I announced my BFP in the 2WW thread about a week ago. I asked to hang around until I had beta's confirmed because this wasn't the first time I've been through this. I had beta's drawn a few days after that and they only showed 20. I took a HPT at home and it was stark white negative on Mon.
An hour later I went in for betas and an hour after I got home I began to bleed pretty heavily. Beta's came back today at 5. Guess this just wasn't our month either.
If some of you ladies who have unfortunately been through multiple losses can help me make sure I cover all my bases that would be awesome. My OB does want me to come in and have repeat loss testing done. Is there anything I should ask specifically? My LP's are fine, I don't seem to have any spotting...not sure why this keeps happening (obviously, or I'd fix it). No genetic histories on either side. DH is a smoker and I am a former smoker if that matters, quit awhile ago.
After my CP in Jan he didn't make us TTA at all, but after my MMC we TTA for 3 months per his orders. They ruled this as a blighted ovum, even though it seemed a lot like a chemical pregnancy to me. Only difference was in Jan I took one test that was barely positive, by that night it was negative and I was bleeding. This time I took a test at 9 dpo, got BFP's that were getting darker until 14 dpo. No test 15 dpo, 16 dpo was stark white. So I was thinking it was another chemical?
Thanks for all your help ladies. I've been MIA for a bit because this one hit me really, really hard and I needed some time. DH hasn't been very helpful, I don't think he knows what to say and he just wants to pretend it never happened and move on to the next month. Which is fine, but I need a minute. I'm so glad I have you ladies here to talk to. After a few losses people run out of things to say. The whole, "It will happen..." starts to seem like, "eh, maybe it won't, what should I say now?" Thanks again
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Edited because I didn't proofread. I'm sorry! Words are hard and stuff.
BFP#1 6/2013: MMC 8/2013 @ 6 wks, 3 d
BFP#2 1/2014: CP 1/2014 @ 3 wks, 4 d
BFP#3 4/2014: MC 4/2014 @ 4 wks, 1 d
Break until Dec 2014
Femara, aspirin and progesterone started 12/2015
Still working on #2!
Re: I'm back...even though I never officially left (loss mentioned)
DS born Oct. '11
TTC #2 with PCOS since Nov. '13
Dx: Low Progesterone (3.3) on 8/12/14
Waiting for RE appointment on 10/28/14
Surprise BFP on cycle 12 -- 10/19/14!
EDD July 1, 2015
BFP: 6/4/14 EDD: 2/11/15
There's a pretty good sticky at the top of the TTCAL board that has a lot of info on RPL testing. What we're doing right now is running a karyotpe on both H and I, my doc also ran a A1c, APAs, TSH, and Prolactin. Clotting factors are also something I've heard people have done. We're also going to do the CD3 and the 7DPO testing this month, the 7DPO will be able to tell us more about my progesterone levels, which might be an issue for my losses. My doc is also going ahead and running a SA for H.
Since in my case my doctor now think there's something up with my tubes, so I'll be having a HSG in the next couple of months.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
What Are Your Thoughts on Tap Dancing Penguins?
BFP #1 12/02/11, M/C 12/08/11
BFP #2 04/06/12, DD born 12/20/12
BFP #3 06/09/14, M/C 06/15/14
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
TTC#1 since May 2012. Low AMH, High FSH.
Factor II (Prothrombin) Mutation
TTGP Award Best PIP 2013 & 2014
My Chart
"Meet me in St. Louis"
I've always heard a CP is a miscarriage before a heartbeat, but I'm not positive. I honestly hate the term cp, it makes it sound like it's not real. Good luck on the testing hopefully they can figure something out. Take care of yourself.