I need some help... My husband and I have our first baby- he is 4 months old and a gem. My husband is very helpful with him and does a lot of things help with feeding and changing...
Well anyway, I notice I am very naggy and moody all the time!! It is so hard not to be, I need some advice on how to control it before my husband get mad.. Now he just walks away from me, I know I need to calm down and relax, for example...
Just started baby on rice cereal the other day, I waited for the H to get home from work so we can both watch him eat the cereal first time and I can get some pictures.. so He said he wants to feed him first I said I want to... We were going back and forth I said OK you feed him first ill take pics.. Well he kept holding the bowl of food up by the kids face so it wouldnt drip from bowl to spoon.. I said keep the bowl down so it doesnt spill and I can get a good picture.. well The baby hit the bowl and the cereal ending up going all over him..lol.. I should have been laughing at it.. it was funny... But instead I got mad and took everything over!! and The Husband ending up going downstairs bc I was so mad... the same thing happens with the baths,,, if he wont listen to me and do it my way, I end up gettting mad and bitching at him... Afterwards I see how stupid I am but I cant control it... Anyone please help me!!! My H is so nice and doesn't say anything bad to me he just walks away..I always end of apologizing for it later, but I want to try to prevent it...
I want to try to nip it in the bud before I get to carried away and he ends up hating me..
Re: Moody Mommy-Need help with marriage!
DD2 8.22.13
MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
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The thing that helps me is to count to 10 before I respond. Sounds petty, but it helps me to not just give my immediate reaction.
Remember that raising kids isn't a picture perfect thing. Cherish these messy moments because you can't get them back! I know your FB family and friends would have LOVE to see pics of mess daddy.
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