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  • It feels like we need either a really good bitch out or a really good love fest, the last week has been insanely tense and there have been a ton of things that have just gone on and on and on....

    Which is it?  Do we need to have a poll?  I kid, I kid!  
    ;)
    I feel like I'm totally clueless.  I'm "here" everyday, but I guess other than Eastie going bananas the other day, I don't feel like we've had any real big issues.  Did I just not open something salacious? 


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  • JohnJacobJingleHeimer has me blocked on IG and it makes me sad. :((

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  • kdsmith43 said:
    JohnJacobJingleHeimer has me blocked on IG and it makes me sad. :((

    Stuck in the fucking box

    Yeah, I am pretty sure she unfollowed/ blocked me too.... 
    :((
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  • I almost reported it as child pornography, so @BobKat22 isn't the only person who thought that way. I commented that it was most likely illegal, and a terrible judgement call, and my intent was to look at it an hour or so later - if it was still there, I was going to report as child porn. It was deleted by that point. But it had been up for several hours before I saw it and commented.
    But you commented.

    I would have PM'd my concern.  You commented, then may have reported.  Both are different than hitting the report button and chugging on, IMO. 

    I mean, hey, click whateverthefuck button you want - I'm not some moral authority.  I'm just saying it made me thing Damn, I really like her and that is very yuck to me. 
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  • You can't do a BOAB thread- it doesn't work here....as evidence from the last one.
    I don't think the BOAB didn't work, I think (as most of it was about me) that people said some rude shit about my personal life, that yes I shared here, but they had no way of knowing the whole story.  I don't care if we do another BOAB thread and I get bitched out.  If it makes things better, cool.  I am over my grudges and have taken a hard look at my life.  I know where I stand.
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  • @kdsmith43 I do?? What's your IG name? Honestly I went through a couple of months ago to pare down my followers to people I 'knew'. If your IG name is different than your tb name I probably blocked you. It was nothing intentional!
    It's ksmith43 . I promise I'm not a creeper!

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  • You can't do a BOAB thread- it doesn't work here....as evidence from the last one.
    I don't think the BOAB didn't work, I think (as most of it was about me) that people said some rude shit about my personal life, that yes I shared here, but they had no way of knowing the whole story.  I don't care if we do another BOAB thread and I get bitched out.  If it makes things better, cool.  I am over my grudges and have taken a hard look at my life.  I know where I stand.
    Seriously? How many times are we going to beat the dead horse here? Apparently, you aren't over 'your grudges' if you bring it up every. single. fucking. time.


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  • If someone is not going to really look at a pic and consider it for a moment or watch a video on IG then why scroll through IG!? Damn it my girls are cute! Just look at them!
    I am usually scrolling IG when it is not appropriate to watch a video. 
    Love you Meatball but your music video the other day was so loud! It was awesome though.

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  • You can't do a BOAB thread- it doesn't work here....as evidence from the last one.
    I don't think the BOAB didn't work, I think (as most of it was about me) that people said some rude shit about my personal life, that yes I shared here, but they had no way of knowing the whole story.  I don't care if we do another BOAB thread and I get bitched out.  If it makes things better, cool.  I am over my grudges and have taken a hard look at my life.  I know where I stand.
    Seriously? How many times are we going to beat the dead horse here? Apparently, you aren't over 'your grudges' if you bring it up every. single. fucking. time.
    But maybe that's why it would be nice to clear the air, you both seem to begrudge each other.
    Haha I just don't like her for very many reasons. I don't feel the need to clear the air because I am not sure what she could say to change my mind. It is what it is, yo.


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  • @loislayn23 You can PM on the bump.  I think a comment was more practical and still fair, so no issue there. 
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  • shiggybop said:
    If someone is not going to really look at a pic and consider it for a moment or watch a video on IG then why scroll through IG!? Damn it my girls are cute! Just look at them!
    I see that they are cute kids and hit like. I really don't read the caption to every single picture. I watch most videos when I'm somewhere that I can.
    That is what I do too! However.. I didn't like aforementioned picture because of the one time I decided to read zee hashtags.


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    All I want now is pizza.


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  • kdsmith43 said:
    JohnJacobJingleHeimer has me blocked on IG and it makes me sad. :((

    Stuck in the fucking box

    Yeah, I am pretty sure she unfollowed/ blocked me too.... 
    :((
    Don't know if this was addressed, but I guess I find this to be awkward.
    That is what I was thinking too haha what if she totally meant to block or unfollow you? Awkward.


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  • kdsmith43 said:
    JohnJacobJingleHeimer has me blocked on IG and it makes me sad. :((

    Stuck in the fucking box

    Yeah, I am pretty sure she unfollowed/ blocked me too.... 
    :((
    Don't know if this was addressed, but I guess I find this to be awkward.
    Agreed....  I thought about it AFTER I posted....  So smart am I.  I barely IG anymore though, so it doesn't really matter.
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  • hmp1 said:
    If someone is not going to really look at a pic and consider it for a moment or watch a video on IG then why scroll through IG!? Damn it my girls are cute! Just look at them!
    I am usually scrolling IG when it is not appropriate to watch a video. 
    Love you Meatball but your music video the other day was so loud! It was awesome though.

    Ha! Sorry! I tried really hard to make sure it didn't include any f-bombs from the song too!
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  • I don't think the BOAB didn't work, I think (as most of it was about me) that people said some rude shit about my personal life, that yes I shared here, but they had no way of knowing the whole story.  I don't care if we do another BOAB thread and I get bitched out.  If it makes things better, cool.  I am over my grudges and have taken a hard look at my life.  I know where I stand.
    The BOAB thread wasn't all about you though. It was mostly a love fest, IIRC. Also, you are clearly not over your grievances, judging by your UO yesterday and other shots you have taken at BME. Did you ever think that maybe BME was hurting because she was losing her cousin? Yeah, I am her friend, I knew that- so did most of the board, as she kept us posted. Did her comments hurt you? No doubt. I am glad you have re-evaluated your life, that's great. We need to from time to time, I have had to do that several times. Good luck, Willy. I hope everything is getting better for your family.
    I am fully aware that it wasn't all about me.  I had an UO yesterday and it was about several people here and IRL, BME kept pushing it so I told her what I thought.  

    I am aware that BME is hurting and was hurting at the time shit went down.  Like I said, I have no grudges.  I am truly sorry for what BME and her family are going through, but I think using it as a reason to lash out at someone else, especially someone that your little OB used to consider a friend, it crap.  In all the time I have been going through my shit, have you seen me lash out at someone unprovoked?  I didn't think so....

    I was simply suggesting that maybe our board needed it, because it seemed to me that there had been tension,etc, this week.  Sorry for trying to say that I wanted our board to be better, happier, cohesive.
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  • @loislayn23 You can PM on the bump.  I think a comment was more practical and still fair, so no issue there. 


    True. I just meant taking it from one forum to another.

    Or did you mean a PM instead of this FFFC?

    My PM comment had nothing to do with the FFFC mention; it only had to do with bobkat saying that she reported it as child prn.  IMO solely hitting the child prn button to report the thing was shitty. 

    I don't take issue with how cherrycrepe commented and planned on coming back to report it later.  I admitted above that I do think a comment is easier/more practical than sending a PM through another media site.

    Is this making sense? 
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  • @willy_gert, I called you out on what you said to your husband because I thought you needed to hear it. I was actually nice about it, I thought. But you played the victim and acted like no one should say anything to you because you're under stress. I personally felt like your "WOTY" comment had a ring of sarcasm to it. And why post if you don't want a reaction? It had nothing to do with us being friends or not friends. 
    Yesterday I pushed you to name names because I knew exactly what (and who) you were getting at. 


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  • kdsmith43 said:
    JohnJacobJingleHeimer has me blocked on IG and it makes me sad. :((

    Stuck in the fucking box

    Yeah, I am pretty sure she unfollowed/ blocked me too.... 
    :((
    Don't know if this was addressed, but I guess I find this to be awkward.
    That is what I was thinking too haha what if she totally meant to block or unfollow you? Awkward.
    What's awkward? If she meant to block me then she could/should have said that it was purposeful. I know she's had security issues in the past (whitepony) so I assumed that it was due to those reasons.

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  • I almost reported it as child pornography, so @BobKat22 isn't the only person who thought that way. I commented that it was most likely illegal, and a terrible judgement call, and my intent was to look at it an hour or so later - if it was still there, I was going to report as child porn. It was deleted by that point. But it had been up for several hours before I saw it and commented.
    But you commented.

    I would have PM'd my concern.  You commented, then may have reported.  Both are different than hitting the report button and chugging on, IMO. 

    I mean, hey, click whateverthefuck button you want - I'm not some moral authority.  I'm just saying it made me thing Damn, I really like her and that is very yuck to me. 
    TBF, can you PM on IG? I mean, wouldn't it have been a little weird for her, as someone who isn't a friend of Mirask on FB, to search for her on FB and PM her about her son's penis on IG?
    Yeah,I'm not friends with her on FB, I was on mobile and unable to PM (and plus, if I did message her on TB, people would most likely cry foul - keep it off of TB!!! drama stirring crazy person - so damned if you do, damned if you don't. I'm glad she removed it, and I'm sure she's lurking on this, but this wasn't the first time she posted something of that nature. She didn't learn the first time.
    Wait.  When did I mention anything about FB?  I am not friends with a single bump person on FB and I don't get on FB.  If you were to privately message her on TB, people would cry foul, so you couldn't do that, but you could post it in FFFC?  SO CONFUSED!

    I don't have a problem with how you handled anything on IG.  Here is a summary of what I tried to say here:
    Me:  I think it's shitty that bobkat reported it as child prn without saying anything
    You:  I was going to come back and report it if it wasn't taken down after I commented.
    Me:  Yah, but at least you commented.  You didn't just hit the report button like a snake.

    If something really bothered you enough to report it as child prn, then wouldn't you tell that person instead of secretly flagging their pic as something quite serious?  I mean, tell them and flag them, that's fine, but just to flag it - I thought we had more courtesy than that.
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  • dimples12 said:
    Not touching the IG or FB thing anymore but...

    To play devil's advocate, is it okay then to take a picture of your kiddo naked on your smartphone? How about to get those pictures printed at CVS? Where should that line be? 
    I would and have taken a picture that showed my child's naked butt on my smart phone. I processed pictures in a photo lab (at walmart, blech) while in college and I never really looked at people's photos (I mean, you generally scan through them on the monitor to adjust any really obvious cropping issues (4x6 isn't the exact size of the image straight off the SD card) and any obvious color issues. But I would never thought twice about an innocent butt cheek photo. But I know that as a general policy, we were supposed to scan through the photos and delete/report anything that looked illegal. So following that policy, I would have had to report a picture of underage penis or anyone who appeared to be photographed in a non-consensual way while exposed (had the person looked obviously over the age of 18 AND consenting, I would just delete and advise that the photo couldn't be printed due to story policy on pornography in photos). So if that picture had been printed at walmart when I was in college? It would have been called in to the local police.

    There was a story in Minnesota (a year ago?), a man who happens to be a teacher and sports coach, had videos and pictures of his children on his phone. They were school aged (elementary school) and they were doing things like going to the bathroom, with weird commentary. Inappropriate commentary. He was investigated - I think he brought his phone in for service or something and they saw the images and reported them? I know he was trying to contest that they were innocent but I believe he lost his job over it. I stopped following it, because honestly, it creeps me out and I guess I'd rather be ignorant about the details because it makes me sick to my stomach.
    I was in a meeting and I'm catching up. Deal with it.

    When I processed photos at Target, we were not allowed to print anything that had underage nakedness or more than one person naked.  I had to call the store manager. It was my understanding that underage nudes could be reported to the police.  It neve rhappened, so I don't know exactly what the process was, but yeah.

    and? It's not the same.  One picture printed stored in a baby album in your own house. Not the same as posting it out publicly with your name attached (and pretty much all other identifying information) forever.  She just gave rights to that photo to facebook, fyi.
    This is what people don't understand about IG. Your account might be private, but your pictures don't belong to you. And even if you delete, they're lingering out there in cyber space, stored by FB developers. 
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  • kdsmith43 said:
    JohnJacobJingleHeimer has me blocked on IG and it makes me sad. :((

    Stuck in the fucking box

    Yeah, I am pretty sure she unfollowed/ blocked me too.... 
    :((
    Don't know if this was addressed, but I guess I find this to be awkward.
    That is what I was thinking too haha what if she totally meant to block or unfollow you? Awkward.
    What's awkward? If she meant to block me then she could/should have said that it was purposeful. I know she's had security issues in the past (whitepony) so I assumed that it was due to those reasons.

    I just meant I feel awkward asking if someone has blocked me or why. Someone on here blocked me once and I asked and it turned out I was the one who accidentally blocked her haha


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  • k. grievances started.

    Back to FFFC:

    I ate doritos for breakfast and lunch.

    I hate Doritos

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  • I don't think we're disagreeing here @cherrycrepe

    1.  See, and I don't think BobKat was in the wrong at all.
    I don't think she was wrong, I just said it surprised me coming from her.  I think it was kind of a snakey thing to do, but wrong?  I never said that. 

    2. BobKat, myself, or anyone else has no obligation to warn anyone that what they are doing is inappropriate or illegal.
    I don't disagree

    3.It may have been courteous of me to do so,
    This is all I'm saying, seriously.  That's all.  

    4. I can't say this enough - but I'm not saying that I think it's WRONG how either of you handled it.  I am saying that I think you handled it in a better way than BobKat handled it, with respect to courtesy.


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  • You can't do a BOAB thread- it doesn't work here....as evidence from the last one.
    I don't think the BOAB didn't work, I think (as most of it was about me) that people said some rude shit about my personal life, that yes I shared here, but they had no way of knowing the whole story.  I don't care if we do another BOAB thread and I get bitched out.  If it makes things better, cool.  I am over my grudges and have taken a hard look at my life.  I know where I stand.
    Seriously? How many times are we going to beat the dead horse here? Apparently, you aren't over 'your grudges' if you bring it up every. single. fucking. time.
    Speaking of people who don't go here.
    I could say the same to you a week ago when you hadn't been here for months.


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  • OBs; doing it wrong. again.
    No one is denying being in an OB though, and no one ever claimed it was secret. 
    Right? I don't understand where this comes from. 
    Me: 27 DH: 28
    Diagnosis: PCOS, irregular cycles, old lady eggs. DH is fine.
    Started TTC in January 2010. BFP December 25, 2011 between IF appts. 
    DD born August 31, 2012
    Began TTC again in Jan. 2013. 
    Four rounds of Clomid - BFN
    Fifth round of Clomid September/Oct - cancelled
    HSG scheduled for Oct. 30 - Tubes all clear
    December: Round one of Femara  - BFN
    Round two - ? 

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  • You can't do a BOAB thread- it doesn't work here....as evidence from the last one.
    I don't think the BOAB didn't work, I think (as most of it was about me) that people said some rude shit about my personal life, that yes I shared here, but they had no way of knowing the whole story.  I don't care if we do another BOAB thread and I get bitched out.  If it makes things better, cool.  I am over my grudges and have taken a hard look at my life.  I know where I stand.
    Seriously? How many times are we going to beat the dead horse here? Apparently, you aren't over 'your grudges' if you bring it up every. single. fucking. time.
    Speaking of people who don't go here.
    I could say the same to you a week ago when you hadn't been here for months.
    really? cheese has never really disappeared. She was less present when she was moving, but I never remember a time when she was really missing.
    I guess it seemed to me like she was gone for awhile? Maybe not though.


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  • el oh el angel.  I'm pulling the post count card. Yeah. I was a little less active over the holidays and when I was moving states and starting a new job.  But I'm pretty sure I at least posted off and on about different stuff.
    ok.


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