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LokiLahve

Make it good!

MinnesotaMomma91

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

Cosmic+Love

I listened to three minutes of basically static radio this morning because I could kind of make out "Whoomp, There It Is" playing. I think DS enjoyed it too.

nnikki10

I did absolutely nothing at work this week. I basically just talked to a lot of co workers. I only worked 3 days and still did nothing.

girlmama83

I still sleep with my boppy pregnancy pillow.

MommyKristin88

I use my kids as an excuse to get out of doing things I don't want to do.

"No, I'm sorry, I can't go out that night. I don't have a sitter."

"No, I can't do anything today. I need to stay home so the kids can stick to their nap schedule."

coraggiosa

lindsey61811 said:

I still sleep with my boppy pregnancy pillow.

I've been considering pulling mine out, as DD has been stuck to the boob all night recently. I'm sure it would make it more comfortable to be on my side all night. Hmmmmmm..........

Revez

H was spooning me last night, he said that I must be losing weight as there was less of me to hold. I didn't have the heart to tell him I was sucking it in....

I waited until he was asleep to let it out.

WildRumpus

I plan on spending a ridiculous amount of money on E's Easter Basket. We didn't do stockings or even wrap his presents for Christmas, so Momma is going all out this time. DH can suck it if he complains about it.

LokiLahve

I'm doing my best to get as much done for work before my last day. Everything except a project for one lady. She is a major pita and is a "pass the buck" type that will roll you under the bus first chance she gets.
I've outlined the things she needs to take action on countless times and have ended up doing them myself over the last year to make sure we meet deadlines. No more lady...you're shit's going to be late this time & I'll make sure to cc the appropriate people on updates before I leave so they know who is at fault.
It's not sabotage in my mind...this is on her, and no, I'm not sorry.

BlondieBia21

Everyday I am more convinced that DH only married me because he felt he had to. He's "trying to show me" that's not the case and he actually has been trying, but I still feel that way.

TrueBeliever925

I had a meltdown last night and DH said I wasn't trying hard enough at being happy. He left for work and I proceeded to go through the box of shit that got sent home with me from the hospital that I never got rid of and balled my eyes out even more. All the breastfeeding information was killing me. I feel like a failure sometimes, even though I know I'm not. I'm also worried about LO seeing me meltdown or cry like that. I feel like I'm scarred from seeing my mom have meltdowns when I was little. Blahh.

TrueBeliever925

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story. Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.  

coraggiosa

BlondieBia21 said:

Everyday I am more convinced that DH only married me because he felt he had to. He's "trying to show me" that's not the case and he actually has been trying, but I still feel that way.

Oh Blonders, I wish I could hug you. Have you two thought about going to counseling? 

MinnesotaMomma91

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.  

Hes buying a house and no matter how many times i tell him im not okay with it and he says hes changed his mind she worms her way back into moving in with him.

Thats why were fighting. Shes a bitch and says fucked up things to me but he doesnt stand up for me. She has someone call her fat and hes the first persob to defend her. And shes great at playing the victim on the odd time he does stand up for me

Marvel1013

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.  

I second the living together. It could make things a lot easier. Does he understand why this could make you really uncomfortable? Sorry that's going on

@blondiebia21 have you told him that's how you feel? Counseling could definitely help.. Maybe bring that up to him. If he's trying like you said then counseling shouldn't be a problem

TrueBeliever925

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story. Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.  

Hes buying a house and no matter how many times i tell him im not okay with it and he says hes changed his mind she worms her way back into moving in with him. Thats why were fighting. Shes a bitch and says fucked up things to me but he doesnt stand up for me. She has someone call her fat and hes the first persob to defend her. And shes great at playing the victim on the odd time he does stand up for me

Based on this, I'm thinking that it doesn't look good. I'm sorry, but whether she's a friend or maybe more... your feelings come first if you're together. I'd be questioning his reasonings, to be honest. And unfortunately... the more you "badger" (share your feelings) it seems like it's going to push him to her. I'm sure she's playing him like a sweet and innocent, "fun" chick. I totally believe guys who are dating or married can have friends that are girls, but the way you are explaining the situation, it's not right. I'm sorry you're going through this, but at this moment, I'd say you deserve better.  

LiylaRae

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.  

Hes buying a house and no matter how many times i tell him im not okay with it and he says hes changed his mind she worms her way back into moving in with him.

Thats why were fighting. Shes a bitch and says fucked up things to me but he doesnt stand up for me. She has someone call her fat and hes the first persob to defend her. And shes great at playing the victim on the odd time he does stand up for me

Based on this, I'm thinking that it doesn't look good. I'm sorry, but whether she's a friend or maybe more... your feelings come first if you're together. I'd be questioning his reasonings, to be honest. And unfortunately... the more you "badger" (share your feelings) it seems like it's going to push him to her. I'm sure she's playing him like a sweet and innocent, "fun" chick. I totally believe guys who are dating or married can have friends that are girls, but the way you are explaining the situation, it's not right. I'm sorry you're going through this, but at this moment, I'd say you deserve better.  

I agree! @minnesotamomma91 you deserve better!

LiylaRae

I've got a FFFC for SO. This week he took LO in the bathroom with him and put her in her rnp which he always does. He never buckles her in and this time she figured out how to sit up in it and get out. She started crying and he looked out of the shower and there she was sitting on the bathroom floor.

I was furious. I have no idea how she didn't get hurt doing that but thank god. Needless to say he will be buckling her from Now on.

BlondieBia21

coraggiosa said:

BlondieBia21 said:

Everyday I am more convinced that DH only married me because he felt he had to. He's "trying to show me" that's not the case and he actually has been trying, but I still feel that way.

Oh Blonders, I wish I could hug you. Have you two thought about going to counseling? 

We are looking into it. Unfortunately the place that accepts our insurance doesn't have any marriage specialists taking new clients so we are on a waiting list and in the mean time trying to find somewhere else. He knows I feel this way and swears it's not the truth, but actions speak louder than words.

MinnesotaMomma91

LiylaRae said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Ill play. Things between bf and i arent good. We still havent had sex and im 7 months post pardum. I dont remember if anyone remembers back in december when i was upset another girl said i love you too him. Well there is more to that story.

Shes his roommate and seems to be the center of our problems. Bf knows our relationship is on the brink of ending and were supposed to spend rhe weekend together. But if this might be the last weekend we are together because i am sick and tired of feeling like i have to share him

@minnesotamomma91 I'd have a problem with that. Have you guys thought about living together? I know it's hard if you can't make it work apart, but cutting the roommate out seems like it would help the situation. I don't really have any other words of wisdom. Sorry BF is being a PIA with this roommate situation.  

Hes buying a house and no matter how many times i tell him im not okay with it and he says hes changed his mind she worms her way back into moving in with him.

Thats why were fighting. Shes a bitch and says fucked up things to me but he doesnt stand up for me. She has someone call her fat and hes the first persob to defend her. And shes great at playing the victim on the odd time he does stand up for me

Based on this, I'm thinking that it doesn't look good. I'm sorry, but whether she's a friend or maybe more... your feelings come first if you're together. I'd be questioning his reasonings, to be honest. And unfortunately... the more you "badger" (share your feelings) it seems like it's going to push him to her. I'm sure she's playing him like a sweet and innocent, "fun" chick. I totally believe guys who are dating or married can have friends that are girls, but the way you are explaining the situation, it's not right. I'm sorry you're going through this, but at this moment, I'd say you deserve better.  

I agree! @minnesotamomma91 you deserve better!

Thank you ladies. I share a mutual friend with his sons mother and when things with this chick got worse my friend confided in me that his ex went through the same things.

Bitchy comments, innapropriate facebook posts involving their son. These posts havent stopped but theyve gotten much worse. I really dont blame his ex for her not liking bfs roommate

TrueBeliever925

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Thank you ladies. I share a mutual friend with his sons mother and when things with this chick got worse my friend confided in me that his ex went through the same things. Bitchy comments, innapropriate facebook posts involving their son. These posts havent stopped but theyve gotten much worse. I really dont blame his ex for her not liking bfs roommate

Yeah. That doesn't sound good. You deserve WAY better. This guy sounds like a jackass and unfortunately it's all because of that dumb bitch. I'm sorry. 

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Bunnyfer

I am debating on being "the snitch" at work. A few of the people I work with do NOTHING and get away with it as they are so good the supervisors never see it. This causes more work for me and my coworkers. My work is suffering due to this, and a specific supervisor has noticed, and is encouraging me to come forward, and he promises it wont come back on me. I am just torn

BlondieBia21

Well in other news, LO is across the room playing in her jumper while I'm sitting here on my laptop. I just tooted (semi-loudly) and I noticed she stopped jumping right when I tooted. I turn and look at her and she's staring at me with her head tilted smiling. lol lol lol 

KatyKatMeowz

@minnesotamomma91 What you're describing would get an "oh Hell no" from me. You deserve better, and if he can't see that this is destroying his relationship for apparently the second time, maybe he deserves her. I let the Dude hang out and chew on his shirt this morning for like 5 minutes. He's been cranky all week, and he seemed happy. I eventually got Sophie out to see if he'd prefer a real toy intended for chewing. He just wanted his shirt. Whatever, kid. I guess if it isn't hurting anything, you can just keep on doing your thing.

Bunnyfer

Theusualmischief said:

Bunnyfer said:

I am debating on being "the snitch" at work. A few of the people I work with do NOTHING and get away with it as they are so good the supervisors never see it. This causes more work for me and my coworkers. My work is suffering due to this, and a specific supervisor has noticed, and is encouraging me to come forward, and he promises it wont come back on me. I am just torn

That's tricky.  Is this your supervisor?  

The dude who does nothing, he is just a schulb like me. The supe, yes...we are a grp of 11, and we have 7 supes....most of the guys there are all buddy buddy with each other, like hang out with each other outside of work. The particular sup who told me to say something is my fav sup, and not part of that nonsense. He even suggested we talk out of the office to help ease my anxiety

MinnesotaMomma91

TrueBeliever925 said:

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

Thank you ladies. I share a mutual friend with his sons mother and when things with this chick got worse my friend confided in me that his ex went through the same things.

Bitchy comments, innapropriate facebook posts involving their son. These posts havent stopped but theyve gotten much worse. I really dont blame his ex for her not liking bfs roommate

Yeah. That doesn't sound good. You deserve WAY better. This guy sounds like a jackass and unfortunately it's all because of that dumb bitch. I'm sorry. 

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Thanks. Were supposed to work on our relationship this weekemd, if it doesnt happen its over.

This week weve already had the conversation about if we break up he isnt allowed to be involved in ds life because he already has a dad whose not around he doesnt need bf popping in and out has convienence.

@Katykatmeowz thanks :-) i have a special fffc just for you.

I dont like saur kraut or shells beer. Minnesota blasphemy i know ;-)

KatyKatMeowz

@minnesotamomma91 I'm with you on Shell's, but beer isn't my thing anyway. I do like a Summit now and then, though. The saur kraut thing might be a dealbreaker for being a Minnesotan, though. I won't say anything though. DH hates it too.

LokiLahve

@minnesotamomma91 what you're describing has (at a minimum) emotional affair red flags all over it.

You say this same thing was an issue for his ex as well? I say it's not just his roommate that is the problem...he is just as at fault, if not more, than she is.

Marvel1013

Theusualmischief said:

I'm too embarrassed/scared to ask other women for a pad/tampon.  Guess who didn't talk to her momma much about periods as a youth?  

I didnt really either. A couple years after I got mine we did. I guess you really arent suppose to flush a pad down the toilet, oops.

MommyKristin88

@marvel1013 I love your siggy challenge pics!!! LOL those are hilarious!

JaymeMac

We were supposed to move this weekend...however we went to see the new house and there was a baby scorpion running around. I checked into it and there are a ton in that area. F that!!! Anyways tomorrow is one of the busiest days of the year at work. They think we are still moving so that is why we cant come in tomorrow. Bahaha Sorrynotsorry

Marvel1013

@mommykristin88 Thanks!

RoosterMemphis

I packed up my entire kitchen, dismantled the washer/dryer, then reassembled them after I realized I did it too soon, and scrubbed out the oven and refrigerator by myself while baby wearing and listening to George Harrison. I feel awesome right now.

TrueBeliever925

RoosterMemphis said:

I packed up my entire kitchen, dismantled the washer/dryer, then reassembled them after I realized I did it too soon, and scrubbed out the oven and refrigerator by myself while baby wearing and listening to George Harrison. I feel awesome right now.

Wow. I feel so lazy. I've done barely anything at work today. 

eta: gif... and also, the fact that you know how to dismantle and then reassemble the washer and dryer is beyond me. 

LJUTCMommy

Bunnyfer said:

Theusualmischief said:

Bunnyfer said:

I am debating on being "the snitch" at work. A few of the people I work with do NOTHING and get away with it as they are so good the supervisors never see it. This causes more work for me and my coworkers. My work is suffering due to this, and a specific supervisor has noticed, and is encouraging me to come forward, and he promises it wont come back on me. I am just torn

That's tricky.  Is this your supervisor?  

The dude who does nothing, he is just a schulb like me. The supe, yes...we are a grp of 11, and we have 7 supes....most of the guys there are all buddy buddy with each other, like hang out with each other outside of work. The particular sup who told me to say something is my fav sup, and not part of that nonsense. He even suggested we talk out of the office to help ease my anxiety

This sounds like you're playing with fire. Honestly, I have been tempted to do the same several times. However, I never would. Work politics and cliques are very tricky to navigate. If you're just a "schlub" and the super who's encouraging you to do this isn't part of the in-crowd, I wouldn't do it. You don't want to make things even worse by becoming the office snitch. It could burn too many bridges. 

LJUTCMommy

I cannot watch sex scenes in movies. I get embarrassed and feel awkward--even if I am just watching the movie alone. 

TrueBeliever925

LJUTCMommy said:

I cannot watch sex scenes in movies. I get embarrassed and feel awkward--even if I am just watching the movie alone. 

DH does this when his parents are around. He can't handle that stuff around his parents. 

MinnesotaMomma91

KatyKatMeowz said:

@minnesotamomma91 I'm with you on Shell's, but beer isn't my thing anyway. I do like a Summit now and then, though.

The saur kraut thing might be a dealbreaker for being a Minnesotan, though. I won't say anything though. DH hates it too.

Do i get a free pass cause i like lefsa and pickled herring?

But lets be honest, does anybody like lutefisk?

Cosmic+Love

TrueBeliever925 said:

LJUTCMommy said:

I cannot watch sex scenes in movies. I get embarrassed and feel awkward--even if I am just watching the movie alone. 

DH does this when his parents are around. He can't handle that stuff around his parents. 

Try watching Black Swan sitting next to your GMIL in a dark theatre. Awkward.

MinnesotaMomma91

LokiLahve said:

@minnesotamomma91 what you're describing has (at a minimum) emotional affair red flags all over it.

You say this same thing was an issue for his ex as well? I say it's not just his roommate that is the problem...he is just as at fault, if not more, than she is.

I hadnt really thought of that... i was hopeing to have a come to jesus talk with him this weekend but hes already saying the roads might be to bad for us to see each other... im starting to wonder why im in this relationship anymore