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46 days later...

KingLEDKingLED member
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And I finally got a negative HPT!

Wednesdays bloodwork, which I was hoping would come back negative, came back at 44. This morning I took a test and it was actually negative, finally! I am so exhausted with how long this has all dragged out. I don't know what I was thinking turning down the D&C when it started. Hopefully things can start to physically get back to normal so I can have any chance of maybe emotionally dealing with this a little better.

Now back to being totally overwhelmed as I try to get rid of everything I own!



**For those of you that don't know I'm moving from IN to OR at the end of the month.**
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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    gabbagalgabbagal member
    Great news! I'm so glad you can finally close this chapter and focus on the emotional healing (and your move)!
    Me: 41, DH: 42, married 2009
    BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C)
    BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)
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    LisaG09LisaG09 member
    I'm happy for you and I hope this news helps you heal emotionally.

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    longcat07longcat07 member
    awesome!  *happydance*
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    nohalo21nohalo21 member
    Yay! I hope this helps you find peace and that you can focus on your move.
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    sergeantb44sergeantb44 member
    I give you tons of credit, I would have been a disaster waiting for it to be over.. I was nuts just waiting for AF to return the first month.


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    stephy1221stephy1221 member
    Yay!! Glad for some good news.
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    barelybarely member
    Glad you're on your way to some emotional healing (hugs)
    TTC since 5/13
    BFP 1/23 
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    Desertrose27Desertrose27 member
    I'm so glad to hear this news, but sorry it had to drag on as long as it did.  At least now you can move on emotionally.
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    GR8TDANEMOMGR8TDANEMOM member
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    We can celebrate together, I just stopped bleeding and got a negative test after 5 weeks! I hope you can begin to move on physically and emotionally!

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    KingLEDKingLED member
    GR8TDANEMOM said:
    Ticker and siggy warning We can celebrate together, I just stopped bleeding and got a negative test after 5 weeks! I hope you can begin to move on physically and emotionally!
    So glad it's finally over for you, too!
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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    MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    That is wonderful news. I'm just starting my wait, so will hopefully be joining you in hpt negative-ness in not too long!
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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    Layfi002 said:
    That's good news! I was actually about to post a question about how long some of you are going without a neg hpt... It will be 3 weeks tomorrow since I did the cytotec and last night I got a pretty clear positive hpt still. I really thought it would be pretty faint by now if not neg. I also haven't been temping or anything since the loss, but I had a pretty significant pinching pain in my right side that always happens around O. Does anyone know if you can even O while still having Hcg in your system??
    It's possible, but pretty rare. And only with pretty low levels. As for how long it takes, it really depends on how high your levels were when you miscarried.
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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    KingLEDKingLED member
    Layfi002 said:

    So I started back temping a few nights ago and got solid crosshairs for O on the 23rd; however, as of yesterday I am still getting a positive hpt. It's faint, but not too faint. I can see it walking into the bathroom. Thoughts, opinions??

    Unfortunately the only thing to do is keep temping and wait to see if it's right. Good luck.
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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