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• BlondieBia21 member

  January 2014

  hstautz said:

  And a cigarette helped that? If that was truly how you felt, I sincerely hope you talk to someone instead of just turning to a cig.

  It helped me cope with my stress tremendously. And yes I did seek professional help. Which I am thinking about starting again (see my post Bad PPD Day Today).
  

  
  

  I'm sincerely not trying to be an asshole. I take your feelings very seriously. What I'm trying to get across is what happens the day when you are out of cigs and you're in a low place? That's what I'm worried about. I've never smoked, so I don't know the power it can possibly have or someone but I think there should be more done to help you instead of just smoking. I sincerely hope that things get better for you and you can get the help to feel better. 

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• tts432462 member

  January 2014

  KatieS7 said:

  I'm tired, DD1 is clingy, DD2 is fussy, and I miss Dominic like crazy today. I just want to curl up in a ball and cry my heart out.

  
  My heart is breaking for you right now.  I'm so sorry.  I'm sending you creepy internet stranger hugs. 

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• BabyE143 member

  January 2014

  I have a lot of respect for anyone who has quit smoking. Everyone knows my mom died of stage IV cancer and unfortunately it was Lung Cancer she still smoked, the habit was that hard to beat.

   Had our precious baby girl, Little Miss E, on August 14, 2013 ♥ 143 → I.love.you. ♥
  

  

   

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• nnikki10 member

  January 2014

  Ok I got another one. I just did DD's laundry and all my kid wears is sleep and plays. Idgaf.

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• TurtleMomma member

  January 2014

  1) I co-bathe with LO all.the.time.
  
  2) I barely Bump anymore because the gifs kill my phone. Go ahead and flame me, I probably won't see it anyways

  
  
  
  
  

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• janneann1127 member

  January 2014

  KatieS7 said:

  I'm tired, DD1 is clingy, DD2 is fussy, and I miss Dominic like crazy today. I just want to curl up in a ball and cry my heart out.

  This makes me sad for you. I hope your day gets better.
  

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• ashleyamberRN member

  January 2014

  nnikki10 said:

  Ok I got another one. I just did DD's laundry and all my kid wears is sleep and plays. Idgaf.

  ALL LO wears is sleepers. My whole gifted wardrobe is pretty much going to waste. I'm trying my best to stop being lazy and make sure I put a real outfit on her if we're going out the house, but it's so damn cold out and the sleepers look so warm and have built in socks.

  

  
  

  
  

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• sfeebs13 member

  January 2014

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  

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• Soleil3 member

  January 2014

  TurtleMomma said:

  1) I co-bathe with LO all.the.time. 2) I barely Bump anymore because the gifs kill my phone. Go ahead and flame me, I probably won't see it anyways

  
  

  
  

  

   
  
  

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• sfeebs13 member

  January 2014

  LiylaRae said:

  My confession: I feel my relationship falling apart and I'm not doing anything about it. I have no idea how to balance the "mom" role and the "girlfriend" role so that everyone is happy. And sorry SO but mom role comes first and always will.

  I have this issue too. FI is always bitching about how hedoesntget enough attention anymore and on and on... 

  I don't even know if he will stick around, Z will always come first. 

  

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• MommyKristin88 member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  Seeing your posts with excuses for staying with your loser fiancé annoy me.

  

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• janneann1127 member

  January 2014

  I've been spying on my nanny.
  She only comes once a week for a few hours, but DH got this "PetCam" through work as a holiday gift, where basically you can set it up at your house and then watch your pets during the day via webcam whenever you want. I set it up in our living room and I just like to check out what they're doing when I'm not there. I didn't tell her about it so I kinda feel like a jerk, but hey.. I don't think you can be too careful when it comes to your kids.
  

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• NikkiD522 member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  Geez. I'm all for calling people out if it's warranted, but this is just mean. I guess kudos for trying to help get this thread to 23 pages, though.. I have a feeling some people may disagree with you.. Including me.

  
  

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• Rowcate member

  January 2014 edited January 2014

  1) I co-bathe with LO all.the.time. 2) I barely Bump anymore because the gifs kill my phone. Go ahead and flame me, I probably won't see it anyways

  
  

  I do this too! Ok, maybe not all the time but sometimes it's the only way I can get a shower and smelling decent is my only marital contribution at this time.

   

  Edit: I don't know why this came out looking like that. I suck at bumping. You can't be awesome at everything.

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• kanned0121 member

  January 2014

  Jill9288 said:

  
  And here's one to make me sound like a brat-I'm annoyed with my Christmas gift from my in laws. MIL asked for a list, I gave her one, and we got a gift card for a chain restaraunt instead of individual gifts. Why ask for a list when you're just going to buy whatever gift card you can grab at the checkout counter at the grocery store?

  I can sort of relate about being bugged by a Christmas present. DH got me a new crock pot. Keep in mind I don't like cooking, and this is so I can cook for both of us and clean it up... He said he for it because he knew ours broke. So, I think I'm gonna buy DH toilet paper for next Christmas.. We 'NEED' it and we'll both benefit.

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• RoosterMemphis member

  January 2014

  the lady at the register at Hobby Lobby earlier today was so rude to me that i hauled off and smacked her across the face....

  
  

  ....and then i woke up from my day dream.  

  
  

  

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• Soleil3 member

  January 2014

  I've never not co-bathed with my kid, thats the only time he gets bathed

  MommyKristin88 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  Seeing your posts with excuses for staying with your loser fiancé annoy me.

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• sfeebs13 member

  January 2014

  RoosterMemphis said:

  

  @hstautz quitting smoking was the hardest thing to quit for me, drugs and alcohol included.  i am not going to defend your smoking, but i will tell you that i understand in a way that makes me laugh because it was SO. GODDAMNED. HARD.  

  
  

  that said, it is possible.  use one of those vapor e cigs if you have to.  but second and third hand smoke are leading contributors to SIDS.

  
  

  edit- nevermind...i figured out how to GIF!!!!

  Um, I'm with rooster. I quit when I got my BFP. When I had to put Sydney down, I bought a pack and have smoked secretly. A couple weeks ago I got one of those vapor cig things, and if it's the nicotine there are different levels. I chose the lowest menthol and barely use it, but when I feel like I need a cig, I take a puff or two and the feeling is gone. I'm teaching myself to take breaths instead of puffs now. FI is smoking and that makes it very hard, but I want better. 

  

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• Lorjo2022 member

  January 2014

  RoosterMemphis said:

  the lady at the register at Hobby Lobby earlier today was so rude to me that i hauled off and smacked her across the face....

  
  

  ....and then i woke up from my day dream.  

  This made me literally LOL!
  I was thinking 'WTF?! Go Rooster!"

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• RoosterMemphis member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  RoosterMemphis said:

  

  @hstautz quitting smoking was the hardest thing to quit for me, drugs and alcohol included.  i am not going to defend your smoking, but i will tell you that i understand in a way that makes me laugh because it was SO. GODDAMNED. HARD.  

  
  

  that said, it is possible.  use one of those vapor e cigs if you have to.  but second and third hand smoke are leading contributors to SIDS.

  
  

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  Um, I'm with rooster. I quit when I got my BFP. When I had to put Sydney down, I bought a pack and have smoked secretly. A couple weeks ago I got one of those vapor cig things, and if it's the nicotine there are different levels. I chose the lowest menthol and barely use it, but when I feel like I need a cig, I take a puff or two and the feeling is gone. I'm teaching myself to take breaths instead of puffs now. FI is smoking and that makes it very hard, but I want better. 

  i do want to add, though, that if you are suffering from PPD, smoking is not a reasonable method of treatment.  i suggest seeking out a medical professional.  i know that it may seem to mask the anxiety, but its not the proper solution.  

  
  

  

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• Marvel1013 member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  Disagree, she's funny.

  

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• sfeebs13 member

  January 2014

  Yes. That was mean. And uncalled for. I don't know whereth at even came from, tbh.

  
  

  @mommykristin88 got it. I'll let it be. I'm trying to grow some balls. They don't drop overnight.

  

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• PB102012 member

  January 2014

   

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  
  Whoa. I know you apolgized for this already, but I agree, the FI posts are a bit repetitive as well, so I don't think there's a lot of judging you can do here.

   

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• MommyKristin88 member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  Yes. That was mean. And uncalled for. I don't know whereth at even came from, tbh.

  
  

  @mommykristin88 got it. I'll let it be. I'm trying to grow some balls. They don't drop overnight.

  I hope so.
  

  

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• MynaBird member

  January 2014

  Sometimes I miss the hospital.

  
  
  
  

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• sfeebs13 member

  January 2014

   

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  
  Whoa. I know you apolgized for this already, but I agree, the FI posts are a bit repetitive as well, so I don't think there's a lot of judging you can do here.

  
  

  Yes, I realize this now. @zever, I am sorry. I think I saw red because I'm not mean. And that was horrible. 

  

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• NikkiD522 member

  January 2014

  So when you co-bathe.. Do you just sit in the tub together? Can you actually get yourself bathed? I think it sounds like a marvelous idea, but im just trying to get the logistics down.

  
  

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• ashleyamberRN member

  January 2014

  I feel the need to lie to myfitnesspal... An app! You know you eat bad when you're embarrassed to type it into an app that no one else even sees. I have an unhealthy emotional relationship with food.
  
  Other people have real relationship problems: with fiancé's, in laws, etc. I'm having problem being truthful with an app. I'm pathetic.

  

  
  

  
  

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  HSG normal in May 2012 followed by three unmonitored clomid cycles unsuccessful

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• PB102012 member

  January 2014

  NikkiD522 said:

  So when you co-bathe.. Do you just sit in the tub together? Can you actually get yourself bathed? I think it sounds like a marvelous idea, but im just trying to get the logistics down.

  
  I think I need a lesson on this as well. Feels like it would work well if I figured out how to do it when LO needs a good scrubbing!

   

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• PB102012 member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

   

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  
  Whoa. I know you apolgized for this already, but I agree, the FI posts are a bit repetitive as well, so I don't think there's a lot of judging you can do here.

  
  

  Yes, I realize this now. @zever, I am sorry. I think I saw red because I'm not mean. And that was horrible. 

  For the record though, I do hope that things get better for you, I know you're in a tough spot.

   

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• Soleil3 member

  January 2014

  NikkiD522 said:

  So when you co-bathe.. Do you just sit in the tub together? Can you actually get yourself bathed? I think it sounds like a marvelous idea, but im just trying to get the logistics down.

  Usually I take a shower, I have seats in my shower. So I'll either scrub down before or after, and H will hand him off or take him, and if H isn't here I put a towel in his rocking chair bouncer and then set him in it or take him out of it. 

   
  
  

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• NikkiD522 member

  January 2014

  christy32685 said:

  
  

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  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.
  

  I might be starting my period. 

  Whoa. I know you apolgized for this already, but I agree, the FI posts are a bit repetitive as well, so I don't think there's a lot of judging you can do here.

  
  

  Yes, I realize this now. @zever, I am sorry. I think I saw red because I'm not mean. And that was horrible. 

  For the record though, I do hope that things get better for you, I know you're in a tough spot.
  
  I second this.
  

  
  

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• MinnesotaMomma91 member

  January 2014

  I have another one. I said i was going to get back in shape for my new year resolution. Yeah. All im doing is making excuses, ie my kid is sick. Im sick. But i swear once were feeling better i will start working out... maybe

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• Soleil3 member

  January 2014

  LAMuehlen said:

  I have another one. I said i was going to get back in shape for my new year resolution. Yeah. All im doing is making excuses, ie my kid is sick. Im sick. But i swear once were feeling better i will start working out... maybe

  Lol we are only 3 days in. How can you have that many excuses? 

   
  
  

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• BellaOso member

  January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  @sfeebs13 - I know you already apologized for this, but I have to throw in on it.
  
  I adore @Zever000, and I know a lot of us do. She was going through something difficult and shared it with us. When people said they weren't interested she stopped, but there were plenty who were engaging her actively on the topic. Can't blame her for that. Also - she is not trying to fit in. She fits in. With a lot of us.
  
  I have gone through tough stuff and gotten an outpouring of support from this board too. I'm not dying for attention; I'm sharing with people I have a relationship with that has developed over 14 months - just like Zever.
  
  I believe you have gotten similar support for several situations on this board as well, and as far as I know, everyone has been damn supportive and offered advice you really should freakin' take.
  
  Sorry. Yep. I'm fucking white knighting for Zever and IDGAF because there are about 20 women on here I would white knight for and Zever is on that list.
  
  
  

  
  

  
  
  

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• MinnesotaMomma91 member

  January 2014

  I have another one. I said i was going to get back in shape for my new year resolution. Yeah. All im doing is making excuses, ie my kid is sick. Im sick. But i swear once were feeling better i will start working out... maybe

  Soleil3 said:

  
  

  LAMuehlen said:

  
  

  I have another one. I said i was going to get back in shape for my new year resolution. Yeah. All im doing is making excuses, ie my kid is sick. Im sick. But i swear once were feeling better i will start working out... maybe

  
  

  Lol we are only 3 days in. How can you have that many excuses? 
  
  Cause right before nye ds got a bad cough now im startinh to get a sinus infection. Plus im lazy so im good at finding excuses to work out.

  
  

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• Soleil3 member

  January 2014

  BellaOso said:

  sfeebs13 said:

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.

  I might be starting my period. 

  @sfeebs13 - I know you already apologized for this, but I have to throw in on it.
  
  I adore @Zever000, and I know a lot of us do. She was going through something difficult and shared it with us. When people said they weren't interested she stopped, but there were plenty who were engaging her actively on the topic. Can't blame her for that. Also - she is not trying to fit in. She fits in. With a lot of us.
  
  I have gone through tough stuff and gotten an outpouring of support from this board too. I'm not dying for attention; I'm sharing with people I have a relationship with that has developed over 14 months - just like Zever.
  
  I believe you have gotten similar support for several situations on this board as well, and as far as I know, everyone has been damn supportive and offered advice you really should freakin' take.
  
  Sorry. Yep. I'm fucking white knighting for Zever and IDGAF because there are about 20 women on here I would white knight for and Zever is on that list.
  
  
  

  
  

   
  
  

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• Coconuthead member

  January 2014 edited January 2014

  sfeebs13 said:

  christy32685 said:

   

  
  
  
  

  sfeebs13 said:

  
  

  I've been kinda bitchy lately so maybe don't take this too personally, but my confession is @zever your attention-whoreness, and need to fit in are annoying me.
  

  I might be starting my period. 

  christy32685 said:

  Yes, I realize this now. @zever, I am sorry. I think I saw red because I'm not mean. And that was horrible.
  
  Regardless, that was below the belt. Best to think before you "speak".
  Eta: trying to fix my quote mess.
  

  
  
  

  

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• Coconuthead member

  January 2014

  Sorry about that quote jumble. My phone is not cooperating with mobile bumping today.

  

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• kkay1982 member

  January 2014

  @BellaOso our closet is our nursery too. My dad said we should name LO Harry (Potter) because his room was under the stairs. My dad was just joking. In all honesty, it's a nice little room. Now if only I could get LO to sleep in the crib.

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