OP, you mentioned that you HAVE to make mistakes to learn from them. I can understand where you're coming from, but you should also know this isn't 100% true. It's totally acceptable to learn from somebody else's mistakes. I've learned from other people's mistakes and they've learned from mine. Please don't think that you have to do everything under the sun so that you can learn what's right and wrong for you. I hope everything works out for you and your LO.
June Siggy Challenge: Dad Fails
Married 7.28.2012 DD born 7.27.2014 BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
Hope it all works out for you. While you're in a position I was very, very careful to never put myself in, I commend you for wanting to do the right thing for your baby. I have a very dear friend who was in a similar situation and her eldest child that she had as a teenager is now a teenager herself. She's a great mom who also grew up in a difficult family life.
I hope you have a good support network, because that will be the most important thing for your and your baby's well-being. (And to echo all the rest, get that paternity test. You and your child need to know their medical history!)
Ok- well this is nothing short of interesting. Here's what I'm guessing you were looking for with this post..... I am due on July 31st. I know for sure my conception date was November 6th. With your due date almost 3 weeks before me.... This would make your likely conception around October 19th. So chances don't lean one way or another. It's a toss up. That's even assuming you had a 'normal' mid-cycle ovulation.... Which many women do not, esp after coming off of birth control. There's no way to speculate. Sorry. It does sound like you made a mindless 19 yr old mistake. I know some one from college who got pregnant at 18 after changing her mind mid-way through and the guy didn't finish. She was a level headed sweet girl.... With an adorable baby to show for it. You'll need to grow up fast... But it can be done!
I also conceived Oct 13 and my due date is July 9th so chances are its your boyfriends...but seek counseling. You are a mom now and your child doesn't need to grow up in drama. Pick one. Good luck.
god, you guys are so rude. beacuse i'm sure none ofyou slept around when you were kids or have had more than 50+ partners. hell, i have and i'v ehad just about every VD under the sun (except gonnoreha, because THAT is gross)but so longas you LEARN from your missteaks and come out on the other side better for it, that's all that really matters.
OP, i hope it works out for you. im glad you were honest w/your X and i hope that even if its not his that he or ur ex will stand up for you, and if not, better find another man to take care of your behbeh before its to late!
PS what did you think of norplant???
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LOL
I love that this says edited for spelling. What did you fix exactly?
'to late' it drive me CRAZY when people use the wrong two to too!!!!!
Re: Conception Question.
https://www.dnacenter.com/mobile/paternity-prenatal.html
No wonder so many people go on Maury, paternity tests cost a lot more than I thought!
DD born 7.27.2014
BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
This just made my night