January 2014 Moms

RIP: my fur baby (long)

Most of you know what was going on, but I feel like I should get out the full sorry here.
Last Saturday my dog started to drink a crazy amount of water and have accidents in the house. We took her to the vet who stated it was kidney disease and she could make it 2 months to 4 years on a special diet.
5 days later she just didn't want to eat the other food but you could tell she was starving and she started to get lethargic and not want to play, although still excited to go for walks.
We took her back to the vet who felt something wasn't adding up with her tests (we did a bunch of tests because although they diagnosed kidney disease they felt her symptoms just weren't right) and they sent us first to an internist and then a neurologist because they felt she had severe neck pain due to yelping and her left pupil was unreactive to light.
The neurologist said it was either encephalitis, meningitis, or a brain tumor. They wouldn't know without an MRI which for dogs costs 4000. We knew we also didn't want to put her through brain surgery or chemo or radiation so decided to treat it as if it was the inflammation (meningitis or encephalitis) and see how she responded.
The next day we were very hopeful because she got up without accidents and ate her breakfast. But an hour later she started having nystagmus (eye fluttering) and couldn't stand. We decided after a few hours to see if it improved or not and then make a decision. The hardest part was when I was up on the second floor with LO and indie was downstairs I heard her whining like she does when she outside trying to be let in. She was trying to get up and find us as DH ran a quick errand up the block and she kept just falling over. That was the toughest moment of the whole ordeal and I knew it was time.
This morning there was no improvement so I said my goodbyes and DH took her in. He is just as a mess as me and has to do the hardest part.
I've already packed up most of her things, I know it's bad to do out of sight out of mind, but I think the memories will be enough.
Thank you for everyone who sent their thoughts and prayers.
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  • I know how tough that decision can be, and how much it sucks. But try to.find some comfort in knowing you made the right choice for Indie, especially because she was having such a hard time and more tests would have brought her more discomfort. I'm sorry, @slmille4‌ . You're in my thoughts.
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  • I'm sorry to hear the news. I understand how tough to lose a furbaby and it falls on a special date.. my best friend of 14 years died on the day I had a cooking competition. I didn't get to say good bye because my grandpa had him. I dedicated my focus and cooking as a celebration of his life and I took home the gold. Even though it seems like bad timing, you should celebrate your life and her life today. I dont think Indie would want you to be sad on your special day. Lots of hugs to you.
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  • {{hugs}} I'm so sorry. It's so hard letting go of a fur baby- hope you can focus on the good memories you have of her today and take comfort in, though it doesn't seem like it right now, you made the right choice.


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  • My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. So sorry you had to make this decision, even if it was what you had to do. At least the pain will be over for her.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Pets are family members and it's so hard to let them go. ((hugs))
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  • You are so strong to make the best decision for Indie and not have her hurt anymore, I can't imagine.  She's so lucky to have had you two as her parents, its obvious you loved her so much.  I hope you can take some solace in the fact that she didn't suffer even though when it happens so fast, it can be harder on us because there's no time to really mentally prepare.


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    I got teary just reading this. I am so sorry ((hugs)) this has to be so hard on you even though you know it's best so he doesn't suffer. And it isn't bad to put his stuff away- you do whatever you need to as you grieve.


  • I am so sorry. Big hugs to you!
  • I'm very sorry for your loss. I've always taken comfort in the saying "brief is life but long is love." My thoughts are with you.
     
  • I am so sorry. Thoughts are with you.

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  • So sorry. Hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  • So sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.
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  • I am so sorry about your loss.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. Big hugs for you.
  • I'm sorry that you are going through this. I put my cat that I had for 16 years down a week and a half ago. I totally understand how you are feeling. Just know that he is in a better place and you made the right decision. Sending you big hugs!!! P.S: google "rainbow bridge" it's a poem that will make you cry, but also feel better!

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  • Putting a pet down is one of the hardest things to do in life. So sorry for your loss :( 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family.

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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your furbaby. Hugs to you.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.

     

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  • So very sorry of the loss of your pet. So very very heartbreaking as I have 2 dogs of my own. It isn't a easy decision to put a pet down. Thinking of u as u go through this tough time
  • So sorry! Lots of hugs to you!
  • I'm so sorry! It was such a humane thing of you to do though. ((Hugs))
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  • ::Huge hugs::

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  • Lots of hugs. Losing a fur baby is so, so hard. :'(
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  • So sorry for your loss :( Hugs!

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so, so sorry - losing a pet is so hard. :( Lots and lots of hugs. 
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  • I'm so, so sorry! :(
                                                                                                            

  • :'( gorgeous doggy! I'm so sorry for your loss
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  • I'm so sorry. :(
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  • I am so sorry to hear this. I know this must be incredibly hard for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • I'm so sorry - you made the right decision, but I know how sad it is regardless :( Thinking of you.

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your fur baby. :(

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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your sweet dog. Losing animals is so, so tough. Cherish the memories.
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  • Being a fur mom...I can imagine how hard it must have been. I'm so sorry

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  • I am so incredibly sorry. That must have been so hard. Big hugs!
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  • My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your loss.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Big hugs <3

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