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singingirl96 · February 2014

My cousin posted this on FB.... would you ever?

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rattlecanqueen · February 2014

You may want to protect her anonymity somehow...but no I definitely wouldn't.

lindslalala · February 2014

F no. But you probably also shouldn't be reposting them here.

flmomof4 · February 2014

She doesn't strike me as the kind of girl who cares if people see these...

Would I take bare belly photos? Sure. Would I post on FB? No. Would I wear a bra obviously too small to make my boobs look huge and have a sultry face on? Definitely not.

helloblueeyes · February 2014

MY EYES!!!!! AHHHHHHH!!!!

hupp0013 · February 2014

Nope, I wouldn't. I wouldn't even take pictures of my bare belly because I look like a heavily striped zebra. But to each their own.

Big+Lil · February 2014

I don't like posting pictures to pass judgment on others. Except if they're celebrities, free game there.

MstoMrstoMom851214 · February 2014

Wow...speechless! How old is she?!

cuntasaurusrex · February 2014

My first question here is actually how far along she is because it's a cute bump and I want to compare.

However no, I would never. But I wouldn't post a pic of myself in a bra while not knocked up, either.

VTKatie · February 2014

Yeah, not sure she is overly concerned with her identity being known. Put it on fbook = fair game.

alyssa719 · February 2014

She does have a cute bump (for it being nekkid, and me hating that portion).

I wouldn't post them on facebook... however, I also wouldn't post someone's half naked pictures on a message board. You never know her privacy settings on fb (maybe she only shared the pics with close friends/family vs. the whole world).

alygoo615 · February 2014

Not sure I'm on board with them being posted here. Especially by her cousin... not a random friend.

No I wouldn't do that. I don't post any specifically bump pictures on Facebook either. I don't think most care to see my bump... the ones who do message me and I'm happy to oblige.

katnipeverclean · February 2014

1) I can't unsee this.

2) I don't know that I would post this on a msg board without her permission.

ksuRN09 · February 2014

I would never take pictures like this to begin with, let alone post them on FB for everyone to see. No one in their right mind wants to see this naked mess.

Agree with PPs about posting these on a msg board without her permission. My cousin posted some inappropriate maternity pics on FB but I wouldn't dare post them elsewhere for anyone to discuss and potentially make fun. I think that would definitely hurt her feelings if she found out.

marsalisails · February 2014

jessa8907 said:

VTKatie said:

Yeah, not sure she is overly concerned with her identity being known. Put it on fbook = fair game.

I have my facebook privacy settings so high that only my friends can see my photos.

I don't think that makes them fair game for someone to go reposting them everywhere.

Even with her privacy settings high, I don't think that precludes anyone from hitting the "share" button on FB and sharing it to their whole friend population too...and so on and so on. People don't realize that no matter how high your settings are, others not on your friend list can get a hold of them. The Internet is forever people!

With that said, I wouldn't choose to post pics like this, BUT a) I'm not that hot and b) I really don't consider these offensive on any level. I've seen a lot worse with respect to the rediculous.

I get more annoyed by people who get all emo about life and boyfriends etc. on FB...I don't want to know how many times you and your low-life boyfriend break up and get back together, or how awful your life is, or what your politics are.

Ylvelill · February 2014

I can't see any issue with that /shrug. I see more when I go to the beach in Europe

AnotherPreggo · February 2014

Ehh. I am also of the mind frame that if you post a photo on the internet anywhere, it's for the world to see. That's kinda how the internet goes.

Maternity photos of any sort are NMS... so yeah, this would never be something I'd take part in haha!

TallMomma29 · February 2014

You should have left it ambiguous how you know the person and where you got the photos. I'm sure you didn't mean this as mean/bitchy, but it kind of comes off that way to post your own family member's photos on a message board for people to make fun of :-/

I agree with other PPs that just because something is posted on FB doesn't make it "fair game" to post everywhere. Just because you technically can doesn't mean you should... Especially if it is family. Eesh.

All of that said, she has a very cute bump but I would definitely never post pictures like this of myself anywhere, and I would silently judge anyone who did ;-)

alyssa719 · February 2014

symphony4586 said:

VTKatie said:

Yeah, not sure she is overly concerned with her identity being known. Put it on fbook = fair game.

I have my facebook privacy settings so high that only my friends can see my photos.

I don't think that makes them fair game for someone to go reposting them everywhere.
Even with her privacy settings high, I don't think that precludes anyone from hitting the "share" button on FB and sharing it to their whole friend population too...and so on and so on. People don't realize that no matter how high your settings are, others not on your friend list can get a hold of them. The Internet is forever people! With that said, I wouldn't choose to post pics like this, BUT a) I'm not that hot and b) I really don't consider these offensive on any level. I've seen a lot worse with respect to the rediculous. I get more annoyed by people who get all emo about life and boyfriends etc. on FB...I don't want to know how many times you and your low-life boyfriend break up and get back together, or how awful your life is, or what your politics are.
This is actually not true. You can make your settings so that people can't share your stuff.
WHAT?!? This is a thing? How?? This would solve so many issues with my mother if she didn't havw the option to share my stuff in the first place.

Yeap. That. I tried to share my bro's status the other day and apparently he's high class and locked his wares down so others can't see his stuff.

ETA: Also, I don't understand the comment about her bra being too small, and have now stared at a strangers boobs waaay too much trying to figure this out.

singingirl96 · February 2014

rattlecanqueen said:

You may want to protect her anonymity somehow...but no I definitely wouldn't.

1. She has the privacy of that post as "public" so FB public = fair game.

singingirl96 · February 2014

bunny0711 said:

Attention whore!!!!

I totally wouldn't care about protecting her anonymity. She put it on the internet in the first place.

Yes! This is a weekly occurrence... this one was particularly odd since she's only wearing a bra and thought it was ok to post on FB

singingirl96 · February 2014

aliletz said:

My first question here is actually how far along she is because it's a cute bump and I want to compare.

30 weeks

singingirl96 · February 2014

alyssa719 said:

You never know her privacy settings on fb (maybe she only shared the pics with close friends/family vs. the whole world).

I logged out and looked at her page. they're public. So, fair game.

cuntasaurusrex · February 2014

singingirl96 said:

aliletz said:

My first question here is actually how far along she is because it's a cute bump and I want to compare.

30 weeks

F. I feel like I'm not that far off of her bump size and I'm 20 weeks. I need to lay off the snacks (I say while eating a roll of smarties)

bullybutt · February 2014

Gawd, am I the only one who can't see the damn picture?

Nichole8787 · February 2014

Tacky.

singingirl96 · February 2014

TallMomma29 said:

You should have left it ambiguous how you know the person and where you got the photos. I'm sure you didn't mean this as mean/bitchy, but it kind of comes off that way to post your own family member's photos on a message board for people to make fun of :-/ I agree with other PPs that just because something is posted on FB doesn't make it "fair game" to post everywhere. Just because you technically can doesn't mean you should... Especially if it is family. Eesh. All of that said, she has a very cute bump but I would definitely never post pictures like this of myself anywhere, and I would silently judge anyone who did ;-)

I'm not usually mean, but I'm totally being mean in this case... . Who posts these provocative type pictures on a public FB page??? She's married. Is her husband ok with this? I think she's in her early 20's... i'm not sure. She should know better. Her mom is in her 40s and posts half naked picture of her at the beach... so the apple doesn't fall too far off the tree.

LuluPMW · February 2014

Ylvelill said:
I can't see any issue with that /shrug. I see more when I go to the beach in Europe

I'm thinking "when in Rome" and most of us are prudish North Americans...

Like PPs said, would neither post this of myself or share this with others.

drunkenhandstand · February 2014

TugboatSheila · February 2014

Regardless of how I feel about those kinds of photos it's not my body to have an opinion about.

She isn't naked and it's not like she's spread eagle.

I'm most uncomfortable that this woman has no idea that we are all talking about her.

singingirl96 · February 2014

BPaws said:

And in regards to your poor Aunt.....if you're wearing a swimsuit at the beach, you're half naked...... That's the point of a swimsuit, so you're not fully naked. Posting half naked pictures of yourself at Walmart will earn you a sideeye, posting half naked pictures of yourself at the beach is kinda normal. I don't really know anyone who hangs out at the beach in full suit (not counting surfers- I wear my dry suit all the time on the beach, but you bet your ass I'm rocking a half naked bikini underneath). Maybe I'm related to your cousin too?

if she's nearly 50 and wearing a near thong and barely enough of a bras to cover her nipple...yeah... its not appropriate. Plus she should NOT be seen in public wearing a 2 piece.

singingirl96 · February 2014

Look on buzz feed (or like), you'll see tons of pictures of people to be made fun of... I'm sure none of those people have given them permission to be posted on there... so... since it was on a public page, yes, I don't feel bad posting it here. Public page = fair game. I didn't make here upload her selfies. she did it, so she should be ok with anyone seeing it. She sets her privacy, not me.

Plus if she saw it, she'd probably love the attention (total attention whore).

She does have a rocking body, but then again, so did I when I was in my early 20's... so I'm partially a little jealous, I'll admit.

Whichever way. I totally don't think her picture belongs in a public page. But she put it out for all to see, and I thought you all would enjoy discussing this type of behavior. Don't like it that I posted this? move on.

singingirl96 · February 2014

milestrellas said:

singingirl96 said:
if she's nearly 50 and wearing a near thong and barely enough of a bras to cover her nipple...yeah... its not appropriate. Plus she should NOT be seen in public wearing a 2 piece.

Why do you think it's your job to deem what others wear as appropriate or not? Your personal opinion is not a fact.

If you saw it, you'd agree with me. Just sayn.

littlemissmarla · February 2014

1. I hope at 30 weeks my belly and boobs look as good as hers.

2. If I posted a pic on FB whether I was fully clothed or half naked - and I found out someone reposted it in a forum just to get some shits and giggles - I'd be mortified. If its my picture I choose where to post it - and you must not like your cousin very much to do this, just sayinnn

MrsWallick · February 2014

I'm tempted to post a pic of myself in a bra just to annoy you. But I suppose I'll spare the others on the board.

Rach7170 · February 2014

singingirl96 said:

TallMomma29 said:

You should have left it ambiguous how you know the person and where you got the photos. I'm sure you didn't mean this as mean/bitchy, but it kind of comes off that way to post your own family member's photos on a message board for people to make fun of :-/ I agree with other PPs that just because something is posted on FB doesn't make it "fair game" to post everywhere. Just because you technically can doesn't mean you should... Especially if it is family. Eesh. All of that said, she has a very cute bump but I would definitely never post pictures like this of myself anywhere, and I would silently judge anyone who did ;-)

I'm not usually mean, but I'm totally being mean in this case... . Who posts these provocative type pictures on a public FB page??? She's married. Is her husband ok with this? I think she's in her early 20's... i'm not sure. She should know better. Her mom is in her 40s and posts half naked picture of her at the beach... so the apple doesn't fall too far off the tree.

This is incredibly gross and judgemental. Also I'm pretty sure her husband knows since her page is public. The way you said that sounded completely like she should mind her husband and keep in line. Maybe you didn't mean that but, this whole post is weird and uncomfortable.

jensavicci · February 2014

Lol at the one random pic with a shirt on...

But it's not my style to take shirtless pics (regardless of the bra) and post them anywhere online.

I also think it was pretty rude of you to repost her picture here not only without her permission but for us to pick her a part. We are not a pack of lions that you can just throw meat at. She's your family and regardless of how you feel about her, you need to have some respect for her and her belongings no matter how she's treating them. If you don't like what she did, why would you further it by posting it on yet another public forum? SMH.

mecheller88 · February 2014

I have taken a few photos in my undies just for myself to compare but I would personally never post on FB or show anyone else except my SO, but if she is comfortable with I guess to each their own.

purpleXdandelion · February 2014

jensavicci said:
Lol at the one random pic with a shirt on...

I had a chuckle at that too, although it's definitely my favorite...so cute.

I don't have anything to add that PPs haven't already said. If you need to know where I stand, just look for my cupcake love tit. I hit that button way more than I usually do haha. Maybe cuz I'm just so disgusted with OP posting and making fun of family to internet strangers. Not cool.

{insert Oprah gif}
"You get a love tit, you get a love tit, EVERYBODY GETS A LOVE TIT!!!!"

alyssa719 · February 2014

If I have wonderful self esteem at 50, I plan on strutting around in a bikini, regardless of zebra baby stripes, and droopy boobs. If you don't like it, don't look at it and, in the words of OP, "move on"!

The irony is where the title says to "please discuss" but I think we missed the part of "..as long as you're making fun of her"... meep! Also, I think I gave out about a million tits on here so even if I'm not showing off my nekkid belly, you guys have those!

Salsera29 · February 2014

OP I have a fb friend who posts pics of her DD in such ridiculous outfits I've been dying to share them here. I even went to far as so save one and crop her face out...but then I thought better of it. It's just not nice. Sure, we all love to put on our judgy-pants. But usually that's with someone here, who can defend herself, or with a complete stranger nobody has a relationship with. You misjudged us.

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