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• nikiz628 member

  February 2014 edited February 2014

  What OP is REALLY saying...
  
  
  ETA:  OP, I guess in your world, you can insult people and then play the victim when they retaliate. How is that working out for you???
  
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• janda426 member

  February 2014

  You just resurrected a 2 week old thread to say how much you hate everyone here. But yeah, we're huge assholes. Sorry we didn't agree with you about how much we all suck.

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• angielovestoki member

  February 2014

  I felt the need to chime in here.....sorry you were also treated badly.  I too have experienced lots of negativity.   

  
  

  Some people have sad lives and feel the need to spew negativity.  but what goes around comes around.   I didn't want to post on this message board but felt I needed to say something.....because the women on here that are bullying really like to make the people they are bullying believe they are crazy ones.  

  
  

  Sorry girl  but just wanted you to know you're not alone 

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• sister13 member

  February 2014

  I felt the need to chime in here.....sorry you were also treated badly.  I too have experienced lots of negativity.   

  
  

  Some people have sad lives and feel the need to spew negativity.  but what goes around comes around.   I didn't want to post on this message board but felt I needed to say something.....because the women on here that are bullying really like to make the people they are bullying believe they are crazy ones.  

  
  

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• nikiz628 member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  I felt the need to chime in here.....sorry you were also treated badly.  I too have experienced lots of negativity.   

  
  

  Some people have sad lives and feel the need to spew negativity.  but what goes around comes around.   I didn't want to post on this message board but felt I needed to say something.....because the women on here that are bullying really like to make the people they are bullying believe they are crazy ones.  

  
  

  Sorry girl  but just wanted you to know you're not alone 

  
  
  
  

                                      
                                 
                                          
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• nikiz628 member

  February 2014

  ed16564 said:

  Sending lots of thoughts and prayers to all you good souled ladies out there TTC- but I'm dropping out of this community. There are lots of sweet girls on here but I can't say anything without being picked on in some way it seems. I keep trying to start over but it doesn't matter- someone always has something rude to say. Again best wishes- but I've worked too hard to find happiness in my life for all this rudeness and negativity.

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• janda426 member

  February 2014

  Sometimes when people bring up bullying, I remember the anxiety and depression I suffered as a teen and all of the horrible, Lifetime movie quality things I experienced. And then I laugh because these people have noo fucking idea what bullying means.

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• ngolimento member

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• ngolimento member

  February 2014

  @angielovestoki  you've obviously never been bullied a day in your life.  How trifling of you to swing that word around when you have no idea what it is.

  

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• mommy2C member

  February 2014

  Oh yawn....

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• Manateearmz member

  February 2014

  This is really getting in the way of my True Detective episode and the laundering of my big girl panties.
  

  

   

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• angielovestoki member

  February 2014

  Because happy people don't go around b*tching and being rude.  plain and simple.  

  
  

  And the fact that you have a justification for WHY you were being snarky and rude just proves that. What does anyone get out of being mean? nothing.   And its not that you're speaking to someone and it slips out.  you are making the conscious decision to TYPE snarky/mean comments. 

  I posted on here because my body was giving me signals and was hoping someone had similar experiences and could offer some insight. But somehow everyone on here twisted my words and were trying to say that I wanted everyone to tell me I was pregnant.  I came on here asking for advice and support, and instead I was completely ostracized and treated like I was an idiot.  

  And you can all say what you want, but bullying is bullying.  There are various degrees of it, and no it doesn't compare to what young kids have to deal with in school, but its still bullying.  

  And I DO know what bullying is.  My little brother was pulled from school when he was 12, about a month after our Dad passed away because of being bullied so badly.  

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• LadyXaverian member

  February 2014

  I'm saying this with absolutely no snark intended.

  
  

  If a little bit of internet snippy-ness (word?) bothers you so much that you have to "quit" the board, I'm not sure you've found the happiness in your life that you say you have.

  
  

  It's an internet message board. It's not that serious. Lighten up!

  
  

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• catmagick member

  February 2014 edited February 2014

  Who the fuck even cares about any of this?! If you want to leave just fuck off and go. We don't know/like you or your white knight so therefore we don't give a shit what you think or why you are going. Just go. I promise, no one will notice.
  
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• ngolimento member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  Because happy people don't go around b*tching and being rude.  plain and simple.  

  
  

  And the fact that you have a justification for WHY you were being snarky and rude just proves that. What does anyone get out of being mean? nothing.   And its not that you're speaking to someone and it slips out.  you are making the conscious decision to TYPE snarky/mean comments. 

  I posted on here because my body was giving me signals and was hoping someone had similar experiences and could offer some insight. But somehow everyone on here twisted my words and were trying to say that I wanted everyone to tell me I was pregnant.  I came on here asking for advice and support, and instead I was completely ostracized and treated like I was an idiot.  

  And you can all say what you want, but bullying is bullying.  There are various degrees of it, and no it doesn't compare to what young kids have to deal with in school, but its still bullying.  

  And I DO know what bullying is.  My little brother was pulled from school when he was 12, about a month after our Dad passed away because of being bullied so badly.  

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  Also, for the love of god, go pee on something.  At this point, it doesn't even have to be a stick.  It could be cabbage for all I care.  As long as it keeps you occupied.

  

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• Manateearmz member

  February 2014

  Happiness=confidence
  
  Confidence=not giving a rats ass what people think of you, ESPECIALLY internet strangers.
  
  
  I'm the happiest I have ever been in my life, tyvm.

  

   

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  February 2014

  Try baby gaga or WTE. Bye!

  
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• angielovestoki member

  February 2014

  Honestly this whole process of trying to conceive has made me feel very vulnerable and stressed.  And dealing with a miscarriage didn't help.  YES i am probably overly emotional.  I'm very happy in my life but when you're already feeling vulnerable and open yourself up to complete strangers.......it doesn't feel good to get treated that way.   Plain & simple. You can justify it all away, but I am allowed to have emotions.

  
  

  But I'm realizing now that no matter what I say, it will be crazy and you all want me to go go the F away.  I get it.   I still find it quite sad, but I am realizing this board is NOT at all what I was expecting and I wish I would've realized it before I posted.  

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• janda426 member

  February 2014

  @angielovestoki Yeah, you've been a witness to the effects of bullying. Doesn't sound like you've experienced it firsthand. Two completely different experiences. Like the difference between considering suicide or not.
  
  You're really fucking offensive. I don't like you. But I love my life and am totally happy. See how that works? Happy people can still recognize a dumbass when they see one.
  
  Ride back out on the horse you came in on. You're only making it worse for yourself.

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• ngolimento member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  Honestly this whole process of trying to conceive has made me feel very vulnerable and stressed.  And dealing with a miscarriage didn't help.  YES i am probably overly emotional.  I'm very happy in my life but when you're already feeling vulnerable and open yourself up to complete strangers.......it doesn't feel good to get treated that way.   Plain & simple. You can justify it all away, but I am allowed to have emotions.

  
  

  But I'm realizing now that no matter what I say, it will be crazy and you all want me to go go the F away.  I get it.   I still find it quite sad, but I am realizing this board is NOT at all what I was expecting and I wish I would've realized it before I posted.  

  Maybe you shouldn't be trying right now if it stresses you out so badly that you freak out and scream at a bunch of strangers for telling jokes.

  

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• janda426 member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  Honestly this whole process of trying to conceive has made me feel very vulnerable and stressed.  And dealing with a miscarriage didn't help.  YES i am probably overly emotional.  I'm very happy in my life but when you're already feeling vulnerable and open yourself up to complete strangers.......it doesn't feel good to get treated that way.   Plain & simple. You can justify it all away, but I am allowed to have emotions.

  
  

  But I'm realizing now that no matter what I say, it will be crazy and you all want me to go go the F away.  I get it.   I still find it quite sad, but I am realizing this board is NOT at all what I was expecting and I wish I would've realized it before I posted.  

  The "I'm TTC so I'm emotional and hormonal and stressed out" card is nails on a fucking chalkboard to me. You can't pull that here. Sorry.
  
  

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• Manateearmz member

  February 2014

  I agree with @nachobelley the first page alone has at least 3 posts with just the "."

  

   

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• JocelynB0911 member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  I've posted hoping that something would get through to SOMEONE, and you'd maybe realize that you are being ridiculous....but i'm done trying to be nice.  obviously trying to be nice really isn't something you all can comprehend.  As my husband says:  'sounds like they're all a bunch of unhappy cunts.'  

  
  

   couldn't have said it better myself.  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  I do believe the only one acting like an unhappy cunt here is you. You clearly don't get that no one here is going to change.
  
  This board is full of incredibly smart and supportive women and these women also don't blow smoke up your ass and keep it real. You're butthurt that strangers on the internet didn't coddle you and tell you what you wanted to hear. It's time to reevaluate your life hun.
  

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• nikiz628 member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  I've posted hoping that something would get through to SOMEONE, and you'd maybe realize that you are being ridiculous....but i'm done trying to be nice.  obviously trying to be nice really isn't something you all can comprehend.  As my husband says:  'sounds like they're all a bunch of unhappy cunts.'  

  
  

   couldn't have said it better myself.  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  What exactly are you trying to "get through?" You come in to our community, where we support and give advice to each other day in and day out... ask a question that is asked by complete strangers on the daily (you can say that's not what you were asking, but you were, plain and simple)... get butthurt when people give you legit advice to POAS because we can't tell you if you are pregnant.... get butthurt because we tell you that our experiences have absolutely nothing to do with your experiences because every woman and ever pregnancy is different... jump in on a thread and try to "change" how our community is... and then call us all unhappy cunts.  (which in my opinion is way worse than anything that was ever said to you by the meanieheads on this board).
  
  What exactly were you expecting to happen? We are all quite happy, actually. And if you had given even an ounce of support to other people here, you would see that we are SUPER supportive to one another.
  
  Excuse me for not conforming to your ideals of how this board should work. Who is being ridiculous now?
  

                                      
                                 
                                          
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• Manateearmz member

  February 2014

  By your own standards of unhappiness your husband sounds like he is pretty miserable.

  

   

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• janda426 member

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  angielovestoki said:

  I've posted hoping that something would get through to SOMEONE, and you'd maybe realize that you are being ridiculous....but i'm done trying to be nice.  obviously trying to be nice really isn't something you all can comprehend.  As my husband says:  'sounds like they're all a bunch of unhappy cunts.'  

  
  

   couldn't have said it better myself.  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  Fuck you and your husband.
  
  Calling us unhappy cunts is worse than anything we've ever said to anyone on here. Congrats.
  

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• Gizmo36 member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  Honestly this whole process of trying to conceive has made me feel very vulnerable and stressed.  And dealing with a miscarriage didn't help.  YES i am probably overly emotional.  I'm very happy in my life but when you're already feeling vulnerable and open yourself up to complete strangers.......it doesn't feel good to get treated that way.   Plain & simple. You can justify it all away, but I am allowed to have emotions.

  
  

  But I'm realizing now that no matter what I say, it will be crazy and you all want me to go go the F away.  I get it.   I still find it quite sad, but I am realizing this board is NOT at all what I was expecting and I wish I would've realized it before I posted.  

  And this is why one should lurk before posting.  You would have realized a whole lot of info about this board just by lurking a day or two.  

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• LJ4556 member

  February 2014

  Oh FFS don't worry about these people ladies they're a bunch of bitter old hags. OBVIOUSLY.

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• catmagick member

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  Oh FFS don't worry about these people ladies they're a bunch of bitter old hags. OBVIOUSLY.

  
  
  
  You reeeeeeeally need to GTFO. I'm just over here waiting for you to do something ban worthy. Cuz it WILL happen.
  
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• ed16564 member

  February 2014

  I’d like to just come on here very quickly and apologize. I honestly didn’t mean to say I hated anyone on here I meant to just say I hate the snark. I am sensitive and I felt as though every single time I’d say anything people were ready to tell me what a moron I was for feeling that way. Which is fine once and a while because let’s face it, people on the internet say stupid things, but I felt like it was happening all the time. Last night I started a thread and I just wanted to know what other people took into consideration when planning trips- and I still got a snarky comment and it just kind of set me off- because really I wasn’t proposing to know anything, or posting a clichéd “Am I Pregnant?!?!” question. I really thought I wouldn’t get snark. And so when I still did- like I said it set me off.

  I know people who see that post think I over-reacted because 99% of the comments on that post had been helpful and thoughtful. So I do genuinely look like a crazy person- which is fine, I’m not denying that I didn’t look that way. I am sorry though for causing so much drama on a Sunday night.

  I’m in no way expecting people to come on here and embrace me at this point. That’s fine, I understand that sometimes in life you make mistakes that do ultimately burn bridges. I did just want to come on here and say my peace and apologize. Sorry for the length… T&P that everyone has a great week and gets their BFPs soon.

  
  

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  February 2014

  ed16564 said:

  I’d like to just come on here very quickly and apologize. I honestly didn’t mean to say I hated
  anyone on here I meant to just say I hate the snark. I am sensitive and I felt
  as though every single time I’d say anything people were ready to tell me what
  a moron I was for feeling that way. Which is fine once and a while because let’s
  face it, people on the internet say stupid things, but I felt like it was
  happening all the time. Last night I started a thread and I just wanted to know
  what other people took into consideration when planning trips- and I still got
  a snarky comment and it just kind of set me off- because really I wasn’t
  proposing to know anything, or posting a clichéd “Am I Pregnant?!?!” question.
  I really thought I wouldn’t get snark. And so when I still did- like I said it
  set me off.
  
  
  
  

  I know people who see that post think I over-reacted because
  99% of the comments on that post had been helpful and thoughtful. So I do
  genuinely look like a crazy person- which is fine, I’m not denying that I didn’t
  look that way. I am sorry though for causing so much drama on a Sunday night.

  I’m in no way expecting people to come on here and embrace
  me at this point. That’s fine, I understand that sometimes in life you make
  mistakes that do ultimately burn bridges. I did just want to come on here and
  say my peace and apologize. Sorry for the length… T&P that everyone has a
  great week and gets their BFPs soon.

  
  

  @ed16564 I'm being honest when I say this... Just let this die. You said your peace and now just let it go. I'm sure someone will have something else to say but you need to just take a break and walk away.
  
  

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• sister13 member

  February 2014 edited February 2014

  Link to Page 1 (I think)

  
  

  And Page 2 here

  
  

  Some stupid shit in there if you are inclined to read it!

    

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• NerdyLucy member

  February 2014

  angielovestoki said:

  I've posted hoping that something would get through to SOMEONE, and you'd maybe realize that you are being ridiculous....but i'm done trying to be nice.  obviously trying to be nice really isn't something you all can comprehend.  As my husband says:  'sounds like they're all a bunch of unhappy cunts.'  

  
  

   couldn't have said it better myself.  

  
   

  With all due respect, I haven't seen you be nice in the first place, so I'm not sure what you're whining about.
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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