(This is a new subject so I am going to employ the enter key as I was advised to do in order to break up paragraphs) And theresat858what if I had had a double mastectomy? I guess that wouldn't matter. Anything is game here. I have no idea why there is a TOU (they like to refer to) or why there is a flagging system. I mean why have rules? Seriously? Just don't have any rules at all. Then the mods won't have do to all this work they aren't even doing.
Yes, because the phrase calm your tits can only and will only ever be used for people whose tits are actually going crazy.
Logic!
As for a need for a TOU, it's because there are worse offenses than saying fuck.
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
@K8D8 Whoa there, mama. Settle down. While I get what you are saying, you need to recognize that the people here have valid reasons for their reactions. It may piss you off right now, but they are keeping the insanity down in here. Shit gets weird around pregnant ladies. All those hormones! Maybe just realize that while some people got in a tiff, its NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Let it go. Its not a big deal.
Fine, agreed. Their reactions don't "piss me off," so much as put me off. Being new and coming in seeing yelling is not really very welcoming. I'm just making that observation. The second some people start getting pissy it puts other people on the defensive and none of us need the drama.
And we've officially talked around and around until the horse is thoroughly dead. So, yeah. New topic? LoL
(This is a new subject so I am going to employ the enter key as I was advised to do in order to break up paragraphs) And theresat858 what if I had had a double mastectomy? I guess that wouldn't matter. Anything is game here. I have no idea why there is a TOU (they like to refer to) or why there is a flagging system. I mean why have rules? Seriously? Just don't have any rules at all. Then the mods won't have do to all this work they aren't even doing.
If there was no TOU, then you and all your friends would be flagging left and right for no reason.
@K8D8 - You are right. There is no seniority here. Therefore, being new and not knowing the culture or rules of TB is not an excuse... nor our problem.
Me: 38 DH: 36 Married 8/27/2011 BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012 BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014 BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017 BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
@K8D8 Whoa there, mama. Settle down. While I get what you are saying, you need to recognize that the people here have valid reasons for their reactions. It may piss you off right now, but they are keeping the insanity down in here. Shit gets weird around pregnant ladies. All those hormones! Maybe just realize that while some people got in a tiff, its NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Let it go. Its not a big deal.
Fine, agreed. Their reactions don't "piss me off," so much as put me off. Being new and coming in seeing yelling is not really very welcoming. I'm just making that observation. The second some people start getting pissy it puts other people on the defensive and none of us need the drama.
And we've officially talked around and around until the horse is thoroughly dead. So, yeah. New topic? LoL
....And yet you were the one that came in yelling. Do you really not see the hypocrisy here?
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
@K8D8 Whoa there, mama. Settle down. While I get what you are saying, you need to recognize that the people here have valid reasons for their reactions. It may piss you off right now, but they are keeping the insanity down in here. Shit gets weird around pregnant ladies. All those hormones! Maybe just realize that while some people got in a tiff, its NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Let it go. Its not a big deal.
Fine, agreed. Their reactions don't "piss me off," so much as put me off. Being new and coming in seeing yelling is not really very welcoming. I'm just making that observation. The second some people start getting pissy it puts other people on the defensive and none of us need the drama.
And we've officially talked around and around until the horse is thoroughly dead. So, yeah. New topic? LoL
....And yet you were the one that came in yelling. Do you really not see the hypocrisy here?
Yelling in response to other yelling. Yelling using words which were not used to be inflammatory or used to belittle other people. If you'll notice, the one and only message I have "yelled" today is stop being rude to other people and treating them like they don't matter. Not exactly the most scandalous of perspectives.
We all have our own wildly differing standards, everybody just needs to calm down and be a little more considerate.
also @vrj0522 a hallmark of culture is that it reflects the values and traits of the collective and it evolves over time, so why would I come in here and suddenly alter myself so that I fit into your little collective? Seems more like a clique anyhow.
Fine, be that way. Not here to turn you. Not here to enlighten you.
You're the ones continuing the conversation back and forth with me. I got the impression you weren't sick of hearing it yet.
Your little "culture" is a joke. I sincerely hope you enjoy making yourselves feel superior to others by trolling them in forums. If I wanted this crap I'd read Yahoo news.
Back to using my APP for the app features. All I really care about in the end is the little peanut that brought me here anyhow. So enjoying making each other miserable.
Fine, be that way. Not here to turn you. Not here to enlighten you.
You're the ones continuing the conversation back and forth with me. I got the impression you weren't sick of hearing it yet.
Your little "culture" is a joke. I sincerely hope you enjoy making yourselves feel superior to others by trolling them in forums. If I wanted this crap I'd read Yahoo news.
Back to using my APP for the app features. All I really care about in the end is the little peanut that brought me here anyhow. So enjoying making each other miserable.
It's okay, honey. Have you tried taking a nap or getting a snack? Maybe a nice cup of tea?
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
....And yet you were the one that came in yelling. Do you really not see the hypocrisy here?
Yelling in response to other yelling. Yelling using words which were not used to be inflammatory or used to belittle other people. If you'll notice, the one and only message I have "yelled" today is stop being rude to other people and treating them like they don't matter. Not exactly the most scandalous of perspectives.
We all have our own wildly differing standards, everybody just needs to calm down and be a little more considerate.
also @vrj0522 a hallmark of culture is that it reflects the values and traits of the collective and it evolves over time, so why would I come in here and suddenly alter myself so that I fit into your little collective? Seems more like a clique anyhow.
OK, been quiet til this point... but everyone needs to chill out.
If someone posts a bloat post , who cares... move on....
If someone posts a nasty comment... who cares... move on....
Why the need to post nasty digs back and forth for 6 days... this is insane... we don't see 150+ posts when someone has a valid question or experiences a loss... SERIOUSLY NUTS....
This is TB not the playground after school to duke it out BC someone pulled you piggytail..
OK, been quiet til this point... but everyone needs to chill out.
If someone posts a bloat post , who cares... move on....
If someone posts a nasty comment... who cares... move on....
Why the need to post nasty digs back and forth for 6 days... this is insane... we don't see 150+ posts when someone has a valid question or experiences a loss... SERIOUSLY NUTS....
This is TB not the playground after school to duke it out BC someone pulled you piggytail..
Wait... I thought we successfully changed the topic to something much more important: Taco Bell Smothered Burritos. No more burrito talk? I'm outta here... B-)
PAIF/SAIF Welcome!
Me: 42, Hubby: 35, TTC since Jan 2010. Dx: DOR due to advanced maternal age.
Also: Hypothyroidism (100mcg Levothyroxin). Positive for MTHFR (hetero-C677T), Factor V Leiden, and Fragile X (on DH side). Taking pre-natal vitamins. First natural PG 9/27/11; mc: 1/20/12 First RE visit: 8/8/12, Saline Sonogram: 8/28/12, IVF injection class: 10/11/12, add FaBB Tab for FVL, +Vitamin D. IVF #1:
10/17/12 Baseline: FSH- 9.4, E2- 24, LH- 3.7, Prog- 0.3 The u/s
showed 6 follicles in my right & 9 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle &
150 Menopur SQ nightly. 10/21/12: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning.
ER 10/28/12: 13 Retreived. 7 Mature. 6 Fertilized. 5 Made it to PGS. ET
11/2/12: CANCELED. All 5 came back from PGS as having "severe
abnormalities." IVF #2:
1/7/13 Baseline: FSH- 8.8, 4 follicles in my right & 6 in my left.
Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 1/11/13: Add Ganirelix SQ every
morning. hCG Trigger 1/16/13
ER 1/18/13: 9 Retrieved. 5 Mature. 5 Fertilized. 2 Made it to PGS. ET 1/23/13:
CANCELED. All embryos (he even sent the ones not growing) came back from PGS as
having "multiple severe abnormalities." IVF #3: NEW RE! 3/1/13 Baseline: FSH- 9.6, E2- 61, Prog- 0.94, 3
follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle& 150
Menopur SQ in PM. 3/7/13: Add Ganirelix SQ in AM. hCG Trigger 3/9/13 SQ. ER 3/11/13: 6R, 2M, 2F. Day 3: one 8 cell, grade 0. Five day ET 3/16/13: one
early blast, grade Fair. 3/24/13 AF came a day before beta. BFN IVF #4:(Added acupuncture to this cycle.) 3/25/13 WTF & Baseline:
FSH-11.8, E2- 56, Prog- 0.84 3/26/13 Start stims. 3/30/13 u/s: 5
follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 225 Bravelle& 225
Menopur SQ in PM. 3/31/13 Add Ganirelix SQ in AM.hCG Trigger 4/3/13 SQ. ER 4/5/13: 5R, 3M, 3F naturally. Day 3: two 8 cell, grade 0, one 8 cell, grade 2
(Scale 0-best to 3-worst). Five day ET 4/10/13: two blastocysts (the 3rd
stopped growing.) Beta 4/18/13: 2.5 BFFN. RE recommends we stop trying and
focus on living childless, due to the extremely poor quality of my
eggs. ***Decided
to stop trying and live CFNBC. I couldn't adjust. So, six months later... IVF #5: Changed RE. Going to one of the big name clinics now.
OWDU: 10/29/13. Update: HORRIBLE experience. Disgusted and distraught at their complete unprofessionalism and how much money and precious time they cost us. Sickening. Have now changed RE again. New Patient appt. 1/30/14. BFP! Out of nowhere, I got KU the old fashioned way! POAS 1/26/14 - Positive! FDLM 12/30/13. Beta #1 16dpo= 373. Beta #2 18dpo= 801. EDD 10/6/14 2/4/14 1st U/S revealed a 5wk2day sac but no fetal pole. Started 200mgs of progesterone suppositories daily 2/11/14 2nd U/S revealed a perfect 6wk1day "diamond ring" embryo with a beating heart! 138bpm! Add 1mg folic acid and 40mg Lovenox 2/25/14 3rd U/S: perfect 8w1d embryo, 178bpm. 3/6 start spotting. 3/11 10w1d U/S shows no heartbeat. Scheduling D&C. The Stork has forsaken me again. IVF #5.2: New in-state RE. Supplement priming for 1.5 cycles prior to start of cycle, including DHEA 50mg (stopped 5/15), CoQ10 200mg 2x/day, L-Arginine- 1000mg 2x/day (stopped 6/5 due to cold sore!), myo-inositol- 2g 2x/day, melatonin- 3mg, and Neevo (prenatal for MTHFR). 5/16/14 Day 2 bw cycle prior: FSH- 12.22, E2- 38.37, Prog- 1.35, LH- 9.46. 6/2/14 Day 19 bw: Prog- 23 6/12/14 Baseline: E2- 122.7, Prog- 0.4. 5 follicles in left, 4 follicles in right. Start stims: 375IU Follistim & 150IU Menopur. 6/19 Increase Follistim to 425IU, Menopur still 150IU. 6/18 add Ganirelix. 6/23 Ovidrel trigger SQ. 6/25 ER: 8R, 8M, 5F naturally. Start Medrol & Doxy. 6/26 Start Endometrin. 7/2 Start Lovenox. 7/8/14 Beta= 137.4 BFP!!! (My first from IVF!) E2- 1109, Prog- >60. Stop CoQ10, myo-inositol, and melatonin. 7/9 2nd Beta= 281.4. TSH- 2.70. Increasing Synthroid to 100mcg daily. 7/24 6w3d u/s measured 6w3d, hb: 121bmp! 8/5 8w1d u/s measured 8w3d, hb: 164bpm! Graduated from RE to OB. Now I just need to find an OB! EDD 3/18/15!
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
GUISE! I don't like people having long conversations! Make it go away!!!!!1!!!11
If you don't like it here maybe YOU should go away!
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
Wait... I thought we successfully changed the topic to something much more important: Taco Bell Smothered Burritos. No more burrito talk? I'm outta here... B-)
GUISE! I don't like people having long conversations! Make it go away!!!!!1!!!11
If you don't like it here maybe YOU should go away!
No! I like how I think it should be here so you should either be moar like me or go away!
But my way of thinking is so much better than yours and I don't like the way you spell more. You should be like me and just grow up!
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
@K8D8 Whoa there, mama. Settle down. While I get what you are saying, you need to recognize that the people here have valid reasons for their reactions. It may piss you off right now, but they are keeping the insanity down in here. Shit gets weird around pregnant ladies. All those hormones! Maybe just realize that while some people got in a tiff, its NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Let it go.Its not a big deal.
Random.. but after reading this all I could think of... As for the rest of this thread, I'm just like
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
So happy I am home alone for this one. It took me until the text to figure out what was going on and then I loled irl! It just feels so wrong to laugh that!
So happy I am home alone for this one. It took me until the text to figure out what was going on and then I loled irl! It just feels so wrong to laugh that!
When I first saw it, I was thinking the same thing. Bwahahahahahaha
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
No one has the right to attack or try yo be hurtful though.
This seems to be a common misconception. Because actually, people DO have the right to say what they want, and other people have the right to be offended.
People often think that it is their right never to be offended, but that's not how it works I'm afraid.
Noob: 'I don't like what you have to say, you big meanie'
Regs: 'Cool, I guess. You don't have to stay here.'
Noob: 'I don't wanna, but you all need to know what horrible human beings you are'
Regs: 'Well aren't you just a peach.'
Noob: 'What the fuck did you call me? I'm a snowflake, not a peach, and you're a giant bitchy McTwatbitch, and you need to learn to be polite to people!'
Regs: 'Well you're the one name calling. Just another reminder that you're welcome to leave whenever'
Noob: 'I WILL NEVER LEAVE! Who else will frequently remind you of your atrocities to human kind? You're all fucking horrid fuckbags with unfortunate children, husbands and pets! I'm too grown up to be like you! Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa'
Regs: 'Lol. *insert hilarious gif here*'
Edited to fix an abundance of grammatical errors. Words is hard, yo.
^^ Though this thread has given me an exciting new chapter to read each morning with my coffee this is by far my fave post to date.
Words IS hard yo!!! True dat. )
Native NYC-ers living in Switzerland - First time parents - 36 + 37
Re: SOOOO BLOATED!!!
Logic!
As for a need for a TOU, it's because there are worse offenses than saying fuck.
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
It's okay, honey. Have you tried taking a nap or getting a snack? Maybe a nice cup of tea?
If someone posts a bloat post , who cares... move on....
If someone posts a nasty comment... who cares... move on....
Why the need to post nasty digs back and forth for 6 days... this is insane... we don't see 150+ posts when someone has a valid question or experiences a loss... SERIOUSLY NUTS....
This is TB not the playground after school to duke it out BC someone pulled you piggytail..
Lil Pumpkin Caffrey ~ 10/3/14
B-)
My BLOG: www.ivfbabyquest.wordpress.com -Update - old blog.
PAIF/SAIF Welcome!
Me: 42, Hubby: 35, TTC since Jan 2010. Dx: DOR due to advanced maternal age. Also: Hypothyroidism (100mcg Levothyroxin). Positive for MTHFR (hetero-C677T), Factor V Leiden, and Fragile X (on DH side). Taking pre-natal vitamins.
First natural PG 9/27/11; mc: 1/20/12
First RE visit: 8/8/12, Saline Sonogram: 8/28/12, IVF injection class: 10/11/12, add FaBB Tab for FVL, +Vitamin D.
IVF #1: 10/17/12 Baseline: FSH- 9.4, E2- 24, LH- 3.7, Prog- 0.3 The u/s showed 6 follicles in my right & 9 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 10/21/12: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning.
ER 10/28/12: 13 Retreived. 7 Mature. 6 Fertilized. 5 Made it to PGS. ET 11/2/12: CANCELED. All 5 came back from PGS as having "severe abnormalities."
IVF #2: 1/7/13 Baseline: FSH- 8.8, 4 follicles in my right & 6 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 1/11/13: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning. hCG Trigger 1/16/13
ER 1/18/13: 9 Retrieved. 5 Mature. 5 Fertilized. 2 Made it to PGS. ET 1/23/13: CANCELED. All embryos (he even sent the ones not growing) came back from PGS as having "multiple severe abnormalities."
IVF #3: NEW RE! 3/1/13 Baseline: FSH- 9.6, E2- 61, Prog- 0.94, 3 follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle& 150 Menopur SQ in PM. 3/7/13: Add Ganirelix SQ in AM. hCG Trigger 3/9/13 SQ.
ER 3/11/13: 6R, 2M, 2F. Day 3: one 8 cell, grade 0. Five day ET 3/16/13: one early blast, grade Fair. 3/24/13 AF came a day before beta. BFN
IVF #4: (Added acupuncture to this cycle.) 3/25/13 WTF & Baseline: FSH-11.8, E2- 56, Prog- 0.84 3/26/13 Start stims. 3/30/13 u/s: 5 follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 225 Bravelle& 225 Menopur SQ in PM. 3/31/13 Add Ganirelix SQ in AM.hCG Trigger 4/3/13 SQ.
ER 4/5/13: 5R, 3M, 3F naturally. Day 3: two 8 cell, grade 0, one 8 cell, grade 2 (Scale 0-best to 3-worst). Five day ET 4/10/13: two blastocysts (the 3rd stopped growing.) Beta 4/18/13: 2.5 BFFN. RE recommends we stop trying and focus on living childless, due to the extremely poor quality of my eggs.
***Decided to stop trying and live CFNBC. I couldn't adjust. So, six months later...
IVF #5: Changed RE. Going to one of the big name clinics now. OWDU: 10/29/13. Update: HORRIBLE experience. Disgusted and distraught at their complete unprofessionalism and how much money and precious time they cost us. Sickening. Have now changed RE again. New Patient appt. 1/30/14.
BFP! Out of nowhere, I got KU the old fashioned way! POAS 1/26/14 - Positive! FDLM 12/30/13. Beta #1 16dpo= 373. Beta #2 18dpo= 801. EDD 10/6/14
2/4/14 1st U/S revealed a 5wk2day sac but no fetal pole. Started 200mgs of progesterone suppositories daily
2/11/14 2nd U/S revealed a perfect 6wk1day "diamond ring" embryo with a beating heart! 138bpm! Add 1mg folic acid and 40mg Lovenox
2/25/14 3rd U/S: perfect 8w1d embryo, 178bpm. 3/6 start spotting. 3/11 10w1d U/S shows no heartbeat. Scheduling D&C. The Stork has forsaken me again.
IVF #5.2: New in-state RE. Supplement priming for 1.5 cycles prior to start of cycle, including DHEA 50mg (stopped 5/15), CoQ10 200mg 2x/day, L-Arginine- 1000mg 2x/day (stopped 6/5 due to cold sore!), myo-inositol- 2g 2x/day, melatonin- 3mg, and Neevo (prenatal for MTHFR).
5/16/14 Day 2 bw cycle prior: FSH- 12.22, E2- 38.37, Prog- 1.35, LH- 9.46. 6/2/14 Day 19 bw: Prog- 23
6/12/14 Baseline: E2- 122.7, Prog- 0.4. 5 follicles in left, 4 follicles in right. Start stims: 375IU Follistim & 150IU Menopur. 6/19 Increase Follistim to 425IU, Menopur still 150IU. 6/18 add Ganirelix. 6/23 Ovidrel trigger SQ. 6/25 ER: 8R, 8M, 5F naturally. Start Medrol & Doxy. 6/26 Start Endometrin. 7/2 Start Lovenox.
7/8/14 Beta= 137.4 BFP!!! (My first from IVF!) E2- 1109, Prog- >60. Stop CoQ10, myo-inositol, and melatonin. 7/9 2nd Beta= 281.4. TSH- 2.70. Increasing Synthroid to 100mcg daily. 7/24 6w3d u/s measured 6w3d, hb: 121bmp! 8/5 8w1d u/s measured 8w3d, hb: 164bpm! Graduated from RE to OB. Now I just need to find an OB!
EDD 3/18/15!
As for the rest of this thread, I'm just like
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Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
^^ Though this thread has given me an exciting new chapter to read each morning with my coffee this is by far my fave post to date.
Words IS hard yo!!! True dat.
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Native NYC-ers living in Switzerland - First time parents - 36 + 37
TTC: 8 Months / BFP: 2/8/2014 / EDD: 10/20/2014