@earlymorningdreamer and any others

MrsS143 · February 2014

If you haven't noticed, a lot of the "regulars" on this board are very bitter. They've also been around for ages and have a clan who attack any new person whose opinion differs from their own. They twist your words and try to make you feel like you've said something horribly wrong. If you ask me, that's a terrible way to use the memory of their former pregnancy. However, there is a group of non- angry loss members who pm regularly. Feel free to pm any time!!

Drgn30 · February 2014

What the hell?

LaRomana09 · February 2014

Good idea, I think earlymorningdreamer would fit right in with you and your group. Enjoy.

PinkCamino · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

If you haven't noticed, a lot of the "regulars" on this board are very bitter. They've also been around for ages and have a clan who attack any new person whose opinion differs from their own. They twist your words and try to make you feel like you've said something horribly wrong. If you ask me, that's a terrible way to use the memory of their former pregnancy. However, there is a group of non- angry loss members who pm regularly. Feel free to pm any time!!

You are ridiculous.

PinkCamino · February 2014

I'm curious who is part of this pm group....
:^o

NoeliaV · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

If you haven't noticed, a lot of the "regulars" on this board are very bitter. They've also been around for ages and have a clan who attack any new person whose opinion differs from their own. They twist your words and try to make you feel like you've said something horribly wrong. If you ask me, that's a terrible way to use the memory of their former pregnancy. However, there is a group of non- angry loss members who pm regularly. Feel free to pm any time!!

Danielle0311 · February 2014

Wow this is sad, I am not a "regular" here as i have only been around a few months..but this board has been the best thing for me since my loss. It is the most supportive forum I have come across and the ladies on here are nothing but kind, helpful, and informative. This post was insanely childish....

PinkCamino · February 2014

I just checked your profile and realized who you are....

has this pass time of trolling these boards not gotten boring yet? I mean you've got to find a new hobby. Seriously..

chaysefaith · February 2014

Oh.

And I'm a total newb here...

BethKate2 · February 2014

Yep. We're all super bitter and mean. We hate all newbs, and we have an attack-clan that's always ready to pounce.

You're right. We're all assholes.

PinkCamino · February 2014

I feel like this was a callout. Anyone else?

ETA: This was likely directed at me as a result of my God comment on the other thread. OP does not like me since I took fierce opposition to her use of Baby Dust on PGAL last month.

megrae12 · February 2014

Um...seriously?! Did I miss that it's bring on the trolls day? The sheer idiocy of all of this is giving me a massive headache. OP, I hope you know your make believe world where everything comes up roses and rainbows, is a delusion. Seriously, get a clue.

Edit.

alilbear · February 2014

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Izzy0927 · February 2014

I have been here less than 24 hours, and I can assure you, I have seen no bitterness, only support and love. You must be an idiot with TERRIBLE reding comprehension for even suggesting that's what happens here. And yeah, I'm angry. I'm angry because I found out YESTERDAY that I lost my baby, and this is what you do to this place of support.

Be gone, before someone drops a house on you.

NoeliaV · February 2014

Izzy0927 said:

Be gone, before someone drops a house on you.

LOL.

svancura1 · February 2014

catemitty said:

You have no idea how much "the regulars" and their "clan" have provided protection for me and countless others from hateful, hurtful, offensive, insensitive, and rude comments. And that is on top of being incredibly supportive and knowledgeable.
I had a rocky start, where I unknowingly said something hurtful. I apologized with sincerity and these ladies have been nothing but wonderful to me since.

THIS!! I too had a rocky start for a hurtful comment I made. I took a step back and realized I hurt others. I apologized and this "clan" you speak has been my shoulder to cry on. Support when I needed it. informative when I was going crazy. and even protected me from people who seem to think this is just a dumping ground for whatever they want!

And bitter?!?!?!? We have lost our children! That is not bitter that is called being grieved from the loss! ugh I am so mad right now!

angelaclev · February 2014

What? This completely ridiculous. These women have been NOTHING other than nice.

MrsS143 · February 2014

What's going on here is something referred to as shared psychotic disorder. See a psychiatrist. The regulars on this board do nothing but berate new posters for anything THEY view as insulting. Unfortunately these few women are not the only ones experiencing loss but somehow their losses are more important than others?? I do check out this board for information as I too am TTCAL. I wouldn't call it trolling.. But I will call you out when you attack others.

RedTwizzlers · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

What's going on here is something referred to as shared psychotic disorder. See a psychiatrist. The regulars on this board do nothing but berate new posters for anything THEY view as insulting. Unfortunately these few women are not the only ones experiencing loss but somehow their losses are more important than others?? I do check out this board for information as I too am TTCAL. I wouldn't call it trolling.. But I will call you out when you attack others.

chaysefaith · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

What's going on here is something referred to as shared psychotic disorder. See a psychiatrist. The regulars on this board do nothing but berate new posters for anything THEY view as insulting. Unfortunately these few women are not the only ones experiencing loss but somehow their losses are more important than others?? I do check out this board for information as I too am TTCAL. I wouldn't call it trolling.. But I will call you out when you attack others.

Again, I'm a newb here, and haven't participated much, but I've read a lot.

Here's the thing. Most boards are clique-y, thats what happens when you form close bonds with people, you protect your own and that comes off as being a clique-y environment. My BMB appeared to have a large clique of regs, and we fiercely protected each other. But that doesn't mean newbies weren't allowed there or aren't allowed here. What it DOES mean is that if you come into a board where you know no one and spew a bunch of asshattery to a bunch of women you have made NO attempt to get to know or support or understand the way the group works, then you're not going to receive a warm welcome. It's not hard to understand.

And because I've really missed getting my gif on in the past week, I leave you with another one:

RustyGirl3 · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

What's going on here is something referred to as shared psychotic disorder. See a psychiatrist. The regulars on this board do nothing but berate new posters for anything THEY view as insulting. Unfortunately these few women are not the only ones experiencing loss but somehow their losses are more important than others?? I do check out this board for information as I too am TTCAL. I wouldn't call it trolling.. But I will call you out when you attack others.

PinkCamino · February 2014

MrsS143 said:
What's going on here is something referred to as shared psychotic disorder. See a psychiatrist. The regulars on this board do nothing but berate new posters for anything THEY view as insulting. Unfortunately these few women are not the only ones experiencing loss but somehow their losses are more important than others?? I do check out this board for information as I too am TTCAL. I wouldn't call it trolling.. But I will call you out when you attack others.

You realize that your call out violates TOU right?

Also calling us psychotic is not only a form of harassment but horribly mean and hurtful.

But given your posting history I am not at all surprised- you area repeat offender and have even admited to posting hurtful comments intentionally.

MrsS143 · February 2014

Wait a second.. Ive been called a c-t on this board. Does that violate some kind of guideline? Practice what you preach!

PinkCamino · February 2014

MrsS143 said:
Wait a seond.. Ive been called a c-t on this board. Does that violate some kind of guideline? Practice what you preach!

Oh so this troll behavior is retribution for someone calling you a name?

HeyMrsPotter · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

Wait a second.. Ive been called a c-t on this board. Does that violate some kind of guideline? Practice what you preach!

MrsS143 · February 2014

You are so quick to talk about guidelines when many of you don't follow them! @pinkcamino

srcr2011 · February 2014

Who are you??? I also checked your profile and you only posted here twice, this is your second "Wah, I'm being bullied here" post! Do you know what?? NORMAL people who post NORMAL intros are welcomed with BIG, OPEN, LOVING arms, it's only the ones (usually trolls) who post weird crap get told something! Go away and take your PM groupies with you!

ngolimento · February 2014

Stop trolling a loss board for funsies. You are the lowest order of human. I think humanity would like it's carbon back, you're wasting it.

srcr2011 · February 2014

NoeliaV said:

Haha I like this! This was my face when I opened the thread!

anglndsguse44 · February 2014

@Tappin2b - You're my homeslice and so is JLaw.

OP, I just. I can't. I have no words.

Poppy715 · February 2014

Oh gross. I hope you and your non-bitter PM group are very happy together. Go start your own Pro-board and leave me and my friends alone. Calling people who defend others, stick up for themselves and are better spoken than you bitter is just silly. You have no idea what goes on here. Take your non-bitter pants and leave.

I'll stay here and party with the bitter ladies.

I hope someone in your precious PM group rebels and enlightens us on the guest list. Wouldn't that be a fun day?

RustyGirl3 · February 2014

anglndsguse44 said:

@Tappin2b - You're my homeslice and so is JLaw.

:x

peggels24 · February 2014

These posts always confuse me. Why does it always seem like if a "regular" has an informed opinion that differs from someone who has never or hardly ever posted on here before, then the regular is cliquey and mean? How is it that the "regular" should choose not to read something that they disagree with but the new poster is allowed to get bent out of shape for posts that they can just as easily ignore if they disagree with it?

If a "regular" tells a new poster that they were insulted, then the "regular" is mean. But if a new poster says they are insulted then all hell breaks loose and white knighters get to come on here and start berating everyone on here? It all seems ass backwards to me.

Further, not once has anyone on here said anything to me that was anything less than supportive....and I've been around for a few months now.

socialwkrsweetie · February 2014

@MrsS143 as a mental health professional I suggest you not bring up diagnoses and talk of a psychiatrist unless you have a clue. You wouldn't see a psychiatrist for treatment. You would see a clinician. But keep spouting ignorant bullshit. That seems to be your speciality.

I've been on this board for 17 months (edit, wrong math... I've been TTC 17 months. A member of the board for almost a year) and while not an everyday poster I do come on and see what's happening and post when I can. This was just something I couldn't pass up. You clearly don't have the slightest clue about what this community is about and the support that someone can receive. I'm sorry this isn't the community you hoped for but if it's not then GET THE HELL OUT.

Love you ladies

MrsS143 · February 2014

Umm yes, I know what that feels like- I've lost two babies as well and I can't understand why women would choose to pick on new posters bc they don't agree w their beliefs. I've seen it again and again on here and can't believe that so many of you go along w it. So, when I am on the board, i will call you out on it. That said, @socialwrkersweetie, a psychiatrist would make the diagnosis of shared psychotic disorder. Go get an eval. As far as karma goes- take your own advice! @ncchnat

Poppy715 · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

Umm yes, I know what that feels like- I've lost two babies as well and I can't understand why women would choose to pick on new posters bc they don't agree w their beliefs. I've seen it again and again on here and can't believe that so many of you go along w it. So, when I am on the board, i will call you out on it. That said, @socialwrkersweetie, a psychiatrist would make the diagnosis of shared psychotic disorder. Go get an eval. As far as karma goes- take your own advice! @ncchnat

Take it easy! No one is picking on anyone. I hate when people get their panties all bunched when someone disagrees. With that the poster you are defending hurt a lot of peoples feelings. She brought up something that isn't discussed here. We try to be kind to one another and she flat out said she didn't care that she was hurting people. That's sucky behavior and deserves to be pointed out.

For the time being I suggest you

rubysi · February 2014

I'm sorry but this is viscous and cruel. They are very knowledgeable and supportive.I am sad any of us have to be here but I am glad they have been here for me when I needed them most.

MrsS143 said:

If you haven't noticed, a lot of the "regulars" on this board are very bitter. They've also been around for ages and have a clan who attack any new person whose opinion differs from their own. They twist your words and try to make you feel like you've said something horribly wrong. If you ask me, that's a terrible way to use the memory of their former pregnancy. However, there is a group of non- angry loss members who pm regularly. Feel free to pm any time!!

PinkCamino · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

You are so quick to talk about guidelines when many of you don't follow them! @pinkcamino

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Poppy715 · February 2014

MrsS143 said:

If you haven't noticed, a lot of the "regulars" on this board are very bitter. They've also been around for ages and have a clan who attack any new person whose opinion differs from their own. They twist your words and try to make you feel like you've said something horribly wrong. If you ask me, that's a terrible way to use the memory of their former pregnancy. However, there is a group of non- angry loss members who pm regularly. Feel free to pm any time!!

Maybe you are jealous because we are all close? You make friends when you've been active and give support! I know it's hard when you feel like you don't belong. Could that be where this resentment is coming from? It's really nice of you to point out how long some of the posters have been around for. Really sweet of you. It just shows what a kind human being you are to make a show about how long a lady has been trying to concieve her rainbow.

Long story short I'm sorry you aren't someone anyone wants to get to know. Also, if you hate it here so much WHY ARE YOU STILL POSTING? Riddle me that one batman!

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