least 30 days past due. unless you have a history of paying every other month or missing multiple months at a time, you are then considered high risk and they call earlier.

zellatrix · June 2014

I really have nothing to say other than: girl, you know it is okay to not share every bit of your business on a public forum, right? I mean, seriously, you can keep some stuff to yourself.

kwh33ls · June 2014

zarkarella said:

I really have nothing to say other than: girl, you know it is okay to not share every bit of your business on a public forum, right? I mean, seriously, you can keep some stuff to yourself.

This. But I think this is a weird Munchausen's thing. Any attention, no matter how negative, is her goal. We've done a good job of giving it to her, so she just keeps coming back...every week, it's with a new, more terrible thing than the last. Exhausting.

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Emilyfae · June 2014

My ex used to sit online for hours on a message board and pull the same shit this girl does. He wouldn't get mad at the snarky responses, he's laugh and bask in the attention. Everyone hated him and he loved it. After a few years of the message board being his only form of socialization, I realized we would never work because I wasn't as important as his strange obsession. Whenever I think of this girl, I image my ex sitting in his dark apartment wrapped in an old blanket wearing the glasses that magnify his already buggy eyes and the same pajamas as yesterday. Refresh, refresh, refresh, oh goody someone mentioned me!!!!

mrscurlygurl · June 2014

Emilyfae said:

My ex used to sit online for hours on a message board and pull the same shit this girl does. He wouldn't get mad at the snarky responses, he's laugh and bask in the attention. Everyone hated him and he loved it. After a few years of the message board being his only form of socialization, I realized we would never work because I wasn't as important as his strange obsession. Whenever I think of this girl, I image my ex sitting in his dark apartment wrapped in an old blanket wearing the glasses that magnify his already buggy eyes and the same pajamas as yesterday. Refresh, refresh, refresh, oh goody someone mentioned me!!!!

Maybe she is your ex!

Hoshikitsune · June 2014

I have found a way to technically still post and you guys don't have to hear a thing or respond ever...obviously this is something you want since you guys believe this is MUD. I can edit a long ago post in some obscure thread now and it will not bring the thread to the surface. I will continue to get my feelings out and my frustrations and you will no longer be bothered. Have a good day.

Big+Lil · June 2014

Until people view your post history...but that's what you want!

mrscurlygurl · June 2014

Hoshikitsune said:

I have found a way to technically still post and you guys don't have to hear a thing or respond ever...obviously this is something you want since you guys believe this is MUD. I can edit a long ago post in some obscure thread now and it will not bring the thread to the surface. I will continue to get my feelings out and my frustrations and you will no longer be bothered. Have a good day.

What is the point of that? Why not just start a blog or use an online journal? Part of the problem with you is that you offer nothing in return for all your bitching. While you never snark back at anyone, you don't really take advice either. And you certainly never offer advice or encouragement for anyone else (though I'm not sure what advice you could give anyone...).

TallMomma29 · June 2014

Hoshikitsune said:
I have found a way to technically still post and you guys don't have to hear a thing or respond ever...obviously this is something you want since you guys believe this is MUD. I can edit a long ago post in some obscure thread now and it will not bring the thread to the surface. I will continue to get my feelings out and my frustrations and you will no longer be bothered. Have a good day.

Ok I have completely missed this crazy train, but .... What?!

You want to "get your feelings and frustrations out" so you are randomly going to edit an old thread that won't pull up so nobody will see it? You realize you don't have to post at all on a public online forum, right? I know it's old school but there are these tools called pen and paper that you can write with, and these beings called humans that you can talk to in real life.

If any of what you are saying is actually true, you need to find a real life person to talk to to help you get your shit together. And I don't mean that to be snarky. Airing all of your dirty laundry and excuses in an online forum isn't going to help you at all. Nobody here can help you, and the attention you're getting here isn't going to help you either. You need to get off the internet, honey. This is clearly a big part of your problem.

likeanoldtimemovie · June 2014

My donation.

You could even use it at the library!

mrscurlygurl · June 2014

bahaha...your voice unlocks your secrets!

Csltdk · June 2014

@likeanoldtimemovie‌ hahahaha OMG that made my morning! I'm still giggling

Emilyfae · June 2014

@mrscurlygurl‌ she's definitely my ex. I broke up with him and married one of his friends a year later. He didn't take it well. Now he's stalking me on thebump. I really wouldn't put it past him. He'd love this board.

SuperTinkerham · June 2014

I really hope for the sake of your kid you can get it together.

abundancenow · June 2014

In all honesty Hoshikitsune, I've tried to be supportive to you in the past, but the last 24 hours has taken a very odd turn. I still cannot decide if you are being genuine or are trolling, but regardless I don't think it's healthy.
If you are being genuine, it would probably be best to stop detailing your struggles online, even if its anonymous, it is not the behavior of a person who would be stable enough to maintain a professional job that pays well, and that seems to be a goal for you. While it may seem like its important to have a team of family and friends support you emotionally, true self reliance and personal responsibility are strengths that cannot be taken from us once developed.
I know plenty of people who have risen above and beyond the sad stories you have shared, and if being honest, you can move past your financial and emotional problems, but explaining in detail here is not a step towards that.

darkangel42 · June 2014

Couple of things:

How can you be married and know nothing about your partner's finances? I find it bizarre. Not necessarily knowing everything but you should at least know something if you're married and procreating.

What's stopping you getting a blog? You can make it private OR public, however you want to play it.

Also, I don't like sriracha sauce. Sorry guys, it's awful.

purpleXdandelion · June 2014

Summerlovin314 said:

darkangel42 said:

::snip::

Also, I don't like sriracha sauce. Sorry guys, it's awful.

I have nothing helpful to add to the thread except this to the bolded:

Sriracha sauce and mac and cheese FTW. You have not lived until you've had it.

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Ohhh I'll have to try that! I like sriracha sauce, but don't put it on much. On the other hand, Franks Red Hot goes on EVERYTHING....

nicole336 · June 2014

Hoshikitsune said:

Just hitting the board for a few minutes before bed:

@shanicenicolle Still not sure on sriracha, but now that you have spelled out Percocet…I have heard of that. That’s where they said they were sending me…and I spoke to a rather persistent customer service agent.

This made me literally laugh out loud. I wonder what happens when you "get sent to percocet"

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AMcLaws · June 2014

nicole33647 said:

Hoshikitsune said:

Just hitting the board for a few minutes before bed:

@shanicenicolle Still
not sure on sriracha, but now that you have spelled out Percocet…I have heard
of that. That’s where they said they
were sending me…and I spoke to a rather persistent customer service agent.

This made me literally laugh out loud. I wonder what happens when you "get sent to percocet"

)

I become REALLY happy and overly nice when I'm "sent to Percocet" hahaha!!

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