That Thing

BPer

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

TRAPPED: I was 15 (holy shit), and it was with my high school boyfriend.  We had been together about a year, and were together for 3 years after.  I don't regret it.

BillyMollyEmmy

MiraskTastic said:

Banich4eva said:

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

I really wanted to name DD Rory but everyone hated it. I would change it if I could.

Give me all the truths!

I like Rory. But for a boy. 

I plan to name my next Rory. For now. I'm sure that will change.

melody921

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

In a college dorm room, and nope.

melody921

Holly_1007 said:

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

DD would be Camille. DS would be Joel.

BPer

I have to run to a Holiday reception. I'll catch up after!

Holly_1007

LoisLayn23 said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

MIL's basement chair. It was with DH at age 16. No regrets.

Have you ever slept with anyone besides your dh?

melody921

Stasi said:

shiggybop said:

Truth for anyone who wants it: favorite bump scandal and whose side were you on?

Mine was Kristy v. people who aren't "tree huggers" or environmental conscience. Not that it was a scandal, per say, but I would always get fired up right along with Kristy...not that I would post that much back then.

Was this the lululemon thread?

KellersPrag

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

On my first boyfriend's futon in his basement. I only regret it in the sense that I would have liked to have been with him for the long haul. I've always wished I could be the "first and only" camp.

Stasi

Banich4eva said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

I lost mine at 18 on fall break at NC State to a guy I had met that summer at a friend's wedding. It was totally just a hook up, but he was so sweet and we had a great three days together. Was it a romantic, meaning fairy tail experience? Nope. Was it fun with someone who liked and respected me and vise versa? Yup.

I don't regret it at all.

melody921

Slightly off-topic, but I think we should all make a pact to have fewer regrets. 

Stasi

BillyMollyEmmy said:

MiraskTastic said:

Banich4eva said:

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

Parker, Caroline...those are still in the hopper for when/if we have #2.

angeleighhh

KellersPrag said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

On my first boyfriend's futon in his basement. I only regret it in the sense that I would have liked to have been with him for the long haul. I've always wished I could be the "first and only" camp.

*****

I don't know why but when I thought I was going to be in the one and only camp (I lost my virginity to DH) I was kinda disappointed. I always wanted to know what it was like to have sex with other people. 

We broke up the summer after I graduated and I had sex with my best guy friend (who is still that) and a one night stand and now we're together again and the rest is history. I don't regret it.. I feel like I needed to know.

Is that weird?

OceanLover26

Holly_1007 said:

For anyone that wants a truth: if you were forced to change your child's name what would you change it to?

Which child?  Lol, If I had to change Dexter's name I would probably go with Trey.

willy_gert

@angeleighhh I don't think you don't care, I didn't see your questioning as an attack.  I always liked you prior to that BOAB thread, and as you know I am still holding a grudge, mostly because I can but partially because I feel like you apologized in the thread to appease everyone else, but didn't really apologize to me specifically.  Also, I am probably still mad at you and kemare because it is someone to be mad at in all of this shit.  I'm sorry for that and I am not trying to target either of you as a scapegoat or anything.  I was/ am just really hurt by the things you said and it keeps coming back up because my DH is sick and I worry that I am not being "good enough" to him and only caring about me, because if someone said it, it must be true.  Sorry.

mrsbhk22

Stasi said:

mrsbhk22 said:

I'll do a truth.

What triggers your "inner bitch" here on TB, or S12 aka what frustrates you to the point of wanting to call someone out on the board?


The "you just didn't try hard enough" comments. I don't care if it's related to sleep training, breastfeeding, med free birth, healthy diets, exercise etc.

That kind of goes into another. Passive aggressive shaming a la "I just can't imagine letting someone else raise my child" (to a working outside the home mom).

melody921

KellersPrag said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

On my first boyfriend's futon in his basement. I only regret it in the sense that I would have liked to have been with him for the long haul. I've always wished I could be the "first and only" camp.

I think my life would have been significantly more full of shit had I stayed with my first. 

OceanLover26

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

Germany.  High School boyfriend's house senior year.  Valentines Day.  No regrets, but I wish I had researched sex a bit more because I was CLUELESS.

Stasi

LoisLayn23 said:

Stasi said:

mrsbhk22 said:

I'll do a truth.

What triggers your "inner bitch" here on TB, or S12 aka what frustrates you to the point of wanting to call someone out on the board?

I'm answering this one.

I loathe slut shaming.

...and the definition is really a fluid definition around here depending on who you ask. I agree though!

angeleighhh

willy_gert said:

@angeleighhh I don't think you don't care, I didn't see your questioning as an attack.  I always liked you prior to that BOAB thread, and as you know I am still holding a grudge, mostly because I can but partially because I feel like you apologized in the thread to appease everyone else, but didn't really apologize to me specifically.  Also, I am probably still mad at you and kemare because it is someone to be mad at in all of this shit.  I'm sorry for that and I am not trying to target either of you as a scapegoat or anything.  I was/ am just really hurt by the things you said and it keeps coming back up because my DH is sick and I worry that I am not being "good enough" to him and only caring about me, because if someone said it, it must be true.  Sorry.

***

THIS IS THE WORST THING EVER. 

Nah. I would never apologize to appease anyone. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, so I am sorry. I know what its like to have someone super close (obviously not a romantic connection but you know,) going through transplant/dying and its stressful and emotional and so so hard. So I am sorry for that. 

Stasi

melody921 said:

Stasi said:

shiggybop said:

Truth for anyone who wants it: favorite bump scandal and whose side were you on?

Mine was Kristy v. people who aren't "tree huggers" or environmental conscience. Not that it was a scandal, per say, but I would always get fired up right along with Kristy...not that I would post that much back then.

Was this the lululemon thread?

It might of been. It was the one where Kristy was going to go to Washington to protest the pipeline...amongst others.

MarisaKathleen

Holly_1007 said:

LoisLayn23 said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

MIL's basement chair. It was with DH at age 16. No regrets.

Have you ever slept with anyone besides your dh?

I always find it so interesting when people have only slept with their spouse.  My BFF's sisters are very religious and one even waited until her wedding day to kiss her DH.  The other had sex the night before her wedding because she was scared she wasn't going to do it right.  I believe I have 4 people I know IRL who married their first.

I have had a lot of sex.  I went through a bit of a whore phase.  I'm not ashamed of it, but would make different decisions if I were to go back and do it again.

melody921

angeleighhh said:

KellersPrag said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

On my first boyfriend's futon in his basement. I only regret it in the sense that I would have liked to have been with him for the long haul. I've always wished I could be the "first and only" camp.

*****

I don't know why but when I thought I was going to be in the one and only camp (I lost my virginity to DH) I was kinda disappointed. I always wanted to know what it was like to have sex with other people. 

We broke up the summer after I graduated and I had sex with my best guy friend (who is still that) and a one night stand and now we're together again and the rest is history. I don't regret it.. I feel like I needed to know.

Is that weird?

I don't think that's weird.

Stasi

LoisLayn23 said:

I love Caroline. And Charlotte. Both have been infinitely vetoed by H.

"no names of places"

This will 99% be the name of our future girl - Caroline Elizabeth to be exact. I would tell DH to get on board

angeleighhh

I love Caroline/a and Charlotte too. I also lovelove Noelle. They are definitely in the running for #2 but DH says "I want Lilly. Liam and Lilly" 

gag.

mrsbhk22

OceanLover26 said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

DH. In his basement bedroom, a few weeks after HS graduation. No regrets. We broke up a few weeks later, did the college thing (both dated other people) then it back together in our early 20's.

MRoxy0628

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

At my house with a boyfriend of about 9 months when I was in high school and yes, I regret it. 

KellersPrag

Who needs truths? I'm back from a break.

melody921

MarisaKathleen said:

Holly_1007 said:

LoisLayn23 said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

MIL's basement chair. It was with DH at age 16. No regrets.

Have you ever slept with anyone besides your dh?

I always find it so interesting when people have only slept with their spouse.  My BFF's sisters are very religious and one even waited until her wedding day to kiss her DH.  The other had sex the night before her wedding because she was scared she wasn't going to do it right.  I believe I have 4 people I know IRL who married their first.

I have had a lot of sex.  I went through a bit of a whore phase.  I'm not ashamed of it, but would make different decisions if I were to go back and do it again.

As would I in certain cases. But no regrets, remember? Besides, I REALLY don't regret the super hot fling who turned out to be a man-whore, so had I done things differently, I probably would have avoided him.

MarisaKathleen

LoisLayn23 said:

MarisaKathleen said:

Holly_1007 said:

LoisLayn23 said:

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

MIL's basement chair. It was with DH at age 16. No regrets.

Have you ever slept with anyone besides your dh?

I always find it so interesting when people have only slept with their spouse.  My BFF's sisters are very religious and one even waited until her wedding day to kiss her DH.  The other had sex the night before her wedding because she was scared she wasn't going to do it right.  I believe I have 4 people I know IRL who married their first.

I have had a lot of sex.  I went through a bit of a whore phase.  I'm not ashamed of it, but would make different decisions if I were to go back and do it again.

Through middle school and part of HS, I figured I'd wait until marriage. And then DH and I played just the tip for about a month straight and finally we just did it. And then we never broke up.

I love that you played "just the tip."  Honestly, I thought that was hilarious.  I played that the first time I DTD too, and for the longest time said it didn't count.  Ha ha!

BeebopandBuddy

Holly_1007 said:

Another truth for whoever wants to answer: where did you lose your virginity. Do you regret doing it with whoever you did?

Lost it in my bedroom at my parent's house when I was 18.  It was with my first serious boyfriend.  I don't regret it at all.

Stasi

KellersPrag said:

Who needs truths? I'm back from a break.

I'm not sure if everyone has received theirs...I'll take another.

miss50

Hyaline said:

Wouldn't miss: Miss50.  But I think that's my fault, because I always catch her less comprehensible posts (you know you have those, 50!) and don't get what the eff she's saying 9 times out of 10.

Also, Pokedot's exclamation points.  Not saying Pokedot herself, but her exclamation points are kind of like an entire bumpie in and of themselves given how often they appear.

Couldn't live without: Spoof for always saying hilarity, and LL for giving this place a swift kick in the pants when it needs it.

I read back through some and wonder myself. A mind reader would be an awesome asset for rewriting my posts. I swear I'm pretty fucking funny IRL. Or at least my kid thinks so.

KellersPrag

IndigoVader said:

KellersPrag said:

Who needs truths? I'm back from a break.

Hit me. The boy is sleeping and I feel like playing today

What is something that you lied about to S12?

KellersPrag

Stasi said:

KellersPrag said:

Who needs truths? I'm back from a break.

I'm not sure if everyone has received theirs...I'll take another.

How often do you go to town on yourself?

angeleighhh

I will take more truths

redneckmomma25

Gimme another

BeebopandBuddy

@kellersprag Hit me.

KellersPrag

angeleighhh said:

I will take more truths

What's the most embarrassing thing you've been to the doctor for?

KellersPrag

redneckmomma25 said:

Gimme another

******

Imagine your husband has been turned into an animal. To turn him back to human, you have to have sex with him one time. What animal would you want him to be?

Stasi

KellersPrag said:

Stasi said:

KellersPrag said:

Who needs truths? I'm back from a break.

I'm not sure if everyone has received theirs...I'll take another.

How often do you go to town on yourself?

This has decreased a lot since Kate was born. I don't have much alone time and I'm not very impressed on the condition that childbirth left my lady bits in...I'd say once or twice a month...