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  • mommy2Cmommy2C member
    AmandaR204 said:


    mommy2C said:

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    WhoCanItBeNow said:


    AmandaR204 said:

    Sadly, I actually did need some support and comfort, two days ago, and I got three pages worth, and I'm not even a frequent poster.

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    And how would you have felt if the first 4 reactions to your thread were to tell you to get the fuck over it and that you weren't allowed to post here? 

    That's what you are supporting. Good for you. Hypocrite.





    I would have wondered what I said that offended people so much, and maybe read a little more about the group of people I'm seeking comfort from.

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    Wow...you are a piece of work. The OP didn't say anything that would offend anyone other than a bunch of self absorbed women who didn't need to click on the damn thread if they didn't have the balls to look past their own issues and help someone else with their pain. The title clearly states what the thread was about...if you can't handled it then pass it by. Don't click on it as an opportunity to make someone else feel like shit by using your own tragedies to diminish what they are going through. If you are really too stupid to get this concept then I would avoid any and all social situations.






    You're right, they didn't need to read the thread but they did, no one told her to get the fuck over it, they said how her post made them feel, was it right, no they could have ignored it but they said how they felt. Just like op said how she felt. You're going to get a lot of different opinions on these boards and ppl who feel differently than you, it happens, not everyone likes what everyone has to say. Idk what kind of lala candy land you're living in.

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    Um...yeah...that is kind of the point. You ARE going to get a lot of opinions on these boards but why purposely open a thread that will trigger you? How much fucking sense does that make. The OP didn't necessarily need people to AGREE but she sure as hell could have used some empathy and a little less of the "this is a community" clique behavior and shaming bullshit.

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  • AmandaR204AmandaR204 member
    DarcyHermione said:

    AmandaR204 said:
    I just went over to ttgp and saw some of the same posters in this thread tell a woman to go away and stop being ridiculous when she asked if her faint line was noticeable......umm pot meet kettle, hello. Lol someone even said...um who are you, you never post here go away. They said stop rubbing your pee stick in faces of women trying to get pregnant, you know like the pain Olympics. They actually drove that girl to tears...the hypocrisy is so awesome.
    Actually not the same thing at all.

    Then maybe you need a lesson in empathy, gavel/ done you're all hypocrites, go yell at a newly pregnant girl.
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  • JSS1002JSS1002 member
    edited May 2014
    Yes, asking for help dealing with serious emotional and financial distress while pregnant is exactly the same as being too stupid to read a pregnancy test without the internet. Unbelievable. 

    amanda - at this point you may be fighting just to make a point, but you are coming more and more like a terrible insensitive person the more you dig in and try to win.


    Different scenario, same principle. If you don't like the question or post, move along silently or respectfully. Oops, I did it again.
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  • AmandaR204AmandaR204 member
    edited May 2014
    But....it said clearly in the topic what the content of her thread was about, why didn't you all who would be offended...not click. Save us some time. All your rebuttals, can be met with a counter somewhere in this thread...it's the same thing, don't try to act like it's not. I'm not responding anymore, I think my point is clear as day to anyone with a brain.
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  • HeyStVincentHeyStVincent member
    I dunno...maybe I am lacking in my gray matter.  What do you all think? ;)

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  • kami09kami09 member
    I'm just sitting over here like...who are all these people?
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  • kami09kami09 member
    lmao I was WAITING for that. & congratulations- many people know you on an INTERNET FORUM. Must be the highlight of your life.
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  • AmandaR204AmandaR204 member
    Please go back to tearing up twinmommy, we don't need your hypocrisy anymore, we've had plenty.
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  • PurrBoxPurrBox member
    I'm not reading 8 pages of this. I've read the first page, and all I can say is: OP, sorry your dealing with all of this stress at once. Even though pregnancy is an amazing thing, it's also very stressful. Couple that with losing your job and marriage on the rocks and you've got a mighty big plate full. If you can find the financial means to do so, I echo others who recommend talking with a professional. At least discuss this with your doctor.

    Also, I don't agree with people flipping out over the fact that OP stated that she wasn't excited about her ultrasound. Yes, there are lots of women who have, unfortunately, experienced losses. That doesn't mean that OP shouldn't come here for a little support if she's feeling really down. Sometimes people need a place to vent. Venting about frustrations, stress, and sadness regarding pregnancy does not cause or prevent losses, so give OP a break.
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