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*~ Friday Special Valentine's Edition AW/SS/Random Thread~*

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  • I have my first weekend off since The middle of December. I have a list of crap I have to do around the house before DH gets home in a few weeks, but still, super excited I have two whole days to do them! image

    Still wide awake at 5:30 am though..
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  • Alright so I have to vent tell me if I'm crazy or what you would do.
    My SO and I had our romantic dinner with his friends... Then I had to goto work so he went to a show with said friends. No big deal I have to work anyway. All I asked is that he text me when he got home so I knew he made it home safe. I texted once at 10p when I made it to work cause I do that every time I goto work. Then I let him have fun and didn't text again tell 130ish. He still wasn't home no big deal the show was still probably going on. I texted again at 430am saying something along the lines of ok I'm just going to assume your dead. I get a text back saying nope. So I asked if he made it home he said no because he has to watch Britney (our roommate/his best friend whom when drunk tends to wonder around in her underwear). WTF! It's 445 in the morning by this point.
    A. Why is are you both not home?
    B. Where the f are you?
    C. Why does this seem like it's ok todo?

    So I stopped texting because I was mad. I get a phone call at 520ish. So I am going to assume that's when he got home. I get off work at 530a and drive home when I get home the gate was open. I check on the dog and let him out to potty. Then I go look for my SO who was not in our room asleep but up stairs in a chair sleeping. I try to wake him up to no avail so I just threw a blanket on him. Oh and we have to be to his parents house by noon and they live about 45mins to an hour away. He is passed out fing drunk at 6 in the morning. So now he is gonna bitch the whole drive there about feeling like he is dyeing.
  • Bozzy2Bozzy2 member
    edited February 2014
    colllydon said:
    Alright so I have to vent tell me if I'm crazy or what you would do.
    My SO and I had our romantic dinner with his friends... Then I had to goto work so he went to a show with said friends. No big deal I have to work anyway. All I asked is that he text me when he got home so I knew he made it home safe. I texted once at 10p when I made it to work cause I do that every time I goto work. Then I let him have fun and didn't text again tell 130ish. He still wasn't home no big deal the show was still probably going on. I texted again at 430am saying something along the lines of ok I'm just going to assume your dead. I get a text back saying nope. So I asked if he made it home he said no because he has to watch Britney (our roommate/his best friend whom when drunk tends to wonder around in her underwear). WTF! It's 445 in the morning by this point.
    A. Why is are you both not home?
    B. Where the f are you?
    C. Why does this seem like it's ok todo?

    So I stopped texting because I was mad. I get a phone call at 520ish. So I am going to assume that's when he got home. I get off work at 530a and drive home when I get home the gate was open. I check on the dog and let him out to potty. Then I go look for my SO who was not in our room asleep but up stairs in a chair sleeping. I try to wake him up to no avail so I just threw a blanket on him. Oh and we have to be to his parents house by noon and they live about 45mins to an hour away. He is passed out fing drunk at 6 in the morning. So now he is gonna bitch the whole drive there about feeling like he is dyeing.
    QFP I have so many questions lol. Why do you live with another woman? Why do you let your SO hang out with we alone if she has a "habit" of wondering around in her underwear? Do you trust them together because that seems like a super shady situation. To answer your questions, yeah that would be upsetting to me if I was ever in that position.
    I am going to assume you mean live with another woman and that is for financial reasons we are moving to the end of this month to our own place. 
    I let them hang out because it's his best friend and I had a talk with her about the underwear thing. So I think/thought that was over.
    I do trust them but at the same time I don't because it does seem like a shady thing.

    Edit because spelling is stupid.
  • Merie412 said:
    A girl on my Instagram posted this. I want to flame the hell out of her because I know her husband spoils the crap out of her all year round & I can't even think of what to say. Public shaming of your spouse...awesome.
    She's a dick!

  • Bozzy2 said:
    Alright so I have to vent tell me if I'm crazy or what you would do.
    My SO and I had our romantic dinner with his friends... Then I had to goto work so he went to a show with said friends. No big deal I have to work anyway. All I asked is that he text me when he got home so I knew he made it home safe. I texted once at 10p when I made it to work cause I do that every time I goto work. Then I let him have fun and didn't text again tell 130ish. He still wasn't home no big deal the show was still probably going on. I texted again at 430am saying something along the lines of ok I'm just going to assume your dead. I get a text back saying nope. So I asked if he made it home he said no because he has to watch Britney (our roommate/his best friend whom when drunk tends to wonder around in her underwear). WTF! It's 445 in the morning by this point.
    A. Why is are you both not home?
    B. Where the f are you?
    C. Why does this seem like it's ok todo?

    So I stopped texting because I was mad. I get a phone call at 520ish. So I am going to assume that's when he got home. I get off work at 530a and drive home when I get home the gate was open. I check on the dog and let him out to potty. Then I go look for my SO who was not in our room asleep but up stairs in a chair sleeping. I try to wake him up to no avail so I just threw a blanket on him. Oh and we have to be to his parents house by noon and they live about 45mins to an hour away. He is passed out fing drunk at 6 in the morning. So now he is gonna bitch the whole drive there about feeling like he is dyeing.
    Wow. That kind of behavior would NOT get a pass from me in any circumstances. 

    Also, I just saw your comment to @colllydon that they live together. I don't think I would be cool with that either.
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    TTC since 7/2010 with PCOS
    MMC 6/13 at 9 weeks
    BFP 10/13!

    Little A was born at 36 weeks on 5/23/14!

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  • @Bozzy2 all I can say is good luck and I hope that move comes fast for you. I think your relationship would be better if you were not in that situation.
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  • My DH, DS and I went to a local Mexican restaurant. It's been our tradition for 3 years now. DH says he's getting me something today but I really don't care. I had a fun night out with my guys.
    I got DH and I puzzle necklaces with our names on them. Because we fit perfectly together and all that mushy stuff lol.
  • @Bozzy2 all I can say is good luck and I hope that move comes fast for you. I think your relationship would be better if you were not in that situation.
    Thanks. I know it will be. Just today is one of those days where it kinda puts everything to the test I guess. 

    Thank you all for making me less crazy.
  • @katekat8721 yay! I hope you bring us a pic!
    Me-27 DH-30
    TTC since 7/2010 with PCOS
    MMC 6/13 at 9 weeks
    BFP 10/13!

    Little A was born at 36 weeks on 5/23/14!

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  • @colllydon Right when they open, no?
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  • @bebemac seriously? I have been wasting time then!
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  • @katekat8721 I was seriously thinking about getting 2 and putting one in the freezer... @bebemac that is an amazing link!

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  • KrystaJ said:
    That was our plan too, but I decided that we should just go to Dick's instead.

    I love it. DH and I don't really do v-day but man... a dicks deluxe and a choc shake sounds so good!

    After reading this I realized Dick's must be a restaurant BC otherwise I was thinking wow a dicks deluxe and a chocolate shake sounds REALLY dirty lol.

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  • @joules235 I need to pick your brain please, smart lady! If I do a Hypbobabies class do I also need to do a regular birth class? I'm not sure if I would get sufficient info in HB, or if the info overlaps, or if it is all different. TIA!
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  • Yesterday sucked. I'm still annoyed about it. H got his work bonus on Tuesday. We were expecting it to be small, but it was like 3x what we thought. We were so happy to have some extra money to be able to spend on ourselves. On Thursday I went to my parents house about 85 miles from our house, H was supposed to come yesterday after getting his car smogged and registered. His car broke down on the way to be smogged, of course. He had it towed to a mechanic and he called to tell me he knew it had to do with the power steering but didn't know if it was just a hose or the whole damn thing. It was the whole thing. So long work bonus! I'm so glad we got that money to be able to cover the repair but my hormones and my dashed excitement to go to a nice dinner last night made me so upset. I ended up driving home to pick H up, drive back to my parents, and we ate at Buffalo Wild Wings. At least wings are tasty.
  • emilyh107 said:

    Took DD to build a bear last night and ate at the mall food court. It was yummy actually and wasn't crowded.
    Here is my sweet DD with her bear, Rainbow.

    Sorry it's sideways, I'm mobile.

    That is a colorful bear! Does it only have one eye?
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  • @emilyh107 she is so adorable!!
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  • Now I want a milkshake like whoa...mmmmmmm chocolate milkshake. However, I have a cold so I feel like all that dairy would only make me feel more like I'm drowning in my own phlegm. Dear cold- you blow (see what I did there?)!
  • I have a thing with leftovers. I ALWAYS leave them behind, leave them in the car, etc. and get upset that I dont get my yumny food.

    I was so proud of myself for bringing my [expensive] leftovers all the way home and inside last night. So excited for them.

    H found them sitting on the table this morning. It was chicken. :((

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    I fail at life.

    I would totally still eat it. I usually leave leftovers out anyway.
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  • Oh I found it! It's a clusterfuck! I lurked some more and for real, some of the questions people post!!? At 8 months? Is my baby moving to get ready for labor? Thanks for posting. It's pure entrainment.
    colllydon said:

    If anyone is bored March 14 is blowing up with a chick who made at least 3 possibly 4 of her own SS threads.

  • joules235 said:

    bebemac said:

    @joules235 I need to pick your brain please, smart lady! If I do a Hypbobabies class do I also need to do a regular birth class? I'm not sure if I would get sufficient info in HB, or if the info overlaps, or if it is all different. TIA!

    Hypnobabies is comprehensive and will teach you about everything from the stages of labor to birthing/laboring positions to common medical interventions (pros and cons) to breastfeeding stuff. As a student you will get a course book that is full of information and you will go over everything in class with plenty of chances to ask questions.
    It is actually not recommended to take another class if you take Hypnobabies because the pain management techniques and language used will undermine the hypnosis training.

    Thank you so much! I am going to do it! Sounds like I can skip the hospital's breast feeding classes, too.
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  • bebemacbebemac member
    edited February 2014


    Oh I found it! It's a clusterfuck! I lurked some more and for real, some of the questions people post!!? At 8 months? Is my baby moving to get ready for labor? Thanks for posting. It's pure entrainment.

    colllydon said:

    If anyone is bored March 14 is blowing up with a chick who made at least 3 possibly 4 of her own SS threads.

    OMG. What if she's Kels?!

    ETA: I posted in the stress thread!
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  • There are a few AW/SS on that board... Which I find bizarre at 8 months right? Perhaps not... There are several posts that just don't make sense!
    bebemac said:


    Oh I found it! It's a clusterfuck! I lurked some more and for real, some of the questions people post!!? At 8 months? Is my baby moving to get ready for labor? Thanks for posting. It's pure entrainment.

    colllydon said:

    If anyone is bored March 14 is blowing up with a chick who made at least 3 possibly 4 of her own SS threads.

    OMG. What if she's Kels?!

  • @joules235 Makes sense! I do get an LC who will work with me one-on-one shortly after the birth. Thanks again!
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  • @elsa1688 Well? What happened yesterday at 5:30? You can't just leave us hanging like this!
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  • colllydon said:

    If anyone is bored March 14 is blowing up with a chick who made at least 3 possibly 4 of her own SS threads.

    Was checking out their board and saw a post about secret bumpie. What's that?
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  • MommyP710 said:

    colllydon said:

    If anyone is bored March 14 is blowing up with a chick who made at least 3 possibly 4 of her own SS threads.

    Was checking out their board and saw a post about secret bumpie. What's that?
    I saw that, too! I bet it is like old school secret pals!
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