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bear1215 · February 2014

@mrsdanielleM2010 you may not be meaning to target everyone who gets pregnant easily, maybe just those around you.

it was so simple for us to get pregnant, 3 months off bc with the first one. that doesn't mean i don't love my son even less than those who have had one hell of time conceiving. my child can be a pain in my ass but do i love him less? nope. i'm not a mom who overly expresses my love for my child on FB or is super mushy towards him but he's still the light of life. i'm sorry it pisses you off that it comes easy to others to get pregnant. and i sympathize for those who have a hard time getting there. my own brother and his wife have tried for so long with one mc. i felt super guilty that i was having my son when they lost their baby.

idk the point to this just wanted to say something.

salsa_wifey · February 2014

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

salsa_wifey said:

boo, DD

bear1215 · February 2014

salsa_wifey said:

WTH?

AnyMax · February 2014

mrsdanielleM2010 said:
This is horrible, and isn't about everyone obviously, and I'm going to hell, but: it makes me angry when certain people in my life have it easy getting pregnant. I feel like they don't appreciate their kids or what a gift it is to be able to have kids.

I completely understand this

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

GingerGiraffe said:

@salsa_wifey I'm glad you chickened out and deleted that before many people saw it. Bragging about being ignorant is just plain stupid. You use the word "gender" instead of "sex" fine I'll let it slide, even though it's ignorant. Using the word "retarded" to refer to some thing being stupid is just plain mean and unacceptable.

Well, whatever she said @bear1215 you love titted it, so what was it?

If it is what @gingergiraffe said, then sorry honey, but deleting isn't going to save you from flaming on that one.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

@gingergiraffe always QFP lol. I now have no idea how to flame appropriately!!! Again, @bear1215 what did she say that you liked so much????

I am sleepy and class is starting soon.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

@gingergiraffe she's a quick draw mcgraw

lesleyn21 · February 2014

zoeygirl1105 said:
I follow Khloe Kardashian on instagram. I will just step into my flame suit now.

I follow all of them including kris lol

JustCricket · February 2014

people who DD before people get a chance to read are stupid. Have the balls to say what you were originally going to opost... or at least replace it with something so we're not staring at your blank space.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

salsa_wifey said:

Nut up & say what you came here to say. We're all judging you already anyway.

MrsLaLaBug · February 2014

I'm totally having a spicy tuna roll for lunch. I might even order two - one for baby, ya know. Gotta make that tail grow a little bit longer!

trebekastan · February 2014

MrsLaLaBug said:

I'm totally having a spicy tuna roll for lunch. I might even order two - one for baby, ya know. Gotta make that tail grow a little bit longer!

Good for you @MrsLaLaBug! I'm tired of these pansies not eating things because of "risks" to the baby. Eating tuna every once in a while is fine, eating it everyday, perhaps not. Eating sushi from a place you have frequented for years, okay. Eating sushi from a gas station, probably not.

trebekastan · February 2014

I hate the weather. More specifically, I hate people who talk about the weather. Oh really, are we supposed to get 12 inches of snow over the weekend. I bet we have 2. I hate the weather channel and I hate the weather people! You know when I plan my day, THAT DAY! I especially hate you if you are the type of person to go out and buy provisions before a storm. You're an asshole. What's the most you've ever been stuck in your house? 2 days? MAYBE! And even then you are just being a pansy.

Groxb · February 2014

@salsawifey - So, let me get this straight based on what I can piece together after your pussied your way out by deleting your post...

You didn't vote for Obama. You use the term "black". You use the term "retarded".

This was all in context to the "gender" vs "sex" comment?

WTF.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

Groxb · February 2014

beckynsean11 said:

I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

Link it

blue+skies · February 2014

MrsLaLaBug said:
I'm totally having a spicy tuna roll for lunch. I might even order two - one for baby, ya know. Gotta make that tail grow a little bit longer!

I'm getting sushi for my birthday lunch today! I don't give up anything besides alcohol (except a few mimosas when we go on vacation and some occasional wine if it ever sounds good again). When I was pregnant with #1, I got the dreaded intestinal bacterial infection that everyone gives up crap for in fear of getting. To make matters worse, I got it right after Christmas and by the time I realized it wasn't the stomach flu, my OB office was closed for a long weekend because of New Years. The phone nurse said puking or crapping my pants within 15 min of a sip of water was not an emergency so stick it out until they reopen. The ER said don't come in unless I have contractions...at 13 weeks. By the time they reopened and I got to the doctor, I went 6 days without keeping a drop of fluid down. My doc was irate. Within an hour of starting meds, I was eating and drinking again and all was fine. And guess what they were quite positive I contracted it from....fruit, flucking fruit. Not the sushi I ate, fruit. So you better believe I eat all the sushi, deli meat, rare steak and shell fish my little pregnant heart desires. Now I'm really excited for lunch!

nstark2908 · February 2014

Excluding health and religious reasons, I think people who choose to not vaccinate are assholes. Jenny McCarthy is not a doctor. Do your own research!

How's that for controversial?

I'm not running, I'm just heading back to work. I'll be back to respond to anyone who flames me.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

nstark2908 said:
Excluding health and religious reasons, I think people who choose to not vaccinate are assholes. Jenny McCarthy is not a doctor. Do your own research!

How's that for controversial?

I'm not running, I'm just heading back to work. I'll be back to respond to anyone who flames me.

I think most people here agree. However, I don't like the religious cop out. Yes that's judgmental. Sorry I suck

Ceridwen21 · February 2014

@zoegirl1105 No she didn't. She addressed and denied the rumor. But yes, she's a complete menace to public health.

kirstynikole · February 2014

Excluding health and religious reasons, I think people who choose to not vaccinate are assholes. Jenny McCarthy is not a doctor. Do your own research! How's that for controversial? I'm not running, I'm just heading back to work. I'll be back to respond to anyone who flames me.
This isn't even flameful and whoever flames you will get the flaming. And BTW for whoever is reading this Jenny McCarthy admitted her son does not have autism.

agreed^^

Now my topic is- I'm kind of enjoying being a lazy bum. I've been working since I was 14. In December I was hurt on the job and put on leave.. is it wrong that I completely look forward to my workman's comp check every other Friday? I get to enjoy the throws of m/s(really all day) in the comfort of my home and still get paid. Mind you, my knee is still pretty jacked up, but I'm kind of ok with staying home a bit longer. At first I hated it and didn't feel right about it, but now....

beckynsean11 · February 2014

Groxb said:

beckynsean11 said:

I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

Link it

The post is about jocelyn who is participating on ttgp, she is going to be a gestational carrier for a friend.
https://images6.fanpop.com/image/forum/206000/206043_1383726567569_460_220.png

which lead to the take over of this post on Aug '14

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12275090/how-to-tell-new-employer/p1

portentosa · February 2014

zoeygirl1105 said:

beckynsean11 said:
I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

I got sucked into reading the N13 vs Parenting drama. 20+ pages later.

I will be reading this later.

On other topics...

DS was an oops bc baby (I'm dumb) and I appreciate the hell out of him!

I had sushi at my mom's birthday lunch two days ago. I stuck with low mercury options and it was heavenly. I didn't allow myself any sushi my last pregnancy.

JustCricket · February 2014

our house is empty now... and I just got winded vacuuming ONE room. so now I'm back on my butt, letting H finish vacuuming the house. That was the ONE job I had for today.

brittneyandadam · February 2014

mrsdanielleM2010 said:
This is horrible, and isn't about everyone obviously, and I'm going to hell, but: it makes me angry when certain people in my life have it easy getting pregnant. I feel like they don't appreciate their kids or what a gift it is to be able to have kids.

I totally understand this. In my heart of hearts, I know they love/appreciate their kids...but I think it's the crazy, jealous, IF brain. It also makes me mad when they complain about the pregnancy to no end.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

MrsSparklebottom said:

beckynsean11 said:

Groxb said:

beckynsean11 said:

I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

Link it

The post is about jocelyn who is participating on ttgp, she is going to be a gestational carrier for a friend.

https://images6.fanpop.com/image/forum/206000/206043_1383726567569_460_220.png

which lead to the take over of this post on Aug '14

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12275090/how-to-tell-new-employer/p1

The first link isn't working. And I'm totally lost on the 2nd.
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12274745/jocelynb0911-is-the-shiz/p1

maybe this makes fix?

teenybean · February 2014

The best part of weddings and baby showers is judging the registries! It's hilarious to see your drinking buddy from college register for a duck press and a 25 pieces formal tea set when they could barely microwave a lean cuisine or find a clean cup to drink water from when guests came! It's the best bullshit ever!

If I could reccomend the best registry items ever... A limitless supply of paper plates. They are the best thing ever invented once you have kids.

kirstynikole · February 2014

MrsSparklebottom

also if you read through the A14 post, you'll see more links to her other BMB. interesting stuff.. I. can't. look. away.

mrsdanielleM2010 · February 2014

@flyawaycricket

beckynsean11 said:

I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

I tried, but then I had to teach. I missed some crazy & I'm sad about the dd.

lesleyn21 · February 2014

A few things:

I use to think Ds was the cutest baby ever. Now I look at pics and we was so silly looking! Way cute now though. Lol

After reading the August board about the child pornography friend I had a dream last night that dh had a friend that just got out of jail for that and brought him over. When he came up at one am and I woke up to pee (in real life) I was so annoyed with him I didn't talk to him hahahah.

Groxb · February 2014

beckynsean11 said:

Groxb said:

beckynsean11 said:

I'm reveling in drama on other boards right now because we're lamewads(myself very much included) over here.

Link it

The post is about jocelyn who is participating on ttgp, she is going to be a gestational carrier for a friend.

https://images6.fanpop.com/image/forum/206000/206043_1383726567569_460_220.png

which lead to the take over of this post on Aug '14

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12275090/how-to-tell-new-employer/p1

Second- HOLY DRAMA! I got all the way through, but things only started clicking towards the end. Sounds like Mallard is a class-a Bia.

ETA: Saw first link was corrected. nvm

beckynsean11 · February 2014

KateSays said:

Im trying to follow the Mallard drama and it's just not adding up. The PM's were very briefly posted and didn't seem bad at all to me. Unless of course theres more of them...

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Goddammit, stuck in the quote box.

There are supposed to be more. I need to follow the links back to S13, but apparently she was a 1st class snatch over there.

mrsdanielleM2010 · February 2014

carmstr4 said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

mytinc said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

This is horrible, and isn't about everyone obviously, and I'm going to hell, but: it makes me angry when certain people in my life have it easy getting pregnant. I feel like they don't appreciate their kids or what a gift it is to be able to have kids.

You don't have to have a hard time getting pregnant to appreciate pregnancy or your children. That's absurd. If you feel certain people don't appreciate their children, that's one thing, but to equate that with how they got pregnant? Wow.

I did say it's not about everyone. Among people I know, the ones who have had issues or struggles with having kids have been more vocal about how appreciative they are to have their child or children.

I understand your post came with a disclaimer, but it made me irrationally angry.

I started tracking my periods on 11-26 to start ttc. That was the only period I tracked because we conceived 12-10. I often feel guilty that it didn't take us long and that this is my first pregnancy. I hate feeling guilty about it because my pregnancy and your (other) pregnancy is totally different. I don't want to feel guilt about someone else's struggle, and people that make comments like this are exactly why I feel this way.

Maybe I put two things together that don't really belong together, now that I've thought about it a little more. One thing that pisses me off is when people don't appreciate their kids. I don't like an attitude in any parent that kids are, as I said before, burdens, barriers to fun, or accessories to their life. This is probably separate from my prior issues maintaining pregnancy, and I would feel it even if I never experienced loss.

flyawaycricket said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

mytinc said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

This is horrible, and isn't about everyone obviously, and I'm going to hell, but: it makes me angry when certain people in my life have it easy getting pregnant. I feel like they don't appreciate their kids or what a gift it is to be able to have kids.

You don't have to have a hard time getting pregnant to appreciate pregnancy or your children. That's absurd. If you feel certain people don't appreciate their children, that's one thing, but to equate that with how they got pregnant? Wow.

I did say it's not about everyone. Among people I know, the ones who have had issues or struggles with having kids have been more vocal about how appreciative they are to have their child or children.

just becuase someone got pregnant easy, doesn't mean they didn't have other issues during thier pregnancy. Or 'scares'. And they don't need those scares or a hard time concieving to appreciate their children. I know I was SOOOO greatful to see baby alive and kicking at my 1st (and 2nd due to my sch) u/s. But it only took us one cycle to get pregnnat. Granted, we charted to avoid, so I was very familiar with my cycles and know exactly when I ovulated. I'm sure that increased our odds b/c I have an 'irregular' cycle.

I understand this perfectly because I actually have zero trouble getting pregnant, it's been staying pregnant that's been an issue for me. I really didn't mean to make anyone feel defensive about appreciating their own pregnancies or children, if you all knew the couple of people my original post was referring to, you'd be judging them along side me (but maybe not. I could be the worst when it comes to this, and I'll own that.)

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

carmstr4 said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

mytinc said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

This is horrible, and isn't about everyone obviously, and I'm going to hell, but: it makes me angry when certain people in my life have it easy getting pregnant. I feel like they don't appreciate their kids or what a gift it is to be able to have kids.

You don't have to have a hard time getting pregnant to appreciate pregnancy or your children. That's absurd. If you feel certain people don't appreciate their children, that's one thing, but to equate that with how they got pregnant? Wow.

I did say it's not about everyone. Among people I know, the ones who have had issues or struggles with having kids have been more vocal about how appreciative they are to have their child or children.

I understand your post came with a disclaimer, but it made me irrationally angry.

I started tracking my periods on 11-26 to start ttc. That was the only period I tracked because we conceived 12-10. I often feel guilty that it didn't take us long and that this is my first pregnancy. I hate feeling guilty about it because my pregnancy and your (other) pregnancy is totally different. I don't want to feel guilt about someone else's struggle, and people that make comments like this are exactly why I feel this way.

Maybe I put two things together that don't really belong together, now that I've thought about it a little more. One thing that pisses me off is when people don't appreciate their kids. I don't like an attitude in any parent that kids are, as I said before, burdens, barriers to fun, or accessories to their life. This is probably separate from my prior issues maintaining pregnancy, and I would feel it even if I never experienced loss.

flyawaycricket said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

mytinc said:

mrsdanielleM2010 said:

This is horrible, and isn't about everyone obviously, and I'm going to hell, but: it makes me angry when certain people in my life have it easy getting pregnant. I feel like they don't appreciate their kids or what a gift it is to be able to have kids.

You don't have to have a hard time getting pregnant to appreciate pregnancy or your children. That's absurd. If you feel certain people don't appreciate their children, that's one thing, but to equate that with how they got pregnant? Wow.

I did say it's not about everyone. Among people I know, the ones who have had issues or struggles with having kids have been more vocal about how appreciative they are to have their child or children.

just becuase someone got pregnant easy, doesn't mean they didn't have other issues during thier pregnancy. Or 'scares'. And they don't need those scares or a hard time concieving to appreciate their children. I know I was SOOOO greatful to see baby alive and kicking at my 1st (and 2nd due to my sch) u/s. But it only took us one cycle to get pregnnat. Granted, we charted to avoid, so I was very familiar with my cycles and know exactly when I ovulated. I'm sure that increased our odds b/c I have an 'irregular' cycle.

I understand this perfectly because I actually have zero trouble getting pregnant, it's been staying pregnant that's been an issue for me. I really didn't mean to make anyone feel defensive about appreciating their own pregnancies or children, if you all knew the couple of people my original post was referring to, you'd be judging them along side me (but maybe not. I could be the worst when it comes to this, and I'll own that.)

Well, and the other thing is, I've seen you posting on here enough to know that you weren't meaning it the way I initially took it. I just played my own insecurities and guilts against your post when I responded which is indicative of MY issues, not your post (if that makes sense).

bear1215 · February 2014

Just because I haven't been on here to chime in doesn't mean I ran away. I liked that chic status cause she said she wasn't an Obama supporter. Bg deal and that fact that she uses the word black over African American ... I don't see why she thought that was a big deal either. People are black, white, tan, etc

Irisheyes1247 · February 2014

nstark2908 said:

Excluding health and religious reasons, I think people who choose to not vaccinate are assholes. Jenny McCarthy is not a doctor. Do your own research! How's that for controversial? I'm not running, I'm just heading back to work. I'll be back to respond to anyone who flames me.

https://www.howdovaccinescauseautism.com/

gingerkid9989 · February 2014

Irisheyes1247 said:

nstark2908 said:

Excluding health and religious reasons, I think people who choose to not vaccinate are assholes. Jenny McCarthy is not a doctor. Do your own research! How's that for controversial? I'm not running, I'm just heading back to work. I'll be back to respond to anyone who flames me.
https://www.howdovaccinescauseautism.com/

LOL! My work internet blocked this site siting it was "Tasteless" so I just HAD to go see what it was on my phone.

rebennett06 · February 2014

Irisheyes1247 said:

nstark2908 said:

Excluding health and religious reasons, I think people who choose to not vaccinate are assholes. Jenny McCarthy is not a doctor. Do your own research! How's that for controversial? I'm not running, I'm just heading back to work. I'll be back to respond to anyone who flames me.

https://www.howdovaccinescauseautism.com/

LOVE IT!! just sent it to my aunt who is completely anti-vaccine (also thinks that eating fish while pregnant causes autism and DON'T EAT ANY!!!!)..i'm wondering how she will handle it! hah!

emmylu30 · February 2014

tigger99 said:

I judge the ladies that have huge siggies and 10 tickers that takes me 50 minutes to scroll by. I feel like you have it that big to be a AW. Also after this week I fully intend on telling my work I am coming back after baby and "having a change of heart" after about 6 weeks off and quitting. F them and their attitude and the way they treat their employees now to make it 6ish more months here.

No flaming from me but you may want to check into your companies handbook on this because I've heard of women having to pay back some (if not all) of their benefits because they didn't come back to work for X amount of time before leaving.

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