Hey all, I have a brother in his late 30s (I'm late 20s) who is a self proclaimed narcissist. He loves messing with me and other family members for his own amusement. I think he's angry about stuff from our childhood, but he's unwilling to help himself or let others help. Ever since I got married and especially now that I'm pregnant, he's been acting even more angry and saying things like "I'm going to make your son smoke weed when he's 13" or "I'm going to be the cool uncle he can talk to about anything. I'm going to teach him how to "do" girls because he won't want to talk to you about that." He's also pretended to punch me and slap me in the belly multiple times and has come very close to actually striking me. I don't want my son to be around someone so aggressive and mean, and I certainly don't want my son to think it's awesome to be a pothead and drink as a teen (though he might on his own accord). It's also the Mom and Dad's place to tell their children about sex, not an unauthorized third person. My husband thinks I should write my brother off, but I'm wondering what you all think. If you need more background info, please feel free to ask. I just need a little help. Thanks!
Re: Advice on an Immature Uncle-To-Be
You have to stand up for what you feel is right. I've learned it the hard way throughout my now 4 year olds life. I'm not saying it's easy, frankly it will suck at times. But you need to do what is right for you and your LO.
DS #1 born January 2010. DS #2 due June 2014.
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