Saw in the FFFC that a lot of us never came in and posted our birth stories. How's about a thread to link up if you blogged it, or post it in the thread? Any takers? I'll start with mine, which is here.
I'll add that 20 days later, I was admitted back into the hospital and had to have an emergency D&C to remove leftover placenta that they forgot to remove when they had a Birdseye view of my lady bits. Fun times.
I never wrote about it either, but here's a shortened version of it.
May 5th I went in the hospital and complained of contractions- they did an ultrasound and confirmed I had low amniotic fluid, and to come in for NST's every week until a week after my due date. May 28th I came in for my NST, and they told me my fluid was way to low, and to start inducing me that day. They literally walked me over to the maternity ward and told me I couldn't leave. 12 hours of Cervadil, an epidural, a bunch of pitocin and 2 hours of pushing later, Claire came into the world on 5/29. I had a pretty smooth pregnancy, labor and delivery, which I'm thankful for. 7 lbs 1 oz and 21.5 inches long.
Only downside was when I was 5 weeks pp I was doing too much lifting, and I got a hematoma on my tailbone. There was talk of surgery, but it cleared up on it's own.
My water broke when I was 8 DAYS OVERDUE. I was an emotional wreck. It broke at 11pm on a Saturday and I was so giddy but I didn't want to make a mess so I kept sitting on the toilet and texting people. The MW advised in this situation to call them in the morning and take Tylenol/Gravol and rest so I did and it was HARD I was excited/nervous/scared.
We called the MW's at 6am and they came to see me at 11am I was only 2cm dilated so they did a stretch and sweep and gave me a shot of (demoral I think?) in the bum.
I laboured at home until midafternoon when I felt that something wasn't right. I had the urge to push and I knew I wasn't ready yet (it hadn't been hard/painful enough yet). So we met the MW's at the hospital at about 4pm.
The urge to push DID NOT GO AWAY and i was only 4cm. They all kept telling me not to push (HA HA). And finally the MW suggested I think about the epi which I was trying to avoid. I was going insane trying not to push so I got the epi. I have NO REGRETS about this decision.
I was able to rest a bit, eat and was more pleasant to be around. Then finally Monday at midnight (he didn't want to come on Father's Day I suppose) I was 10cm and ready to push. Now that i had the urge to push prior to the epi I know that the epi really did dull the pushing sensation and I had to push for almost 2 hours.
After 27 hours of labour he was born June 17 at 1:46am 8lbs 2oz.
My water broke when I was 8 DAYS OVERDUE. I was an emotional wreck. It broke at 11pm on a Saturday and I was so giddy but I didn't want to make a mess so I kept sitting on the toilet and texting people. The MW advised in this situation to call them in the morning and take Tylenol/Gravol and rest so I did and it was HARD I was excited/nervous/scared.
We called the MW's at 6am and they came to see me at 11am I was only 2cm dilated so they did a stretch and sweep and gave me a shot of (demoral I think?) in the bum.
I laboured at home until midafternoon when I felt that something wasn't right. I had the urge to push and I knew I wasn't ready yet (it hadn't been hard/painful enough yet). So we met the MW's at the hospital at about 4pm.
The urge to push DID NOT GO AWAY and i was only 4cm. They all kept telling me not to push (HA HA). And finally the MW suggested I think about the epi which I was trying to avoid. I was going insane trying not to push so I got the epi. I have NO REGRETS about this decision.
I was able to rest a bit, eat and was more pleasant to be around. Then finally Monday at midnight (he didn't want to come on Father's Day I suppose) I was 10cm and ready to push. Now that i had the urge to push prior to the epi I know that the epi really did dull the pushing sensation and I had to push for almost 2 hours.
After 27 hours of labour he was born June 17 at 1:46am 8lbs 2oz.
Pushing for two hours?! You. Are. My. Hero. I thought I'd die pushing for just one.
My SO kissed me goodbye before he went to work at 6am the morning of June 24th. After he left I got up to pee and when I was done I went to get up and felt a gush. I sat there a while and felt a few more gushes. I was sure that my water broke. I had an OB appt at 9 so I was just going to wait until that to go in and make sure. I didn't want to be embarrassed at L&D. I called B to let him know that he might have to leave work and he said okay. He called back a few minutes later and said that some guy at work said that we had to get to the hospital NOW and he was coming to get me. I fought him on it for a while but we ended up going in at about 7.
When we got to the hospital, they gave me a room and I got all changed into a sexy hospital gown. The nurse said that the doctor was doing a csection so was going to do a quick swab test. The text came back negative for my water breaking. I was laying in a puddle at this point, still no contractions and was really confused about all this liquid coming out of me. I asked if I should just go to my appointment and she said she would go ask the doctor. I guess the dr took a quick break and came to so an internal swab test which came back positive! They were going to keep me!
I still wasn't having any contractions and I was barely effaced/dilated so they started to soften my cervix so that they could give me pitocin. Luckily 2 doses of the cervix softener stuff was enough to put me In labor and they didn't have to do the pit.
My contractions started about 9am. Right away when they started, I was having 3 in a row, each 1 minute long, with a 1 minute break in between. I had originally planned on on using the birthing ball and and walking around but once I was actually in labor, all I wanted to do was lay on my back in the bed and stare at the ceiling.
I was progressing really slowly and at 1am on the 25th, they came in to check me. I was only at 5 and caved and got the epidural. I don't regret it all! I took a nap and at 3am I woke up with a stabbing pain in my back. The nurse checked me and I was at 10! We did a few practice pushes but couldn't start actually pushing because my contractions were 6 minutes apart and that point and they had to start some pit. Shortly after that my contractions were close enough together to start pushing.
Kenna came out in 3 pushes and was delivered by the nurse because the doctor didn't make it there in time. She wasn't breathing at first because she was stunned from coming out so fast. After a few seconds she started crying. The nicu nurses came in to check her out and said she was fine so they finally gave her to me. She pooped all over me and it was wonderful! I had a 2nd degree tear.
Kenna Elizabeth was born at 3:49 am on June 25, 2013 at 41w1d. She was 6 lbs 2.5 oz and 19 inches long.
I may have posted it...I know I posted somewhere during it Here is the abridged version! I was due June 7, 2013...with a med free birth plan...
Friday May 17: routine Dr. visit. BP is high. Has me sent to L&D for NST and bloodwork. All ok, sent home w jug for fun 24h pee catch.
Sunday May 19: got the call that I needed to go in on Monday. I had PreE ... Very high protein ... We were going to have a baby soon!
My last non liquid meal was Monday mid morning...
Monday May 20: admitted, unfavorable for delivery given Cervidil
Tuesday May 21: unfavorable for delivery, pit all day, Cervidil again at night
Wednesday May 22: still won't efface or dialate more than 2 at 25% continued pit, lots of fun contractions ... Nothing happening
Thursday May 23: 2 at 25% given a few doses of misoprostol, had water broken in the evening and hooked up again to pit.
**baby hr doing great during all of this, I'm also being monitored regularly for bp ... Higher risk due to my allergies to sulfate drugs (what they would give for serious bp spike) lots of contractions with no progress)**
Friday May 24: holy heck contractions all night, minimal progress 3cm 50% effaced by morning. Finally asked for epi around 9am. They don't do them regularly and I had the unfortunate situation where it never took properly. Only numbed my left leg. Kept waiting for it to work, intense pain... Baby finally got tired of all this mess and took a wee nap which sent the nursing staff into a tizzy. I'm flipped on my side getting oxygen, husband is white as I ghost I'm in lala land from sleep deprivation, hunger, oxygen and lots of pain. I ask them to check because I'm feeling pressure and ta da! Ready to push! Shoulders got stuck fun McSomething technique used where my head was dropped and legs bicyced and ....
Baby J born at 1:01pm on Friday!
Couldn't move my left leg until the next day. Awesome. But ate all the food (gluten free food...damn allergies) I could get my hands on. And fell totally in love with my baby boy (team green turned blue!)
Sorry that got so long...that's the short version! Thanks for reading!
I was due June 28th, but I went a week overdue. The morning of July 4th, I felt weird. A different kind of pressure. As the day went on, I had sporadic contractions, they didn't hurt too bad and were random. I had a feeling this was really early labor. We went over to my parent's house for a cookout. As I was eating, they started coming faster and stronger, 5-6 minutes apart, and I couldn't talk during them.
We left my toddler with my parents and headed home. Its so different with the second kid. We leisurely packed up my go bag. We did a load of DS' diapers lol. With my son, we were freaking out and ran to the hospital. This time I knew labor would be a long process. I decided I'd rather writhe on the floor at home than the hospital for as long as possible.
We finally go. To our relief I was 4 cm and baby was in launch position. Just days before Grace, was oblique and I wasn't dilated at all. I was actually scheduled for a version and immediate induction on the 5th anyway.i guess the threat of eviction was enough to get her moving on her own.
Anyways, labor was going pretty fast. Grace was ready to bust out of there. The only thing that sucked was that my epidurals didn't work. Yeah that's right. Plural. The first one only numbed one side of my body. They tried a bolus (?). Didn't do much. So they put another one in. It worked for an hour or two, but it ended up only numbing one leg. Sure wish my uterus was in my leg.
The nurse asked if I wanted to keep trying for pain relief. I said fuck it, let's just get the kid out. They kept laying me flat to get the epidural to work evenly, slowing down labor. I'd lost my patience and wanted to eat some damn food. I start pushing. I warned the nurses that my son came out so quickly that no one delivered him. The nurse caught him on the bounce. So they were ready for me.
Except the doctor wasn't. She was sleeping or some shit. I breathed through two contractions. I really wanted a doctor to deliver this kid. I didn't want another delivery without a doctor. She finally shows up, and two pushes later, Grace came out. It was amazing. She came out screaming, and they put her on my chest. She was 7lbs even and 20 1/4".
BFing was a breeze this time, and it didn't tear at all. Made recovery a cakewalk. I actually felt amazing. I had some amazing hormones release or something. I felt like I was cloud 9. I was so happy for days after her birth. I enjoyed this birth so much more than my son's. I didn't have the anxiety, BFing was easy, and i recovered so much better.
This is all stream of consciousness. I didn't proofread. I apologize.
Marigold Celestial Nostrils to save the day with glitter and unicorn farts!
Wow I feel bad in all honesty I don't remember mine....I remember the epidural wore off like 2 hours before he was born and I only pushed for 36 minutes. He was born at 3:16 p.m. on 3/17/13 and was 19 inches long and 6lbs even. Oh and I screamed like a damn banshee....they heard me all around the maternity ward and when the doors opened to the waiting room they heard me out there as well.
I never actually wrote my whole story out so this is a good avenue! I was due June 24th, and was getting very overdue and hot when July finally rolled around. I was trying for an unmedicated VBAC hospital birth and my practice was amazing about not scheduling an induction until exactly 42 weeks. So I had gone into the doctor's on July 1st and we scheduled the induction for July 7th at night. Part of me was so upset that I was going to be pregnant a whole week more, but the other part was SUPER excited to have a July 8th baby- it is both my birthday AND my father's birthday! Three generations on one birthday, that had to be some type of record. So I came to terms with being pregnant another week and went back to chiro, accupuncture, sex etc. to try and get things going. I was drinking wine every night. GET OUT BABY! I was team green until July 2nd and then I finally just said to DH, "you can confirm it's a girl now because I know" and he had to tell me that no, actually we are having another boy. I was shocked. And felt like an idiot that I made it as team green until 41 weeks and then caved at the finish line.
July 3rd was the start of another brutal heat wave. I took my son to Science museum (I had started maternity leave out of pathetic-ness) and nearly killed myself walking to the museum being 400 weeks pregnant and pushing a stroller in 90+ degree heat. I wanted to die! The rest of the day went as usual, and DH came home for dinner and said he needed to run an errand after dinner. I made him a small shopping list and wrote "air conditioner" at the bottom. He got all mad and was like, "you're ruining your birthday surprise!" and I said I was sorry but didn't really care because "I can go into labor at any minute and I don't want to be laboring at home and be hot!!!" Sure enough as soon as DH left the house I lost my mucus plug, had my bloody show and started contractions within an hour, just like with DS1. I text him and told him it was finally starting!! He totally panicked and told his mom to come over right away even though my contractions were like 10 minutes apart. We figured it would be good for her to sleep over so we could leave at any time during the night anyway so he installed the air conditioner (THANK GOD!!!) and I labored all night, trying to sleep but having contractions every 8-14 minutes made it hard.
Come dawn I said I wanted to go to the park and watch the sunrise and walk before it got too hot. I couldn't believe how slowly I was progressing. We walked and the temperature started to rise and I had 7 contraction 4 minutes apart and we were like, time to go to Boston (it's a half hour drive). It was the 4th and there were road closures so we had to drive a crazy route. We drive in and my contractions space back out to 12 minutes apart. We sit in the lot and the temp outside already reads 91 at 9:30. Shoot me. I walk around the hospital for 2 hours before checking in and they check me and I'm a TWO!!! WTF! This is my second and it's been almost 18 hours of labor. I am super discouraged.
Fast forward to walking the halls like it's my job and progressing to a 4 finally by 3pm. Contractions are really intense and consistently 4 mins apart for like 24 hours now. they check me again at 11:30 and I am still a 4. Queue tears. They said my uterus is too tired to function properly and I need to rest to progress. I said I need something not for the pain but to sleep. They gave me nubain to take the edge off and I sleep for 6ish hours. Heaven! When I wake though I was still a 4 though so then they gave me the pit talk. I said I would take the SMALLEST drop possible so they start me at a 2 and I finally get moving again. DH was my biggest advocate and he watched like a hawk a few times when nurses we didn't know came in and tried to up the drop. We kept it at 2 and when I got to an 8 they took me off. Back to all natural!
I was finally at a 10 at around noon on the 5th. Yes, day 3! I had the urge to push but when I tried it hurt so bad. Midwife said a lip of my cervix was stuck. She tried to manually move it but i couldn't handle the pain so I had to hold a crazy position for 7 contractions to move it myself. I will never forget the pain of those seven. Hypnobirthing had gone out the window and I was just a screamer at this point. Then people started coming in and looking at my vag and saying "I must be a runner." so weird, I guess runners have really crazy muscle tone down there? I got warned several times it wasn't going to be pretty pushing the baby out but that I would "bounce back" better. Why didn't someone tell me earlier to lay off the kegels?
So finally I get to push and I push in every flipping position for an hour. I decide I need to poop. They all laugh and say it's just the baby and I'm like, "no, I'm going to the bathroom." So I go to the bathroom, do indeed poop but fully well knew I pushed the baby down while I was on the pot. Since I had been in labor 46 hours now the nurses were actually prepping the OR and talked to my DH when I was in the bathroom about another section. He said, "if you breathe a word of this to her before it is actually going to have to happen I will kill you" to the nurse. He knew it would break me. I got back on the bed and they could see the head!
I knew it was finally about to happen so I pushed like crazy. I had nothing left in the reserves at this point so every push was with everything I had. Crowning without an epidural was the worst thing I have ever felt. I tore my clitoris in half and both labias and I felt every moment of it happening. They were indeed correct that runners tear worse I remember looking at my midwife just sitting in a chair at the end of the bed as I was about to give it my final push and thinking, "OH MY GOD she is going to let Mike and I do this ourselves!!!!" DH caught Arlo and put him on my chest. The world spun. It was amazing.
Then they asked me if I wanted pain meds to get stitched up because it was "going to be rough." I said absofuckinglutely. They brought in a plastic surgeon because of the way I tore. I am still coming to terms with how bad that was, but am happy to say I am indeed fully healed and back to normal!!
I am so happy I got my natural VBAC after all that. The recovery was so easy compared to my first birth. That being said I really didn't have the "amazing feeling" of a natural birth that so many people gush about. The contractions were tolerable, but I could have dealt without feeling myself tear. I could not have done it without my husband, he was so well prepared to be my coach and partner for the loooooong labor I had. He barely slept the whole 46.5 hours too. In the end I feel so grateful that I chose the doctors and hospital I did because I don't think I would have stayed this intervention free anywhere else. Kudos Brigham and Women's you are the best!
Never posted one or even wrote it out.... Story to follow
Wednesday June 26th my actual due date around 5pm went for a good long walk with my mom and daughter and started feeling contractions. Around 7pm decided I wanted to go to Target, what I was wanted to be about an hour trip turned into over 2 hours because contractions kept slowing me down. I was still in denial I was actually in labor. Got home and wanted a shower, didn't happen and my mom kept saying she wanted to start timing the contractions but I didn't want her to. Finally around 11pm I let her time them to realize that they were every 4 mins and were lasting about 50s. I called my hubby (who was deployed) and let him know what was going on so that he could make sure he was reachable once it was time to push.
By 1am my contractions were every 2mins lasting for a min so I called the hospital and told them I was on the way. Got to hospital and refused the wheelchair they had waiting for me and walked my happy ass up to L&D. Got checked out to find out I was only 3cm and 70%. I was so disappointed because that was where I was at when I had my DD and her labor was 36.5 hours long. They admitted me and kept me in Triage for a whole because all the (13, yes 13) L&D rooms were full!
Around 3am a room finally opened up and they moved me over there. Labor started getting unbearable so I asked to get into the shower. Stood in the shower for about and hour, which helped a ton but my legs were killing me so I got out and decided to labor on the birthing ball for a while. That ended up being even more uncomfortable for me and found that leaning over te bedside table worked best. At 7 am the nurses changed and my new one came in, introduced herself and told me they needed to monitor me again. She had trouble getting LO to stay on while standing so I had to lay down, laboring on my back for monitoring was horrible! Around 730 I asked for stadol (sp?) and that took the edge off but made me loopy. That wore off and by that time I was literally coming off the bed during my contractions. Stupid things would literally shoot to the top of the page ride across the top for about 75secs then slowly taper off, give me about 45s and start again and I wasn't even on pit!
Around 9am I gave in and asked for the epi. Before it arrived they checked me and I was 6cm and 100%, immediately after my epi was placed around 930 they checked me again and I was 9cm! I wanted to rest and told them to leave me alone and let my body labor down and so they did. My dr came in just before noon to see how I was doing and to check me, found put I was ready to push. She left and went to get ready for delivery while the nurses peeped the room. Dr came back in at 1215 and wanted to me do a practice push while she was setting he last few thing up, she immediately told me to stop. My bag of water was buldging out but still intact. 1225 had a contraction started to push and it caused my water to break then at 1231 my peanut was on my chest . Jameson Mitchell arrived 6/27 at 1231 weighing 7lbs 6oz and was 19" long.
Daddie got to be on the phone the whole time while pushing and after Jameson was born.
Sorry that turned into a novel but that's my story .
I never wrote out a birth story from any of my 3, but I still remember all of them pretty vividly. Which is why it's a miracle I ever did it more than once. Lol.
I was due June 7th. Went in for an appointment that day, and I was at a 1. I've never been anything other than Fort Knox until I was in labor, so a 1 was HUGE to me. Doc wanted to see me on Monday to see if I had made any progress over the weekend and do an NST just to check on little man. Sunday night my H and I headed to bed about 10:30. I was whining about my doc appointment in the morning and he asked what time so that he could leave work and be there. I was dreading the idea of having to be induced again. I was with dd2 and it was the most awful experience of my life. DD2 wakes up at midnight, I go check on her, notice a contraction as I was walking back upstairs. Went back to bed. Woke up at 2:45 to pee. Was so strong walking back up the stairs I had to stop. Laid in bed and waited to see if I'd feel another. 6 minutes later. Another one. I laid in bed timing them for an hour, and headed downstairs at 4am. Sat on my ball and text my mom to let her know that I would need to her watch the girls, it's baby time. I turned on Freaky Friday, guilty pleasure movie, plus it was all that was on. My H came down at 5 when his alarm went off. He wanted to shower and I told him to hurry up because I wanted to take one too. He did not hurry up. Jerk. I took a shower, and my mom got there as I was getting out. We headed to the hospital (we live less than 10 mins away) about 6:45. I was almost at a 6. The admitted me, I was a 7 by the time I got my epidural. I just kept telling my husband how proud of myself I was, and if the other 2 had went this smoothly, I wouldn't have spent the last 9 months freaking out about labor again. They broke my water about 9am. At 11:30 my doc (who was also 9 months pregnant) said it was time to start pushing. Maxwell Paul was born at 11:43am 8lbs 5oz 21 1/2 inches long. Labor is hard obviously, I would never quite say that I enjoyed it. But, it was the best birth experience I could ever imagine having. I feel very blessed with my last time going this way.
Riley Joseph was born on 6/27 at 6:09 PM, weighing 7 lbs 15 oz and 19.5 inches long. I was actually scheduled to be induced that day at 7:30, but the little mister had other plans!
My water broke at 8:45 in the morning while I was peeing. It took me a second to realize what was going on bc I just kept "peeing" without trying. Duh, not pee! I filled the toilet twice with blood, which was so scary. It made my blood pressure drop and I couldn't stand up. I actually called my dr while laying on my hardwood floor.
DH and my brother managed to slide me down the apt stairs and get me into the car, thankfully we missed rush hour traffic and the ride was less than 15 minutes long. I felt better on the ride over but when I went to get into the wheelchair I felt dizzy again. I went through 2 bags of fluids in no time and finally felt better.
I got up to pee a few hours after being there and when I got hooked back up to the monitors the nurses realized that DS's heartrate dropped and wouldn't come back up. For six whole minutes. They moved me a million different ways, jiggled my belly and gave me oxygen and it finally came back to normal. So there I had to stay.
My dr came in and checked me and realized that part of my membrane was still in tact, so he broke that and I swear I lost 10 pounds in fluids right there. I also passed two HUGE clots. He realized later that part of the placenta detached causing all the bleeding. Scary stuff bc I barely saw any blood with DD.
So, after nearly 7 hours of intermitten contractions that barely got me to a 6 and another decel episode, my dr decided to start me on pit around 5:00. Well, that did the trick and after 15 minutes of pushing, DS was born at 6:09, beating my 7:30 scheduled check in time for the induction!
I am so happy that I started to labor on my own. Sad that I couldn't get the job done on my own, but I knew it was best for DS at that point to just get out. He was pink and screaming his little head off.
I never posted mine, either! I was one of the early ones and I didn't know that's what people did
I was due June 21st. Beginning about 32 weeks, I started having pretty regular Braxton Hicks. I went into OB several times. They tried giving me Nifedipine but that didn't change the contractions. Luckily, my cervix wasn't dilating, so no one was too worried. The day I turned 35 weeks, I was at home resting on the couch that evening. I started to feel weird back pain and something just felt "different." I can't put my finger on it, but I had a feeling something wasn't right. My contractions were coming every 4 minutes. The day before I was 1 cm dilated. So, I decided I better go get things checked out. Mind you I was alone. DH was living in Colorado at the time and I was finishing up residency in Utah and moving back home in a week. I was planning on having the baby in Colorado, not Utah! Well, I went into OB and I was still 1 cm. They watched me for a few hours and sent me home.
I got home about midnight that night. The next morning, I woke up about 7 am. The contractions were still there. I was laying in bed when I felt a little pop. I stood up and felt fluid coming out. I knew it was my water breaking, but I was still in denial. I went and took a shower and thought if it's still coming out after that, then I'll head in to the hospital. I called DH who was, ironically, on his way to Utah to help me pack up my apartment (along with his parents and son). I was just hoping this baby wasn't going to come too quickly so he could be there for the birth!
I got to the hospital and they confirmed my water broke (obviously!). They let me hang out for a few hours to see if I was going to dilate on my own, but I had only dilated to 2 cm, so they started Pitocin. DH made it to the hospital! The Pitocin was awful. I was literally going 20 seconds between the end of one contraction and the beginning of the next. AWFUL. They wouldn't turn it down because the regularity of my contractions was what they wanted. After several hours of this, I told DH I couldn't do this much longer without an epidural. I figured next time they check me, if I'm dilated quite a bit, I'll suck it up but if not, I'd get one. Well, I was only 3 CM!!!!! I asked for an epi. The Anesthesiologist was able to get it in pretty quickly. FINALLY, I was able to rest a little.
About an hour later, I felt a LOT of pressure. I figured that was normal. The nurses came in to check me and they were shocked to see that the head was right there! I had gone from 3 cm to 10 cm in 1 HOUR! They got everything broken down and were going to give me a test push to see how quickly things may progress. I pushed once and everyone freaked out. They told me to stop and they ran to go get the doctor. I was afraid to even move because I felt like the baby was going to fall out!
Finally, the doctor got there. I pushed twice and LO was here! They had the NICU there just in case since I was only 35 weeks. She came out crying and did great! We didn't know if we were having a girl or boy, so that was a fun surprise! We decided about 2 hours before she was born what the name would be if the baby were a girl but we didn't have a name for a boy, so luckily we didn't have to think of one! Jade Layla weighed 5 pounds, 2 ounces and was 17.5" long. She was born at 9:34 pm, a little over 14 hours after my water broke at home.
Because she was tiny and early, we had a few problems in the hospital, but nothing significant. She had some low glucoses and needed formula to get her glucoses up. She had to be on bilirubin lights overnight. We were able to go home after 3 days, which is pretty remarkable for being that early! I was able to finish residency 5 days early and instead of going to my home in Utah, we drove 6 hours with a newborn back to Colorado!
I woke up with intense contractions about 5 minutes apart at 2:30 on June 9th. When they got to 3 minutes apart, we left for the half hour drive to our hospital. Arrived there at about 6 AM and was dilated to only 1 cm. Walked around for a while with intense contractions now 2-3 minutes apart. Was checked at 9:30 AM and still only 1 cm so they sent me home. Water broke at home at about 2 PM the same day, but contractions had kind of drifted off so we waited and went back to the hospital at about 7 PM. I was still only 1 cm...talk about discouraged. I didn't sleep all night as I was having extremely painful contractions and thought surely I'd be a few more centimeters along, but nope. 6:30 AM came, now June 10th, and still only 1cm! So, they started me on pitocin, which I credit for making things more painful. I ended up getting two epidurals...the first one came out somehow? Once the second one was in place, they checked me and I was ready to go! It was now about 4:30 PM. DD was born after about 45 minutes of pushing. DH and I joke about how all of a sudden, she was just plopped onto my belly and we were both like, "Wow, this is real!" My MIL once said you don't know how much you're capable of loving until you have a child, and man, do I ever agree with that now!
This is so weird. I was totally reliving mine today in my head on my drive into work. I sort of got emotional for a second. I'm having baby withdraw. Third day back from my break. I wish I had the time to type it all out right now. Maybe later. Shortened version. Three weeks early my water broke at my 37 week check up in the waiting room. They called my name to go back, I stood up and gush right around 4:00 PM! We went home to get our hospital bag and I had Abigail Constance the next day on June 20th, 2013 at 11:53 AM. Major cone head. They let me sit at 10 centimeters for an hour. They said it helped with less pushing IDK? Probably why her head was soooo long. She measured 20 inches with cone and all.
I never posted mine, so I guess I will try to give it a go. It's been seven months, so I apologize if I mess up any of the details or forget anything. (Sorry that it's so long, but it was a long process!)
At the end of April, I was diagnosed with preeclampsia, and my doctor made me stop working. I had to have all kinds of tests (non-stress, bloodwork, 24 hr. urine, etc.) and doctor's appointments each week. The goal was to get to 37 weeks if my blood pressure stayed under control and then start talking about induction. I also had to take my blood pressure daily and call the office immediately if the top number went over 160 or the bottom number went over 100. Luckily, for most of May, we managed to keep everything under control, but when I was 35 weeks, 5 days, my bottom number went over 100. I called the doctor, and she told me to come up to the hospital for monitoring. She told me to bring a bag just in case they decided to admit me. I was hopeful that they wouldn't admit me because I had been in for monitoring several other times, and they had always sent me home.
My husband and I packed a bag, ate an early dinner, and then headed up to the hospital. My blood pressure was still elevated when I went to the hospital. They gave me some medication, but it still wasn't coming down, so my OB (who was luckily the one on rounds that night) said that they felt I should induce now rather than waiting until 37 weeks. They told me to eat some more food because I wouldn't be allowed any food once the induction started. I think they gave me a turkey sandwich. Even though I had just eaten a couple of hours before, I tried to eat a bit more since it might be awhile before I could eat again.
First, I had to be hooked up to a saline drip and magnesium sulfate drip. The magnesium sulfate helps to prevent seizures from the preeclampsia. Since the magnesium sulfate apparently makes your muscles weak, I wasn't allowed out of bed once they started that. They put these annoying compression things on my legs that are supposed to help prevent blood clots since I would be bedridden for the induction. My OB mentioned placing a catheter, but I really didn't want one because of a previous bad experience, so she said I could do a bed pan if I wanted. (Looking back, I wish I had gotten the catheter sooner than I did because the bed pan was super annoying.) I also had to be put on IV antibiotics because I hadn't had my group B strep test yet, so they just treated me as though I had it to be safe.
When they performed a cervical check, I wasn't dilated at all. The OB wanted to place Cytotec first to help me dilate, but since it's not actually FDA-approved for induction, that made me a little nervous. I asked for Cervadil instead, which is what they gave me. They were rather busy that night, so they didn't end up placing my Cervadil until about midnight. They did a cervical check after first round of Cervadil, and at that point, I was only a fingertip dilated, so they placed another round of Cervadil. When they checked after that, I was a centimeter dilated if I remember correctly, so they started me on the Pitocin.
I had been admitted to the hospital on Friday, and by Sunday morning, I was still wasn't very much dilated, even with the Pitocin and Cervadil. The doctor at that point said he didn't think I had a good shot of having the induction work, but he could be wrong. He said I could stop the induction and have a C section or continue with the induction for another day. Despite being very sleep-deprived and sick of being stuck in bed, I chose to continue the induction, hoping it would start to work.
They cranked up the Pitocin higher than what they normally need to for most patients, almost to the highest setting that is considered safe, and I still never dilated past 3 or 4 centimeters. I was having some painful contractions from the Pitocin and had a feeling I might end up with the C section if this didn't work, so I opted for the epidural overnight Sunday into Monday. I also finally got the catheter when I got the epidural.
My OB was the one on duty Monday morning, and after talking with her, we decided the induction wasn't going to work since they couldn't safely turn up the Pitocin much further. We decided at around 8 or 9 am Monday morning that I would have a C section, and around noon, I was wheeled into the OR and had my LO shortly thereafter. Even though he was born at 36 weeks and 1 day, he was perfectly healthy and didn't need any NICU time.
I got to see LO for a little while at first, but then they took him and my husband out while they were stitching me up. I was supposed to have LO in the recovery room to get skin-to-skin and try to breastfeed, but unfortunately, the Labor and Delivery recovery room was full, so they sent me up to some general recovery room where I didn't get to see or hold LO. They kept me there about an hour, and then I finally got to see and hold LO when they brought me back down to Labor and Delivery. Since I was on the magnesium sulfate, they kept me in Labor and Delivery for another 24 hours, as is standard protocol for magnesium sulfate. I was still not allowed to eat or drink or get out of bed. Tuesday afternoon, they transferred me to the postpartum/maternity ward, where I was finally able to get out of bed and eat and drink for the first time in four days. I was in a lot of pain from the C section, but I still managed to enjoy my precious time with LO, and we ended up being released from the hospital Thursday afternoon.
Other details I forgot to mention above:
-Since I wasn't allowed to eat or drink for four days (other than ice chips), I became nauseous at times and had to get Zofran through my IV.
-After my C-section, I had the worse itching all over my legs. I think it was maybe from the anesthesia, but it could have been from those stupid compression things.
-I got a total of maybe 4 or 5 hours sleep from when I was admitted until when I had LO Monday afternoon. The bed was uncomfortable, and I was rather anxious. When I did manage to get to sleep, it seemed like I was constantly being woken up by nurses, doctors, med students, the machines, etc. It was awful. And of course we all know, after having LO, sleep didn't get that much better with having to wake every couple of hours to breastfeed; however, it was still better than in L&D.
I didn't ever post mine! See if I can remember the details...
I started labour at 7am on father's day - 8 days overdue. I'd leaked some fluid that morning but wasn't sure if it was AF or pee...didn't have anymore so laboured at home. At 3pm the contractions were 5 min apart and about 1 min long. They felt strong to me...I think I'd forgotten how bad they would get since I was BTDT.
Anyway, we went into L and D and I was checked at 3cm. They also checked to see if my water had broken, but it had not. They sent me home.
At home I laboured in our big soaker tub with my hubby. At 6pm I wanted to get out and asked DH to call our doula. She arrived at 6:30pm and I was starting to puke between contractions and get back labour at this point. We decided to head back to the hospital which was the worst ride of my life! We made it back to the hospital by 8:30pm where they made me go back into the asessment room (seriously?!?). I was 7cm this time and got to go to a L and D room. It took me forever to get from the car inside then to my room but they never offered a wheelchair...didn't bother me until after! Anyway, got to my room and sat in the chair. Contractions were bad at this point and asked for fentynol (sp?). The nurse gave me an IV and gave me the shot...which helped for all of one contraction. I should have known since it did nothing for me with DS1, but felt like I wanted to try it again. Now I'm feeling the urge to push so I move over to the bed. Get checked and I'm 10cm!! They break my water and 8 minutes and 2 contractions later Cooper Thomas Douglas Charles was born!! 9 lbs and 21.25". Then I turned to DH and said "I never have to do that again!!". After she left the hospital, our doula went to stay with DS1 so my mom could come see the baby. It was a wonderful labour and delivery and I was so happy to have gone into labour on my own after I developed pre-e and had to be induced with DS1.
I never posted mine either. My LO was due June 16th, and on the 17th I came home to ruined kitchen and nursery thanks to the people upstairs asnd leaving a floooding toilet for 4 days. So luckily LO stayed put for a few more days. I started contractions at 1am on the 25th, they were 5 min apart by 9am. I went to the hospital and was 5cm and stayed that way for over 12hours. I was given a shot of morphine and progressed to 10cm. I started pushing at 630pm, at the 2 hour mark my dr realized he was faceup and there was not enough room for him to get out so she called an OB. The OB wanted to do a csection but my dr advocated I could push him out with a vacumm assist. I continued to push while they argued and my dr won. So after a huge cut to make room for the vacumm and a total of 4 amd a half hours of pushing I had a little boy. I remember crying a lot while I was pushing, I was so afraid to have a c section, but was so appreciative to have had the option of the vacumm.
I never posted mine so I just wrote it up today. Sorry it's so long.
Hazel's Birth Story
When I was 41 weeks and 4 days overdue, I had an appointment with my doctor. When I was pregnant with DS, I had my membranes swept, twice, and it didn't do a damn thing. So, I had told my doctor, earlier in my pregnancy, that I didn't want to have it, but at that point I figured it wouldn't hurt anything, (and I was overdue and as huge as a whale) so I had him do it.
Over the next 2 days, I slowly lost my mucous plug, but I didn't have any contractions. I was pretty disappointed since I went 2 weeks overdue with my son and was induced twice. (Pretty disappointed is an understatement. I was crying, miserable and a raging bitch. I felt bad for everyone who talked to me during that time.)
I was scheduled to be induced on Friday June 21st at 42 weeks. On Thursday I was starting to feel some contractions on and off. All in my back, again. (I had horrible back labor with DS.) The contractions weren't consistent at all, so I wasn't going to get my hopes up.
We had gone out grocery shopping to grab some stuff since I was going to be induced the next day. I had to keep stopping while we were shopping to get through the pain.
I had talked to my mom on the phone and since I was having contractions and going to be induced the next day, we thought it would be good if my parents came to pick up DS the night before. I cried when he left, but I knew it was for the best.
The contractions were painful, but not unbearable. We decided to go for a walk and my contractions completely stalled. Bummer. So, we headed back home and watched What's Your Number? (Love that movie!) I was having some contractions again, but they weren't consistent.
I decided to try to get some rest and went to bed. I dozed off for a little bit, but at 11 pm the contractions were getting stronger. I couldn't sleep so I got up and went to take a shower. The water was nice, but then my contractions stalled again. After I got out of the shower, they picked up again.
Around 2 am I woke DH up and told him I thought that we should head to the hospital. We walked over (we live 2 blocks from the hospital) and checked in.
They hooked me up to see how baby was doing and they tried to get an IV in my hand. That was a horrid process and they blew so many of my veins that my whole arm was black for a couple of weeks after. It took many tries.
Anyways, they checked me and I was dilated to 4 cm, so they told me to stay. I was able to stand the pain by walking around and having DH apply pressure to my back when I was having a contraction. I made it to 6cm and then I was asking for drugs. They gave me some fentanyl and that helped take the edge off.
It took 4 hours for me to go from 6cm to 7 cm so they gave me some pitocin to speed things along.
Things were kind of a blur during transition. I kept napping on and off.
Late afternoon I felt the need to push so they checked me. They told me that I was only at 9 and that I still had a bit of cervix. I know I had to push. It was my second baby FFS. They didn't let me push for an hour. That was so painful and I told them that I was going to start pushing anyway. They kept telling me that I wasn't fully dilated, but I could push if I wanted to. Hell yes! It felt so much better to push. (Turns out that I was fully dilated when I first felt the need to push. They thought it was my cervix, but it was DD's skin from her head. Bah!)
I pushed for 1 hour and 45 minutes and she finally came out. It was one of the best moments of my life.
Hazel Elizabeth was born on June 21, 2013 at 7:13pm. She weighed 9 lbs and 6.5 oz and measured 23 in.
I never posted my labor story either. My labor was surprisingly easy and fast. I had a pretty bad pregnancy so I was expecting a bad labor.
I started having preterm contractions at 21 weeks and doctors had to stop me from going into actual labor. I was in L&D 5 times in March and April and had to have my contractions stopped each time. My doctor didn't think I would make it to full term. I started having weekly appointments in April to make sure things were ok. I continued to have contractions but would never dialate so I stopped going to L&D and decided I would go back if my water actually broke. I had my last weekly appt on Wednesday June 19th and they scheduled me for an induction the following Monday on June 23rd but the doctor said she'd see me this weekend and she was right!!!
I had been sleeping on the couch because that's the only place I could get comfortable. I had rolled over and felt a gush of warmness and immediately jumped up and ran to the bathroom. I didn't want to get anything on the brand new couch!!! I figured my water had broke but was in denial about it. I hollered for my mom to let her know what was going on and then I called the doctor who told me to come in. Water broke around 11:30 am and we got to the hospital around 1:00 pm. My SO had just started a new job and was in training so he couldn't leave and we had to wait for him at the hospital. Got checked in and confirmed ONE bag of water had broken and I was already 4 cm. I had been sitting at 1 cm for a couple months. My nurse put in the order for my epi and said they would break my second bag of water after I got my epi. Contractions weren't too bad at this point. They were there but nothing like I had has previously. Got my epi at 3:30, SO showed up right after and doctor broke my water around 4:00 pm. Went from a 5 to 10 in 2 and a half hours. I was ready to push at 6:30 and pushed for an hour and a half. My epi was awesome! I didn't feel any pain but felt pressure so I knew when I needed to push which meant I didn't have to be monitored for contractions. I ended up pushing for so long because contractions slowed down to 5 minutes apart. Grayson was born at 8:02 pm on June 21st, 2013. The Friday before my scheduled induction on Monday
Went to the hospital on Father's Day at 8:30pm to start the induction (i duction due to high bp). I was 1cm 50 effaced when we got there. Did cytotec over night and was 3cm by morning. Pitocin started around 6am and My water was broken at 8am which really kicked up labor. I planned to go med free but when contractions got bad and I asked to move around I was told I couldn't get out of bed because the baby was stationed too high and they were worried about cord prolapse. Not being able to move around, I got an epidural around noon. By 1:30 I was complete, we thought for sure we would have a baby by happy hour! I labored down until about 3pm then began pushing. I pushed an hour and a half with an epi that was only working on one side which I didn't mind while pushing because I felt in control. Hudson was facing the wrong way so we stopped pushing and tried to turn him naturally by laboring down and turning from side to side. Not being able to push with contractions was awful so they readministered the epi. We waited awhile and I started pushing again. After another hour and half of pushing, he had not changed position at all and was stuck. At this point a csection was decided, I was worn out and my epi had completely failed and I could feel everything. I was told I had to wait until we got to the OR to get the epi again. Once in the OR they could not get the epidural to work at all and had to take it out and try a spinal. After about 5 pricks to my back they finally got the spinal to work. This immediately made me nauseas and they pushed a ton of nausea meds into me. I felt like I was suffocating from the spinal so they gave me something to calm me down. (They had to place the spinal higher than usual and I was numbed neck down)All the meds knocked me out. I barely remember my Hudson's first cry or meeting him for the first time. He was so stuck that they tore my uterus yanking him out which caused me to start bleeding out so my DH and baby had to leave. The bleeding was stopped and I finally got to go meet my LO around 11:30pm. He had a pretty bad bruise and laceration on his head from getting stuck in my pelvis. From the amount of damage to my uterus my ob told me vbac in the future is not an option and that she doesn't even want me to go into labore again bc the contractions may be too much on the scar tissue on my uterus. I'm actually looking for a less traumatic birth next time around... Hopefully!
I work in the school system so it was my first Tuesday off. My water broke as I was having breakfast at 7:15, and I thought I had peed my self. I called DH laughing to tell him what a crazy regnant lady I was peeing herself. He asked several times if it was my water and I told him 'NO' like a dozen times and told him not to come home. (He works 45 min away, but was smart enough to get in the car and come home and not tell me he was on his way)
I got in the shower to clean off the 'pee' I washed my hair, and took my lazy little time. DH got home as I was blow drying my hair and asked if I needed to call the Drs office. I really wanted to get the kitchen cleaned (it was my last room in the house to deep clean) so I lied and said they weren't open until 9:00. I was a little angry he had come home and decided that since he was taking the day off of work for nothing I would put him to work so we began to clean the kitchen cabinets out. I felt fine not even a cramp. At 9:00 DH said I needed to call the Dr, and I continued to put it off for another 30 min while we continued to clean. He finally made me call and of course the Dr. said I needed to come in right away and didn't need an appointment just to get there.
As I got off the phone I lied to DH again saying I had an 10:15 appointment. At 10:15 I got to Dr. office he checked me out and said I needed to walk across the parking lot and go to the hospital as it was my water that broke.
I was so hungry so I begged DH to take me to lunch at a nearby little deli. I procrastinated like crazy though lunch and finally DH says "your going to have a baby, now get in the car" So we drove to the hospital and checked in. They started Cytophan (sp?) and told me to walk so we did, 8 hours later I finally started to have a little cramping, they continued pumping me with drugs every 4 hours and about midnight I finally knew I was in labor. They started Pitocin at 1:30 am. I walked, I sat in the tub, I bounced on the ball, I walked and walked and walked, I finally got an epidural at 9:30am got to sleep for about 3 hours when they came to check me again at 12:00pm and called the Dr. Dr. said I was ready to push but I thought she was kidding. I laughed and pushed a little and laughed and joked with the Dr for about 10 minutes continually thinking it was just for practice. She then told me to give her 4 good pushes, I did and about half way through the 3rd push my baby started to crown...and then the Dr. screamed at me top and pulled my baby quickly at 12:08. Apparently as soon as LO was face out he puffed out his chest like he was going to take a breath and they didn't want him to get stuck.
The whole thing was nothing like I anticipated, I remember thinking it was so unreal and so 'not like TV' a bunch of times.
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Our lil' diva: late like her Momma: 40 weeks 5 days!
When we got to the hospital, they gave me a room and I got all changed into a sexy hospital gown. The nurse said that the doctor was doing a csection so was going to do a quick swab test. The text came back negative for my water breaking. I was laying in a puddle at this point, still no contractions and was really confused about all this liquid coming out of me. I asked if I should just go to my appointment and she said she would go ask the doctor. I guess the dr took a quick break and came to so an internal swab test which came back positive! They were going to keep me!
I still wasn't having any contractions and I was barely effaced/dilated so they started to soften my cervix so that they could give me pitocin. Luckily 2 doses of the cervix softener stuff was enough to put me In labor and they didn't have to do the pit.
My contractions started about 9am. Right away when they started, I was having 3 in a row, each 1 minute long, with a 1 minute break in between. I had originally planned on on using the birthing ball and and walking around but once I was actually in labor, all I wanted to do was lay on my back in the bed and stare at the ceiling.
I was progressing really slowly and at 1am on the 25th, they came in to check me. I was only at 5 and caved and got the epidural. I don't regret it all! I took a nap and at 3am I woke up with a stabbing pain in my back. The nurse checked me and I was at 10! We did a few practice pushes but couldn't start actually pushing because my contractions were 6 minutes apart and that point and they had to start some pit. Shortly after that my contractions were close enough together to start pushing.
Kenna came out in 3 pushes and was delivered by the nurse because the doctor didn't make it there in time. She wasn't breathing at first because she was stunned from coming out so fast. After a few seconds she started crying. The nicu nurses came in to check her out and said she was fine so they finally gave her to me. She pooped all over me and it was wonderful! I had a 2nd degree tear.
Kenna Elizabeth was born at 3:49 am on June 25, 2013 at 41w1d. She was 6 lbs 2.5 oz and 19 inches long.
BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016
BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
Friday May 17: routine Dr. visit. BP is high. Has me sent to L&D for NST and bloodwork. All ok, sent home w jug for fun 24h pee catch.
Sunday May 19: got the call that I needed to go in on Monday. I had PreE ... Very high protein ... We were going to have a baby soon!
My last non liquid meal was Monday mid morning...
Monday May 20: admitted, unfavorable for delivery given Cervidil
Tuesday May 21: unfavorable for delivery, pit all day, Cervidil again at night
Wednesday May 22: still won't efface or dialate more than 2 at 25% continued pit, lots of fun contractions ... Nothing happening
Thursday May 23: 2 at 25% given a few doses of misoprostol, had water broken in the evening and hooked up again to pit.
**baby hr doing great during all of this, I'm also being monitored regularly for bp ... Higher risk due to my allergies to sulfate drugs (what they would give for serious bp spike) lots of contractions with no progress)**
Friday May 24: holy heck contractions all night, minimal progress 3cm 50% effaced by morning. Finally asked for epi around 9am. They don't do them regularly and I had the unfortunate situation where it never took properly. Only numbed my left leg. Kept waiting for it to work, intense pain... Baby finally got tired of all this mess and took a wee nap which sent the nursing staff into a tizzy. I'm flipped on my side getting oxygen, husband is white as I ghost I'm in lala land from sleep deprivation, hunger, oxygen and lots of pain. I ask them to check because I'm feeling pressure and ta da! Ready to push! Shoulders got stuck fun McSomething technique used where my head was dropped and legs bicyced and ....
Baby J born at 1:01pm on Friday!
Couldn't move my left leg until the next day. Awesome. But ate all the food (gluten free food...damn allergies) I could get my hands on. And fell totally in love with my baby boy (team green turned blue!)
Sorry that got so long...that's the short
version! Thanks for reading!
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I was due June 24th, and was getting very overdue and hot when July finally rolled around. I was trying for an unmedicated VBAC hospital birth and my practice was amazing about not scheduling an induction until exactly 42 weeks. So I had gone into the doctor's on July 1st and we scheduled the induction for July 7th at night. Part of me was so upset that I was going to be pregnant a whole week more, but the other part was SUPER excited to have a July 8th baby- it is both my birthday AND my father's birthday! Three generations on one birthday, that had to be some type of record. So I came to terms with being pregnant another week and went back to chiro, accupuncture, sex etc. to try and get things going. I was drinking wine every night. GET OUT BABY! I was team green until July 2nd and then I finally just said to DH, "you can confirm it's a girl now because I know" and he had to tell me that no, actually we are having another boy. I was shocked. And felt like an idiot that I made it as team green until 41 weeks and then caved at the finish line.
Then people started coming in and looking at my vag and saying "I must be a runner." so weird, I guess runners have really crazy muscle tone down there? I got warned several times it wasn't going to be pretty pushing the baby out but that I would "bounce back" better. Why didn't someone tell me earlier to lay off the kegels?
Wednesday June 26th my actual due date around 5pm went for a good long walk with my mom and daughter and started feeling contractions. Around 7pm decided I wanted to go to Target, what I was wanted to be about an hour trip turned into over 2 hours because contractions kept slowing me down. I was still in denial I was actually in labor. Got home and wanted a shower, didn't happen and my mom kept saying she wanted to start timing the contractions but I didn't want her to. Finally around 11pm I let her time them to realize that they were every 4 mins and were lasting about 50s. I called my hubby (who was deployed) and let him know what was going on so that he could make sure he was reachable once it was time to push.
By 1am my contractions were every 2mins lasting for a min so I called the hospital and told them I was on the way. Got to hospital and refused the wheelchair they had waiting for me and walked my happy ass up to L&D. Got checked out to find out I was only 3cm and 70%. I was so disappointed because that was where I was at when I had my DD and her labor was 36.5 hours long. They admitted me and kept me in Triage for a whole because all the (13, yes 13) L&D rooms were full!
Around 3am a room finally opened up and they moved me over there. Labor started getting unbearable so I asked to get into the shower. Stood in the shower for about and hour, which helped a ton but my legs were killing me so I got out and decided to labor on the birthing ball for a while. That ended up being even more uncomfortable for me and found that leaning over te bedside table worked best. At 7 am the nurses changed and my new one came in, introduced herself and told me they needed to monitor me again. She had trouble getting LO to stay on while standing so I had to lay down, laboring on my back for monitoring was horrible! Around 730 I asked for stadol (sp?) and that took the edge off but made me loopy. That wore off and by that time I was literally coming off the bed during my contractions. Stupid things would literally shoot to the top of the page ride across the top for about 75secs then slowly taper off, give me about 45s and start again and I wasn't even on pit!
Around 9am I gave in and asked for the epi. Before it arrived they checked me and I was 6cm and 100%, immediately after my epi was placed around 930 they checked me again and I was 9cm! I wanted to rest and told them to leave me alone and let my body labor down and so they did. My dr came in just before noon to see how I was doing and to check me, found put I was ready to push. She left and went to get ready for delivery while the nurses peeped the room. Dr came back in at 1215 and wanted to me do a practice push while she was setting he last few thing up, she immediately told me to stop. My bag of water was buldging out but still intact. 1225 had a contraction started to push and it caused my water to break then at 1231 my peanut was on my chest
Daddie got to be on the phone the whole time while pushing and after Jameson was born.
Sorry that turned into a novel but that's my story
I was due June 7th. Went in for an appointment that day, and I was at a 1. I've never been anything other than Fort Knox until I was in labor, so a 1 was HUGE to me. Doc wanted to see me on Monday to see if I had made any progress over the weekend and do an NST just to check on little man. Sunday night my H and I headed to bed about 10:30. I was whining about my doc appointment in the morning and he asked what time so that he could leave work and be there. I was dreading the idea of having to be induced again. I was with dd2 and it was the most awful experience of my life. DD2 wakes up at midnight, I go check on her, notice a contraction as I was walking back upstairs. Went back to bed. Woke up at 2:45 to pee. Was so strong walking back up the stairs I had to stop. Laid in bed and waited to see if I'd feel another. 6 minutes later. Another one. I laid in bed timing them for an hour, and headed downstairs at 4am. Sat on my ball and text my mom to let her know that I would need to her watch the girls, it's baby time. I turned on Freaky Friday, guilty pleasure movie, plus it was all that was on. My H came down at 5 when his alarm went off. He wanted to shower and I told him to hurry up because I wanted to take one too. He did not hurry up. Jerk. I took a shower, and my mom got there as I was getting out. We headed to the hospital (we live less than 10 mins away) about 6:45. I was almost at a 6. The admitted me, I was a 7 by the time I got my epidural. I just kept telling my husband how proud of myself I was, and if the other 2 had went this smoothly, I wouldn't have spent the last 9 months freaking out about labor again. They broke my water about 9am. At 11:30 my doc (who was also 9 months pregnant) said it was time to start pushing. Maxwell Paul was born at 11:43am 8lbs 5oz 21 1/2 inches long. Labor is hard obviously, I would never quite say that I enjoyed it. But, it was the best birth experience I could ever imagine having. I feel very blessed with my last time going this way.
Riley Joseph was born on 6/27 at 6:09 PM, weighing 7 lbs 15 oz and 19.5 inches long. I was actually scheduled to be induced that day at 7:30, but the little mister had other plans!
My water broke at 8:45 in the morning while I was peeing. It took me a second to realize what was going on bc I just kept "peeing" without trying. Duh, not pee! I filled the toilet twice with blood, which was so scary. It made my blood pressure drop and I couldn't stand up. I actually called my dr while laying on my hardwood floor.
DH and my brother managed to slide me down the apt stairs and get me into the car, thankfully we missed rush hour traffic and the ride was less than 15 minutes long. I felt better on the ride over but when I went to get into the wheelchair I felt dizzy again. I went through 2 bags of fluids in no time and finally felt better.
I got up to pee a few hours after being there and when I got hooked back up to the monitors the nurses realized that DS's heartrate dropped and wouldn't come back up. For six whole minutes. They moved me a million different ways, jiggled my belly and gave me oxygen and it finally came back to normal. So there I had to stay.
My dr came in and checked me and realized that part of my membrane was still in tact, so he broke that and I swear I lost 10 pounds in fluids right there. I also passed two HUGE clots. He realized later that part of the placenta detached causing all the bleeding. Scary stuff bc I barely saw any blood with DD.
So, after nearly 7 hours of intermitten contractions that barely got me to a 6 and another decel episode, my dr decided to start me on pit around 5:00. Well, that did the trick and after 15 minutes of pushing, DS was born at 6:09, beating my 7:30 scheduled check in time for the induction!
I am so happy that I started to labor on my own. Sad that I couldn't get the job done on my own, but I knew it was best for DS at that point to just get out. He was pink and screaming his little head off.
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I never posted mine, so I guess I will try to give it a go. It's been seven months, so I apologize if I mess up any of the details or forget anything. (Sorry that it's so long, but it was a long process!)
At the end of April, I was diagnosed with preeclampsia, and my doctor made me stop working. I had to have all kinds of tests (non-stress, bloodwork, 24 hr. urine, etc.) and doctor's appointments each week. The goal was to get to 37 weeks if my blood pressure stayed under control and then start talking about induction. I also had to take my blood pressure daily and call the office immediately if the top number went over 160 or the bottom number went over 100. Luckily, for most of May, we managed to keep everything under control, but when I was 35 weeks, 5 days, my bottom number went over 100. I called the doctor, and she told me to come up to the hospital for monitoring. She told me to bring a bag just in case they decided to admit me. I was hopeful that they wouldn't admit me because I had been in for monitoring several other times, and they had always sent me home.
My husband and I packed a bag, ate an early dinner, and then headed up to the hospital. My blood pressure was still elevated when I went to the hospital. They gave me some medication, but it still wasn't coming down, so my OB (who was luckily the one on rounds that night) said that they felt I should induce now rather than waiting until 37 weeks. They told me to eat some more food because I wouldn't be allowed any food once the induction started. I think they gave me a turkey sandwich. Even though I had just eaten a couple of hours before, I tried to eat a bit more since it might be awhile before I could eat again.
First, I had to be hooked up to a saline drip and magnesium sulfate drip. The magnesium sulfate helps to prevent seizures from the preeclampsia. Since the magnesium sulfate apparently makes your muscles weak, I wasn't allowed out of bed once they started that. They put these annoying compression things on my legs that are supposed to help prevent blood clots since I would be bedridden for the induction. My OB mentioned placing a catheter, but I really didn't want one because of a previous bad experience, so she said I could do a bed pan if I wanted. (Looking back, I wish I had gotten the catheter sooner than I did because the bed pan was super annoying.) I also had to be put on IV antibiotics because I hadn't had my group B strep test yet, so they just treated me as though I had it to be safe.
When they performed a cervical check, I wasn't dilated at all. The OB wanted to place Cytotec first to help me dilate, but since it's not actually FDA-approved for induction, that made me a little nervous. I asked for Cervadil instead, which is what they gave me. They were rather busy that night, so they didn't end up placing my Cervadil until about midnight. They did a cervical check after first round of Cervadil, and at that point, I was only a fingertip dilated, so they placed another round of Cervadil. When they checked after that, I was a centimeter dilated if I remember correctly, so they started me on the Pitocin.
I had been admitted to the hospital on Friday, and by Sunday morning, I was still wasn't very much dilated, even with the Pitocin and Cervadil. The doctor at that point said he didn't think I had a good shot of having the induction work, but he could be wrong. He said I could stop the induction and have a C section or continue with the induction for another day. Despite being very sleep-deprived and sick of being stuck in bed, I chose to continue the induction, hoping it would start to work.
They cranked up the Pitocin higher than what they normally need to for most patients, almost to the highest setting that is considered safe, and I still never dilated past 3 or 4 centimeters. I was having some painful contractions from the Pitocin and had a feeling I might end up with the C section if this didn't work, so I opted for the epidural overnight Sunday into Monday. I also finally got the catheter when I got the epidural.
My OB was the one on duty Monday morning, and after talking with her, we decided the induction wasn't going to work since they couldn't safely turn up the Pitocin much further. We decided at around 8 or 9 am Monday morning that I would have a C section, and around noon, I was wheeled into the OR and had my LO shortly thereafter. Even though he was born at 36 weeks and 1 day, he was perfectly healthy and didn't need any NICU time.
I got to see LO for a little while at first, but then they took him and my husband out while they were stitching me up. I was supposed to have LO in the recovery room to get skin-to-skin and try to breastfeed, but unfortunately, the Labor and Delivery recovery room was full, so they sent me up to some general recovery room where I didn't get to see or hold LO.
They kept me there about an hour, and then I finally got to see and hold LO when they brought me back down to Labor and Delivery. Since I was on the magnesium sulfate, they kept me in Labor and Delivery for another 24 hours, as is standard protocol for magnesium sulfate. I was still not allowed to eat or drink or get out of bed. Tuesday afternoon, they transferred me to the postpartum/maternity ward, where I was finally able to get out of bed and eat and drink for the first time in four days. I was in a lot of pain from the C section, but I still managed to enjoy my precious time with LO, and we ended up being released from the hospital Thursday afternoon.
Other details I forgot to mention above:
-Since I wasn't allowed to eat or drink for four days (other than ice chips), I became nauseous at times and had to get Zofran through my IV.
-After my C-section, I had the worse itching all over my legs. I think it was maybe from the anesthesia, but it could have been from those stupid compression things.
-I got a total of maybe 4 or 5 hours sleep from when I was admitted until when I had LO Monday afternoon. The bed was uncomfortable, and I was rather anxious. When I did manage to get to sleep, it seemed like I was constantly being woken up by nurses, doctors, med students, the machines, etc. It was awful. And of course we all know, after having LO, sleep didn't get that much better with having to wake every couple of hours to breastfeed; however, it was still better than in L&D.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
I started labour at 7am on father's day - 8 days overdue. I'd leaked some fluid that morning but wasn't sure if it was AF or pee...didn't have anymore so laboured at home. At 3pm the contractions were 5 min apart and about 1 min long. They felt strong to me...I think I'd forgotten how bad they would get since I was BTDT.
Anyway, we went into L and D and I was checked at 3cm. They also checked to see if my water had broken, but it had not. They sent me home.
At home I laboured in our big soaker tub with my hubby. At 6pm I wanted to get out and asked DH to call our doula. She arrived at 6:30pm and I was starting to puke between contractions and get back labour at this point. We decided to head back to the hospital which was the worst ride of my life! We made it back to the hospital by 8:30pm where they made me go back into the asessment room (seriously?!?). I was 7cm this time and got to go to a L and D room. It took me forever to get from the car inside then to my room but they never offered a wheelchair...didn't bother me until after! Anyway, got to my room and sat in the chair. Contractions were bad at this point and asked for fentynol (sp?). The nurse gave me an IV and gave me the shot...which helped for all of one contraction. I should have known since it did nothing for me with DS1, but felt like I wanted to try it again. Now I'm feeling the urge to push so I move over to the bed. Get checked and I'm 10cm!! They break my water and 8 minutes and 2 contractions later Cooper Thomas Douglas Charles was born!! 9 lbs and 21.25". Then I turned to DH and said "I never have to do that again!!". After she left the hospital, our doula went to stay with DS1 so my mom could come see the baby. It was a wonderful labour and delivery and I was so happy to have gone into labour on my own after I developed pre-e and had to be induced with DS1.
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9058697/my-mary-s-birth-story
I started having preterm contractions at 21 weeks and doctors had to stop me from going into actual labor. I was in L&D 5 times in March and April and had to have my contractions stopped each time. My doctor didn't think I would make it to full term. I started having weekly appointments in April to make sure things were ok. I continued to have contractions but would never dialate so I stopped going to L&D and decided I would go back if my water actually broke. I had my last weekly appt on Wednesday June 19th and they scheduled me for an induction the following Monday on June 23rd but the doctor said she'd see me this weekend and she was right!!!
I had been sleeping on the couch because that's the only place I could get comfortable. I had rolled over and felt a gush of warmness and immediately jumped up and ran to the bathroom. I didn't want to get anything on the brand new couch!!! I figured my water had broke but was in denial about it. I hollered for my mom to let her know what was going on and then I called the doctor who told me to come in. Water broke around 11:30 am and we got to the hospital around 1:00 pm. My SO had just started a new job and was in training so he couldn't leave and we had to wait for him at the hospital. Got checked in and confirmed ONE bag of water had broken and I was already 4 cm. I had been sitting at 1 cm for a couple months. My nurse put in the order for my epi and said they would break my second bag of water after I got my epi. Contractions weren't too bad at this point. They were there but nothing like I had has previously. Got my epi at 3:30, SO showed up right after and doctor broke my water around 4:00 pm. Went from a 5 to 10 in 2 and a half hours. I was ready to push at 6:30 and pushed for an hour and a half. My epi was awesome! I didn't feel any pain but felt pressure so I knew when I needed to push which meant I didn't have to be monitored for contractions. I ended up pushing for so long because contractions slowed down to 5 minutes apart. Grayson was born at 8:02 pm on June 21st, 2013. The Friday before my scheduled induction on Monday
Not being able to push with contractions was awful so they readministered the epi. We waited awhile and I started pushing again. After another hour and half of pushing, he had not changed position at all and was stuck. At this point a csection was decided, I was worn out and my epi had completely failed and I could feel everything.
I was told I had to wait until we got to the OR to get the epi again. Once in the OR they could not get the epidural to work at all and had to take it out and try a spinal. After about 5 pricks to my back they finally got the spinal to work. This immediately made me nauseas and they pushed a ton of nausea meds into me. I felt like I was suffocating from the spinal so they gave me something to calm me down. (They had to place the spinal higher than usual and I was numbed neck down)All the meds knocked me out. I barely remember my Hudson's first cry or meeting him for the first time. He was so stuck that they tore my uterus yanking him out which caused me to start bleeding out so my DH and baby had to leave. The bleeding was stopped and I finally got to go meet my LO around 11:30pm. He had a pretty bad bruise and laceration on his head from getting stuck in my pelvis.
From the amount of damage to my uterus my ob told me vbac in the future is not an option and that she doesn't even want me to go into labore again bc the contractions may be too much on the scar tissue on my uterus. I'm actually looking for a less traumatic birth next time around... Hopefully!