What is the worst insult anyone has ever "given" you? This can include names that people might have called you, assumptions they made, accusations, etc.
Also include who called/said this and any back story if needed.
BFP 01/05/2013. EDD 09/18/2013. Low Progesterone. Gestational Diabetes. Rh Negative. Baby Ky-Mani born 100% healthy 09/17/2013. TTC#2 12/2013. BFP 02/01/2014! "Baby RaggaMuffin" due 10/07/2014.
Re: --GTKY-- Worst Insult
Mine isn't the best but it was definitely the most hurtful.
I caught my BF cheating on me with his first love from high school--who was married. Me and her had a few ugly disputes via Facebook, and one time she told me that she "loved my weight gain." I had put on a few pounds over the last few months, but didn't realize it was that noticeable. I just laughed it off and told her it was a nice attempt to make her feel better about herself (she was really overweight).
The funny thing was when the fired me for the short drawer I wasn't even working that day- someone logged in as me. The girl that they promoted to my position ended up getting caught stealing thousands of dollars and her boyfriend was stealing food when it came from commissary. She's is in jail now.
I was devastated when I lost my job but it worked out eventually because I came to work for my dad. They apologized to me after the facts all came out.
I had to block her texts, phone calls and FB yesterday to get her to stop. Unfortunately, I get really hurt by the things she says to me. I am feeling really depressed today because of it. I have been struggling with anxiety and depression since having my baby. It just sucks to have it thrown in my face like I can control it.
Anyways, she had this new boyfriend that was always over and I always had a friend or 2 that were both friends with over. I was always super polite to her boyfriend and wanted to make him feel included and would invite both of them out with us whenever my group of friends would make plans. (She would ALWAYS decline coming out with us whether it was to the bar or just out for supper) It came to a point where anytime I would walk in the door she would say "ok let's go to my room" and sometimes he would just take 5 minutes to finish his drink or whatever it was they were watching on tv.. So she would yell at him and call him a piece of crap and get so upset that he didn't rush off to her room. (I'm sure he just didn't want to be rude when I come in the door and ask what's up and start a conversation)
She ends up abruptly moving out with him without even letting me know.
Okay so now fast forward to them having a verbally abusive relationship ( no doubt in my mind it was all her fault cause she was a psychotic B.) but she ends up in jail for domestic violence and breaching her probation because she scratched his car and Yada Yada..
So anyways I'm 7 months pregnant and I'm offering to get her stuff from her ex boyfriend so she doesn't lose her grandmas ashes and her portfolio she made for college (2 important things that I would feel bad if she lost ) but I was also gonna pack up all her stuff so she had clothes and some furniture when she got out of jail. So we were talking back and forth on the phone from jail so I can ask her what all she had and to get her ex's number blah blah blah. I was totally going out of my way to help her even though she treated me with no respect while living together (didn't add that information at the beginning of the story)
Holy this is long I'm so sorry! Lol so she sends me a letter one day freaking out on me accusing me of Sleeping with her ex! She's completely dillusional.. Saying "why do you have his number then" (so I can contact him to get her stuff and she knew this we talked about it on the phone) she starts just creating this whole scenario in her head that I was playing with her mind to sleep with her boyfriend. In all reality I don't even talk to this guy and I was 7 -8 months pregnant in a happy relationship..
I got SO unbelievably offended because I would NEVER 1. Do that to my friends. 2. Cheat on my own relationship. Needless to say I sent her a letter telling her that she can kiss her items goodbye, that I was not helping her one bit and not to come crying to me when her crazy ass gets out of jail.
Sorry this was so long I didn't intend to write a book but it just happened. I'm actually all irritated just thinking about how crazy this girl is. (You would have to know her to understand)
That is seriously awful, kids are so freaking mean sometimes.
My mom used to, on multiple occasions, call me "selfish". I knew she was just lashing out but I keep finding myself mentally trying to prove her wrong. Like "How could she think that? I did ____this_____ and _____that_____"
A part of it that got me was that she raised me (and my dad too!) and they did a damn good job, so how could they doubt their own ability to raise a young woman to be a fabulous person (in general) I never understood that train of thought. You raised me, you molded my morals, attitude and outlook... so how do you suddenly think I became such an evil person? I just don't get it.
BFP 01/05/2013. EDD 09/18/2013. Low Progesterone. Gestational Diabetes. Rh Negative. Baby Ky-Mani born 100% healthy 09/17/2013. TTC#2 12/2013. BFP 02/01/2014! "Baby RaggaMuffin" due 10/07/2014.
Jamie
I finally got a breast reduction in 2003. I was probably a J cup size or larger with a 34/36 band. It's hereditary. My mom also had a BR in her 20s. I really hope that Emily does not inherit this and gets that gene from her dad's side. His mom and sister have what I consider normal-size boobs. What really sucks is that with pregnancy and breastfeeding, I'm back to a G/H cup. I'll be getting another BR after babies and nursing if they don't return to pre-pregnancy DD (which is still too big for my own comfort).
Jamie
I think the worst insult was from my Dad, he knows which buttons to press and more than once has said something along the lines of "you think you know everything".
Edit, I stopped reading to post after pumpkinmomma - just read back through. I am so sorry that you all have had such awful things said to you! We all made awesome little humans so we must be doing something right!!
He implemented ideas in her head assuming I beat her somehow. It was horrible and I would never injure my child like that.
Of course I was cleared and everything was fine.
For some reason I can think of a book of insults I've received over the years. High school was awful. However, the worst was just recently.
When we found out we were pregnant I was waiting to tell my family until my first dr appt. Well my very out spoken sister somehow picked up on me not drinking or something and sent me a text. "Are you preggers?". To which I replied "yes, DH and I are having a baby, I am 9 weeks along. Funny how sister intuition works". Apparently, I informed her the wrong way and she didn't speak to me for 3 months because she was "waiting for me to rectify the situation" And then proceeded to tell me I'm making the biggest mistake of my life. And the finally, when I sat my mom down and told her I was pregnant her immediate response was "well, sapphire I think you should have an abortion". And then later pretending like she never said that.
People are horrible sometimes. I've made the decision to never say one thing that is intended to hurt someone. I used to snap back in spite but I grew out of that. I try to always make my intentions positive and uplifting.
BFP 01/05/2013. EDD 09/18/2013. Low Progesterone. Gestational Diabetes. Rh Negative. Baby Ky-Mani born 100% healthy 09/17/2013. TTC#2 12/2013. BFP 02/01/2014! "Baby RaggaMuffin" due 10/07/2014.
Side-note...reading these madee very sad that people can say such hurtful things to each other. I think all of you are amazingly strong for surviving those hurtful years!
I have suffered from verbal abuse from my dad, and you would think that the pain from the words would have gone away now, now that I am an adult, and have my own family but to this day, anytime my Dad starts yelling or spewing insults I feel like small child filled with fear and a knot in my throat.
But the good thing is we are stronger and better than yesterday and that although those words may sting and might but a damper in our day, those words do not define or confine us
BFP 01/05/2013. EDD 09/18/2013. Low Progesterone. Gestational Diabetes. Rh Negative. Baby Ky-Mani born 100% healthy 09/17/2013. TTC#2 12/2013. BFP 02/01/2014! "Baby RaggaMuffin" due 10/07/2014.
BFP: 1/17/13 EDD: 9/20/13 Dalenna Rose Born: 40 wks 4 days 9/24/13
FTM to my sweetpea Miss D.
Then in Hs I was friends with a large variety of people including the class cool girls and the one said within earshot of a girl I knew since 1st grade who was heavy that anyone bigger than a size 6 was a disgusting whale so I decided right there and then I didn't want to be friends with any of them anymore and they proceeded to treat me like a social leper for the last 2 years of Hs. Total bitches.
BFP: 1/17/13 EDD: 9/20/13 Dalenna Rose Born: 40 wks 4 days 9/24/13
FTM to my sweetpea Miss D.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
Agreed.
Jamie