Hi, I'm Angela and I'm new here. Had my second u/s today at 9 weeks of my 1st pregnancy and found out the baby hadn't grown since the 1st u/s at 6 weeks. Strangely, no symptoms of miscarriage had started, in fact had several positive symptoms all along - morning sickness, bloating, breast changes. My doc said this was a good sign for the future along with us only having tried for 2 months to get pregnant.
I'm having a D&C Monday or Tuesday so I can put it behind me. I've been finding comfort in talking to friends and relatives who have gone thru losses as well and am blown away by how common this is. I'm hoping to find some more comfort here. I keep reminding myself that my fiancée and I will get through this and have our family soon enough.
Me:40 DH:42
Married 8/2/14
TTC since 12/2013
BFP #1: 3/22/2014 EDD 11/27/14; MMC/D&C 4/28/14
BFP #2 : 11/27/2014 EDD 8/7/2015, MMC diagnosis 1/5/15, NMC 1/7/15...loss due to Trisomy 3
I am so sorry for your loss. I recently posted my experience with D&C, if you're interested. *hugs*
Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010 08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN , 10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN 04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d 05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN 03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C 4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies 7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS. 9/20/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d 10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN 2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d 3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15 6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen 2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN 3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
I'm so sorry for your loss. I too had great ultrasounds up until 2 days before my loss at 10 weeks 5 days. It is such a cruel turn. I am really happy to hear that you have a supportive doctor and family and friends. You also have you wedding to look forward to! It's a hard road but try to things one day at a time. Sending warm thoughts
Me (34); DH (35)
BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)
Is investigating why the embryo didn't develop a road any of you took? My doc mentioned we could have testing done on the tissue after the D&C but she also said it wasn't necessary. This was my 1st pregnancy and 1st miscarriage and I had genetic testing done last year with an all clear. I feel like if we were to test, it would just make it harder and I would feel more at fault. Advice?
Me:40 DH:42
Married 8/2/14
TTC since 12/2013
BFP #1: 3/22/2014 EDD 11/27/14; MMC/D&C 4/28/14
BFP #2 : 11/27/2014 EDD 8/7/2015, MMC diagnosis 1/5/15, NMC 1/7/15...loss due to Trisomy 3
I too had a missed miscarriage. My doctor said that they won't do any type of testing on the first loss but if it had been offered I definitely would have done it. I'm so sorry for your loss.
TTC #1: February 1, 2014 BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 (my birthday!) MMC:discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
In sorry for your loss. We had testing done. I'm in the camp "more knowledge is power". It is a personal decision and I'm sure you will make the choice that is best for you.
I too had a miscarriage and it was a blighted ovum which was silent and I still had pregnancy symptoms. This was about four weeks ago and I am now feeling confident in trying again. I have a d&c this week because my body couldn't pass it. I'm so sorry for your loss. Private message me if you have questions on blighted ovens. Hugs!!!!!!
BFP#1 EDD 04.20.2010, SUNSHINE baby boy born 03.31.2010 BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015
Re: Shock at the doctor today
08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN ,
10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
9/20/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d
10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
It's a hard road but try to things one day at a time. Sending warm thoughts
Me (34); DH (35)
BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)
BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!
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TTC #1: February 1, 2014
BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 (my birthday!) MMC: discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
TTC #1 (Round 2): May 16, 2014
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"Everybody wants to be happy. Nobody wants to feel pain but you can't have a rainbow without the rain."
" May your hands always be busy
May your feet always be swift
May you have a strong foundation
When the winds of changes shift
May your heart always be joyful
May your song always be sung
And may you stay forever young "
Me 35, DH 37
DX with PCOS in early 20's. IF d/t PCOS, anovulation, endometriosis, Dermoid cyst in/on Left ovary
TTC for 3 years. (2/2011), Last 16 months (2/2013) with chemical ART; Lap HSG with D&C 11/2012, Repeat HSG 2/2013
Clomid, Follisim, HCG Triggers, Progesterone, Metformin
IUI x2 = BFN
3/16/14 IUI #3 BFP!
3/28/14 BFP!!!!!!!, EDD 12/6/14, Nonviable pregnancy 4/9/14, 5w4d; CP natural mc at 7w6d
4/25/14 Bye bye little one
BFP#1 EDD 04.20.2010, SUNSHINE baby boy born 03.31.2010
BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015
jan'15 january siggy challenge: baby fails