I just can't get excited about artificial or ivf pregnancies. My sil did ivf and announced her pregnancy right after we announced. Now the whole family is acting like this is such a blessed miracle. Nope, not a miracle just an act of science. We created our baby thru love and noone seems to care now that sil has her science baby on the way.
What
The
Fuck
She better be getting torn apart!!
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I just can't get excited about artificial or ivf pregnancies. My sil did ivf and announced her pregnancy right after we announced. Now the whole family is acting like this is such a blessed miracle. Nope, not a miracle just an act of science. We created our baby thru love and noone seems to care now that sil has her science baby on the way.
Also I would like to point out that my non science baby was conceived on a drunken night in a shitty Irish hotel. It was supposed to be my last night drinking before ttc so I got super loaded and don't remember having sex at all.....so not all babies conceived naturally are conceived in an act of love.
Im a few pages into it (she said it on page one and there are 14 pages) and she hasnt come back yet. Ill let you know, lol.
But, I had a chick on TK tell me I was having a designer baby and spouting off about natural selection and all that shit. She was not an AE. She was a semi regular poster. That was back when I got pregnant from my first IVF (that I lost).
Some people have strong feeling about it I guess. FFC? I kind of hope Karma kicks them in the ass and makes them infertile. They will change their tune then.
Ok I just read all the replies. For whoever
said something about me spreading my legs I would like for you to know
my HUSBAND and I created our child thru making love. I would not use ivf
or any other stuff like that to conceive. A true miracle is a child
created thru a husband and wifes passion for each other not in a lab.
I'm sorry but I do not feel its right.
Taking sperm from a cup and mixing it with an
egg is by a lab is not at all the same as a married couple creating a
child by making love. Children will come into a marriage when the time
is right, you shouldn't bring in stuff that is not supposed to happen
like ivf. That is just how I feel nothing anyone says will change that.
Children should be created in a marriage naturally .
Im a few pages into it (she said it on page one and there are 14 pages) and she hasnt come back yet. Ill let you know, lol.
But, I had a chick on TK tell me I was having a designer baby and spouting off about natural selection and all that shit. She was not an AE. She was a semi regular poster. That was back when I got pregnant from my first IVF (that I lost).
Some people have strong feeling about it I guess. FFC? I kind of hope Karma kicks them in the ass and makes them infertile. They will change their tune then.
Ugh it's too bad you can't cyber punch assholes. What business is it of hers how you concieve?
@laxmom44 Us too! we had had TTC and miscarried. We thought it was a sign that it wasn't the right time. We got loaded at our neighbors party and bam, R is here. It wasn't an act of love it was just a sloppy drunk night. But we have a perfect baby boy, who wasn't born per say, but came into this world via surgical extraction, in case this bitch and April 14 chick are friends.
I got my H drunk so he would do it without a condom at the right time. He wanted to ttc but he was being a little hoe about pulling the trigger. That counts as passion right?
Yea. All babies are conceived through loving marriages. Umm no. What about all the teen moms who have no prob getting knocked up or these drug addicts who have their babies taken away buy child services the minute they're born because they keep having them.
These assholes are so stupid. Because guess who does IVF? Loving, married couples who really want a baby. Not douchebags who don't want them and will mistreat them.
I just saw this. That little douchebag is an idiot. She remind me of the surgical extraction twat.
If spending thousands of dollars, after suffering heartbreak after heartbreak, so that you can MAYBE experience that perfect miracle isn't love, I don't know what is.
I just let DD scream in her crib for 30 minutes before she fell asleep. She wouldn't nap this morning, just like she wouldn't sleep last night. I have a fever and feel like crap. I just couldn't handle her clinginess anymore. DH has worked 5 days in a row which is rare since his shifts are 10-14 hours each. When he gets home at 4:30, he's on baby duty until noon tomorrow. I need a break...and sleep.
I get how frustrating it can be but it's only because theyr
I just can't get excited about artificial or
ivf pregnancies. My sil did ivf and announced her pregnancy right after
we announced. Now the whole family is acting like this is such a
blessed miracle. Nope, not a miracle just an act of science. We created
our baby thru love and noone seems to care now that sil has her science
baby on the way.
I just let DD scream in her crib for 30 minutes before she fell asleep. She wouldn't nap this morning, just like she wouldn't sleep last night. I have a fever and feel like crap. I just couldn't handle her clinginess anymore. DH has worked 5 days in a row which is rare since his shifts are 10-14 hours each. When he gets home at 4:30, he's on baby duty until noon tomorrow. I need a break...and sleep.
I get how frustrating it can be but it's only because they can't express how they're feeling. Leaving them screaming as in inconsolably upset isn't cool.
I just can't get excited about artificial or
ivf pregnancies. My sil did ivf and announced her pregnancy right after
we announced. Now the whole family is acting like this is such a
blessed miracle. Nope, not a miracle just an act of science. We created
our baby thru love and noone seems to care now that sil has her science
baby on the way.
What a twatful thing to say.
Edit. Gosh I'm dumb. I thought I'd opted my previous post.
Dubstep got me through law school studying and still gets me through long days at work. Praise Jeebus for headphones so the 60 year old I work with don't know.
I'm pretty sure my babies' conception is as sci-fi as it currently gets. We had our (IVF) embryos' genes tested for cystic fibrosis before transferring them to my uterus. That's the only reason we did IVF. And yes, it was done out of love. Not only for each other, but also out of love for our babies - knowing we were both CF carriers, we couldn't allow ourselves to take the gamble that a baby conceived naturally would be healthy, possibly inflicting a life of illness and medical treatments and ultimately an early death on our own children. So @ladyabagail and that bitch on TK can kiss my ass.
I just saw this. That little douchebag is an idiot. She remind me of the surgical extraction twat.
If spending thousands of dollars, after suffering heartbreak after heartbreak, so that you can MAYBE experience that perfect miracle isn't love, I don't know what is.
The surgical extraction girl was who I thought of as well. I'm still reading it but I was wondering if anyone else made the connection.
K so I know this is waaaaaay late to the game but I thought about this at say 3 am ish and because I think it's super deep and emo I am going to post.
C is probably the clingiest, neediest baby I have ever met. She is ridiculous and sometimes I get so frustrated I want to lock her in her room and watch an entire season of gossip girl as loud as I freaking can to drown out her screams. I obviously have never done this. But I get being frustrated by a clingy baby.
Here's the thing, I spent most of my young adulthood searching for someone who would love me so completely that the thought of being away from me brought them to tears. I married H when we were still head over heels in love and couldn't get enough of each other. All those feelings brought me joy and happiness and fufillment.
Now I have this sweet little person who cries if I am not around and is head over heels in love with me. She loves me so much that the thought of me leaving her can make her cry for hours. She loves me more right now than any person ever will.
My love with H has settled into a familiar love where we just move together and exist happily in the same life. I try to remind myself every time my little baby is crying or being clingy or wants her mommy that she too is feeling a love that is bigger than any feeling she has ever known. I try to think back to those early days when H and I would stay up all night talking and holding each other. I imagine my baby feeling that way about me and then it's not so hard to deal with her clinginess. Hopefully that helps the frustration and fatigue when your LO is being difficult or clingy.
Sorry that was so long and emotional. Now I'll say something about butt secks and some swear words so you girls don't think I've gone soft!
I needed that this morning too, Lax. E and V didn't sleep that well and got me up at 5:30 this morning. I've been crabby and short. So thank you for helping me get things back in perspective.
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Now I have this sweet little person who cries if I am not around and is head over heels in love with me. She loves me so much that the thought of me leaving her can make her cry for hours. She loves me more right now than any person ever will.
Ok I just read all the replies. For whoever said something about me spreading my legs I would like for you to know my HUSBAND and I created our child thru making love. I would not use ivf or any other stuff like that to conceive. A true miracle is a child created thru a husband and wifes passion for each other not in a lab. I'm sorry but I do not feel its right.
Taking sperm from a cup and mixing it with an egg is by a lab is not at all the same as a married couple creating a child by making love. Children will come into a marriage when the time is right, you shouldn't bring in stuff that is not supposed to happen like ivf. That is just how I feel nothing anyone says will change that. Children should be created in a marriage naturally .
I bet the numbskull doesn't refuse modern medicine.
Re: FFFC?
What
The
Fuck
She better be getting torn apart!!
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What a douchecanoe!
Just thought I'd share!
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But, I had a chick on TK tell me I was having a designer baby and spouting off about natural selection and all that shit. She was not an AE. She was a semi regular poster. That was back when I got pregnant from my first IVF (that I lost).
Some people have strong feeling about it I guess. FFC? I kind of hope Karma kicks them in the ass and makes them infertile. They will change their tune then.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
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DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
I sometimes wish karma on people like that too!
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Calling your H a little hoe.....
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DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
@ladyabagail
Edit tag
Hey cult member ladyabagail:
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She is special.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
These assholes are so stupid. Because guess who does IVF? Loving, married couples who really want a baby. Not douchebags who don't want them and will mistreat them.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
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DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
TTC #2:
March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck
June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...
If spending thousands of dollars, after suffering heartbreak after heartbreak, so that you can MAYBE experience that perfect miracle isn't love, I don't know what is.
TTC #2:
March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck
June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...
Edited to fix tag
The surgical extraction girl was who I thought of as well. I'm still reading it but I was wondering if anyone else made the connection.
C is probably the clingiest, neediest baby I have ever met. She is ridiculous and sometimes I get so frustrated I want to lock her in her room and watch an entire season of gossip girl as loud as I freaking can to drown out her screams. I obviously have never done this. But I get being frustrated by a clingy baby.
Here's the thing, I spent most of my young adulthood searching for someone who would love me so completely that the thought of being away from me brought them to tears. I married H when we were still head over heels in love and couldn't get enough of each other. All those feelings brought me joy and happiness and fufillment.
Now I have this sweet little person who cries if I am not around and is head over heels in love with me. She loves me so much that the thought of me leaving her can make her cry for hours. She loves me more right now than any person ever will.
My love with H has settled into a familiar love where we just move together and exist happily in the same life. I try to remind myself every time my little baby is crying or being clingy or wants her mommy that she too is feeling a love that is bigger than any feeling she has ever known. I try to think back to those early days when H and I would stay up all night talking and holding each other. I imagine my baby feeling that way about me and then it's not so hard to deal with her
clinginess. Hopefully that helps the frustration and fatigue when your LO is being difficult or clingy.
Sorry that was so long and emotional. Now I'll say something about butt secks and some swear words so you girls don't think I've gone soft!
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Ok this just made me cry!
TTC #2:
March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck
June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...