July 2013 Moms

Have you heard of this...?

I just got invited me to a  'gender party'  BUT she's not actually revealing the gender. She is just collecting bets on whether it's a boy or a girl.

And then keeping the money.

She says once she delivers she'll take half the money she got and divide it out and give it to the people who guessed the sex correctly. The other half is for baby things. I told her that she's insane, and she sent me a link to where she found it online.

WTF. I was just complaining about someone that specified that they wanted books instead of cards at their baby shower.. but this is on a whole other level. Have you guys heard of this before??
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  • Nope. That's weird. It's one thing to reveal the gender at a party like that but to take bets and make people give you money? Tacky.

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  • Lol nope. My immediate family always makes "bets" for every grandkid of my parents in the sense that we write down on a piece o paper the sex, birthday and weight we think the baby will be when they are born but we don'tactually bet money Its just for fun
    and we see who is closest
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  • Wow, super tacky. I would definitely not go and tell her why.
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  • Never! That is weird and a bit tacky, unless you invite only really really close friends.
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  • The kids in my 4-H club threw me a baby shower and took bets on date and gender. The winner got a bag of candy I believe. What she is doing is just so wrong.
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  • Nope. I've never heard of that. Tacky is a great way to describe it.
  • That is very weird. Never heard of it. :-/
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    So weird. And yes, they will be talking about her behind her back.
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  • No. Just no. That's awful.
  • etoille said:

    Dude. Duuiuuuuuuuuuuuuuude.

    I couldn't be friends with someone this tacky. Give me money to bet on the sex of oh im sorry gender of my kid...party?

    Wow. Just wow.

    Agreed. I'd very much distance myself from this person. And not attend their money grab.
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  • I am with everyone else this is tacking. Is she still having baby shower too?
    I was considering gender reveal party instead of baby shower just gathering of people and food etc. Since this is third baby for me but DH first his friends and family wanted to do something but I never expected gifts or money! I felt weird having anything since it is third baby and DH was deployed I politely declined but I don't understand why someone would do this.

     

  • That's a crazy idea! LOL

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    Exactly! Not only is this the tackiest but the math ensures that no one but the mother to be will win any money.
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  • I wouldn't go... And hopefully no one else does.
  • casey78 said:
    You did not disappoint, @somerandomchick‌. The shower etiquette stuff rarely gets me, but to takes it to a whole new level of wow.
    Exactly.  Normally I just don't really care what people want to do for their showers.  This is insanely classless!


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  • Wow... I can't even.
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  • That may be just about the tackiest thing I have ever heard! 
  • etoille said:
    Dh has some advice "sorry, have a date conflict. I have to shampoo my dog." (we dont have a dog)
    LOL!  DH doesn't want to go to my sisters wedding.  He forgot that he has to take our cat to a cat show that day.  

    He told me last night that another "good" excuse is, "Sorry, I have to dust my plants."  We have a couple plants inside and he decided to dust one last night.  
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  • Yuck.  How could your friend even begin to think this is a good idea?  Please stay home to feed your hamster or dust off your pants. 

  • That is so bad it is just funny.
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  • Haha, I love you guys so much.

    Yeah, I'm not going.

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  • I'm very lax about shower ettiquette and this is a hot mess.

     

  • They walk among us. No I haven't heard of this , but before today I hadn't heard of a "bridesmaid dress reveal party" either.

    Wtf.... what will be next.

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  • mrshudson618mrshudson618 member
    edited March 2014
    YOU GUYS. I just heard about something worse. So bad, I am hesitant to believe it is real. 
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  • 24karat24karat member
    edited March 2014
    Between this and the tacky "give me a better gift" poem linked on TTGP/BSB today, I fear for the future. SMH.

    For your entertainment:

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  • @mrshudson618 Holy shit, that is amazingly horrible.
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