I'll tell close friends and family after a heartbeat, the rest of the world sometime in second tri. I was also young and healthy and had a MC last November (not trying to scare you, I'm just saying that I wasn't expecting it either).
BFP #1 10/5/13 MMC 11/13/13 D&C 11/15/13
BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d Please be our RAINBOW!
I have told 2 close friends and that's it. Understandably DH wanted to be there when we tell family and he has been out of town since our BFP. He'll be back by father's day and we have our first appointment that week, assuming it goes well we'll tell family then, friends the next week and facebook at 13 weeks.
As others have said, it's a personal decision. Some people tell early and others choose to wait. With DD, I had a threatened m/c at 5-6 weeks so we told our parents as we needed support. With this pregnancy, I've told my 2 close co-workers (because of work restrictions) and my Dec 12 moms group. We are waiting to tell family til after HB is confirmed, which will be June 18, hopefully!
We have told our parents, siblings, and a few close friends. I've had a loss before so by telling a few people early I've had good vibes and prayers sent our way which helps keep up our positivity. I'm trying my hardest not not go full public until 13 weeks, but I think it's going to be tough to keep it in that long, so we have decided just to go with the flow. Plus my husband has a big mouth, so it'll be extra hard keeping him from telling. It is all really just up to you,
We've already told family and our closest friends. My husband wants to tell the world right after our first OB appointment which is at 8 weeks. I'd rather wait another couple weeks before publicly announcing. He's probably going to win that debate, though.
We're telling more and more people each week, but we haven't made it FB official yet. Probably in the next week or two, but we haven't decided on a set date yet. We've had our first appt so we aren't really waiting for that, I think we're just waiting til I'm a little farther along.
Re: Has anyone announced publicly yet?
BFP #1: 4/2/12 -- DD born 12/15/12. BFP #2: 4/1/14 -- CP. BFP #3: 4/28/14 -- EDD 1/10/15
Jan 15 NOV siggy challenge:
It is all really just up to you,