A friend mentioned to me last night that her co-worker could "finally drink last night" after something like 6 weeks of breastfeeding after birth. What are your thoughts/what have you learned about "when to drink" post birth if planning to BF? I'm not talking 1 or 2 glasses of just wine here either...
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I did pump while I was gone (manual pump in the bar bathroom, winning) but that was only to relieve engorgement and maintain my supply. There's no need to "pump and dump" alcohol out of your milk... your body cleans your milk of alcohol the same way it processes it out of your blood.
That said, it's a big PIA and I didn't do much "heavy" drinking until I quit BFing at 6 months.
With DD I was told 1-2 drinks were fine, so I stuck with that. I also tried to time my drinks with food drink lots of water..
@njbabymama the idea of pumping and dumping makes me cry lol! As a working mom you work very hard to build that freezer stash and to have to poor the gold down the sink is SO sad
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Honestly, breast feeding is only maybe a year out of your life, it was never a big deal for me to cut down on the big drinking during that period. I have the rest of my life to get wasted when I am not responsible for the care of a baby.
I def don't feel the need to put my fun aside for a whole year while I am BF as long as the baby is properly taken care of.
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I just want to re-emphasize what PP's have said....
You do not need to "pump and dump" to get alcohol out of your breast milk.
While alcohol is still in your bloodstream, it is in your milk. Once it is out of your blood, it is out of your milk REGARDLESS of whether or not you pump/feed.
People that "pump and dump" do it to relieve the engorgement that might happen or to stick with their typical "schedule" so that they don't have supply problems later.
Just pump before you start drinking, so LO has food for the time between margarita #3 and sobriety. Once you are sober enough to blow into a breathalyzer at a traffic stop without any problems, you're good to feed again.
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Not reading the other responses yet but here are a couple of my thoughts.
1. I will be drinking dark beer occasionally. It helped with my milk supply, a lot actually, and is one of the things they recommend for that very reason. I was an EPer and would sometimes have half a dark beer right after pumping so that I'd have a few hours in between the beer and when I pumped again.
2. Milk doesn't retain alcohol from what I was told by the lactation consultants. So a lot of people go by the rule "if you're not feeling any effects from the alcohol then your milk is safe." If I had the slightest doubt I still chose to pump and dump.
Thanks for the clarification!
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Based on what the lactation consultant at my practice, my current midwife, my former OB and La Leche league says....that is 100% false. I'd be very wary of what that particular consultant told you, also anyone who tells you to disregard what any doctor or nurse says.
From La Leche League's web site:
Do I have to pump and dump after drinking an alcoholic beverage?
As alcohol leaves the bloodstream, it leaves the breastmilk. Since alcohol is not "trapped" in breastmilk (it returns to the bloodstream as mother's blood alcohol level declines), pumping and dumping will not remove it. Pumping and dumping, drinking a lot of water, resting, or drinking coffee will not speed up the rate of the elimination of alcohol from your body.
https://www.lalecheleague.org/faq/alcohol.html
This is from the mayo clinic's website:
"Pumping and dumping breast milk doesn't speed the elimination of alcohol from your body. However, if you'll be missing a breast-feeding session, pumping and dumping will help you maintain your milk supply and avoid engorgement. "
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living/infant-and-toddler-health/expert-answers/breast-feeding-and-alcohol/faq-20057985
A lost of this is very inaccurate. To say "don't listen to anything your doctor or hospital nurses tell you" when it comes to breast feeding is far reaching and could do more harm than good. When I had DD every single nurse I had in delivery and recover was a certified LC, not that this is the norm, but it is becoming more common. I would say maybe confirm with an LC what you are told by your doctor and nurses would be a better way to put it. You do not need to pump and dump after one glass of wine. That is ridiculous. And to wait three hours to feed your baby after having any alcohol is only good advice if that is how long it is taking for the alcohol to leave your system.
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Edit because I used the wrong form of "here" and the grammar Nazi inside of me is having a fit about it.
Yes to the bolded. This is what I've been told by multiple lactation consultants and by my doctor and the pediatrician too. The alcohol won't hit your milk fast enough for baby to get any, and then you have the maximum amount of time to metabolize it before your next feeding.
ETA: All of the conversations I've had on the subject were in regards to drinking a beer or two (or wine, cocktails, etc) not slamming shots or guzzling multiple drinks in a short time.
Edit: And, no, the nurses at the hospital I'm delivering at are NOT LCs. They have LCs on staff, but you have to request to meet with one if you choose and they'll send someone right to you.
CDK211 The not pumping the first month has to do with creating the proper milk supply. She said if you get engorged, which we all probably will, it's fine to manually expel milk in the shower or something to get relief, but we shouldn't be pumping at that point. Baby should be dictating the feeding schedule so that you body learns what baby actually needs, and from there on you should be creating the right amount of milk and can then start pumping and introducing a bottle if you want. If you're feeding and pumping, you're body is going to start over producing milk. Maybe this doesn't actually happen, but I think it makes a ton of sense. So that's where that came from.
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i worked closely with Lactation consultants and was told that 1-2 glasses of wine in between feedings was fine and didn't merit a pump and dump. I used that as my rule of thumb and my kiddo survived.
I also pumped before 4 weeks. I gave a pacifier before that time as well and succesfully went on to BF for 12 months.
So, take the advice, work with a LC, but know you can be succesful if you don't follw the "rules" to a T
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