Hello! May I join you?

typeset · February 2014

snuff9861 said:

Have fun May 14, you got an extra special one.

She doesn't have to go home, but she can't stay here.

crhein26 · February 2014

snuff9861 said:

*lurking from J14*

Hey OP

Bitching about us on another board is not going to win you any popularity contests. You made a douchy statement, and you were appropriately flamed for it. Try looking up the definition of bullying, I assure you you were not bullied.

Have fun May 14, you got an extra special one.

*also lurking from June 14*

Good luck with this one May 2014. She was really hurtful to a really nice person! It's hard to forgive someone that tells a woman who literally just lost her baby to Fuck Off.

diagonalley · February 2014

JuneBug317 said:

I totally agree and I felt and still feel terrible about it. I really put my foot in my mouth when I turned around to be a crazy immature hormonal bitch in defending myself. I understand if you all would rather go on about your board w/o additions, esp after forming bonds over the last 25 weeks.

Lurking from June...couldn't get rid of us that quickly

You feel terrible about it? Really? In what response to that thread did you express any bit of sorry? I'm glad you recognize you were being a crazy immature hormonal bitch, but you should also recognize that there was no need to defend yourself. Just apologize for your wrong doing, and bow out gracefully. However, that is by no means what you did, and now you're here acting like you were ganged up on.

Here's a suggestion. You want to be a part of one of these BMBs? Then BE a part of it. Don't make it about you. Offer support as it is needed to those who need it. The fact that you have been posting since October and have 24 replies shows that you really are NOT invested in these boards and being a part of the group. Your best bet at this point is to create a whole new account, because you are forever tied to your previous comments with this screen name.

jshrop · February 2014

Hi May ladies, just want to say: "I heart you all!" That is all. June '14er

flutepharm87 · February 2014

I can't really say much either way since I don't post a ton on here (work's been kicking my butt and taking up all my time lately), but after reading your post from June14, I think you might be better suited on a different site. I've been a part of a lot of boards here on TB and the ladies here are nothing if not honest. They will tell you, point blank, what their opinions are and, frankly, I just don't think you have thick enough skin for that. Obviously you can do what you want, but I'm just not sure you're going to have a positive experience here.

tbmadeamistake · February 2014

J14 here...what's the R word? Also, yeah, not so much with op. Try another site altogether.

katekat8721 · February 2014

lol, you guys can have her :P

- June '14

flutepharm87 · February 2014

Hey @kitchencolors! Yeah, I've had 6 call-offs in 6 days, my store is severely underperforming, my partner is useless...most of my "free time" has been spent filling out technician write-ups and prepping my store for inventory. So I've been super boring

But I miss you ladies!

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Katemr1146 · February 2014

@lilygrace48 you have a PM

talkthewholetime · February 2014

How much you all want to bet her due date never changed anyway?

FFS make a new name and pretend you're a new person if you really want to post.

Miles2Go · February 2014

OP, if it doesn't work out for you here at M14, I hear that April 14 is a super nice and welcoming group. Just, ya know, FYI.

typeset · February 2014

ErBear1010 said:

You even posted on the ticker change when today isn't even your day!!!!

Oh HELL no.

jschwind22 · February 2014

ErBear1010 said:

Why are you even asking-you've been posting here-at least today. You even posted on the ticker change when today isn't even your day!!!!

Ugggggh not this again! OP just needs to scratch this SN. She only has 27 replies anyways.

Miles2Go · February 2014

typeset said:

ErBear1010 said:

You even posted on the ticker change when today isn't even your day!!!!

Oh HELL no.

I just had a flashback to September. OMG.

RedInLove · February 2014

And a blueberry at that!!!! Yeah, my belly looks like a blueberry this far along!

Mztwilson · February 2014

Lurking from j14. All I can say is OP your not nor have you ever been missed. Sure hope you find some new friends. May14 ladies 2 words.. Good luck!

RedInLove · February 2014

jschwind22 said:

ErBear1010 said:

Why are you even asking-you've been posting here-at least today. You even posted on the ticker change when today isn't even your day!!!!

Ugggggh not this again! OP just needs to scratch this SN. She only has 27 replies anyways.

And only 8 of those were before a few days ago when she suddenly bombarded June with her crap. Now she's on 2Tri. Good place for her since it's not here.

LEO2010 · February 2014

jshrop said:

Hi May ladies, just want to say: "I heart you all!" That is all. June '14er

Exactly this from another June '14 gal!

CamrynnsMommy · February 2014

HatchetFace said:

typeset said:

ErBear1010 said:

You even posted on the ticker change when today isn't even your day!!!!

Oh HELL no.

Hold my earrings, y'all.

I got chu!

OP,

ABColeslaw · February 2014

June gals, we have much love for ya, but dudes we have our own crazies! Take a look around, the place is crawling with them.

Also OP, it looks like you need to change your screen name. Good luck on the triboards. You may find that the flavor is different, but in my experience they are way more harsh.

If you want to change your screen name, you just need to message the bump gods.

kat8805 · February 2014

RedInLove said:
And a blueberry at that!!!! Yeah, my belly looks like a blueberry this far along!

WTF. "I've been lurking for a week now" and you've been on June'14 since October...

I have opened and looked at my ticker change on my day once... Because I know Wtf a ticker change is just by the effing title... And I understood it. Not just this dumb bitch, but another "oops, I had no idea what it meant" [but you morons posted anyways?!].

I can't.

ABColeslaw · February 2014

Okay I had my nice pants on earlier. But I just found out OP that you only apologized after you were told to, even though you led us to believe you'd done it on your own accord.

Take everything I said to you and throw it away. You don't treat someone who just lost a child like that. It makes me sick. As a late loss Mama myself, it was a fucking miracle I even tried to be kind to you and give you some benefit.

But no, please, stay off this board. None of us have time for that type of crap, lying, and manipulation.

One word for you "compassion" you want it so damn bad when you don't deserve it, have you considered giving it to someone else?

I hope second tri eats you up.

LaurelJoy91 · February 2014

Hello from June '14. You ladies are awesome!

What gets me is that she'll admit to this board that she understands how what she said was offensive and says she feels terrible, yet she never once had the decency to give us a sincere apology or admission of guilt. She admits that she didn't lurk long enough to realize we'd had 3 losses in one week, but after finding out about one in particular still responded with a super sensitive "fuck you too". We tried to suggest she lurk and read the regular threads and she flipped her shit, but now that she's tried to switch boards she's all "oh sure I can lurk more, np

" It's like she is trying to fool you all into believing that she's some super sweet girl who made a tiny mistake. Unfortunately for her, it looks as though May '14 is not as naive as she hoped.

I'll get back to my own board now. Continue being awesome and good luck with your own crazies

We've got your back if they try to find sympathy on our board.

Junebug060609 · February 2014

At first I was all excited to see your post, because hey, Junebugs are awesome (<-points to my sn).

Then I read your post.

Then I read the rest of the thread and was pretty much floored.

As a member of the loss community on TB, I am completely disgusted with the way you reacted to a greiving mother.

To the rest of the board: I pretty please dont mix my sn up with hers, mmmkay???

momthatlifts · February 2014

Op is ballsy... and not a good kind of ballsy

JNerd · February 2014

ABColeslaw said:
Okay I had my nice pants on earlier. But I just found out OP that you only apologized after you were told to, even though you led us to believe you'd done it on your own accord.

Take everything I said to you and throw it away. You don't treat someone who just lost a child like that. It makes me sick. As a late loss Mama myself, it was a fucking miracle I even tried to be kind to you and give you some benefit.

But no, please, stay off this board. None of us have time for that type of crap, lying, and manipulation.

One word for you "compassion" you want it so damn bad when you don't deserve it, have you considered giving it to someone else?

I hope second tri eats you up.

So... Guess who just came back to June14 and apologized, but claims she is doing it because she wants to and not because she was told to? Have a feeling you won't need more than 1 guess.
The mobile app won't let me link, but it's on the Newbs/Lurkers Lesson post.

sheriot · February 2014

Christinaruth74 · February 2014

I wonder if she'd fare better on the tri boards. -_-

Edit because fat fingers.

RedInLove · February 2014

Christinaruth74 said:
I wonder if she'd fare better on the tri boards. -_-

Edit because fat fingers.

She was all over 2Tri yesterday.

flerlgirl · February 2014

Flerl was here. Lol, op. Sup, May 14?

andoll8 · February 2014

as per usual, i missed most of this, but I've. been back-logging through the threads, including the June'14 incidences.

i agree with my May'14 ladies: OP:

and to the June'14 lurkers: thank you!

Jillzy86 · February 2014

I have had enough of the May Crazy's we do not need one coming over from the June board! It sounds like you don't like what the Bump B's have to offer so it best if you find a new place!

Mamazon2014 · February 2014

Um, yeah, No.

I have to try to stay away from the BSC, doc's orders (well she technically said to avoid any unnecessary stressors that could raise my BP, so I guess those are one in the same).

I think we here on the May boards have reached max capacity for crazies and there's just no room at the inn.

and in case you don't understand subtlety:

flerlgirl · February 2014

@hhegyesi - Solid World's End gif!

alphalyrae · February 2014

flerlgirl said:

@hhegyesi - Solid World's End gif!

Your son is adorable!

kat8805 · February 2014

JuneBug317 said:

I did PM her but she did not respond and I didn't expect her to. I just got really defensive at all of the posts and lashed out. I only hope it doesn't keep her from the boards as she has obviously secured a strong support system and I hate that I have deterred her from visiting them. She has had enough loss. And I am a huge ass.

I am apparently terrible at message boards, but am learning my lesson fast. I burned a lot of bridges in June and thought I could have a fresh start with some lessons learned. Sorry if I have offended anyone else. I just really want to be able to share this amazing time with other expecting moms not to brag about myself or try to get attention. That said, it kindof looks like I am doing that anyway with all this drama! AHHHH! Im just going to keep my trap shut and mind my ps and qs.

Are you fucking bi-polar?! Multi-personality maybe? Or do you honestly think the rest of TB moms are just as stupid as you are?! Just go. All of you. And take the rest of the May14 BSCs with you.

Mimaloo · February 2014

talkthewholetime said:

How much you all want to bet her due date never changed anyway? FFS make a new name and pretend you're a new person if you really want to post.

This was my very first thought when she made the OP yesterday. It was a little too convenient. If the date had been changed at 12 weeks, obviously she wasn't invested in the June board to leave it so why not come here then? Interesting.

theoryofwhat · February 2014

Mimaloo said:

talkthewholetime said:

How much you all want to bet her due date never changed anyway? FFS make a new name and pretend you're a new person if you really want to post.

This was my very first thought when she made the OP yesterday. It was a little too convenient. If the date had been changed at 12 weeks, obviously she wasn't invested in the June board to leave it so why not come here then? Interesting.

I'd thought it was convenient, too. She posted about her due date change back in October (another AW post, of course) so there might be some truth there:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12135261/drastic-due-date-change#latest

Definitely not white knighting, though. I still think she's an ass and don't want her anywhere near our BMB.

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