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The Green Eyed Monster

KC1212KC1212 member
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I just sat through a dinner where my SIL spent the entire meal monopolizing the coversation about how she's getting new insurance that has good maternity leave coverage, etc. and she's NOT EVEN PREGNANT yet!!!

And although I do not wish SIF on anyone - I feel horrible for finding myself hoping that she has to at least work at it a little bit. Like, maybe 6 or 9 months instead of 1.

Anyway- I knew you ladies would understand :(
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Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF


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    pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    I always feel that same way whenever I hear someone is about to start TTC. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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    Jen071407Jen071407 member
    :( green eyed monster indeed. I know exactly how you feel. DD was watching an episode of Dora where her twin brother and sister are born and even THAT made me jealous. :-w

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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    KC1212KC1212 member
    To top it off I forgot to mention - she was obnoxious the first time she was pregnant! Gah! 8-|
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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    +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member

    I would have stabbed her with my effing fork ... No joke. -_-

     

    Ahh what id give to be f-ing clueless again. To bad you didn't have any potatoes on the table to throw.

     

    Im sorry you had to sit thru that babes! HUGS!

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    freakyfastfreakyfast member
    I'm sorry. I know it's so hard.



      


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    lucky7wifelucky7wife member
    Agreed with southern mamma. There is so much bliss in just saying "let's get pregnant", they have no idea! I remember it distinctly, and would pay at least twice what I have for Ivf to go back there. I hear you on the jealousy!
    Trying for #2 with IVF after damage done in a D&C left me with one functioning (but too scarred) ovary and tube to get pregnant safely without assistance. It's a really, really long story, but that is the gist of it.  We have one daughter (whose c-section birth started this roller coaster) born in 2012 after a miscarriage in 2011. 
    Failed 1st attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 3, 1 frozen embryo saved) in December 2013.  
    Failed 2nd attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 5, 2 frozen embryos saved) in February 2014.
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    annibesannibes member
    lucky7wife said:

    Agreed with southern mamma. There is so much bliss in just saying "let's get pregnant", they have no idea! I remember it distinctly, and would pay at least twice what I have for Ivf to go back there. I hear you on the jealousy!

    OMG if this were an option. I think this is my new irrational wish. That someone will sell me back my blissful ignorance and I get to keep it. It used to be that someone will mail me a money order for $1 million. But I like this better!
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    bcw2009bcw2009 member
    It's terrible!  One of my great friends just had her IUD removed to TTC #3 (her #1 is my child's age) and I just KNOW she will be pregnant this month or next...I am green with envy and she is not even pregnant yet...just the anticipation is making me anxious!!  There is this strange part of me that just wants it to happen immediately and for her to tell me as soon as she POAS-then I can at least "get over it" quickly.  For me, waiting for the announcement can be the hardest part?!?!
    Sorry you had to deal with that dinner :(
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    KC1212KC1212 member
    Thanks ladies for letting me vent :) (hugs) to you all!

    2013 is almost over! Yay!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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    lcloffredolcloffredo member
    Jen071407 said:

    :( green eyed monster indeed. I kn ow exactly how you feel. DD was watching an episode of Dora where her twin brother and sister are born and even THAT made me jealous. :-w

    Same here! Watched little mermaid 2 and now I like Ariel a little less because that young skinny bitch gets a baby and I don't! And I am typing this from my RE's office with no pants waiting for her to tell me what I already know :(

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    SpooksterSpookster member
    I have hidden almost all of my pregnant friends from my feed on FB- especially my Brothers GF.

    I am probably being hypersensitive about it since I told my brother that we have been unsuccessful for the past 3 years, so I know he has mentioned it to her and she posts baby related shit all day long ...I can't deal. I feel like she's rubbing it in my face. I sound awful. I am happy for a new niece or nephew that's for sure, but definietly jealous. 
    **~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~**
    EDD- 06/13/2017
    **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
    TTGP's 2013 Sweetest Bumpie <3 



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    KC1212KC1212 member
    @spookster thank you!

    Btw - you're avatar pic is beautiful!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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    SpooksterSpookster member
    Thank you! <3@KC1212
    **~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~**
    EDD- 06/13/2017
    **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
    TTGP's 2013 Sweetest Bumpie <3 



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