I just sat through a dinner where my SIL spent the entire meal monopolizing the coversation about how she's getting new insurance that has good maternity leave coverage, etc. and she's NOT EVEN PREGNANT yet!!!
And although I do not wish SIF on anyone - I feel horrible for finding myself hoping that she has to at least work at it a little bit. Like, maybe 6 or 9 months instead of 1.
Anyway- I knew you ladies would understand
Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever) May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13 November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF. No longer benched per New RE/OB! Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C March 2, 2014 First AF
green eyed monster indeed. I know exactly how you feel. DD was watching an episode of Dora where her twin brother and sister are born and even THAT made me jealous. :-w
Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015.
RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal.
Agreed with southern mamma. There is so much bliss in just saying "let's get pregnant", they have no idea! I remember it distinctly, and would pay at least twice what I have for Ivf to go back there. I hear you on the jealousy!
Trying for #2 with IVF after damage done in a D&C left me with one functioning (but too scarred) ovary and tube to get pregnant safely without assistance. It's a really, really long story, but that is the gist of it. We have one daughter (whose c-section birth started this roller coaster) born in 2012 after a miscarriage in 2011.
Failed 1st attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 3, 1 frozen embryo saved) in December 2013.
Failed 2nd attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 5, 2 frozen embryos saved) in February 2014.
Agreed with southern mamma. There is so much bliss in just saying "let's get pregnant", they have no idea! I remember it distinctly, and would pay at least twice what I have for Ivf to go back there. I hear you on the jealousy!
OMG if this were an option. I think this is my new irrational wish. That someone will sell me back my blissful ignorance and I get to keep it. It used to be that someone will mail me a money order for $1 million. But I like this better!
It's terrible! One of my great friends just had her IUD removed to TTC #3 (her #1 is my child's age) and I just KNOW she will be pregnant this month or next...I am green with envy and she is not even pregnant yet...just the anticipation is making me anxious!! There is this strange part of me that just wants it to happen immediately and for her to tell me as soon as she POAS-then I can at least "get over it" quickly. For me, waiting for the announcement can be the hardest part?!?! Sorry you had to deal with that dinner
green eyed monster indeed. I kn ow exactly how you feel. DD was watching an episode of Dora where her twin brother and sister are born and even THAT made me jealous. :-w
Same here! Watched little mermaid 2 and now I like Ariel a little less because that young skinny bitch gets a baby and I don't! And I am typing this from my RE's office with no pants waiting for her to tell me what I already know
I have hidden almost all of my pregnant friends from my feed on FB- especially my Brothers GF.
I am probably being hypersensitive about it since I told my brother that we have been unsuccessful for the past 3 years, so I know he has mentioned it to her and she posts baby related shit all day long ...I can't deal. I feel like she's rubbing it in my face. I sound awful. I am happy for a new niece or nephew that's for sure, but definietly jealous.
**~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~** EDD- 06/13/2017 **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
Re: The Green Eyed Monster
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
I would have stabbed her with my effing fork ... No joke. -_-
Ahh what id give to be f-ing clueless again. To bad you didn't have any potatoes on the table to throw.
Im sorry you had to sit thru that babes! HUGS!
Sorry you had to deal with that dinner
2013 is almost over! Yay!
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
EDD- 06/13/2017
**Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
Btw - you're avatar pic is beautiful!
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
EDD- 06/13/2017
**Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**