Took a pregnancy test on Jan 6 and got a BFP. I immediately called to schedule an appointment to confirm the results at the hospital. Once there I was sent to OB and told to do a "self-referral" since I had a positive home pregnancy test. When I went to OB I informed them that I wasn't sure how far along I was since I'd only had two cycles since giving birth to DD (17 months, one Oct 12th and Nov 26th), so I was scheduled for a dating ultrasound the next morning (Jan 9). DH and I went to the ultrasound the next morning. The resident asked about my LMP and said that I should be around 7 weeks. Initially, she tried an abdominal ultrasound (?) but couldn't see much so she switched to the transvaginal. After a couple of minutes she said she could see the yolk sac but couldn't see anything inside. She asked when I took the pregnancy test, f I'd had and bleeding (I haven't) or any other signs of miscarriage, which I haven't. She dated me at 5w and said that she can't tell if I'd lost the pregnancy or if it was too early to tell. She seemed like a really nice girl but I kind of think she was trying to soften the blow and not be the bearer of bad news. Then, she went to look on a bigger monitor and came back and said that she saw a little bit of a fetal pole and that I should reschedule another ultrasound for a week or two later.
Afterwards I went back to OB and was asked if she gave me a date and I said no and that I needed to reschedule another ultrasound. The nurse scheduled it for Jan 29 at 0800, an hour before the prenatal orientation that I was previously scheduled to attend. I know it's really early but I was so heartbroken after leaving the hospital I broke down in tears. I didn't know how I'd go about the next three weeks wondering it everything was okay. It's been a couple days so far and I can't stop thinking about it.
Also, my husband has to go to training on the 26th(military) and he'll be gone until we move Feb 15th so I have to go to the appointment myself. I am so nervous I don't know what to do.
Re: Dating U/S, no/little fetal pole
They also couldn't find a HB at my very first u/s because I was only around 6 weeks. Even at my first appt at 12 weeks, they couldn't find a HB using a doppler. Try not to worry. If there wasn't any hope, they would have told you by now.
Schedule some fun activities with your DD to take your mind off of worrying.