Trying to Get Pregnant

whatev

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edited January 2014 in Trying to Get Pregnant
So, I wanted to post this to see if any of you have had similar feelings....
 
after trying for a year and a few miscarriages, I have 4 close friends who are either pregnant with their first or having their 2nd baby. Then I know of at least 3-4 others who are expecting (I know some of you probably know of more).... I can't help but to feel upset. I am truly excited and happy for them deep down, but I can't help but to feel upset and backing away from them. The close friends who are pregnant I still talk to and all but way less than I used to once I found out they were pregnant. I feel like we don't have as much in common and that whats going on in my life doesn't compare to them. t's so hard for me to hear about their growing bellies and all of the exciting and not so exciting things they have to say about being pregnant. I hate the way my feeling have become, b/c I love those friends to death, but I just can't help it. Have any of you been having the same kind of feelings?
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  • Omg seriously I stated in this post that deep down I am happy and excited.read above!!! Your comment was irrelevant. I am mot looking for any nasty attitude. Im simply asking for opinions like everyone else on here.
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  • And how is that when I stated deep down I was happy and excited. Sorry but u have no idea and clearly can't get over a previous comment to a post. This is something totally different so please keep rude unnecessary comments off. I'm looking for people who actually care to comment and are going through something similar. We are adults here....
  • staycb01 said:
    And how is that when I stated deep down I was happy and excited. Sorry but u have no idea and clearly can't get over a previous comment to a post. This is something totally different so please keep rude unnecessary comments off. I'm looking for people who actually care to comment and are going through something similar. We are adults here....
    We are all adults, I'm assuming that includes you. So buck up and stop whining because someone else got pregnant before you. I've had a miscarriage, so I know it can be hard, but I still think it's really shitty for you to pull away from supposedly great friends because you're jealous. That's really selfish, and you probably wouldn't want someone to do it to you. 


  • OK well no wonder you guys r having a hard time. Clearly karma is working her magic and you are all bitter! What a bunch of horrible rude chicks that act like high school b*tches. I'm rolling laughing lol good entertainment! Buh bye!!
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  • staycb01 said:
    OK well no wonder you guys r having a hard time. Clearly karma is working her magic and you are all bitter! What a bunch of horrible rude chicks that act like high school b*tches. I'm rolling laughing lol good entertainment! Buh bye!!

    Oh look I was right.
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  • It is difficult to see others who have what you want, but you can't be two-faced about it either...
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  • staycb01 said:
    OK well no wonder you guys r having a hard time. Clearly karma is working her magic and you are all bitter! What a bunch of horrible rude chicks that act like high school b*tches. I'm rolling laughing lol good entertainment! Buh bye!!
    Aw, it's cute they we're the bitter ones, but your the one un-friending people over their pregnancies and calling names.  But have a nice life!


  • I've never had a problem getting pregnant & I'm happy for my friends (online & IRL) that get pg. I don't pull away from my friends.


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  • Also the karma comment is below the belt. Not a very adult or nice comment.


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  • staycb01 said:
    OK well no wonder you guys r having a hard time. Clearly karma is working her magic and you are all bitter! What a bunch of horrible rude chicks that act like high school b*tches. I'm rolling laughing lol good entertainment! Buh bye!!
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  • staycb01 said:
    OK well no wonder you guys r having a hard time. Clearly karma is working her magic and you are all bitter! What a bunch of horrible rude chicks that act like high school b*tches. I'm rolling laughing lol good entertainment! Buh bye!!
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    Oh Zack Morris... perfect.

    Wow, I'm so glad I logged on after work and a glass of wine to see this sh#tshow.
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  • @staycb01 at first I was going to be nice and say how I understand you are frustrated and it's tough when you want something so badly and everyone around you is getting pregnant and your still waiting for your turn. I can understand that and sympathize with that feeling. However like the rest of the girls I don't feel as if you should be moving yourself away from your friends. I don't think if the roles were reversed you would like it very much if your friends stopped talking to you just because you were preggo and they were not. Just be happy for them don't be isolating yourself away from them.

    Now however after reading your comment towards all the girls here about how it must be karma that is causing us all to not be preggos is insanely messed up of you to say and now I too feel angry for that comment. So I have to agree with the girls. What you said is really messed up.

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