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amandarins · February 2014

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.
Hes buying a house and no matter how many times i tell him im not okay with it and he says hes changed his mind she worms her way back into moving in with him.

Thats why were fighting. Shes a bitch and says fucked up things to me but he doesnt stand up for me. She has someone call her fat and hes the first persob to defend her. And shes great at playing the victim on the odd time he does stand up for me

Based on this, I'm thinking that it doesn't look good. I'm sorry, but whether she's a friend or maybe more... your feelings come first if you're together. I'd be questioning his reasonings, to be honest. And unfortunately... the more you "badger" (share your feelings) it seems like it's going to push him to her. I'm sure she's playing him like a sweet and innocent, "fun" chick. I totally believe guys who are dating or married can have friends that are girls, but the way you are explaining the situation, it's not right. I'm sorry you're going through this, but at this moment, I'd say you deserve better.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. What a nightmare. I hope things work out for the best.

RoosterMemphis · February 2014

RoosterMemphis said:
I packed up my entire kitchen, dismantled the washer/dryer, then reassembled them after I realized I did it too soon, and scrubbed out the oven and refrigerator by myself while baby wearing and listening to George Harrison. I feel awesome right now.

Well- I did wait until the day before the big move to do this.

Eta- I accidentally quoted myself. YAY!

LJUTCMommy · February 2014

petey1106 said:

LJUTCMommy said:

I cannot watch sex scenes in movies. I get embarrassed and feel awkward--even if I am just watching the movie alone.

OMG me too. I have some co-workers who are very open when talking about sex and it is so embarassing for me. I blush and everything! And I have a dirty mind too, so it really shouldn't bother me, but when it's real life situations I just can't handle it.

Me too. I am a sex-positive person. I can talk about these things with very close friends, but acquaintances or coworkers? No way.

Snowbird7 · February 2014

Cosmic+Love said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

LJUTCMommy said:

I cannot watch sex scenes in movies. I get embarrassed and feel awkward--even if I am just watching the movie alone.

DH does this when his parents are around. He can't handle that stuff around his parents.

Try watching Black Swan sitting next to your GMIL in a dark theatre. Awkward.

Or watching Pulp Fiction in the theater with your mom AND dad.

TrueBeliever925 · February 2014

Cosmic+Love said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

LJUTCMommy said:

I cannot watch sex scenes in movies. I get embarrassed and feel awkward--even if I am just watching the movie alone.

DH does this when his parents are around. He can't handle that stuff around his parents.

Try watching Black Swan sitting next to your GMIL in a dark theatre. Awkward.

I remember watching Me, Myself, & Irene with my mom when I was like 13. The dildo up his ass part was SO awkward. And they didn't even really show anything except the dildo.

(eta)

BellaOso · February 2014

1.) I change my birthday on facebook the day before my actual birthday so that I don't have a slew of "Happy Birthday" messages from people from high school who I haven't seen in 15 years and never really talked to all over my Newsfeed. I don't really care if anyone besides DH remember my birthday... even then, just a "Glad you were born!" works for me.

2.) I'm totally confused about potty training my toddler. She tells me she has to "poop" before she does (she uses poop for both despite us trying to teach the difference. She sits on the toilet and "wipes". She hates being wet. She takes off her diaper all the time and can hold it for up to 3-4 hours at a time. She regularly wakes up dry from naps. These are all the signs they say to watch for, but she doesn't want to sit on her little potty. Some people say bypass training pants, others say they are a must. Some people say to let her go naked, which is great, but she won't sit on her potty. She also won't let me put a diaper on her. Ummmm... what the fuck am I supposed to do?

3.) I cried at Grey's Anatomy last night.

MommyKristin88 · February 2014

BellaOso said:

2.) I'm totally confused about potty training my toddler. She tells me she has to "poop" before she does (she uses poop for both despite us trying to teach the difference. She sits on the toilet and "wipes". She hates being wet. She takes off her diaper all the time and can hold it for up to 3-4 hours at a time. She regularly wakes up dry from naps. These are all the signs they say to watch for, but she doesn't want to sit on her little potty. Some people say bypass training pants, others say they are a must. Some people say to let her go naked, which is great, but she won't sit on her potty. She also won't let me put a diaper on her. Ummmm... what the fuck am I supposed to do?

Have you tried skipping the potty and just letting her use the toilet? Potty training is a confusing process sometimes! I hope you all can figure out a method soon.

PB102012 · February 2014

WildRumpus said:

I plan on spending a ridiculous amount of money on E's Easter Basket. We didn't do stockings or even wrap his presents for Christmas, so Momma is going all out this time. DH can suck it if he complains about it.

No flames! I have a Pottery Barn Kids box in the living room now that I have to open, I had her basket liner monogrammed!

Coconuthead · February 2014

@BellaOso you made me think of one. Some people I am friends with on Facebook because of courtesy or past association, which is fine. Normally I stay out of their news feeds and they stay out of mine.

I have noticed that a few of these people have a sudden interest in me, or rather LO. Now that I have a kid it seems like people who never gave two shits about me or spoke to me in many years are all over the comments whenever I post a pic of LO. This kinda bugs me but I feel like some of them, relatives for example, it would be discourteous to exempt from seeing the pics. So I haven't changed the settings but it really bugs me when xyz cousin I haven't seen in 10 years is suddenly all buddy-buddy because I have a kid.

BellaOso · February 2014

MommyKristin88 said:

BellaOso said:

2.) I'm totally confused about potty training my toddler. She tells me she has to "poop" before she does (she uses poop for both despite us trying to teach the difference. She sits on the toilet and "wipes". She hates being wet. She takes off her diaper all the time and can hold it for up to 3-4 hours at a time. She regularly wakes up dry from naps. These are all the signs they say to watch for, but she doesn't want to sit on her little potty. Some people say bypass training pants, others say they are a must. Some people say to let her go naked, which is great, but she won't sit on her potty. She also won't let me put a diaper on her. Ummmm... what the fuck am I supposed to do?

Have you tried skipping the potty and just letting her use the toilet? Potty training is a confusing process sometimes! I hope you all can figure out a method soon.

I asked her if she wanted to and she says no and then sits on her potty. But only if she is in the mood to sit on her potty. I thought about just going to the store and letting her pick a toddler seat and step for for the toilet or a new potty she liked. Ugh.

TrueBeliever925 · February 2014

Mlc10811 said:

I have another one: I was sucking out a HUGE bugger from LOs nose with the bulb and as I went to sit back up the bugger fell off of the bulb and straight into her mouth...which she immediately swallows. Made me gag.

TrueBeliever925 · February 2014

petey1106 said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

Mlc10811 said:

I have another one: I was sucking out a HUGE bugger from LOs nose with the bulb and as I went to sit back up the bugger fell off of the bulb and straight into her mouth...which she immediately swallows. Made me gag.

Best. Skit. EVER.

He did it with Michelle Obama and Will Ferrell on Late Night the opening week last week. So good. Michelle was actually pretty funny.

MommyKristin88 · February 2014

BellaOso said:

MommyKristin88 said:

BellaOso said:

2.) I'm totally confused about potty training my toddler. She tells me she has to "poop" before she does (she uses poop for both despite us trying to teach the difference. She sits on the toilet and "wipes". She hates being wet. She takes off her diaper all the time and can hold it for up to 3-4 hours at a time. She regularly wakes up dry from naps. These are all the signs they say to watch for, but she doesn't want to sit on her little potty. Some people say bypass training pants, others say they are a must. Some people say to let her go naked, which is great, but she won't sit on her potty. She also won't let me put a diaper on her. Ummmm... what the fuck am I supposed to do?

Have you tried skipping the potty and just letting her use the toilet? Potty training is a confusing process sometimes! I hope you all can figure out a method soon.
I asked her if she wanted to and she says no and then sits on her potty. But only if she is in the mood to sit on her potty. I thought about just going to the store and letting her pick a toddler seat and step for for the toilet or a new potty she liked. Ugh.

Gotta love toddlers!

juliad2010 · February 2014

MinnesotaMomma91 said:
Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

Do you want to be with him?
Do you suspect that he's cheating?
Hope you resolve things with him so that you're happy with the situation (whether that's being together or splitting up).

juliad2010 · February 2014

WildRumpus said:
I plan on spending a ridiculous amount of money on E's Easter Basket. We didn't do stockings or even wrap his presents for Christmas, so Momma is going all out this time. DH can suck it if he complains about it.

What do you plan on putting in his Easter basket?

MinnesotaMomma91 · February 2014

juliad2010 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:
Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him
Do you want to be with him?
Do you suspect that he's cheating?
Hope you resolve things with him so that you're happy with the situation (whether that's being together or splitting up).

Yes i do want to be with him. I think hes having an emotional affair definitley but i dont know a physical affair.

And thank you

LEMSA · February 2014

The stupid internet is slow at work. So I guess I'll hafta read 50 shades while I pump instead of bumping.

That's the only book I have downloaded in my phone.

NikkiD522 · February 2014

The amount of times I start typing out a confession and then realize how lame it is, is ridiculous. I either need more sleep so I can actually come up with a good confession, or I need more of a life.

Ashesha13 · February 2014

My confession: I'm currently eating chicken nuggets with BBQ sauce hole mobile bumping... I dropped some BBQ sauce on my phone and just licked it off

WildRumpus · February 2014

juliad2010 said:

WildRumpus said:
I plan on spending a ridiculous amount of money on E's Easter Basket. We didn't do stockings or even wrap his presents for Christmas, so Momma is going all out this time. DH can suck it if he complains about it.
What do you plan on putting in his Easter basket?

I'm thinking new books, some puffs, new sippy cup, bubbles, bath toys, swim trunks, some new teethers and a few other new small toys

KatyKatMeowz · March 2014

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

@minnesotamomma91 I'm with you on Shell's, but beer isn't my thing anyway. I do like a Summit now and then, though. The saur kraut thing might be a dealbreaker for being a Minnesotan, though. I won't say anything though. DH hates it too.
Do i get a free pass cause i like lefsa and pickled herring? But lets be honest, does anybody like lutefisk?

Alright, you're forgiven. And no, nobody does like lutefisk. There are Scandinavian restaurants here that don't even serve that crap.

WashingtonQueen · March 2014

My FFFC, I think you guys suck at keeping up with bump gossip/drama. I haven't seen any of you mention anything that has been going down. Keep up ladies!

Marvel1013 · March 2014

WashingtonQueen said:
My FFFC, I think you guys suck at keeping up with bump gossip/drama. I haven't seen any of you mention anything that has been going down. Keep up ladies!

Well now I want to know!! Fill us in!

WashingtonQueen · March 2014

N13 vs. Parenting for 3 days (or so) straight. Today it was S13, TTGP, Parenting on Aug '14.

Marvel1013 · March 2014

WashingtonQueen said:
N13 vs. Parenting for 3 days (or so) straight. Today it was S13, TTGP, Parenting on Aug '14.

..:: strolling over to aug14::..

coraggiosa · March 2014

WashingtonQueen said:

My FFFC, I think you guys suck at keeping up with bump gossip/drama. I haven't seen any of you mention anything that has been going down. Keep up ladies!

Hah, I know all about it, but I've been too busy keeping up with it all day. I know since I'm in the now infamous Facebook group for S13 since I was originally due in Sept.

FTR, I still have no clue WTF went down, but I know that MD is innocent.

LokiLahve · March 2014

WashingtonQueen said:
N13 vs. Parenting for 3 days (or so) straight. Today it was S13, TTGP, Parenting on Aug '14.

What do you think got me through the motn feedings the past 2 nights? I discovered it while reading through parenting's bitch session about the new social groups.

WashingtonQueen · March 2014

@coraggiosa, I 100% believe MD is innocent.

coraggiosa · March 2014

WashingtonQueen said:

@coraggiosa, I 100% believe MD is innocent.

Yep, me too.

WashingtonQueen · March 2014

@lokilahve did you read the original N14 post?

Marvel1013 · March 2014

Daaaamn. I don't know any of them, so I wouldn't be able to say who's telling the truth and who's not

LokiLahve · March 2014

WashingtonQueen said:
@lokilahve did you read the original N14 post?

I don't think so...I was skipping around. Is that the one that's 20 some pages? Is that where it all started?

WashingtonQueen · March 2014

LokiLahve said:

WashingtonQueen said:
@lokilahve did you read the original N14 post?
I don't think so...I was skipping around. Is that the one that's 20 some pages? Is that where it all started?

Yep, started there and turned into a thousand more threads. I could not keep up.

sfeebs13 · March 2014

I am very much looking forward to my lease being up at the end of April. It will be the "easiest" way to split up with former FI (now S/O).

I'm clearly a wuss.

I am also much worried about Z missing her Daddy. She adores him. Completely. Seeing the two of them together melts my heart even still. He is so incredible with her.

I'll leave it up to "Him."

It's nice to be back. I missed ya'll.

well, a little bit..

LokiLahve · March 2014

KatieS7 said:
@sfeebs13 maybe I'm playing catch up but when did FI become former FI? I don't want to sound rude but congratulations...he sounded like a major tool. Yes, I can imagine that the lease expiring will make things easier. I'm really proud of you. You and Z deserve so much better and I'm glad you have finally decided to do something about it. High five!

Here, here!

BlondieBia21 · March 2014

sfeebs13 said:

I am very much looking forward to my lease being up at the end of April. It will be the "easiest" way to split up with former FI (now S/O).
I'm clearly a wuss.

I am also much worried about Z missing her Daddy. She adores him. Completely. Seeing the two of them together melts my heart even still. He is so incredible with her.

I'll leave it up to "Him."

It's nice to be back. I missed ya'll.
well, a little bit..

So what all has changed since you've been gone? FI is now SO? Are you still "together?"

Good for you for leaving it up to him. Now update me/us!

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

I know what im doibg after the old man goes to bed at ten. Catching up on my bump drama

MinnesotaMomma91 · March 2014

HauntedRadio said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

I know what im doibg after the old man goes to bed at ten. Catching up on my bump drama

I was going to tell you that you'd need all night but you won't be sleeping anyway! But it was a good way to kill a sick day (for me).

I have insomnia, i dont sleep. Im just hoping to get sex

Marvel1013 · March 2014

21 pages. My eyes hurt

BlondieBia21 · March 2014

WHY did I just read all of that? I don't even know who they are. Oh well, a good distraction from a rough evening.

PS- MIL sent me a friend request on Facebook today. I'm only accepting to block her from everything.

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