DS is home today because he's sick, but DH called daycare to ask about DS' allegations of mean kids at school. The teacher said, yes, they are having big issues in that room, with one kid (one DS named) in particular. She said she thinks DS must be too shy to mention that this kid is hitting him to the teachers, but other kids have had issues with him too. She said DS is one of the youngest in the class and already shy and sensitive so could be a bigger target plus is keeping his feelings in. Also that some kids will only remember that they don't want to be at school when they get there, but DS seems to be opposite-dreading school at home but eventually having an ok time once he's been there a bit.
The end game is basically the kid will be moving up to a different room in a few weeks. But, my heart is kind of breaking at DS being sad/picked on/dreading daycare for several weeks or more. I know there's not much that can be done. They said they're working on this kid's behavior, and I believe them. I'm just sad I guess.
Sorry for the TL; DR
DS is 1DAF
"I realize I say the word fuck a lot, and I'd like to apologize but I don't give a shit." -Lewis Black
Re: Kind of update/vent/sads re: DS
They'll eventually be in the same class for awhile again.
Can you talk to them about moving the kid early? It may not be possible though.