That Thing

BeebopandBuddy · December 2013

More troofs please.

angeleighhh · December 2013

willy_gert said:

MiraskTastic said:

WG: have you had any honest discussions with DH about how he is making you feel, or is it not something you can do right now?

I have not. I have tried, but he says off the wall shit and then doesn't remember it later. Because his kidneys are functioning at such a low rate (4% functioning as of yesterday) his blood and everything is essentially toxic. I am trying to remember that he is not himself right now and he isn't trying to be mean or hurt me, he is just sick. We can talk when he gets better and is in his right mind.

Okay this is completely sincere, I promise I wouldn't cross this line if I didn't care because I am assuming you're going to take everything I say as an attack.

4%? That is crazy. Are they still saying he can't get on the transplant without losing weight? (Has he lost any?) How long can you go on 4%? Is that both kidneys or just one?

Sorry if this has been covered.

@willy_gert

BPer · December 2013

LoisLayn23 said:

KellersPrag said:

LoisLayn23 said:

I love truths. gimme more. gimmy more.
Who on S12 would be the worst to be trapped in an elevator with?

OMG so many for different reasons.

BME because we'd argue and I wouldn't be able to walk away.

BPer because neither of us would have wine.

Yogi because she'd just my expensive purse and try to slice it into pieces to make a tool belt.

Oh so we're not drinking while KU? Good to know. I guess the 9 week mark is as good as any to sober up...

Stasi · December 2013

KellersPrag said:

Stasi said:

God, I leave for three hours and this place is taking a turn for shit-show-ville.

Somebody give me a truth!

What action from you past would put you in jail if law enforcement ever found out?

I used to drive home more intoxicated than I should have been in the recent past. DH used to do it too. We actually had to have a conversation about it when I was pregnant and agree that all shenanigans of that nature would end when Kate was born...and it has. I'm not talking driving black-out drunk, but definitely tipsy and borderline drunk. I'm really ashamed I ever did it and I'm damn lucky I never got caught.

Added: I used to smoke pot too in college, but that's not nearly as damaging IMO.

MommaP12 · December 2013

melody921 said:

MommaP12 said:

I'll take a truth. This may be a P&R and I hope I can keep up with this thread!!!

What's something you did as a teen that you would never want your kids to know about?

I was a super lame teenager, I had like 1.5 wild years from 22-23.5 and that's it.

Ummm...DTD in a car a lot I guess.

BPer · December 2013

Gimme a truth. A good one.

miss50 · December 2013

Truth. Warning I'm only on page 1.

angeleighhh · December 2013

LoisLayn23 said:

MiraskTastic said:

LL: You team green? Hoping for a boy?

Team Green. Kind of hoping for a boy but a girl would be easy enough since we have everything we'd need. DH wants a boy.

*********
Do you have any names picked out or are you not gonna say them?

melody921 · December 2013

angeleighhh said:

KellersPrag said:

angeleighhh said:

LoisLayn23 said:

I love truths. gimme more. gimmy more.

me too. me too!

Who from S12 could you see as coming out of the closet in the future?

apparently @melody921

Hey!

redneckmomma25 · December 2013

KellersPrag said:

redneckmomma25 said:
I'd like another truth.

redneckmomma25 said:
@redneckmomma25Who on S12 do you think would be a bad date?

Hmm. Toni would be expensive I think because of her wine taste. I think most would be fun. I can't think off the top of my head who annoys me.

thebanich · December 2013

MiraskTastic said:

Truth for all:

what was your biggest bump mistake?

Bringing up my issues with our dog.

Stasi · December 2013

BunkinMama said:

Man, what a day to skip work and get M's 15 month shots.... I'm still reading but I'll take a truth

Did you get one yet @bunkinmama?

Who do you eye roll at the most on S12?

BPer · December 2013

Biggest bump mistake...hmm...I guess the most notable would be my wishing that H's grandmother would just die already.

That being said, I don't take it back.

Stasi · December 2013

BPer said:

Biggest bump mistake...hmm...I guess the most notable would be my wishing that H's grandmother would just die already.

That being said, I don't take it back.

I totally remember that. I think I was the one that called you out too. Oh man, look how far we've come :-*

BPer · December 2013

Stasi said:

BPer said:

Biggest bump mistake...hmm...I guess the most notable would be my wishing that H's grandmother would just die already.

That being said, I don't take it back.

I totally remember that. I think I was the one that called you out too. Oh man, look how far we've come :-*

Stasi

's grandma-haters.

BPer · December 2013

IndigoVader said:

LoisLayn23 said:

We have zero girl names.

Vayda. You're welcome. :P

Middle name Sultenfuss

melody921 · December 2013

MommaP12 said:

melody921 said:

MommaP12 said:

I'll take a truth. This may be a P&R and I hope I can keep up with this thread!!!

What's something you did as a teen that you would never want your kids to know about?

I was a super lame teenager, I had like 1.5 wild years from 22-23.5 and that's it.

Ummm...DTD in a car a lot I guess.

We could be soul sisters, except shorten my wild years from 24-25, lol.

redneckmomma25 · December 2013

Biggest bump mistake was using the r word I think.

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OceanLover26 · December 2013

I'll take another!

Stasi · December 2013

BPer said:

Stasi said:

BPer said:

Biggest bump mistake...hmm...I guess the most notable would be my wishing that H's grandmother would just die already.

That being said, I don't take it back.

I totally remember that. I think I was the one that called you out too. Oh man, look how far we've come :-*

Stasi 's grandma-haters.

That grandma? Sure thing.

mrsbhk22 · December 2013

I'll do a truth.

angeleighhh · December 2013

gimme gimme more, gimme more

Holly_1007 · December 2013

LoisLayn23 said:

angeleighhh said:

LoisLayn23 said:

MiraskTastic said:

LL: You team green? Hoping for a boy?

Team Green. Kind of hoping for a boy but a girl would be easy enough since we have everything we'd need. DH wants a boy.

*********

Do you have any names picked out or are you not gonna say them?

We both really like Colby, Colton, & Drake. And Lucas but I'm told that name is off limits. We had Wilson but it got stolen by my cousin.

We have zero girl names.

Oh man. I couldn't even imagine trying to name 3 girls

MarisaKathleen · December 2013

I'll take a truth! Now I have no work to do for the next 2 hours so I can actually play!

Holly_1007 · December 2013

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

Stasi · December 2013

mrsbhk22 said:

I'll do a truth.

What triggers your "inner bitch" here on TB, or S12 aka what frustrates you to the point of wanting to call someone out on the board?

melody921 · December 2013

redneckmomma25 said:

Biggest bump mistake was using the r word I think.

Someone just used this IRL recently and I did a double take, but I'm finding some people truly weren't raised to think it's offensive.

I think my biggest bump mistake was getting involved in the "I can't believe some people don't do Santa" discussions. @redneckmomma25, if I'm remembering correctly, you're in the no Santa camp, so I apologize if I came off all wrong or like my version of Christmas is the only way. We do church and a ton of other Christmas traditions too, but I guess I'm just a fan of the jolly old guy in the red suit.

redneckmomma25 · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:
For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

I would change G's name. I love the name cadence.

willy_gert · December 2013

angeleighhh said:

willy_gert said:

MiraskTastic said:

WG: have you had any honest discussions with DH about how he is making you feel, or is it not something you can do right now?

I have not. I have tried, but he says off the wall shit and then doesn't remember it later. Because his kidneys are functioning at such a low rate (4% functioning as of yesterday) his blood and everything is essentially toxic. I am trying to remember that he is not himself right now and he isn't trying to be mean or hurt me, he is just sick. We can talk when he gets better and is in his right mind.

Okay this is completely sincere, I promise I wouldn't cross this line if I didn't care because I am assuming you're going to take everything I say as an attack.

4%? That is crazy. Are they still saying he can't get on the transplant without losing weight? (Has he lost any?) How long can you go on 4%? Is that both kidneys or just one?

Sorry if this has been covered.

@willy_gert

He is very lucky that he has lasted this long on 4% it has decreased from when he was in the hospital right after LO's bday. It is crazy, but he is lucky right now, but it is catching up with him very quickly. He has lost weight, not enough, but a majority. It is both of his kidneys. Because of his functioning decreasing and because of his lack of weight loss he will actually be starting dialysis on the 13th of January. Dialysis will clean his body of all of the toxins and hopefully he will feel better VERY quickly and be able to get on losing the rest of the weight so he can get on the transplant list.

Did I miss how that was crossing a line? The only thing I can come up with is if you don't believe me..... but I would hate for anyone to think I have been lying or would lie about my DH like that.

Holly_1007 · December 2013

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

MarisaKathleen · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

I would change Nancy's name to Lydia or Tara. Those were my 2 names that I wanted.

angeleighhh · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

I wouldn't change his first name because he is absolutely a Liam but I wish I would have gone with his middle name being Thomas instead of Dean. I want to change it all the time.

angeleighhh · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

**
On his bed and nooope.

thebanich · December 2013

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

I really wanted to name DD Rory but everyone hated it. I would change it if I could.

Give me all the truths!

Stasi · December 2013

shiggybop said:

Truth for anyone who wants it: favorite bump scandal and whose side were you on?

Mine was Kristy v. people who aren't "tree huggers" or environmental conscience. Not that it was a scandal, per say, but I would always get fired up right along with Kristy...not that I would post that much back then.

redneckmomma25 · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:
Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

I deeply regret it. It was so dumb. I am not sure if I have ever told anyone how I lost it. Went to a party. I was dd. Brought this "friend" home and spent the night. He was wasted and was coming on to me. I allowed it. He fell asleep in the middle. I don't know why I did it. If was stupid and I have always regretted if and felt guilt about it. I was 19.

MarisaKathleen · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

Ugh. At my parent's house. I regret totally the dude it was with. I wish I would have waited until my first really super serious boyfriend. At the time though, I was stupid and thought that I did love the idiot. It wasn't until I was actually in love that I realized how totally dumb I was. Ce'st la vie.

thebanich · December 2013

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

To an asshat in TN and I mega regret it. He was sleezy and I should have known better.

angeleighhh · December 2013

willy_gert said:

angeleighhh said:

willy_gert said:

MiraskTastic said:

WG: have you had any honest discussions with DH about how he is making you feel, or is it not something you can do right now?

I have not. I have tried, but he says off the wall shit and then doesn't remember it later. Because his kidneys are functioning at such a low rate (4% functioning as of yesterday) his blood and everything is essentially toxic. I am trying to remember that he is not himself right now and he isn't trying to be mean or hurt me, he is just sick. We can talk when he gets better and is in his right mind.

Okay this is completely sincere, I promise I wouldn't cross this line if I didn't care because I am assuming you're going to take everything I say as an attack.

4%? That is crazy. Are they still saying he can't get on the transplant without losing weight? (Has he lost any?) How long can you go on 4%? Is that both kidneys or just one?

Sorry if this has been covered.

@willy_gert

He is very lucky that he has lasted this long on 4% it has decreased from when he was in the hospital right after LO's bday. It is crazy, but he is lucky right now, but it is catching up with him very quickly. He has lost weight, not enough, but a majority. It is both of his kidneys. Because of his functioning decreasing and because of his lack of weight loss he will actually be starting dialysis on the 13th of January. Dialysis will clean his body of all of the toxins and hopefully he will feel better VERY quickly and be able to get on losing the rest of the weight so he can get on the transplant list.

Did I miss how that was crossing a line? The only thing I can come up with is if you don't believe me..... but I would hate for anyone to think I have been lying or would lie about my DH like that.

No.. I believe you. I just figured you'd think I don't really care, because I do. Ah.. well I hope dialysis helps him. My best friends lung function is at 18% and I thought that was scary. 4% is extremely scary.

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