That Thing

Flamingemu · December 2013

For anyone-- If you had an entire day by yourself and money were no option, how would you spend it and where?

________
Seriously, always stuck...
Just one day? ehh...I wouldn't want to go anywhere for just a day. Maybe shopping and spending whatever I want here though. There aren't many stores not in or around the city that I would want to shop at.

KellersPrag · December 2013

MommaP12 said:

tinyhumantoe said:

Something you've never told DH?

How many people I've been with. I am certain it's many more than him...the wild 1.5 years really racked up a lot for me...

My number is 7 (including him). My husband only knows about 4 (including him). He made it clear that if it were higher, we wouldn't have been together. I don't like being dishonest, but I don't feel as though that number changed me as a person, so it is not integral knowledge.

Plus his number is about triple mine. So, there.

KellersPrag · December 2013

I would get my eyebrows waxed, get my nails done, get a pedicure, get my hair cut and relaxed, and then go buy a whole new wardrobe for work and otherwise. I'd also have breakfast and lunch out at wherever I wanted, like Panera.

tinyhumantoe · December 2013

shiggybop said:
For anyone who wants one--what is something you let your kids do that others would find weird?

Kiss me all the time. It's more of what I encourage her to do, ha. Now she's a kissing freak.

hmp1 · December 2013

shiggybop said:

For anyone who wants one--what is something you let your kids do that others would find weird?

Pretty sure most people would find a 2 year old taking his balance bike down a ramp too dangerous.

misspunky · December 2013

tinyhumantoe said:

For anyone who wants one--what is something you let your kids do that others would find weird?
Kiss me all the time. It's more of what I encourage her to do, ha. Now she's a kissing freak.

Oh this is me too. Now DD wants to kiss everyone who walks through the door. I hope I don't regret this in 15 years.

KellersPrag · December 2013

Banich4eva said:

Stop working or taking care of your children and truth me!

If you were guaranteed an honest answer to any question from any person in the world who and what would you ask? Why would you ask it?

KellersPrag · December 2013

SpoofLeJones said:

MommaP12 said:

tinyhumantoe said:

Something you've never told DH?

How many people I've been with. I am certain it's many more than him...the wild 1.5 years really racked up a lot for me...

My number is 7 (including him). My husband only knows about 4 (including him). He made it clear that if it were higher, we wouldn't have been together. I don't like being dishonest, but I don't feel as though that number changed me as a person, so it is not integral knowledge.

Plus his number is about triple mine. So, there.
--- He wouldn't have stayed with you if it had been more, but his number is triple yours? Say whaaaaat? Care to elaborate? Trying to give him the benefit of the doubt herr and not assume he's an asshole, but what. the. fuck.

It's not as cut and dry as that. He's definitely not an asshole. There are huge cultural differences (which I am more than aware is not an excuse) that come into play. It just is what it is, and I'm comfortable with it.

hmp1 · December 2013

One day, money no object... I would fly all you bitches here in the morning. Host a fabulous luncheon, get you drunk, and fly you back home that night.

misspunky · December 2013

hmp1 said:

One day, money no object... I would fly all you bitches here in the morning. Host a fabulous luncheon, get you drunk, and fly you back home that night.

This is the best idea EVER.

willy_gert · December 2013

That was going to be how I spent some of my mega millions winnings. Rent a huge ass resort and fly everybody in and pay for everything and that way there would be plenty of space for people to do as they please. @tinyhumantoe have you talked to the owners of that one cabin that we were looking at again?

PenelopePond · December 2013

hmp1 said:

One day, money no object... I would fly all you bitches here in the morning. Host a fabulous luncheon, get you drunk, and fly you back home that night.

Hmp gets all the money!

tinyhumantoe · December 2013

I think DH was honest about his numbers and I omitted 1. Although maybe he wasn't.

thebanich · December 2013

KellersPrag said:

Banich4eva said:

Stop working or taking care of your children and truth me!

If you were guaranteed an honest answer to any question from any person in the world who and what would you ask? Why would you ask it?

Wow. That is a tough one!

I would probably ask DH if he still loves me as much as he did when we first got married. Some times he is such a shithead to me and I have to wonder. I don't usually feel loved by him.

BarefootContessa · December 2013

I told DH my number early on in our relationship. Nine years later and I've yet to know his. He says he doesn't know and that it's likely twice mine. I think he's lying and was intimidated by the number I told him.

willy_gert · December 2013

DH has 1 more than me and I only have him. It made me feel better when we met that he had already had sex.

Holly_1007 · December 2013

Mine is also higher than dh's.

KellersPrag · December 2013

MiraskTastic said:

KellersPrag said:

SpoofLeJones said:

MommaP12 said:

tinyhumantoe said:

Something you've never told DH?

How many people I've been with. I am certain it's many more than him...the wild 1.5 years really racked up a lot for me...

My number is 7 (including him). My husband only knows about 4 (including him). He made it clear that if it were higher, we wouldn't have been together. I don't like being dishonest, but I don't feel as though that number changed me as a person, so it is not integral knowledge.

Plus his number is about triple mine. So, there.
--- He wouldn't have stayed with you if it had been more, but his number is triple yours? Say whaaaaat? Care to elaborate? Trying to give him the benefit of the doubt herr and not assume he's an asshole, but what. the. fuck.

It's not as cut and dry as that. He's definitely not an asshole. There are huge cultural differences (which I am more than aware is not an excuse) that come into play. It just is what it is, and I'm comfortable with it.

what were the cultural differences? just curious.

He was born and raised in Guatemala, he has only been here over 5 years. Hispanics (as a generalization) are a very male dominated, men are right, women are wrong kind of group. I know I'm not making much sense, and it probably sounds bad. But basically, he was raised with the mindset of "It's okay if I do it, but not if my wife does it." kind of thing. He has come a long way on a lot of more modern, more Americanized things, and this is something that ultimately does not bother me.

MarisaKathleen · December 2013

Is it weird that DH and I have never discussed our numbers? I know some of the people he's been with, he knows some of the ones i've been with, but we've never sat down and had the gory details talk. To me it's just not important.

Although I have seen some of the girls he used to date and they were extremely unattractive. For a minute I had a complex that maybe I was also ugly but then I realized that he just didn't have good taste before me.

willy_gert · December 2013

I have to admit that I am a little jealous of those of you that have lived more than me, but at the same time, I am perfectly happy with DH being my one and only. I would prefer L be a one and only as well, but that will be her decision to make.

misspunky · December 2013

I am DH's only one.

My # is wayyyyy higher.

Flamingemu · December 2013

MarisaKathleen said:

Is it weird that DH and I have never discussed our numbers? I know some of the people he's been with, he knows some of the ones i've been with, but we've never sat down and had the gory details talk. To me it's just not important.

Although I have seen some of the girls he used to date and they were extremely unattractive. For a minute I had a complex that maybe I was also ugly but then I realized that he just didn't have good taste before me.

We never had a gory details talk either and never will. There is no need to name names or learn more about our pasts at this point. DH and I were also friends in college before we started dating and you tend to share more, whether boasting, lying, or truthining, when you are in a room full of friends. Our numbers are fairly similar anyway.

KellersPrag · December 2013

@willy_gert As I said yesterday, I wish I was in the one and only camp! Obviously, it has all worked out anyway. But it is something that crosses my mind once in a while.

BPer · December 2013

My number might be higher than H's, but I'd bet we're pretty close. We were both pretty 'adventurous' in our younger days.

misspunky · December 2013

IndigoVader said:

Holly_1007 said:

If you won the lottery but could only spend the money on one item what would it be?

I would build an animal sanctuary.

I've always said if I ever have the money, I'd like to live in the country and have a dog rescue and save all the dogs.

PenelopePond · December 2013

For anyone: tell us a lame confession.

My lame confession is I hope I have a daughter one day so I can force Hello Kitty stuff on her. I'm pretty certain it's not cool for a 30 year old to want to buy Hello Kitty stuff.

eshee8198 · December 2013

misspunky said:

IndigoVader said:

Holly_1007 said:

If you won the lottery but could only spend the money on one item what would it be?

I would build an animal sanctuary.

I've always said if I ever have the money, I'd like to live in the country and have a dog rescue and save all the dogs.

I used to work with a rich guy who gave his wife an animal sanctuary as a gift. Plus, he was pretty hot. I was a little jealous.

angeleighhh · December 2013

DHs number is about 10+ more than mine. He was crazy.. apparently I wasn't.

tyrannasaurusjess · December 2013

MommaP12 said:

tinyhumantoe said:

Something you've never told DH?

How many people I've been with. I am certain it's many more than him...the wild 1.5 years really racked up a lot for me...

This is me, too. We do not talk about our sex lives before each other. He was a wild frat guy, but I think I might have him beat.

MrsKipper · December 2013

Banich4eva said:

For anyone-- If you had an entire day by yourself and money were no option, how would you spend it and where?

I would go to the nice mall in Charlotte and buy a completely new wardrobe and then get my hair done (cut & color) and get a mani/pedi and an upscale salon.

When I was in college my roommates and I would dress up like we had money and go to Southpark. We walked around like we owned the place but we couldn't afford anything in most of those stores!

melody921 · December 2013

MarisaKathleen said:

Is it weird that DH and I have never discussed our numbers? I know some of the people he's been with, he knows some of the ones i've been with, but we've never sat down and had the gory details talk. To me it's just not important.

Although I have seen some of the girls he used to date and they were extremely unattractive. For a minute I had a complex that maybe I was also ugly but then I realized that he just didn't have good taste before me.

We never talked numbers at all. I don't see any good that could come of that, and truly, I don't need to know.

melody921 · December 2013

MiraskTastic said:

willy_gert said:

I have to admit that I am a little jealous of those of you that have lived more than me, but at the same time, I am perfectly happy with DH being my one and only. I would prefer L be a one and only as well, but that will be her decision to make.

Of the people I have slept with, only 2 were really "worth" it. But the rest were fun.

DH was one of the two, obv.

Same.

KellersPrag · December 2013

PenelopePond said:

For anyone: tell us a lame confession.

My lame confession is I hope I have a daughter one day so I can force Hello Kitty stuff on her. I'm pretty certain it's not cool for a 30 year old to want to buy Hello Kitty stuff.

I fucking clicked on a Hello Kitty toaster once on Amazon because I was so intrigued that the item even existed. Now my recommendations are all Hello Kitty household items.

PenelopePond · December 2013

PenelopePond said:

For anyone: tell us a lame confession.

My lame confession is I hope I have a daughter one day so I can force Hello Kitty stuff on her. I'm pretty certain it's not cool for a 30 year old to want to buy Hello Kitty stuff.

That's not lame, yo. That's fawking awesome. I LOVE Hello Kitty!

Stuck.

That makes me want to buy all the Hello Kitty. They have really cute Christmas Hello Kitty things at Kmart.

angeleighhh · December 2013

KellersPrag said:

PenelopePond said:

For anyone: tell us a lame confession.

My lame confession is I hope I have a daughter one day so I can force Hello Kitty stuff on her. I'm pretty certain it's not cool for a 30 year old to want to buy Hello Kitty stuff.

I fucking clicked on a Hello Kitty toaster once on Amazon because I was so intrigued that the item even existed. Now my recommendations are all Hello Kitty household items.

I saw a microwave at Target that was Hello Kitty. I was so tempted to get it but alas... no Hello Kitty microwave.

PenelopePond · December 2013

I'd never go this nuts though.

misspunky · December 2013

PenelopePond said:

I'd never go this nuts though.

OMG I want to live there. Or at least visit.

KellersPrag · December 2013

Would you rather have perfect hair, legs, butt, abs, thighs, or face?

angeleighhh · December 2013

KellersPrag said:

Would you rather have perfect hair, legs, butt, abs, thighs, or face?

I would say I already have really good hair. So... probably abs.. maybe.. does that mean the rest of me will be ugly or fat? Ha

noloveintennis · December 2013

For anyone-- If you had an entire day by yourself and money were no option, how would you spend it and where?

I would go shopping and get entirely new wardrobes for me, DH, sD, and DS. I would go to the chiropractor, get a massage, get my hair did, and a mani/pedi if there was time.

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