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My OB said not to get the TDAP shot...

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edited March 2014 in May 2014 Moms
...and I am trying to figure out why. I've asked twice, and both times he said it was just "not recommended during pregnancy" and told me I could get the shot after delivery. The CDC recommends it during pregnancy, and the America College of Obstretrics and Gynecology, as well as the American Academy of Pediatrics, both appear to go by the CDC schedule. So I'm just trying to figure out who exactly "doesn't recommend TDAP" during pregnancy and/or if any women didn't get TDAP? It seems to me an overwhelming majority of women on this board received or will receive a TDAP shot during pregnancy, so I'm confused about this.
To add to the strange advice my OB is dishing out these days, he also seemed very hesitant to write me a prescription for a breast pump. He claimed that was just something I could sort out at the hospital (where he does not have privileges). I know that most women wait until later in the game to get their pumps due to the time frame on the warranty; however, my insurance takes approx two weeks to ship the pump to me once the prescription is processed, and I don't think it's logical to wait until two weeks PP for a pump in case LO has latch issues. I don't know if this is his way of trying push me toward EBF and away from pumping?
I know I'm not the one with a medical degree, but his recommendations seem awfully backwards to me. I'm not sure if I should try to change OBs this late in the game (I have been less than impressed by his bedside manner, but that is an entirely different story). Has anyone had her OB give similar advice?
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  • My doctor hasn't even mentioned it. 
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  • Does seem a little odd. My OB told me they'd give me the tdap in the hospital if I couldn't get in somewhere beforehand but that it's preferred right now to get it during third tri.
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  • Mine didn't mention the shot until I brought it up but said I could go ahead and get it.  Also, when I asked about ordering the pump he seemed to think I shouldn't order it beforehand (with my insurance I can only put in the order 30 days in advance anyways).
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    The TDaP shot hasn't come up for me at any of my appointments and honestly, I keep forgetting to ask about it. I did get a booster in Aug 2012 when my then-GP heard we were starting ttc so I've been going back and forth about it.

    In any case, did you happen to ask your OB while you were there why he was saying those things? He'd be the best person to tell you what his issue is. It could be as simple as the fact that he doesn't believe it's useful for passing immunity on to the baby or he could be a quack (which it kind of sounds like he is anyway).
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  • The TDaP shot hasn't come up for me at any of my appointments and honestly, I keep forgetting to ask about it. I did get a booster in Aug 2012 when my then-GP heard we were starting ttc so I've been going back and forth about it.

    In any case, did you happen to ask your OB while you were there why he was saying those things? He'd be the best person to tell you what his issue is. It could be as simple as the fact that he doesn't believe it's useful for passing immunity on to the baby or he could be a quack (which it kind of sounds like he is anyway).

    Yes, I asked "why don't I get the TDAP shot now" and his reply was a curt "they don't recommend it until after delivery" though he never specified who "they" were... I should have pressed for more info but he had already tabled the issue twice, and I guess I just wasn't feeling confrontational this morning. :/ but yah, I'm feeling like he's on the qwack end of the spectrum, or at the very least not up to date on information (he looks to be in his late 60s and strikes me as very traditionalist)
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  • No mention of the Tdap here. 
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  • I also got my shot at 28 weeks, my OB brought it up and said it helps pass immunity onto the baby. We have a large case of pertussis in my area, not sure if that has anything to do with her bringing it up or not.
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  • jennish11 said:
    For the vaccine, I'd take print outs from the CDC and ACOG websites showing the recommendation and use it to discuss with your OB.  Let him know you are very concerned that they recommend it during pregnancy yet he is not going by these guidelines. 

    For the pump, I am waiting until after the baby is born, but my hospital has a "baby boutique" that sell pumps and they can help get the right one for your needs.  I'm a FTM, but I've heard from many mothers that it can sometimes be best to wait until after the baby is born so you know, if any, what feeding issues are present - different pumps can help in different ways.

    Check with your hospital to see if they have a place you can get a pump quickly after baby is born.
    Even if not, most hospitals have a supply available for rent if needed.

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    In the end, if you do not feel comfortable with your OB, you can always switch - it seems late, but I switched at 32 weeks to a midwife and love my decision - they are much more in tune with my preferences and I'm much less stressed.

    I get the logic with waiting to see what pump might be best, but my insurance only offers two different models of pumps (double electric). So I'm wondering then If it matters? My reason for wanting the pump in advance is financial - insurance provides a pump for free, as opposed to buying or renting a pump at the hospital. Good to hear of a successful switch this far along!
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  • Seems odd to me, as well. My midwife practice gave me the T-Dap the same time I got my Rhogam shot, at about 28 weeks. Do you have any particular conditions that would raise concern for your OB if you got the shot now? Is there another OB in the practice you can speak with about it?

    The CDC says it's fine to get between 27 and 36 weeks of pregnancy, so if it's something you'd like and you don't have any conditions that would make it an issue, it might be worth calling up one of your pharmacy to see if they'll administer the shot.

    No conditions, thus adding to my confusion. :/
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  • I was also told that getting tdap during pregnancy can help pass the immunity on to the baby. I got mine around 28 weeks at the suggestion of the OB.
    No advice on the pump, I went right through insurance for mine.
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  • I talked to my OB about it last week at my appointment but he didn't seem too concerned about it.
  • My first OB was not crazy about the DTAP or TDAP or whatever in pregnancy either even though it goes against the CDC.

    There has been a study or studies suggesting that it lessens the effect of the first vaccine in infants (i.e. the one they get after birth), but the studies are still preliminary.  I asked my new OB about it and she had not read the studies but said she would get back with me.  I will still probably get one in pregnancy even though I have had one already just 18 months ago because it is thought to pass some immunity on to the child in the first few months before they get their vaccine. 

    If you don't get it in pregnancy, get it right afterwards and make sure that the primary caregivers of the child have had the vaccine. 
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  • I asked my OB about the Tdap booster - he said I was fine to get it anytime past 28 weeks and I could also get it at the hospital before being released as well. DH got it this past weekend & I'm getting it this weekend. I would definitely ask more questions like "Why don't you recommend it if CDC and ACOG do recommend it?". 

    As far as the pump goes, I'd ask him to write a prescription again. Maybe explain (aka put the blame on your insurance) for needing it sooner rather than later if you don't feel comfortable being confrontational. 

    Sorry you have to deal with that OP. 
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  • I got the Tdap at 31 weeks at my MW suggestion and DH got his and the flu shot when I was around 24 weeks (for free no less). I can order my pump through my insurance at 36 weeks for mail-delivery or go into a local insurance-approved hospital "breast boutique" if I want to get it in person but I can't go in until 38 weeks. OP your Dr. sounds a little outdated and like he's not addressing your concerns.
  • As for the pump issue, is there any chance he is worried if you get it ahead of time that you may use it?  I know there is some concern that breast stimulation can cause PTL.  Personally, I plan to use one ahead of time (if I can get my pump back from my brother and SIL) if I go over my due date because I am trying for a vbac and need to go before 41 weeks.

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  • mary97 said:
    The OB I saw on friday gave me my shot, said I needed to get one during the 3rd trimester.  Are there any other doctor's in that practice you can see?  If so, I'd try to switch.

    Since my DH doesn't have a doctor, I called around some of the drug stores that have in-store clinics.  I found one that will do them for less than $50.  


    Nope, just him :/ this is my first time dealing with the OB portion of his practice. When I only saw him once a year for a Pap smear and birth control it wasn't concerning to me that he was the only OBGYN, but now it is pretty regrettable.
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  • mary97 said:
    The OB I saw on friday gave me my shot, said I needed to get one during the 3rd trimester.  Are there any other doctor's in that practice you can see?  If so, I'd try to switch.

    Since my DH doesn't have a doctor, I called around some of the drug stores that have in-store clinics.  I found one that will do them for less than $50.  


    Nope, just him :/ this is my first time dealing with the OB portion of his practice. When I only saw him once a year for a Pap smear and birth control it wasn't concerning to me that he was the only OBGYN, but now it is pretty regrettable.
    Wait...what? You just now are seeing an OB for the first time in your pregnancy????
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  • I received the TDap at 28 weeks in my OB's office. They also gave it to my husband at the same time. It seems to be routine down here in South Florida.

    As for the breast pump, the medical supplier is handling getting the script from my OB. Maybe you could try that route?
  • Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.
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  • Mimaloo said:
    My doctor hasn't even mentioned it. 
    Until I started hanging around here I have never heard of having to get this shot or that my family and friends that will see LO should get one.  My OB and now my MW never mentioned it to me and the pediatrician that I lined up for LO never mentioned it either. 
  • I was asked whether or not I had gotten my TDAP shot at about 3 different appointments by the nurse as well as my Dr. At this last appointment, they finally gave it to me, but it was obvious that they wanted me to get it. (My husband too)

    Also, I know how you feel about being hesitant to change doctors so late. I had the same debate with mine. I finally decided to change this past week, and I'm so happy I did! Like my husband kept telling me - it's YOUR body, YOUR birth, so YOU should be comfortable. And the doctor might be happy to have one less patient! :)

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  • The fact that you're just starting to see the OB now concerns me immensely. Was this your choice, your PCP's choice, or the OB's choice to start direct OB care this late in the game? If it was anyone but you deciding this, you need to find a new practice.

    And how can he deliver your baby if he doesn't have privileges at the hospital? I don't get that.

    My OB's office strongly recommends the tdap, as well as the flu shot for pregnant women. I was OOT when I found out I was pg, and the OB office I went to at that time provided the flu shot. I was either late 1Tri or early 2Tri when I got the flu shot. I did have to see a PCP for the tdap at home as my regular OB's practice is small (one doctor and one nurse midwife), so they don't keep those things in stock. NBD, PCP concurred and I got that one last week. NMW did say that if I couldn't or didn't get the tdap before going in to labor, that I could get it when I was at the hospital, but that it was recommended to get it any time after 27 weeks (or so, I forget now what week she said), and it was the office's preference that I get it before labor, no need to wait.

    You have questions that your OB is not answering. You have to decide what you need from a doctor, and go out and find the doctor that will provide that. The day my doctor refuses to discuss my health care with me at length is the last time I will see that doctor. That is non-negotiable for me. You wouldn't be the first person to change practitioners late in the game. I would do so immediately.




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  • Mine mentioned it at last weeks appt and said I needed it before 36 weeks.
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  • As far as the pump, the lactation consultant that taught the breastfeeding portion of my childbirth class gave out cards for a medical supply company. She said to call them directly and not go through the insurance company, that the supply company would be able to tell what your insurance covers and deal with that part (not sure about needing a prescription, that wasn't mentioned). Maybe that is an option for you?
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    Do you have a history of PTL? I can't get the TDAp this pregnancy because it has a small possible side effect of causing contractions, which could exacerbate into induced labor in someone with a propensity for preterm delivery. Instead I'll get mine at delivery.
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  • I got mine at 28 weeks. The OB brought it up and recommended getting it to pass some immunity to the baby. They wouldn't give DH his. My midwife said "I don't do boys... Not in that way" and we both had a good laugh.
  • Maybe op is in canada? Isn't it common for them to not see OB until near the end?
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  • IBackBevo said:
    mary97 said:
    The OB I saw on friday gave me my shot, said I needed to get one during the 3rd trimester.  Are there any other doctor's in that practice you can see?  If so, I'd try to switch.

    Since my DH doesn't have a doctor, I called around some of the drug stores that have in-store clinics.  I found one that will do them for less than $50.  


    Nope, just him :/ this is my first time dealing with the OB portion of his practice. When I only saw him once a year for a Pap smear and birth control it wasn't concerning to me that he was the only OBGYN, but now it is pretty regrettable.
    Wait...what? You just now are seeing an OB for the first time in your pregnancy????

    No, bad wording on my part. When I mean is I only used to previously see him as my gynecologist (for Pap smears and what not) as I am a FTM - I didn't learn much about him or his medical philosophy as an OB (if that makes sense).
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  • MrsT2008 said:
    Maybe op is in canada? Isn't it common for them to not see OB until near the end?
    It could be a provincial practice thing? I have seen my OB since confirming my pregnancy and I am in Alberta. I only know what typically happens in AB & the NWT based on experience.
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  • Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    He's not. He has privileges at another hospital further away with a level I NICU. When I first starting researching into the hospital and talking to him about it he basically stated that it would be unlikely that he would be doing the delivery - his reasoning being he is the only OBGYN in his practice and due to availability he is typically only present for his high risk patients (there is nothing high risk about me). So I figured if a doctor I didn't know was going to do the delivery I might as well deliver closer to my home at a hospital with a level iii nicu (as opposed to the level I). Complicated, right?
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  • MrsT2008 said:
    Maybe op is in canada? Isn't it common for them to not see OB until near the end?

    I'm in Florida.
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  • Soupy84 said:
    MrsT2008 said:
    Maybe op is in canada? Isn't it common for them to not see OB until near the end?
    It could be a provincial practice thing? I have seen my OB since confirming my pregnancy and I am in Alberta. I only know what typically happens in AB & the NWT based on experience.
    In Ontario, it's around 30 weeks, about when the biweekly appointments would start. That's assuming everything is proceeding normally. I've heard of some people getting in earlier than that, though, so it could be a regional thing here.
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  • Mine said after delivery as well. When I asked why, she said they'd just had a lot of pregnant women stress out about their arms getting all swollen and red and that she didn't feel there was a pressing reason to do it now vs right after delivery. I still kind of want to do it now, but I've trusted that she's not a quack since she's a ACOG Fellow and whatnot.
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  • I was tdap-ed at my last appointment (28/29 weeks).  The nurse mentioned it to me at 26/27 weeks, and I waited until the next appointment, so I could ask my midwife more about it.  Sounded like the way to go considering all the risks of pertussis for infants.

     

  • Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    He's not. He has privileges at another hospital further away with a level I NICU. When I first starting researching into the hospital and talking to him about it he basically stated that it would be unlikely that he would be doing the delivery - his reasoning being he is the only OBGYN in his practice and due to availability he is typically only present for his high risk patients (there is nothing high risk about me). So I figured if a doctor I didn't know was going to do the delivery I might as well deliver closer to my home at a hospital with a level iii nicu (as opposed to the level I). Complicated, right?
    That makes some sense to me. My OB's practice (he's a single practice too) is right across the street from the hospital I am choosing to deliver at. Depending on the day of the week that I go into labor, he may or may not be the one to deliver my baby. I based my choice of doctor on those who had delivery privileges at the hospital I wanted, but knew starting out that my OB had a 1/5 chance of being the doctor to actually do the delivery. I guess a person could chose their hospital and OB completely independently of eachother.
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  • Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    He's not. He has privileges at another hospital further away with a level I NICU. When I first starting researching into the hospital and talking to him about it he basically stated that it would be unlikely that he would be doing the delivery - his reasoning being he is the only OBGYN in his practice and due to availability he is typically only present for his high risk patients (there is nothing high risk about me). So I figured if a doctor I didn't know was going to do the delivery I might as well deliver closer to my home at a hospital with a level iii nicu (as opposed to the level I). Complicated, right?
    Then why don't you get a Ob that can deliver at your hospital. 
    You are going to walk in, and the staff will not have access to any of your medical records. It will be like you had no pre-natal care. 

    My practice said once the results of my GBS test were back they could just forward all of my records to the hospital (I went to the hospital and they said it wasn't an issue either). But I wonder if it will just be a headache :/
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  • Soupy84 said:
    Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    Did you say the OB doesn't have privileges at the hospital? How is he going to deliver the baby?
    Yes, that seems odd.

    He's not. He has privileges at another hospital further away with a level I NICU. When I first starting researching into the hospital and talking to him about it he basically stated that it would be unlikely that he would be doing the delivery - his reasoning being he is the only OBGYN in his practice and due to availability he is typically only present for his high risk patients (there is nothing high risk about me). So I figured if a doctor I didn't know was going to do the delivery I might as well deliver closer to my home at a hospital with a level iii nicu (as opposed to the level I). Complicated, right?
    That makes some sense to me. My OB's practice (he's a single practice too) is right across the street from the hospital I am choosing to deliver at. Depending on the day of the week that I go into labor, he may or may not be the one to deliver my baby. I based my choice of doctor on those who had delivery privileges at the hospital I wanted, but knew starting out that my OB had a 1/5 chance of being the doctor to actually do the delivery. I guess a person could chose their hospital and OB completely independently of eachother.

    Yah at first I worried it was crazy - I lurked around on TB a bit and a few women mentioned delivering somewhere independent of where their OB had privileges. Hopefully I'm not too nuts for trying.
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    I had only met with my OB once up until 30 weeks and I finally got fed up. Just went to a midwife last week at 31 weeks and I'm so glad I switched. If you are not comfortable, switch! As others said, he sounds like a quack.

    As for the TDaP, both my new MW and the CNPs I met with at my old practice recommended getting it but I guess every place is different.

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  • But if your Dr doesn't have privileges there, and if their office is closed, how will the hospital get them? 

    My files? They will forward them as soon as the GBS test results are back (I had it today so I imagine it can't be too long from now).
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