@Cambury108, I think I've said everything that was said to you on the fffc thread before. It didn't seem to hurt your feelings then. Why would you let it get to you now?
You didn't hurt my feelings Cash, I like you. I love your baby she makes me smile. I thought we got along well. I went out to dinner with my G/F because I felt shitty and needed to talk IRL to someone. My husband ended up feeding my kids and himself. Then after I had dinner I went to the grocery store and I just got home and am now trying to catch up. As far as I am concerned me and you are fine as always.
@Cambury108 I hope you feel ok. Don't let anyone's negative opinion of you get you down. You are a sweet person. Continue to be yourself. Who fucking cares about that stupid petty bullshit. Don't ever give anyone the power to bring you down. ESPECIALLY people who really don't know you. now perk up and smile! On to the next one...
Don't get me started on acceptable slang around here! People need their mouths washed out regularly, but flip out over the word "preggo" because it's infantile. I was taught that swearing like a sailor was evidence of low IQ, and the older I get, the more I think my parents were right. Never heard that about preggo.
I agree with most of this besides the IQ thing. I've heard people that swear a lot are more truthful... I like to believe that!
Gosh I hope so, I cuss IRL like a sailor and its bad, I need intervention.
O/T - this isn't about Change but it made me think of it - if you saw a bumpie post a pic of their LO in their car seat and they were improperly secured, would you say something?
It depends on the bumpie... Do they like you? . Yes. You should tell them.
O/T - this isn't about Change but it made me think of it - if you saw a bumpie post a pic of their LO in their car seat and they were improperly secured, would you say something?
I would. Speaking of which, it's about time to move our straps up . I'd personally want to know.
Hey ladies. I know I've been missing SB all day. Between working, napping, spending time with FI and DS (which we needed) and all the complete bullshit on the board today I've been just... Away.
@Cambury108 I was actually going to PM you but I don't want you to think I'm ashamed of my opinion so I'm putting it here. I think you are one of the most caring people this side of he century. Yeah you write a lot but so do I. Yeah you don't know your vs. you're but neither...ok wait I totally know the difference but it has never stopped me from reading your posts or appreciating what you say. You are so supportive and that's why I nominated you cheerleader. Don't change for anyone. EVAR.
@hercules03 I just love you. You are my bump crush.
@Risalyn222 You have the cutest kids I've ever seen in my whole life. Including my own. I'm sorry if you ever felt skipped over but I want you to know that even after I went on a few month Bump hiatus I remembered your adorable pic of Mason because how could I not?
@rfred20 I am sorry you get piled on. I might not agree with everything you say but I get it. You def do get attacked sometimes and the degree to which people gang up on you is unwarranted. Although I do think people would voice their opinions regardless I don't think they'd do it in the same way necessarily.
@Cashingn2 Really nothing must be said. Your kid is freaking adorable. Serious. I have so much respect for you.
@Yezbick9 I usually agree with 95% of what you say....60% of the time it works 100% of the time. I like you.
I am spent. If others have been involved in the nonsense that didn't mention that care, I'm sorry. For those who don't care, I'm jealous because I tried not to care. But as stupid and hated as this SB thread was it really did develop relationships and I don't understand how anybody can look down on that.
Hey ladies. I know I've been missing SB all day. Between working, napping, spending time with FI and DS (which we needed) and all the complete bullshit on the board today I've been just... Away.
@Cambury108 I was actually going to PM you but I don't want you to think I'm ashamed of my opinion so I'm putting it here. I think you are one of the most caring people this side of he century. Yeah you write a lot but so do I. Yeah you don't know your vs. you're but neither...ok wait I totally know the difference but it has never stopped me from reading your posts or appreciating what you say. You are so supportive and that's why I nominated you cheerleader. Don't change for anyone. EVAR.
@hercules03 I just love you. You are my bump crush.
@Risalyn222 You have the cutest kids I've ever seen in my whole life. Including my own. I'm sorry if you ever felt skipped over but I want you to know that even after I went on a few month Bump hiatus I remembered your adorable pic of Mason because how could I not?
@rfred20 I am sorry you get piled on. I might not agree with everything you say but I get it. You def do get attacked sometimes and the degree to which people gang up on you is unwarranted. Although I do think people would voice their opinions regardless I don't think they'd do it in the same way necessarily.
@Cashingn2 Really nothing must be said. Your kid is freaking adorable. Serious. I have so much respect for you.
@Yezbick9 I usually agree with 95% of what you say....60% of the time it works 100% of the time. I like you.
I am spent. If others have been involved in the nonsense that didn't mention that care, I'm sorry. For those who don't care, I'm jealous because I tried not to care. But as stupid and hated as this SB thread was it really did develop relationships and I don't understand how anybody can look down on that.
:::drops mic:::
Love You! Your so sweet. I wouldn't think your ashamed if you would have PM'd me. I actually came home to quite a few and they were sweet. I totally understand why people wouldn't want to put their feelings or opinion of me out in the open, I get it. No hate from me. But thank you!!!
I will be the Co-Captain of the cheer squad for as long as SB lives!!!!!
I won't change for anyone. I am me and you can either take me or leave me.
I have never in my life heard of people not liking someone for the reasons I was given.
I asked for people to share their opinions of me because I was sick of the innuendos that they didn't like me. I would rather be stabbed in my chest with an arrow then be stabbed in the back.
Now I know, Knowledge is a good thing. But it does not mean I will change.
The only thing I am pretty sure of is if we keep posting here there will be an uprising soon because its going to piss people off.
It was none of you ladies.... But yeah someone posted and the straps were pretty obviously above baby's shoulders. It is just such a hard topic to bring up without the mom taking offense. I only want to say something because I care. If I didn't care, I would be like let yo kid ride on the bumper. Lol.
There were a few times Amalia rode like that, straps too high, because I didnt know any better. Not anymore those suckers are below her shoulders now.
does this go for ALL car seat models? A friend who had a baby 3 weeks after me has moved her straps up and told me I should change mine too. I assumed she was right since the straps are below her shoulders, they come up and over........... now clearly I am questioning this. (I havent changed them yet, simply because I don't know how and haven'r read the manual yet) Time to research I suppose.
I just want to AW my oldest DD, She is SO pretty. I love her. She is growing into a great young lady..even when I want to rip out my hair because of her "drama"
I just want to AW my oldest DD, She is SO pretty. I love her. She is growing into a great young lady..even when I want to rip out my hair because of her "drama"
I normally can't stop talking and tonight I can't think of a single thing to say..........I don't know what to do with myself. Nothing I start to type feels "right". I have started and stopped about 6x now. I think I have a huge case of the sads.
Re: Super baby??
Someone should explain this better.
Yes. You should tell them.
Did you get the invitations finished?
A friend who had a baby 3 weeks after me has moved her straps up and told me I should change mine too. I assumed she was right since the straps are below her shoulders, they come up and over........... now clearly I am questioning this. (I havent changed them yet, simply because I don't know how and haven'r read the manual yet)
Time to research I suppose.