Hello everyone! I wanted to take a minute for a quick intro and question. I'm 32 and have 1 son who is 20 months old. When I was pregnant, my husband and I did not intend to do attachment parenting. However, we learned quickly that it works best for our family. My husband works out of town quite a bit and there are stretches where he can be gone for 2 weeks or so at a time. That being said, my son and I are very connected and are used to a lot of one on one time. My husband is really pushing for another baby. He loves being a dad and can't imagine being one and done. On the other hand, I'm very torn. I also love having our family but I could be done (I'm an only child). I'm very fearful that if we have #2 that I won't be able to give my son the attention he's used to. I don't want to miss any part of his life. He sleeps next to me and snuggles to sleep at night. I don't want to push him over further so a new baby can lay between us. I don't want him to feel abandoned. Logically I know that I'm WAY over thinking this and most likely it's way less of a deal than I'm making it. Has anyone else had these or similar feelings? Did your feelings change once #2 arrived? And, most importantly, how did your LO adjust? TIA!