I'm disappointed with TheBump forums...

Katie6126 · February 2014

This feels like high school! I am thinking back to the thread about how hard it is to make adult friends and laughing. It's because women are mean! And hormonal women hiding behind their screennames are even worse!

"Hey, let's make a thread asking for people's unpopular opinions and then bludgeon them as soon as they give an unpopular opinion! SOOOOO MUCH FUN!"

After seeing so many people attacked on here and being attacked myself, I'm done!

Here, let me insert an insulting gif myself... though I'm sure you'll come up with many more.

Yep, that is totally me! Happy rainbow glitter farts because I don't enjoy spending my days on the internet tearing down other people while claiming to know all the right answers about parenting. I am SUCH an IDIOT.

To everyone inside and outside the clique, I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy!

Over and out.

(Edited for typos.)

MrsHamon09 · February 2014

Out of curiosity why not just leave if you hate it so much? Why make a AW post about leaving and people here being so mean? In any rate I wish you the best with your pregnancy

linsies · February 2014

She is leaving. Other people make these posts, so she followed suit.

Maybe she would like for people to think about their behavior instead of just being a rude know-it-all. I don't go on baby forums for this exact reason... but this post was brought to my attention and I love it. Good on you, Katie!

linsies · February 2014

carmstr4 said:

Judging by your thread title I came in fully intending to give you T&P because of m/c. Then I see it's an AW because boo hoo the Internet is mean. Good riddance

Wow, you sound like a joy to be around.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

If you don't go on baby forums because people are meanies @linsies I'd say insulting those who do is a bit hypocritcal. But thank you, my friends and family seem to enjoy even when internet randos do not.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

carmstr4 said:

Judging by your thread title I came in fully intending to give you T&P because of m/c. Then I see it's an AW because boo hoo the Internet is mean. Good riddance

This. I came in here expecting someone else going through absolute shit. Only to find someone being a total AW about leaving because the internet is full of meanies! Insinuating that you are having a miscarriage is completely shitty. There are a plethora of other sites you can play on if you don't like it here. Adios!

@linsies, there was no reason to flag @carmstr4 for abuse just because you don't like what she said. It was not abusive. Unnecessary flagging has gotten people banned.

linsies · February 2014

You guys are insane. I find that type of behavior abuse. If I'm wrong, a moderator can certainly let me know. I know how to use forums, thank you. Coming into a thread and bullying someone because they have differing opinions from your own is abuse.

Women are supposed to be loving and supportive of one another. Women on baby forums sit around with judgement and hate in their hearts. There's a hilarious 30 Rock episode about it, you should check it out.

As I said, I don't frequent these places, and I have things like kids and a life to worry about, so I won't be responding to this thread anymore.

You guys keep up the good job of scaring people away, bullying them and feeling good about yourselves. Then, you can make more of yourselves to do the same thing 20 years from now! Hooray!

MrsLaLaBug · February 2014

Well, bless your heart. Best wishes!

Groxb · February 2014

linsies said:

You guys are insane. I find that type of behavior abuse. If I'm wrong, a moderator can certainly let me know. I know how to use forums, thank you. Coming into a thread and bullying someone because they have differing opinions from your own is abuse.

Women are supposed to be loving and supportive of one another. Women on baby forums sit around with judgement and hate in their hearts. There's a hilarious 30 Rock episode about it, you should check it out.

As I said, I don't frequent these places, and I have things like kids and a life to worry about, so I won't be responding to this thread anymore.

You guys keep up the good job of scaring people away, bullying them and feeling good about yourselves. Then, you can make more of yourselves to do the same thing 20 years from now! Hooray!

Hope that was a promise.

portentosa · February 2014

beckynsean11 said:

carmstr4 said:

Judging by your thread title I came in fully intending to give you T&P because of m/c. Then I see it's an AW because boo hoo the Internet is mean. Good riddance

This. I came in here expecting someone else going through absolute shit. Only to find someone being a total AW about leaving because the internet is full of meanies! Insinuating that you are having a miscarriage is completely shitty. There are a plethora of other sites you can play on if you don't like it here. Adios!

@linsies, there was no reason to flag @carmstr4 for abuse just because you don't like what she said. It was not abusive. Unnecessary flagging has gotten people banned.

All of this. WTF. I can't even believe this.

I'm happy you are not having a m/c OP but your thread title and whining completely suck balls. H&H 9 months to you, don't let the door hit you on the way out.

MrsLaLaBug · February 2014

Ummmm.... And @linsies who ARE you? Where did you suddenly appear from, since your only two posts consist of what you've written in here?? CREEPER.

portentosa · February 2014

linsies said:

You guys are insane. I find that type of behavior abuse. If I'm wrong, a moderator can certainly let me know. I know how to use forums, thank you. Coming into a thread and bullying someone because they have differing opinions from your own is abuse.

Women are supposed to be loving and supportive of one another. Women on baby forums sit around with judgement and hate in their hearts. There's a hilarious 30 Rock episode about it, you should check it out.

As I said, I don't frequent these places, and I have things like kids and a life to worry about, so I won't be responding to this thread anymore.

You guys keep up the good job of scaring people away, bullying them and feeling good about yourselves. Then, you can make more of yourselves to do the same thing 20 years from now! Hooray!

This is the ONLY thread you have EVER responded to. Who are you really?

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

@mermaidsmagic Bhahahahhaha that was PERFECT

MrsLaLaBug · February 2014

TheEmpireNeedsYou said:

What I always love about these kinds of things...

It was TOTALLY okay for that chick to tell me I'm warping my child by extended breastfeeding, in spite of it being recommended by various organizations.

But if I tell her she's being ridiculous, judgemental, and wrong....I'm a bully.

Uh huh. Or maybe she was just wrong and deserved to be told that.

Prexactly.

MrsLaLaBug · February 2014

The title of this thread is really starting to bug me... Can you change it, @smileygirl18?

portentosa · February 2014

MrsLaLaBug said:

The title of this thread is really starting to bug me... Can you change it, @smileygirl18?

"You all are internet meanies! Waaaaaa!!" is a good alternative, but "GBCB" will do.

AmandaR204 · February 2014

I had to reread this 100 times to figure out there was no mc and my love and support weren't needed. These boards can be brutal and cut throat, they aren't always nice and if you can't handle it, it's probably best you're leaving. This place will never be puppies and rainbows, ever. It's stray cats wildabeasts and thunder storms...but when you need it the most, we have all the love and support to give you. Good luck with everything.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

@jacksongoal I would suggest unflagging me as well considering out Mod @smileygirl18 already gave a warning that my post was not flaggable.

trebekastan · February 2014

I think some of your comments are really sad and I can't believe you are upset because someone who came out to play got put in their place. Posting an UO about BFing a 3 year old would be okay if you just said it made you uncomfortable. Where you are crossing the line is saying that you are scarring your children and throwing out nonsense. It isn't bullying to tell her she's wrong.

CplusJ=S · February 2014

lstrejcek said:

I think some of your comments are really sad and I can't believe you are upset because someone who came out to play got put in their place. Posting an UO about BFing a 3 year old would be okay if you just said it made you uncomfortable. Where you are crossing the line is saying that you are scarring your children and throwing out nonsense. It isn't bullying to tell her she's wrong.

Exactly. I couldn't give two fucks about being judged for breastfeeding my toddler, but I do get offended when someone says I'm scarring her or insinuates it is sexual in any way. That is sick and couldn't be further from the truth. Those are serious accusations.

JustCricket · February 2014

I didn't read llike half the commetns.. just your op.. but there are PLENTY of sites out there that are much more sunshine and rainbows.

bear1215 · February 2014

Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it.

even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.

bear1215 · February 2014

23Melissa28 said:

bear1215 said:
Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it.

even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.
Yes, the title was changed. And I can't tell if you're white knighting, or not.
:-?

I'm not doing anything but stating a fucking fact. She didn't m/c ... you thought so. You were wrong. Get over it.

bookqueen · February 2014

bear1215 said:

Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it. even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.
Yes, the title was changed. And I can't tell if you're white knighting, or not. :-?
I'm not doing anything but stating a fucking fact. She didn't m/c ... you thought so. You were wrong. Get over it.

A lot of people thought she m/c due to her previous title, including the Mod who requested her to change it.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

bear1215 said:

Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it. even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.
Yes, the title was changed. And I can't tell if you're white knighting, or not. :-?
I'm not doing anything but stating a fucking fact. She didn't m/c ... you thought so. You were wrong. Get over it.

Wait. What?

(Side note: @23melissa28 finally you're back! we missed you!)

Ok, back to the fore note. What? @bear1215

portentosa · February 2014

zoeygirl1105 said:

23Melissa28 said:

23Melissa28 said:

I like the little underground gbcb/white knight followers. You know, the ones who have the balls to "love" the "you guise r meen" posts, but won't actually verbalize that thought themselves.

Where the fuck have you been? I was wondering about you yesterday.
Lol I've been a lurk hoar on this board lately. I've posted a few times though. I posted in the Thursday appointment thread earlier with a u/s pip. I'm on O13 a lot though still. And on Sunday and Mondays, I basically don't come on here at all because of work. Fuckin work. Smh.

lurk less and post more!

I was afraid you left us! Good to see you Melissa!

trebekastan · February 2014

bear1215 said:

Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it. even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.
Yes, the title was changed. And I can't tell if you're white knighting, or not. :-?
I'm not doing anything but stating a fucking fact. She didn't m/c ... you thought so. You were wrong. Get over it.

AnyMax · February 2014

bear1215 said:

23Melissa28 said:

bear1215 said:
Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it.

even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.
Yes, the title was changed. And I can't tell if you're white knighting, or not.
:-?
I'm not doing anything but stating a fucking fact. She didn't m/c ... you thought so. You were wrong. Get over it.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

bear1215 said:

Wtf is wrong with her title? It says that she doesn't like the bump forums ... or was it changed to that? I don't get it. even if her title said "I'm out" big deal. You didn't need to offer her t/p's but so long lady.
Yes, the title was changed. And I can't tell if you're white knighting, or not. :-?
I'm not doing anything but stating a fucking fact. She didn't m/c ... you thought so. You were wrong. Get over it.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`

Are you kidding me? Every single "I'm out" thread is going to be assumed to be about a loss. It's not like it was just one person that thought it was shitty to use that title. It felt like OP purposefully mislead us just to get us in the thread to make sure we knew how horrible we are & that she's leaving.

mrsdanielleM2010 · February 2014

Twinning!

bear1215 · February 2014

Actually, a lot of people on this board need to "calm their face"

AnyMax · February 2014

@lstrejcek I love you.

bear1215 · February 2014

I'm an asshole. Hah right a long with some other people on this board.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

@bear1215 OOOOH like who??!?!

AmandaR204 · February 2014

bear1215 said:

Actually, a lot of people on this board need to "calm their face"

Listen here "bear"... No one is understanding you. I suggest you stop speaking bear.

trebekastan · February 2014

Go fuck yourself.

bear1215 · February 2014

lstrejcek said:
Go fuck yourself.

Oh so nice of you.

bear1215 · February 2014

AmandaR204 said:

bear1215 said:

Actually, a lot of people on this board need to "calm their face"

Listen here "bear"... No one is understanding you. I suggest you stop speaking bear.

Nope sure won't

JustCricket · February 2014

Actually, a lot of people on this board need to "calm their face"
I must be too busy being a douche, because I haven't a fuckin clue what "calm your face" means.

sounds like we're back to the era of "talk to the hand" >:/

AmandaR204 · February 2014

23Melissa28 said:

Actually, a lot of people on this board need to "calm their face"
I must be too busy being a douche, because I haven't a fuckin clue what "calm your face" means.

Calm your face means to tranquilizer your face with Botox....I think.

bumpuser10199668 · February 2014

@23melissa28 I think its like this...where you like fan your face and shit? I think its for hormones or something? I'm not sure.

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